Want a Love Life? Start with the Bedroom!
The Chinese Feng Shui regard the bedroom as "The Seat of Power".... in
JaneLand, it's called "The Magic Kingdom". The art of Feng Shui begins
here - the romantic centerpiece of your home. Now, a lot of people
(myself included) thought this was just another "mumbo jumbo" bunch of
bull-loney. HOWEVER, what I've discovered is that is SO not the case!
My "Magic Kingdom" is decorated with earth tones, sky blues and
neutrals. Dark brown accents for grounding, a beautiful blue for the
sky (as in: the sky's the limit - and we all know there's no "limit" on
sky). The neutrals are creamy tan and ivory - soothing color for ME.
Make sure that you take the time to keep your bed made, clothes picked
up, and that your "set arounds" are kept cleaned and dust free.
I have very little furniture in my "Magic Kingdom" - a reading area, an
old steamer trunk inherited from my grandmother, a cute nick nack shelf
that belonged to my grandfather, and a couple of bedside tables with
antique lamps. I also have a television. I DO keep the television
covered during the day with a romantic drape (a rather large floral
scarf). A T.V., computer, clock, etc - anything electronic in your
bedroom is not real advisable, however if you do have a T.V. in your
bedroom, keep it covered, then the negative energy stays away.
Electronic equipment of any kind disrupts the flow of the positive
energy. Clocks are necessary, but if you can keep it inside a bedside
drawer, that is best. This way, you'll still be able to hear the alarm
go off, but you won't be tossing and turning looking at it every hour
on the nights you can't sleep.
One more thing: forget those commercials advertising gym equipment that
folds neatly under your bed. You don't want 'work out' stuff in your
bedroom. It can interfere with sleep. Consider your bedroom your
sanctuary, and create a peaceful LOVING space!
Clearing of clutter is so critical. (and not just in your bedroom -
throughout your entire house) Clearing clutter allows all of the
positive energy to breathe easily through your home. Windows should be
kept cleaned, and if you have blinds, open them.
If there is something amiss with your love life - start working on YOUR
"Magic Kingdom". Pink quartz under your pillow, pink roses, anything
pink signifies 'romantic love'. Then, work on your colors. Soothing,
calming colors are best for the bedroom. I gravitate to earth tones, as
these are the colors that are the most relaxing to ME.
Most of all, keep the clutter OUT. Fortunately for me, my closet is
large enough to accommodate shelves where I put my clothes. I also use
little wicker baskets lined with linen fabric for some of my things,
and they are decorative, too. When you walk into your room- it should
FEEL good. Oh, and one other thing - if you do have a dresser in your
bedroom with a mirror - cover the mirror. Why? It is a reflection of
you sleeping alone....and, face it - if you want someone in that bed
with you cover it up!
Have fun today thinking about YOUR "Magic Kingdom" and what YOU can do to generate the love life that YOU desire!
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Sending you angels,
Jane