Finding Your Heart's Desire
Today's topic
is a very popular one. The Heart's Desire is often called the Soul's
Urge by Numerologists; but most of us just ask "What do I really want?".
How many times in life have we gone in a direction
only to find out it wasn't what we would make us truly happy? Often, we
are faced with choices and have difficulty deciding which would be best
for us. There are so many options!
Knowing our Heart's Desire, can help us to make a
decision that will be compatible with our Spirit. Its what our Higher
Self knows will bring lasting happiness; because it most fits who we
are. The answer to the questions what do I want or what should I do is
to ask a better question: "What is most like me?" Choose what is most
like you, and you won't go wrong.
Sometimes what's best for us, doesn't always match
up with what we THINK we want. If we could stop a minute, and really
look at those wants and desires, really honestly question ourselves; we
might find out that they aren't our own desires at all.
Many people go into careers, studying very hard,
even becoming successful; only to find out that they feel empty inside;
are still not happy.
Choosing a mate that doesn't support our true
Heart's Desire, no matter how wonderful that person is, ultimately ends
in sadness or dissatisfaction.
Choosing a place to live, how many children to have,
what school to attend or car to buy or any of a myriad of decisions can
be confusing, and potentially lead us down a path that takes us very
far from where we intended to go. Better decisons means a better life.
We all want that.
We may end up saying: "I have everything I could ask
for, why aren't I happy?" If you hear yourself asking this question,
its your Heart's Desire that is calling out to you. If we ignore that
call, it can lead to frustration, feeling out of tune with ourselves
and others, even complete unhappiness.
The Heart's Desire is such an essential part of
ourselves, that we simply can't be who we really are if we ignore it;
we feel lost, and dissatisfied if it is not included in our life.
When we are children, we usually know exactly what
will make us happy. If we've gone astray from our true heart; looking
back to the games and dreams we had as children, can be a big help in
getting back on track again. Were you happiest dancing around and
around? Saving the day? Coloring? Playing school or house?
Yes, children know until someone tells them they
can't make a living playing Superman, or dancing in circles. Except
there actually are people who do make a living saving people from
extraordinary situations like Doctors, Nurses, Firemen, and Paramedics.
There are plenty of people making money entertaining us as Dancers,
Singers, Artists, helping us to learn and grow, and so on.
These are not just childish dreams. Knowing our
Heart's Desire Number can help us get back in touch with that dream
again. Confidantly knowing what will make us happy, can give us
the courage to go for it, and live out our dreams. Accepting our true
selves, and shining up the internal personality we really are, is what
will put a spring in our steps and a smile on our faces. Its our
uniquesness that others cherish about us - crooked smile, warts and all!
Its time to finally keep those promises we made to
ourselves. Never stop dreaming! Never stop being YOU! Its time to
listen to yourself, and follow your true Heart's Desire.
Is this selfish? Not at all. In fact, we are
depriving others of all that we are, and of our special talents and
skills if we hide this most important part of ourselves. We may even be
setting an example for others to ignore what makes them most happy in
their lives. No, being who we really are is not selfish - its glorious!
There's always a way to incorporate more happiness into our lives.
So how do we find the Heart's Desire Number?
Numerologists take the vowels from our name at birth, and use the
numerical values of those letters to calculate the Heart's Desire
Number. By example, in the Pythagorean System, Mary Jane Walsh
has a 6 Heart's Desire. If she goes by Mary Walsh as an adult, her
Minor Heart's Desire is 3. If she changes her name in marriage, that
will change her Minor Heart's Desire as well; but never her true
Heart's Desire Number.
As a 6, Mary Jane will be happiest surrounded by
family and friends, making her home beautiful, she'll love helping
others to shine; but as a 3, Mary will be funny, outgoing. creative and
find it easy to express herself; she'll have a "gift for gab". As a 3
she will love to be the center of attention, and be great at
entertaining; many great comedians have a 3 Heart's Desire Number!
Perhaps she could blend the two and make a happy living entertaining or
writing for children.
Along with all of these fine qualities, there are
the negative traps we need to avoid or work on, too. Every number has
both aspects, so we can learn to integrate all of who we are by paying
close attention to every facet of our being.
Is it better to be a 6 or a 3? No number is better
than any other, each is unique; and, even a Karmic Number, pushes and
challenges us to grow closer and closer to that one shining unique
person that no one else can be.
If you want real success in your life, work on
becoming fully, uniquely YOU. No one else can do that better than you
can! Settling for a copy of someone else, will never ring true for you or to others; and
it simply won't fit you and bring you happiness. What better way to eliminate the competition than
by being the best you possible! Think of the most famous people we know; aren't they totally unique, "one of a kind"?
Curiously, when we shorten or change our names, we
concentrate and fortify certain aspects of ourselves, and take on new
qualities; some may enhance us, others may not.
Even if our friends give us a nickname, by accepting
it as our shortened name, we unconciously accept the changes it
represents; so changing your name is complicated, and requires the
guidance of a true expert in this field of Numerology.
Can you see how important the Heart's Desire Number
is, and how it can help us? I hope this gives you another tool to craft
your own special life. The Heart's Desire Number is one of the core
numbers in your Numerological Profile. The others are the Life Purpose and Destiny Numbers. Why not get a Core Numerology
Report today, and start mapping your way back to the stars!
Next time, we'll talk about the Karmic Numbers!
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