Looking for LOVE?

We are all at one time or another looking for that speical someone to spend our time with, and every now and then we find that person that is there to stay. Yes of course we have had to kiss a lot of frogs to find that person, and even then it doesn work out. So WTF is that to say about us? ABSOULTLY NOTHING! Just because our Mister or Miss right dont stay in our life is no reflection on us, it is like I always say about the Tree...."Dont try and make a leaf a Root"

So where do we find our soul mate? This is a difficult question to answer. I have found it best to envision the perfect mate, and keep positive thoughts, and even from time to time day dream about them.

As we keep sending postive thoughts into the universe, our viberation's change and we begin to draw in and attract the same types of energies that we are putting out into the world. When we despare and become negative we draw those same energies into our life.

This can be hard to do, espically when you are already down in the dumps over the thought of being alone. But remember back when you were a kid and you use to Pretend? Remember how real those things felt? Im not saying go around "pretending" that you are romantically involved, just use those same visualization skills in helping you obtain your new lover.

--HOMEWORK--

1:) Spend at lest 5 to 10 minutes a day (best before bed) thinking about the qualities you want in a spouce. Try to flesh this person out, so that you have a good overall idea of what this person might look like. Now this doesnt mean that you will meet someone who looks just like this person that you've dreamed up, because the person who matches that physical description may not be right for you.

Remember when we are choosing a mate, we need soemone who will compelment us, and be our equal and someone that we can connect to on many other levels. DONT fall for someone just because the sex is good. Basing a realtionship on that is a very bad idea because if you only connect in the bedroom, how are you going to ever have a life outside of it?

2:) Every day and every night, look in the mirror and say "I am worthy of love. I am a beautiful person. I am a strong individual. I am ready for love. I am ready to give love. I am ready for happiness." Let this become your personal mantra, and say it when ever you are feeling down and blue.

3:) Finally dont forget to connect with your higher power. Ask for advice. Ask for help in finding your someone sepcial.

Keep your chin up. They are out there.