5 Simple Ways to a Second Date!
What not to do on your first date:
1. Don't be a conversation hog. No one wants to sit through a litany of "me, I did, me, me, I did, I am, me, me, me" get it?
2. Don't interrupt your date in the middle of a story. Sure, you can
relate and what your date is saying will trigger a memory that you'd
like to share. Hold that thought. Allow your date to finish the story
without you jumping in and telling your similar experience.
3. Don't go overboard trying to get your date to like you. This is a
mutual thing, and stop worrying if your date likes YOU, what do YOU
think of your date?
4. Don't talk about your past relationship and relay horrifying
stories about it. Period. No ex talk at all. You're in the here and
now, in this moment.
5. Don't talk about a future get-together or date. Leave it with,
"great meeting you, let's do this again SOMETIME". If your date is
truly interested (barring that 3-day "rule") you'll get a phone call or
some kind of communication.
Most of all, be yourself when you first meet someone. If you're
pretending to be someone that you're not, eventually who you are will
reveal itself in one way or another. Have FUN! And, the most critical
element of a first date is have NO expectations of anything. This
includes pre-conceived notions that "This is "the one"" for you, or
"This is going to be boring". The least you "expect", the more you
receive!
If you're embarking on a first date, or even just getting to know
someone, give me a call! We'll see what the potential is, and even tell
you how it is going to go!
Sending you angels,
Jane
1-800-ASK KEEN, ext. Angel99