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Good Things Happen To Those Who Are Patient.....True Story!!

A dear friend of mine who I have known for 11 years now posted that comment on her facebook today. She is 40 and was single for years. She wanted to date but just met the wrong men. Four months ago, she met the right one. She is not the other friend that I talked about in past blogs. This is a different friend. She had her 40th birthday party back in December. It was a lavish Las Vegas event. She rented out a luxury suite for us with limo rides, fancy cake,etc. She was very happy. She did not whine about being 40 and single.

Now she is dating a great guy who treats her very well. He cleans the house, has food waiting for her when she comes home from the swing shift. He rubs her feet, changes the litter box, you name it, he does it. He gets along well with her friends and he passed her mothers torture test. Most men would of left after what my sweet surrogate mom did to him!lol!

She waited and appreciated the journey. Never complained, got angry, nothing. She is mature and grounded. SHE IS GROWN AND SEXY.! She never blamed. She talks about how she admires how I struggled in life. She calls me her hero. I consider her my hero because she is wealthy enough to not ever have to work and she chooses to work. She chose a man who works and will clean up and cook. She was patient and she received a quality man.

When a woman is thinking that she needs a man to feel complete, she will attract half a man because she is try to find her other half and feel completed. Be patient, not desperate and you will find a whole partner.

Published Sunday, October 04, 2009 7:25 AM by justaskdrdonna

Comments

Thursday, August 13, 2009 10:38 AM by Maoie

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Great blog Donna!  Thanks for sharing and reminding us that THE best things do come to those who wait and are patient!!!  I am days from my 35th and am patiently waiting! ;-)
Thursday, August 13, 2009 10:55 AM by justaskdrdonna

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Yes patient is a test but a time for growth. Whenever we try to speed things up, we are skipping lessons and disaster will strike. Most of my friends met their perfect partner after age 38. Their relationships are very romantic, trusting, fun and loyal. It takes time to learn who we are and what we need in a partner.
Thursday, August 13, 2009 2:32 PM by Ancestor of Light

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I love this blog and it is beautiful wow way to go. This is such a true message and true story and such a blessing.asdrdonna you have a great friend and wow what a story
Thursday, August 13, 2009 5:05 PM by Tamaro

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I fully agree. The time it takes for each of us to learn who we are and what we want out of life is different. That`s why I stopped wondering how did some of my friends do this and that a long time ago. There will come a time when I am going to do them but in the meantime, I had experiences they could only wish for. All things in due time. Great blog Donna.
Thursday, August 13, 2009 6:18 PM by justaskdrdonna

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I have watched so many of my friends take it easy and love just came. Everyone of my friends are in healthy relationships. That was not the case when we were younger.
Thursday, August 13, 2009 6:21 PM by justaskdrdonna

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I had another friend whose boyfriend walked away and she said that a very powerful energy just came over her and she knew that he would come back when he was ready. He did comeback and they are also doing very well. She just went on with her life.She did not take it ias being rejection at all. She respected that he needed his space.
Thursday, August 13, 2009 11:43 PM by heyroz

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Love this blog. Thanks Donna!
Saturday, August 15, 2009 9:32 AM by PSYCHIC SILVANA FILLMORE

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How true Dr.Donna...I love your blogs as I learn from them each time you post one. It may be something I have heard once before or brand new info, Either way, You have a REAL LIFE way of bringing it to the table that grabs my attention and interest every time.
Thank You for being YOU
Silvana
Saturday, August 15, 2009 12:59 PM by justaskdrdonna

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Thank you Heyroz so much for your comment.
Dear Silvana, Thank you also for liking this blog. I love that i have so many friends who are doing the life journey so well.They have all had the ups and downs, been cheated on, divorces,etc. my friends chose to live and not waste time feeling bad for too long. This particular friend waited a long time and had a divorce a long time ago. She had been through it all and never complained. Just hoped. Now she has her idea relationship. I met him and he is a gem.
Also thank you for the compliment Silvana. you keep being you.
Monday, August 17, 2009 10:23 AM by tbitty

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AWESOME AWESOME AWESOME... Beautifully written.. this rings true.  Patience is allowing the universe to do it's job.  
Monday, August 17, 2009 1:12 PM by dee0319

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I have never called you. But I always like reading your blogs.  You are so right on with this one. I have been single for 2 years since my divorce and HATE dating. I was at lunch with co-workers and this guy kept looking at me.  When we were getting ready to leave, and he brought me his number. We talked and went out and had a good time.  I felt that he is what I have been waiting on all this time.  I'm looking forward to seeing where this goes. Thanks again for the great blogs!
Monday, August 17, 2009 2:09 PM by justaskdrdonna

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Dear Tbitty, yes  you are so correct! the universe is perfect and knows better than what we do when something should happen. Our impatience is just a fear. I tell callers that the universe will only give us something that we are totally ready for. Use the waiting period to grow and change.
Monday, August 17, 2009 2:12 PM by justaskdrdonna

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Dear dee0319, I love your story. How awesome! It seems that the guy is ready and so are you. This is the beginning of something good.
Tuesday, August 18, 2009 11:36 AM by justaskdrdonna

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Whenever a caller ask if he is scared of losing them, I want to say that it is better to let him have his space and not pressure him. This way they will know that he chooses to be there and not out of fear or manipulation. If a person commits before they are ready, the relationship will end. We can not speed a person up under no circumstances.
Tuesday, August 18, 2009 1:02 PM by Maoie

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Donna I love all your blogs, but for some reason this one keeps pulling me back! ;-)  Hmmmm...maybe it's trying to tell me to enjoy the process and that the universe is just about to deliver...maybe that is why a certain someone is testing me out?!  LOL!

I hope you don't leave Keen it would be a loss.  I'm sure I am not the only person you've touched and have helped tremendously...thank you!
Tuesday, August 18, 2009 3:20 PM by Maoie

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Donna, that is so sad.  There is always one that 'ruins' it for the rest of us.  But especially ruins it for you as you DO have a special gift and soul to help people.  Sometimes there are people you simply cannot help no matter how hard we try...I have a few of these in my life at the moment and what I've learned is I can't help them until they open themselves and reach out for help.  The only help I can offer them is to be there by their side when and if the pieces need to be put back together...it is hard to stand aside while watching someone you care about 'crash and burn' but sometimes that is what has to happen before the healing begins.

Stay strong Donna!  Know that for the one or few persons that refuses your help there are 100+ others that openly and warmly seek your guidance and assistance!!
Tuesday, August 18, 2009 3:34 PM by justaskdrdonna

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Thanks Maoie! I think that it is the abuse of the feedback system that makes it so tough. Some people see it as a way to spewl venom. The feedback is on google and it is seen by the world. The caller is anonymous but the advisors are left defending our reputations.
Sunday, August 23, 2009 9:43 AM by a new start

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I love your blogs so much! I haven't been online very often these days but when I get a moment, I love to catch up. I think you're such a wise soul and I always learn from what you write about relationships and myself. A trainer at a seminar I was at for work the other day brought up Byron Katie and I smiled thinking of you. Thanks for being you and challenging me to think differently.
Sunday, August 23, 2009 9:45 AM by a new start

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Donna, your blogs are so inspiring. Thank you for being my teacher, even when I am a stubborn student.  A trainer in my seminar mentioned Byron Katie and I smiled, thinking of you. I am going to miss you so much.
Monday, August 24, 2009 5:23 AM by SisterScorpioDotCom

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Thank you for sharing that  gentle reminder that good things do come to those who wait.
Monday, August 24, 2009 5:29 PM by justaskdrdonna

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Thanks Sister Scorpio and Breathof.... I love this blog because it is the truth that time makes everything possible. I believe that nothing can happen until both parties are truly ready. When both parties are ready, the relationship is easy.
Monday, August 24, 2009 5:31 PM by justaskdrdonna

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Dear breathof..... I never saw you as stubborn. Thank you for letting me challenge you. I challenged myself by thinking differently also. The first time I did a Byron Katie worksheet, I just knew that i would be right. Then i had to laugh at how wrong I was. It freed me and I am grateful for those worksheets. I will never have a bad relationship ever again. I know my role and my responsibility to myself and my partner.
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