con artist people abuse,conflict,blame game.2011
Lets show you some examples:
How assuming,being evasive,and not
completing conversations,allows the
wicked mind,the angry inner heart or hurt people
to use it as a excuse to harm your spirit.
# 1 PERSON-good guy
You are being good,communicating,and being open& friendly
and respectful,you return calls,and are straight forward abour plans.
you decide to make a meeting,then cancel,you both agree by text
and its done.
# 2 Person- Bad guy
This person,24 hours later..
they.,forgets this agreement !! How? does not matter.
They proceed to go to the place without any contact.
3. SHOWDOWN- You get a text,or call,and apon completiong
1 week later !!!# bad person lays a huge angry scene on your
"being a as*** hole for not being at a meeting,
4. You try to talk,text but are shut down without any
consideration,and turned on with hostile tones.
THIS QUALIFY'S for one reason.
There are factors beyong your control to make correct.
1. The # 2 did not communicate,they took actions
irrational,then blame-game the other party.
2. Further they did not Once THEY made a error
nothing was done to respect the other party.
3. The good guy gets angry F-off text.
Most people would get into a battle with this,and further
begin a small wage of defending there integrity.
This is a very small,daily common issue,to make a point.
How you challenge yourself to deal with this,and work
with irrational,incorrect and hostile parties.
You may : Have a really sweet relation with them...you may
have never seen this before? you may have assumed different.
Reading people's personality
SIGNS- bE sure to LISTEN..I always tell people,you can
learn a lot if you HEAR..and don't blank out little comments
IE: people who TEASE you,but its not funny. Sexist comments
rudeness...being overly controlling,dominating in conversations
blaming others ( wife,husband,ect) for being psycho..* RED FLAG! Refuse to discuss there past ( ** RED FLAG)
Making little crude,or off putting comments,or calling you
insecure,poking at your traits,making comments "your fake".
at "your obviously jewish,catholic,or new age freak" or whatever..
cause your >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>( labeling people)
How about cursing? I had someone new acually say "f-off" to my face
"he though it was funny. I reminded him,without killing
the party,"thats uncalled for" and I don't believe its good manners
you don't know me at all! it was to provoke me to attend a bar,with his
gf and a few others. How you handle it? with grace,not anger. It worked.
I also made a point ,of embarrassing him,and it was a humbling moment.
he apologized. He stared at the floor. This was a very "successful" parent
and good person,who was caught being hostile,and it will help him later.
REFUSE TO BE THE BUTT OF CRUEL VICIOUS JOKES,SICK HUMOR,OR
SUPPORT LOUSY MEAN SPIRITED GOSSIP OR WORSE.
Its not befitting,of you,your kids,or your community.
Leave that to TV SHOW writers..and thats that.
MORE FUN WITH NEW SOCIAL CIRCLES
Example: A new person who after 5 mins remarks,YOUR WIERD???
This is projection,meaning they are "downing" you,to feed there need for
confidence. If you are being strange,fine,accept it. However,when these
comments are permitted,they erode your self-worth. Without being a princess
you don't need to snap back,or always confront,just move on.
Handle it with smiling,making very sincere words back :nice to meet you
take care....or drive safe.....or something sweet back. They will really be surprised!
I got a lot of hugs from people ----after this.- I might have been the only one who stood up for kindess..?? Think about WHO U ARE. What do you want in your
HOW NOT TO GET
-------------------HOOKED INTO ABUSE.
Firstly, if your self esteem is off,even a bit,or your carrying
wounds,unprocessed,or its TRUE,examine it. If they provoke
something,first ANALYZE. If this person is correct,work on
the issue,but don't be FOOLED into a bad "verbal" oponion.
Your neither a PERFECT LOVING PERSON,nor b****.
This is a trap,many females fall into BELIEVING they are
crap,so the male has found a hole,which to drive the wound
deeper to convince them,it goes with any relationship.
Once this hole is made,its easy to manipulate,any 5 yr old
can BS the weakest person to give them a cookie..comon!!
REFUSE TO ALLOW PEOPLE ACCESS!
oNLY TAKE IN critical remarks from bosses,who are more
knowledge then you,parents who are correct,and want your best
or others who have further skills,who clearly your arguing a mute point with.
Why would you take any lover,bf,girlfriend,child,politician,or other's POV???
Listen to those who offer assistance,even if it DOES sting.If its valuble
take time to find resolve,if it hurts too deep,still,look for the truth,but
don't get into a depressive spiral..fix you.
DO YOU CONFUSE DARKER..........
Emotions with Loving ones??.."since they are so so passionate
towards me????? THAT IS EGO.
Since they are jeolous,they want me. NOPE. they WANT what
you have!!!! If you listen,not "remain in defense mode" but listen
many things lovers say are complete BS from "your a princess"
to your a beast". TRUST YOUR OWN OPINIONS. Flattery
is best from a complete stranger,and usually without anything to
Big emotions are just a way. They are not the right or wrong
People get so caught with someone who is CHASING them
be it social or love..its the same energy. Be careful of being
hunted for friendship,business,or lover,its all very deceptive.
Hence the "he used to text 10 times,she wanted my sales" but never
got a 5th email..he said he would finish the porch repair..but ...on and on..
================Most people lead with a inner foot of where THEY are ..at the moment,day,hour how there own self-esteem is.
HOW TO READ THERE SOUL
well this is the best means to see a person's kindness
or how they will treat you...but even this can get TRICKY.
Spiritual people without good spiritual manners or morals can use there tricks to seduce or manipulate also.Power is very much
what many of our bad gurus have been hungry for..seek humility.
Please don't fall for the "I am the nicest,most honest person" routine.
People who boast ..thats ego..regardless of what the braggin issues is.
SIGNS to look FOR
1. People who don't have huge need to control,who don't
cling,who don't blame,who forgive easily,and communicate
with tact,and generosity,who have non-perfect human
feeling,about them.they can laugh at themselves.
2. Look in there eyes...and in there touch. Some people
have a calm,radiant...touch,but there is A DARK sorta
forboding thing about them???? Make sure you use
6 senses. Or otherway..they don't have good touch,but
they have a "watery" eyes that hypnotize...or strong
spirit..( does not mean a GOOD one) do you
feel nervous.?? why? TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS.
3. Look for a INNOCENT childlike quality..
4. Test them,by being very truthful,and in your heart
about a cause,see how they REACT? are they compassionate?
SOME SERIOUS FACTS ABOUT THESE TIMES
These are very dark times,nevermind the money thing,I am
trying to help humanity souls...
Since we all affect each other,if YOU ALLOW one person
to ruin your mood,or take your emotions,it spills over into
suspicion towards OTHERS!!
This means,people will be desperate for power, money,resources
if ever people are very off balance,its now..or did you see
the news lately? Take the glasses off,read the fine print,
listen to people's speeches,and what they support.
CHurches are not all Godly,Atheist are not unholy,nor un aware.
We are in the most weakest state,we have nothing to hold
onto,except our own INNER soul,they world as it shifts
is terribly shaky,from weather,to jobs,to health,to everything.
If you don't heal this,within you..you will attract this
in your world.. Financially,gather your wits,and
be proactive,as to what you cook up for creative
being prosperous,this is the best times to get
conned ..scammed,and fooled..esp with BANK LOANS.
In 2011 and forward,institutions are no longer viable.
Yeah its time for being under the table people..moonlight.
Watch where you step,always tap into your inner
guide,and ask hard questions,before you jump in
a new plan,trip,group,people....look deeper.
MAKE PEACE within yourself...create good enviroment
keep generating good vibes...get high on the universe
don't give your power to anyone. DEMAND better of you. NOT
WISDOM AND THANKFULNESS- God reveals the
truth,sometimes but we refuse to see ..take charge
of the situation...and bless God for being there to spare you
further conflicts !!!!
blessings, angel~~~ ( call me on 0473)