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# re: Are You Waiting for Mr. Right.... or Are You Afraid of Commitment? Part 2 of 2
Monday, April 02, 2007 9:32 PM by

nellababi
this is a great blog...my only problem is, i seemed to always have a few "prince charmings" to pick from...but i seem to like all of them. which one should i choose? and what about the ex? should i still like him? lol....oh my....

Dear nellababi:

And this is a problem, how? I don't know but I think I'd be pretty jazzed if I had those kinds of problems. Ok. So let's get back to the Law of Attraction. And let's start with the obvious. Gratitude. Be grateful that you have such good fortune to have all those choices in the first place (You are certainly in attraction-mode).

But not clear on which to choose from. So let's think about this.

Possibility #1: - Since you are not sure which of these fine gentlemen is "the one" – I want to warn you there is a very good chance it may be none of them. When you meet your Perfect Mate, no one else will come close. There is no one that will compare to the person the Universe will send you.

Possibility #2: You are creating this whole situation by an unconscious desire to remain uncommitted. This can come from uncertainty but not in uncertainty about your potential partners. Uncertainty about yourself. My money is on this horse.

Are you harbouring fears of failure? Are you worried in the back of your head about whether there will be issues with fidelity? What is bugging you about this, deep inside you - just below the surface?

You may have to really think about this. These are the questions you have to ask yourself. You need to get to the root of what is eating at you and sabotaging your desires.

Ok. So the Law of Attraction states that the experience we are having right now is the residual effect of something we had focused on an earlier time. Or as Esther Hicks would say. "What you are feeling right now is what is in the process of becoming".

The point is somehow you have taken yourself to this point and now you may need a little help to figure this out.

So ask for clarity.

Take some time to meditate and relax. Take a few moments to get in touch with the Higher Self inside of you, the God-ness that you are a part of…. And ask for clarity. Here are a few good affirmations in the form of an informal prayer to that Higher Part of Yourself:

Dear Universe (God, Higher Self, etc.),
This is one of those times when I could really use some clarity.
Please guide me to the person who is the Perfect Mate for me, whether I know him now or not.
Let me also be the right person for this relationship.
I call upon My Own Divine Source for strength, wisdom and clarity.

While you recite this mediation, really try to feel the Source inside and outside of you. Do this meditation in morning after you rise and evenings before you go to bed. In short time, evidence will start to present itself as to who you really want to be with and who is the right one for you at this time.

Love & light,

Kittenit