How to get the best from your reading
Those of you who know me,
understand that I only have your best interests at heart. That's why I
thought I would talk a bit about getting the best out of your readings.
Whether from Numerology or Tarot readings, you have a very important
role to play!
For Numerology, a reader will need specific and
correct date of birth including month, day and year of birth for the
person we are doing the profile on.
Your Numerologist will also need the full and correct name on the
birth certificate with the correct spelling, or the earliest name given
if the person was adopted; as well as the current name and correct
spelling.
Without correct information and correct spelling of all names,
your reading will not be correct. We can do a reading on your current
name and birthdate; but certain critical information from your
blueprint will be missing. Your reading will reflect who you are today;
but there will be energies from the time of your birth, or even before,
that we cannot know about because those energies are coded into your
blueprint through your name at the time of your birth, and do affect
you all throughout your lifetime, even if you change your name.
Changing your name can help you to claim the
energies and skills you are missing in your profile; but the underlying
"DNA" of your profile will always be there influencing your life; so
you really need to know what those influences are to be sure you are on
the right track to accomplishing your personal goals, and meeting your
personal Soul's Urge and Destiny.
When you get you Numerology report, be prepared to
read it several times. It will still be correct and meaningful for
you years later, even all through out your life. In fact, some things
won't be clear to you at first; others won't make sense except in hind
sight. As you become more familiar with your profile; you will see how
utilizing the elements of your makeup allow you to craft your life by
making choices that are more like your true self, and then you will
find of life of true Joy.
By the same token, if we are reading for you with
Tarot cards, we also need your help. You are not just a passive
observer in what we do. Your receptivity to what we are saying is very
important. The messages from Spirit come through to us in the cards;
but if you won't really hear the message, you won't receive its help.
Sometimes, the reading may seem to be wrong; but
years later, the truth will be seen. Angels and Spirit have no
reference to time, like we do. The messages come through to prepare us
for our journeys through life.
Some things take time to appear in our lives because
we are insisting on what we want without knowing our own true heart.
That will result in detours and delay the outcome of your reading.
If you can listen with your heart, that will help you tremendously!
Yes, we shuffle, pull the cards, and interpret
them: but we do this in conjunction with the energy that you are
sending out, and the energy of those around you at the time of the
reading.
Consider the reading carefully. Write it in your
journal. Look at it later, when it has had time to settle into you.
Resistance is normal; but change is inevitable.
Flowing with what is, eases your path in life. Give yourself time to
get past the initial resistance.
If you say to me:"I know all that!" Consider where
you know it. Knowing something important and life changing in your head
is not the same as knowing it in your heart and soul.
Knowing and believing in the very depths of your
being are totally different things. As a
reader I gain no benefit from the message or what you decide to do with
it.
The message is for you; but you must be willing to
hear and apply the advice from the cards in order to experience the
benefits.
If the cards are telling you something you already
know, its because the knowledge is not getting through to you on the
vibrational level which is how you manifest your dreams. Spirit will
repeat it over and over until you really feel the message in your very
bones so much so that you act on it.
If its your destiny to go to college, then you will;
but you must get of the couch, apply for courses, and get going. Until
you are ready to do it, your dream won't come true. Knowing isn't
enough. When you are ready you will do it; but how many years will you
lose before you know it so strongly in your very being that you finally get moving?
If you keep hearing the same message everywhere you
go, that's a wake up call. Will you hear it or keep going blindly down
the road? Its your choice. How much pain is it going to take for you to
make it?
Think about this: do you just know the facts; or is it real to you; are you living it?
I will never interfere with Free Will. I respect
your right to choose your own path, no matter what I see in the cards. My own ideas never come into the picture. I know this is your path to judge, not mine.
As a Tarot reader, I never intrude on the privacy of
others either, so if you ask me what someone else is thinking, I send a
message, through Spirit, asking if I may have permission to read their cards. Most of
the time, people do cooperate; but it is their Free Will to say no or
to limit the information available to me, and I must honor that; just
as I do for you.
If there is something that you don't want me to read,
I won't see it; but your spirit may answer a question for you that you
don't even know you are asking! It often happens that the real question
is behind the one you are verbally asking. If its important for your
well being, it will come through.
If you are in turmoil and have many questions in your
mind at once; this will be reflected in the reading. If your reading
seems confusing, or has information you are not ready to hear, that's
okay; just take a deep breath, relax, and tell me to reshuffle the
cards and ask the most important question on your mind. You can always
ask another question; but one question at a time will give you the
clearest reading. Of course, I want you to have the best reading
possible. My deisre for you is that you receive the help you need to
sort out whatever is happening in your life, or find the guidance that
you need.
Most of the time, my readings are right on target.
On a very rare occasion, I may not be able to tune in to your
situation; simply ask me to reshuffle the cards or for a refund. There
are many reasons why a reader may be off the mark.
Remember, readers are doing something very
difficult, and that requires us to be very sensitive and open, so that
we can pick up the energies around you. Its like trying to locate a
radio signal and may require a bit of turning the dial to the get the
correct signal. This is especially so if you are not in our presence.
If there is interference on the phone line, or you have a radio or T.V.
playing in the background, or children needing your attention, it is
distracting for you and your reader, making it difficult for both of us
to tune in.
I can only control what is happening on my end of
the phone line; so before you call, create an environment in which you
can sit quietly, relax, and share your thoughts with me for the
reading. If the line is bad or we get disconnected; let me know.
I am here for you. I want you to feel comfortable and happy with your
reading. I will do everything in my power to make your reading go well
for you.
Are there any limits to what a Tarot reader can tell you? Yes, there are.
First of all, we can only tell you what the cards tell us.
We cannot always tell you what you want to hear. Sometimes you may feel
unhappy that a specific outcome is not expected to happen. Remember,
the reading is based on the current energies around you; use your
disappointment as a springboard to find something even better for your
life. As the saying goes: "One door closes, and another opens." There is no event that we cannot grow from, and get through.
I love to report happy events; and really don't want
to report disappointing outcomes; but I realize that just telling you
everything will work out as you want it to will not really help you.
Its better to be prepared and examine what's really going on. Integrity
and honesty are critical in a reader. Once the truth is known, a
good Tarot reader can help you see what your options are as well as the
challenges and blocks.We can show you how to handle them to improve
your circumstances. Once you find a way to accept what is, you
can move on to a much better outcome than the one originally hoped for.
Secondly, we cannot tell you the exact time of your death,
or
the end of the world, for that matter. We do have a card in the Tarot
deck called "Death"; but it means transformation, pruning and renewal,
letting go or ending of something to make room for something new and
fresh. Don't be afraid to fully experience your reading. A Tarot reader
is trained to see the reading holistically, and help you to see how
that card's energy fits into the framework of your question.
Most Tarot readers are inutitives; they know but are not
seers; so please do read our web pages and pick the person who most
closely matches the goal you have for the reading.
If you want to know
what your next sweetheart will look like in detail; look for someone
who has clairvoyant abilities. A clairvoyant can actually see an image
of a future event. Tarot readers
receive input through their hands and often their Solar Plexis or their Heart Chakra, they
are
clairsentient which means they feel the energies, and that directs them
to select the cards that match the energies around you. They are
creating a synchronicity between you, your energies, the cards, and the
Universal field of consciousness.
Someone who is clairaudient hears messages; so if
you want a audible message from your angels or someone on the other
side, a clairaudient person may be able to help you.
Mediums are gifted with the ability to talk to those who have passed
away;
they will be most helpful if you want to contact a loved one who has
died.
It may be difficult to select the right reader out
of so many; but most of the readers on Keen understand this, and have
web pages and blogs. Many will offer you free minutes or help you with
a refund. If someone catches your eye in the listings,check out their
blogs. Its a good way to see if you relate to someone before you call!
Remember,
as Tarot
readers, we are dealing with energies that we are picking up around you
and in your environment now; so if you change your thoughts about
something during a reading, which often happens as you gain new
knowledge about your situation, the outcome will also change. To
demonstrate that, we will need to reshuffle the cards; so be sure to
tell us. Most readers will sense it; but not all.
If I pick this up on my own, I will automatically
reshuffle the cards as we talk. Often, I do several readings from
different decks, as I read for you, to clarify the information for you
as best as I can. I may pick a card from my decks dedicated to angel
messages, or soul messages, as well. Please, feel free to ask me to do
this for you if you like.
If you don't know what to ask, just take a deep
breath and relax. Just ask for a general reading or ask what the cards
are saying for you today. Your cards are very good at telling us what
is going on now.
If you want to know if something will EVER happen;
that is beyond the scope of a Tarot reading because forever is an open
ended, vast period of time. Unless you never change your feelings and
intentions all during forever, we won't be able to pick up on the
energies around you that far into the future, and see what will happen.
Of course, you will meet and interact with many
people, you will change your path and your mind many times over the
intervening years of such a long period of time, and the reading would
also be affected with each new important change. Frame your question
differently. Instead of asking will something ever happen, ask if the
event it will happen in the next two weeks. You'll get a better answer;
but remember, that answer is based on how things are currently going.
Any imporant changes alter the outcome; so get a new reading if that
happens.
Willfully resisting who you are is very common, and such intererance with Spirit will delay your outcome even for
decades; but when you finally, accept who you really are, and align
yourself with Spirit, your reading can come true in a most surprising
way.
Predicting what another person will do is even
harder because their energies are not as available to a reader, if at
all. Remember, the exercise of free will also impacts the outcome of an
event. By this I mean that you can accept your life as it unfolds or
exercise your will to avoid or repel what is coming to you. When you
call, you make your energy available as you ask for
guidance; so the reading will be about you and what is happening to you.
Its very natural that a reading will shed new
light on your situation, and that new information may cause you to
change your mind dramatically. That alters the outcome. I've seen this happen the
instant the cards are laid out if the person is sitting with me in
person. They see a card, and respond to it on an emotional level and
say to themselves:" I don't like that, I'm going to change it". That
new intention, if it is emphatic, alters the outcome; so I have to shuffle and lay out the
cards again to see the new outcome.
Think of it this way: if you want to go to New York
City, there are many ways you can go to get there; but whatever route
you decide upon, it must be a route that takes you to New York City. If
you set out for New York City; but willfully refuse to take the roads
that go to New York City, and get on the road to Dallas, Texas instead,
you'll end up in Dallas, not New York City. If you set out on the road
for New York City; but someone tells you its more fun in Santa Barbara,
you may change your mind and then change your direction so that you
take the road to Santa Barbara and then, naturally, arrive at Santa
Barbara. Your outcome flows from your intentions. We help you to see
your true intentions as well.
In other words, your actions have to match your
intentions. If you fight yourself, you sabotage your best efforts.
Readers see a lot of this in the cards; so be honest with yourself.
Its the same with the directions you take in life.
You may intend to marry and have three children, and become a soccer
mom; so when we read your cards, we will see those intentions and
feelings as well as the people around you now, and how that will play
out. But along the way to
becoming a soccer mom, you may meet someone or study a subject that
changes your mind, and you decide to join the Peace Corp. In that case,
the first reading will not come true. Something very important has
changed and therefore you have changed your outcome.
Is the initial reading wrong? No, it was correct at
the time of the reading, and could yet become true after your detour.
The reading was just not able to take the
change of heart into consideration because it did not exist at the time
of the reading. Sometimes we can see this possibility, given the time
to read all your cards. A newer reading reflects your progress, your
growth, and would reflect your newer outlook on the
world and your life.
I have done readings that were accurate out as far
as a year; but that can only happen if nothing significant changes from
the time of the reading. If, by example, you have laid out a business
plan and are following it, a year long reading will be helpful along
the way, and be very accurate. By the same token, if you are committed
to spiritual study, a reading can unveil your progress or challenges
each month over the coming year; but only as long as you stay on that
path.
So what can you do to get the best out of your
readings? Relax, select a quiet place and time for your reading, and
Focus on your most important question. Its important to find out if
your reader is skilled in what you are asking the reader to do. The
most important
thing you can do to get the best from your reading, is to listen with
an open heart. Be ready to hear.
Your reader may tell you things that are about to
happen, may not happe for years, or show you internal messages from your Spirit that can help
you now and prepare you for what is to come.
Once your call has ended, allow yourself some time to think about
what information you have been given. Ask yourself how
this information can help you.
If you feel yourself resisting a
message, ask what the resistance is about. In this way you can use
your reading as a springboard to catapult yourself into a happier,
healthier outlook on life.
As you grow emotionally, spiritually, and in
the day to day aspects of your life, get a new reading to find out how
much you've grown and what the next phase will bring. Knowledge is
power but only if you believe what you know in the very depths of your
being, and act upon it.
For me, reading
for others is a way to encourage, nurture, and help others to heal; so
you are my focus. It is my greatest hope for you that you will open up
to all the wondeful bounty of Joy and Love around you! Life is better
than you could ever imagine when you are in alignment with your true
self.
I check my emails about every 2 hours throughout the
day and evening; so even if I am not "available", you can schedule an
appointment, and I will make myself available to you at that time; but
please allow the 2 hour time frame for me to get your email if I a not
already on duty.
I hope this blog helps you to get a better
understanding of what to expect from a reading, and what you can do to
help get the very best out of your reading.
Until the next post!
I'm surrounding you with Angels!
Maeyer
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