Are you forgiving?  What I mean by this are you forgiving when someone has done you wrong or you feel as if they have done you wrong?  Past boyfriend, husband, lover, sister, brother, children, friends, but you still want relationship with this person in some capacity? If you want a relationship, but you haven;t released the anger, bitterness and resentment, How do you think this will affect the relationship?  Why would someone come back to you and you are holding on to these things?  We as humans may not realize, but our energy has a vibrational frequency that you are emitting into the universe.  Your energy is connected to people in your past, present and future; well it is just connected, but with those people you share a special connection with share your energy and you theirs; in a different more connected way.  If you want someone to resurface what must you do first?  You must let go of anything that you feel that this person may have done to you; because most times people don't understand what they are doing when they are doing it.  Your ego will tell you.. "Oh, NO what's his/her face is not gonna get away with that he is gonna have to pay, but after I get them back I will show them."  Now, why in the world do you think the universe is going to let someone come back into your life to beg for your foregiveness; if you are planning on doing damamge or going to bitter and filled with resentment?.  Forgive them before they arrive; because if you don't the person in question might may not arrive at all.  You must recognize that these things happened for growth; but if you haven't forgiven them the negative energy will just permeate through and through. 

Energy is felt not seen; energy can either repel or attract people; which do you want your energy to do?  I know the answer to this; you want it to attract; so if this is what you want learn what forgiveness is. Focus on letting go of the anger and resent. Forgive yourself as well and allow yourself to have what it is you want; release hurts and pains of the past.  You are not perfect either allow yourself to forgive them and yourself.  Know that you can not control anything, but your thoughts, actions and reactions.  When you come from a place of foregiveness of yourself and emit that into the universe;  this is another part of what brings about the things that you want.  FORGIVE

Love,

Tina