Your Comfort Zone
I hear it often from callers that they do not want to leave their comfort zone. It is the same as not taking a risk but still hoping to receive something that they want. It is also the same as saying that they hope the UPS man will delivery to them what they want. I know that people hate being uncomfortable. Remember the people who are happy and successful were willing to leave their comfort zone and take the necessary risks to achieve their wants and goals. When we are in our comfort zone, we are alone. A comfort zone is really a protective shield. A shield from taking risks and getting hurt. So guess what you are alone in your comfort zone. No one will be able to reach you there. You will stay a lone too. Nothing comes easy in life. If you want to have something, you will have to decide to let go of needing to feel safe. As long as you need to feel safe, you will not have your desires. Just think if everyone stayed in their comfort zone, no one would communicate. There would not be any great jobs obtained, no great friendships or relationships.
Everything that I have achieved in my life, I had to go out and get. Even my friendships. When I moved back home to the Los Angeles area, I did not know anyone in the area where I now live. I had been away from Los Angeles for 6 years. My intuition told me to move home so I did it and I have no regrets. I needed a realtor so I used the dreaded craigslist. He is still my friend to this day. I hang out with him and I have met several wonderful friends because of this connection. My friend " M " is a connector by nature and extremely out going. He told me that after he sold me my condo that we would stay friends. I told him that it was not necessary because we have a business relationship. We are now great friends. I go to all of his parties. I went with him and his many friends to Vegas this past weekend. We had a wonderful time. I have so many wonderful female friends because of ' M ".vI had also joined many social networking sites. I have met lots of great friends who are a wonderful support system. We go every where and I have rediscovered Los Angeles because of the risks that I have taken. I would be alone and it would be my fault, if I did not decide to leave my comfort zone.
As you all know, life has never been easy for me. I chose to go to school despite many disadvantages. No whining about not having a car or being poor, I just did it. It was not easy going to private school with trust fund babies who drove 100k cars and traveled the world on school breaks. I was an outsider. I chose to leave my poor person mentality behind. I went to school and it changed my life.
If you want to change your life. It is not by calling a psychic and hoping that we tell you that everything will be wonderful and you just have to sit and wait on a time frame. I will tell you what to do exactly in order to get what you want. YOU MUST PARTICIPATE IN YOUR LIFE. If you stay in a safe comfort zone, you will lose out on great friendships, romantic relationships, great job opportunities,etc. You will lose in every way. Decide now to accept change and risk taking. That is when you will see yourself happiest.