The Cosmic Climate

It's time to feel it...
then deal with it,
heal from it, and
finally just let it GO!

Pick yourself up and brush yourself off and get over it all. I know that is easy for me to say----although to focus on the negatives or the pain of any particular situation, will only create more melancholy, doom and gloom, sadness and suffering, and frustratingly so, steal your joy. Rather look at (all) this that you've been dealing with as a 'particular' resolution time where all the emotional dissonance you are feeling within----is for you to 'place'  in your resolution tool box and from 'that resolution tool box' you will (in the future) be able to almost immediately find the most satisfactory solution for just about any situation you are faced with.

One thing about this time now, is to realize that very few people in this world deal well with conflict.... hence, all our 'entertainment' in Hollywood is based on 'conflict and drama'-----being in the midst of or dealing with it in some special or unique way that brings about healing, or 'NOT'. Life is 'well, exactly that'... LIFE. It is made up of drama and conflict when you place one person with another. Whether it's your Mom and you, or you and your Dad, or you and Dee .... etc., etc.... people and emotions and how 'we' all choose to deal effectively or 'not' with those emotional conflicts within, is how we are also dealing with our daily lives in a happy and healthy way, or in a way that fosters more of the same... conflict and drama. It's a never ending----or a continuous, depending on how we choose to look at it----in the positive or the negative----- cycle of pain and suffering, joy and happiness.

I have found that people truly make my life miserable as well as truly bless it each and every day. The dichotomy of life is relative to how we are as 'individuals' able to manage our emotions about whatever it is that is affecting us positively or negatively-----it is our choice. It is our choice to embrace the silver lining, or to wallow in the murky waters.

Either way, we will find our comfort zone where we will thrive; positively or negatively. Your life is pretty good right now other than the fact that you may not be as happy as you think you could be ----- and most of the time you may even question why you choose to stay where you are. Our human condition questions all the conflict and drama of everyday life. The ambivalence of 'being happy or sad' about where you are currently is relative to how where you are -----is emotionally affecting you.

Ask yourself this question:

What & how do you associate &/or attribute to where you currently are in life emotionally, geographically, spiritually, relationally, financially or personally to where you believe is and would be a better or worse place -------than ----- where you currently are?

I have asked myself the above question, frequently.

And ... please share with me, in detail, your findings. :)

Together we will find a the best and most wise solution for you, regardless what your situation or circumstances are.

Aloha!

Adversity is not necessarily All Bad! Just for a moment, take a brief look at the past adversities in your life. Although not at all welcome at the time, adversity in your life works to serve in a positive way. Adversity in our lives allows us to see where our lives are out of balance as well as to test our faith. Do you depend on yourself to get thru the difficult times and rough spots in your life? Have the choices you've made attributed to your feelings of despair right now? Although you may not be particularly happy right now with the events in your life, are you able to live and thrive above your circumstances?

Do you depend on your faith in GOD to bless you with the right solutions or do you just plug along with worry, stress & strife about this, that and the other, more often than not, not knowing what to do, filled with anxiety, fret and fear, perhaps even waiting for the worst to occur?  Are there relationships in your life where when you are with that person you feel anxious, threatened, fearful, and just 'not OK', but uncertain about why 'this relationship' does not feel quite right to you? Do you feel emotionally or spiritually compromised? These particular relationships and areas of your life are those areas where you are making compromises in your morals, values and principles, and must be addressed, and a action steps taken toward developing &/or finding a solution that will bring about a beneficial & favorable result.

For example, if you are concerned about "Money" or your financial future, then it is likely that you have failed to lay a financial foundation that will provide you the degree of security that you need in order to feel at peace, and secure. Another example of where you may be feeling anxiety is perhaps in a romantic or personal relationship. Look at this relationship carefully. If it is a healthy relationship then it will allow you peace and the ability to feel good about yourself within the parameters of the relationship.

If you are feeling anything 'less-than' happiness, joy, peace & contentment in your romantic,  personal, or professional relationship, then it's time to take a moment or two, and look deeply into what it is 'exactly' that is affecting you adversely.  Take time to write out how things truly are, and how you are feeling and dealing with your relational angst. Doing so will allow you the ability to see where your responsibility---starts and stops---and how what you are doing or 'not' is lending to the challenges within the structure of your relationship. And finally from this angle you will be better able to implement new behaviors that will override what you are currently doing in order to return to a state of balance, peace and tranquility. Call me and let's talk about where you are. There is a solution, I promise you.~

Aloha!

Remember how it felt the first time your new boyfriend/girlfriend held your hand?

Yes... ahhhh, is there anything that feels better or allows you to feel more connected that 'Physical Touch'?  We kiss and hug each other hello and good bye, and cuddle a bit after sex, hold hands while taking a walk, or at the movie. Taking time to brush up against him/her, 'lightly' or stroke his/her arm in passing while preparing dinner together or while watching TV, sends a very special, 'you're important' to me, and I love you 'MESSAGE'.

Another way to increase romantic feelings along with foster those I love you instincts, is massage. Massaging the back of your partner's neck, or shoulders, even stroking his/her thigh gently when sitting close releases the "Love Hormone", oxytocin.

These little warm fuzzy touches tell your partner, that you are there, and that you 'care' about them in a special way beyond how you care and show affection towards others. Being affectionate toward each other speaks volumes about how 'open' and close you are & will remain, letting her/him know how much s/he is appreciated. Touching each other in sweet kind, gentle ways fosters closeness and triggers those feel-good hormones reinforcing your instinctual loving connection.

Enjoy this beautiful 'Fall Day' and remember to Have Fun!

Astro Week-Day Outlook

Tuesday April 19th. thru April 22nd. 2011

On Tuesday the Astro-energies of Communication and Initiative (Mercury and Mars) combine to help you talk your way to the next level. It’s no mistake that the French have saying, that one can “parlay” their way to a fortune. Never underestimate the power of your word. Stay calm. It is key to fact things with keen insight instead of allowing emotions to obscure opportunities today.

“A loved one may bring you an important message — consider it carefully as it could lead to a real breakthrough. “

At midweek, we find a lot of energies tumbling about so you will probably feel busy on Wednesday. Look for ways to release any blockages in spirituality and particularly misunderstandings — this is the key to good emotional and spiritual health. It’s a good day for romance, so honor those feelings by treating your mate to a meal out, or a special gift. Get creative… you can feel a good idea coming on.

Thursday dawns bringing four harmonies and only one stress point. You may have a dilemma between what you feel about something versus what you think. Solve it and get on with the rest of the day with looks good for communication growth. Remember that to move forward, you sometimes have to let go of something that held you back. Take the initiative and seize the day.

The work-week winds up on Friday with Neptune (spirituality), and Uranus (new ideas), both appearing twice in the mix of astro-energies. A loved one may bring you an important message — consider it carefully as it could lead to a real breakthrough. This could mean you have to get by any feelings of stress you have about current restrictions (budget, time limits, etc.). Think it out carefully and give the proposition a thorough review before you make a decision.~

Aloha!

We've kicked off this New Year quite nicely indeed, forging ahead into uncharted territory---it's a new season, a new year, and a real reason to explore a new life as we move rapidly thru the first month of 2011. One specific area of interest during 2011, and for most everyone is about their most close and personal romantic or business relationship. Career opportunities, academic structures, challenges related to finances, all associated with career changes and possibilities will be on your priority list. At the same time, these specific areas may be a real or viable area of concern, perhaps even causing you a bit of grief and anxiety associated with time management. You'll have much to consider, think about and in reconsidering all your options, you will pair everything down ---that you can----to a minimum of what 'must be done', still finding and making time for the fun things you enjoy doing in life.

One of the main themes for most of us will be about LOVE...and  whether or not we are about to enter &/or if we are entertaining the 'right' romantic or committed business or personal partnership/relationship.  What you will learn and find to be so relatively easy to experience is acceptance. You'll suddenly feel at peace, recognizing that where you are is exactly where you're supposed to be---and whom you're supposed to be with... until you decide this is 'no longer' right for you.

2011, both on a personal and professional scale is a year about important 'people' vs. 'things' in our lives. We cannot exist without Interpersonal relationships here on Earth. All relationships boil down to communication. And it's not about any type of communication, but about the right type and style of communication for 'the specific' relationship situation and circumstance.

Our daily operations both personally and professionally are all about the people with whom we involve ourselves with, in some form of daily interaction and communication----who ultimately affect our lives to some degree or another regardless the nature.

Therefore, 2011 marks the year of better understanding, by virtue of better one on one types of communication, fostering a global trend, filtering into our personal and professional lives allowing us to alter our current circumstances in ways that we have never before, perhaps even thought possible.

The internet is faster. Fewer dropped calls. Choosing to spend more time actually 'communicating' ----each with the other on a more intimate level. Our new ability to communicate, opens us up to never before opportunities to explore the depths of passionate vulnerability, each to the other, and in a way that will bring out the best in each of us... and bring 'love' to us in ways that we only ever imagined and dreamed of.

It's time to look deeply into yourself, finding that place in your heart where love burns brightly. Our core resonates with God at a frequency that we are unable to 'see', yet that we can and do experience via our relationship with ourselves, others, and God. When we are open to love, we have the opportunity to 'experience love'. It's that simple, and that difficult at the same time.

Love is everything we are, all that we come from and everything we aspire to be----yet somewhere along the path, we become complacent---almost  to the joys experienced by allowing ourselves to be open to experiencing love at the deepest most trusted, accountable and responsible level. It does not have to be this way. There is one word that will open the door to 'Love'...and not just for me, or you, but for all of us...
Forgiveness.

Forgiveness heals the heart, repairing it to it's original state of 'purity'. It is only when our heart is pure, that we are able to experience 'real, authentic, absolute, unconditional, unequivocal, true love.

And forgiveness first begins by choosing to forgive yourself, and then everyone else along your path... past, present, and of course, in the future.

Much Aloha,
-Daija

Greetings - Tuesday - January 4th., 2011
I am available today until 2pm., pacific & then again this
evening between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.

I am so excited about this new year, 2011 and for a variety of reasons. To begin with, today we are sporting a Capricorn New Moon Solar Eclipse ---where this special time marks the beginning of a new era as well as perhaps even A NEW LIFE!

The last time we experienced a Jupiter-Uranus conjunction in Pisces was in 1334---and the next time will be 2093. Just about everyone reading these words, will be on another plane by the time 2093 rolls around.

The over all attitudes of 'life in general' by most will be to uphold sustainable contracts on an individual as well as global level. Justice, ethics, integrity---we are prone now to set new standards for ourselves, as well as those with whom we partner with, whether personally or professionally.  We are encouraged to live by "Spirit" as well as the letter of the law. Integrating both within our daily walk, associations, negotiations, lifestyles, communications, & business practices brings about the beginning of a 'new way' & a new decade of prosperity and abundance. We all grow richer, wiser. Ultimately, happier. 

Aloha blessings,
Daija

Remember to make your NEW MOON Wish today----the Capi New Moon candle colour is Wine, Port or 'RED' signifying 'passion' for love, life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. 

 

Monday, Dec 20th., 2010

Holiday season chaos begins today with a bouncing Gemini moon, interrupted conversations, planned events, and travel delays, are all par for the course! And then... tomorrow, just be still for a moment even if only in your mind, as you may suddenly feel a bit of panic about one thing or another and it's not YOU, it's the cosmic energy of the Sun moving into Capricorn, the Winter Solstice and A Full Moon Lunar Eclipse.

Tonight is the foggy 'eve' of all the emotional fickleness about to occur tomorrow. And of course, we're still in Mercury Retrograde which doesn't smooth things out, but rather, creates a bit more of a smoke screen, and even a tad bit of itchiness' to want, do, fix, run, scream, throw a fit, and perhaps even feel as though everything is wrong and right at the same time. What you thought was 'ok' suddenly is not. What was 'not', OK, suddenly seems back to order. And of course, there is not much you can do about it all. But... it's not the end of the world, but only the beginning!

What you do tomorrow night and with whom is not going to bring you down, but lift you up and in ways that you could only imagine, even if at first things are a bit crazy or fuzzy, even confusing.  Tomorrow, all day, you will begin to see something in your life, in yourself, and in your relationships that will become more fulfilling, happy and abundantly successful due to the momentum powerful cosmic energy being blessed upon the earth as a whole.

This energy gives us the courage, power and ability to actually deal with our challenges. Through these next two days, we come to realize that it's only when we put things into 'right' perspective ---and know what we 'absolutely do want', and then be willing to 'do whatever it takes to make that happen', that we can truly know in our hearts, that we did the right thing. It's only then that we can begin to peel the layers back, of all that's bothering us, allowing something better in ourselves and in our lives. And it all begins by honoring what & whom truly matters most to you.

Tonight and tomorrow is about 'honesty'. First with yourself and then with those around you. Honesty is a difficult character trait to exhibit at times because we want to believe that 'what' we're admitting to, or emotionally 'feeling' or projecting, or doing is right. And is it really about being 'right'? Or is it about being 'honest and real'? Look deeply at yourself, today, tonight and tomorrow. Who is it that matters most to you? Whose feelings are more important to you----the person whom you truly love with all your heart and soul, or those 'friends' whom you think or believe 'need you'?

It's your choice to decide what you want, and what you want to do and how you want to behave. It's also up to you to decide whom you want to do what with. In my book, Life is not about 'what you do', but 'WHOM' you do 'it' with. And when you make that choice, remember that what they feel, believe and think, should matter most to you----not that friend who feeds your ego of 'feeling' needed. Look at the person closest to you, sitting across from you, the one whom you 'love'---and who loves you... this will tell you exactly what you need to do.

Enjoy your day, and evening and especially tomorrow, when you will be faced with making decisions that will alter the course the course of your life, and those whom you love most.

Aloha Holiday blessings,
Daija

Greetings - Thursday - Dec 9th., 2010
I am available today until 1pm., pacific & then again this evening between 6pm & 10pm., pacific.

Hanukkah Ends today. Launching this Mercury Retro Eve---Mercury stations retrograde tomorrow, Friday, Dec 10th., at 5 degrees and 56 minutes of Capricorn. The enticement is there to reconnect with our past and this retrograde is definitely about reconnecting with those boyfriend and girlfriends of the past. You'll likely experience a continuation of what should have been a routine conversation about your ongoing relationship, that perhaps suddenly or abruptly ended.

Intimate Communications  matter most to you, and then setting aside time to have those intimate discussions 'regularly' in order to keep 'things between you 'romantic', 'HOTT' and logistics in order'. All you guys out there who would rather 'act' than 'talk', prepare yourselves. Over the next several weeks until Mercury stations direct on Dec 30th., you'll be determined & even confronted and challenged by the 'need' to open up and talk. Someone important is not about to let up on you either---pushing on you just a tad, or 'more', to open up and 'talk' in a new and different way than you're accustomed!

God gave you a mouth, and it's for more than shoveling in food, or yelling fussing and fighting with the kids, co-workers, or shouting profanities at the tube while watching sporting events. Imagine that?? Actually, I will cut you guys out there, some slack, because you're just not wired the same way we women are to be emotionally open and honest or be verbally demonstrative.

Therefore, ladies listen up. If you want your guy to open up and talk to & with you, then the first thing you must do is let him know what you want, need and desire, by choosing to be emotionally open and honest with him. If he is bringing you roses, sending you cards, doing little nice things for you, then praise him, let him know that you like what he is doing, and not just once, but every time. Men respond well to praise and direction.  And it's your job to give him that continued praise, adoration, affection (not to be confused with sex) and direction insofar as what you want. And remember too, ladies, that the more you let a man know he's wanted, the more he's going to want you. He's not the complicated gender----'we' are! :)
                      
Blessings,
Daija ext 32452

Greetings - Wednesday - Dec 8th, 2010
I am available today until 1pm., pacific & then again
this evening between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.

I look forward to talking with you.

Relationship Tip of the Day: Is Love at the Core
Relationships are never always 'smooth', hence the
reason to learn as much as possible about 'how to communicate'
with your partner/spouse, and in the way where s/he is able to see, know & trust that regardless what has occurred within the boundaries of your relationship, that your love for him/her is still there. If you truly love someone, regardless how they may behave at times, in making you quite angry, embarrassed, hurt, feeling neglected and rejected----the bottom line is this, if REAL LOVE is at the core of your relationship, then there still is 'absolute hope', via conflict resolution skills, and professional intervention, if either or both parties is unable to communicate in a way to bring about a resolution.

Therefore, if this is where you are currently, call me and together let''s talk about what you can do to facilitate a resolve and bring the two of you back to an even playing field where real communication will keep you connected. 

Aloha Blessings,
Daija ext 32452

Greetings - Tuesday - Dec 7th., 2010
I am available today until 2pm., pacific & then
again this evening between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.

Work smart not hard! The Saturn orientation of the Moon in Capricorn this afternoon, slows us down a bit allowing us to 'see' more clearly what a selfish ass we've been to someone who dearly loves us. Talk about learning lessons the hard way? Well, we are basically a very selfish species, with insurmountable expectations of perfectionism. Especially when it comes to 'our partners' or those whom we love. Have you ever stopped to consider just how demanding, commanding, and unforgiving you are to that one special person whom you claim to love the most? Wow, when you think about it, you may even treat her/him with far less kindness and consideration, giving them less latitude than you would, perhaps, even a casual friend.

A well organized and defined plan of action to modify some of your partnership behaviors will allow you both to come to a determination of where you are and what you're doing, and how to recreate and modify how you each treat the other. Doing so today and as Mercury (communication) retrogrades, will most definitely guarantee you a truly happier and joyful holiday season, 2010. No doubt, by addressing issues with yourself as well as those with your partner, looking together at how things truly are will be a milestone in your relationship that will carry you the distance in making the commitment.

Call me & let's talk about how you can modify your approach, in order to get more of what you want, rather than more of what you don't want.

Also, if you have not signed up for my free newsletter, please do so at www.astrodaija.com  click on 'scopes' in navigation bar .  You will also get free minutes! Thanks, and Aloha!!

Blessings,
Daija ext 32452

Greetings -Sunday - December 5th., 2010
I am available this evening between 6pm & 10pm, pacific.
Sagittarius New Moon brings into focus a divine spiritual message of 'unconditional love', fostering acceptance & ultimate forgiveness.
Remember to make your New Moon wish today! The candle colour for renewal under this new moon is Sapphire or Cobalt Blue.

Conversations are constructive today, reminding us of reality vs. choosing to live in the fantasy of what we would prefer the way things to be. Whether you're in a relationship, or considering taking your current relationship to another level, the bottom line is that you realize if you 'choose' a circumstance that is less than what you truly desire, then you must also be prepared to accept and deal with the consequences that go along with your decision. It's that simple.

Therefore, remember that the choices me create are directly relative to the consequences that we endure, suffer or enjoy. If you're beating yourself up today for something that you created that is less than what you wanted, or what you can accept as your reality, then 'STOP' immediately, accepting the decision you made regarding that choice, recognizing that you are not perfect and that 'you had no intention of malice or harm', but that you did what you did, and the best course of action now is to find a way to effectively solve your problems, rather than continuing to create them. 

There is no better time than now to 'truly take a long look at yourself', and make amends with yourself as well as others, even if done so in silence. Ask and offer forgiveness. And then accept that it is 'done', and move on to creating better choices and making better and wiser decisions, for yourself and all concerned, from this point forward.

Make this 'New Moon' resolution to wind up 2010 in a way that is filled with love, happiness and joy.

Blessings,
Daija ext 32452

Greetings -Sunday - December 5th., 2010
God Loves, He Does Not Think!

What you think God thinks ---about You is a concept that, once you 'get it', will alter the course and direction of your life. If you're like me and most people, you've had this thought about what ---you think, God thinks, about YOU! And I can promise you that what God thinks about you is not what YOU think about you. God's thoughts about 'you' are not your thoughts about you. He does not base His thoughts, about you, on 'what you're thinking or not' thinking about yourself. God does not 'think in terms of emotion', God is about demonstrative love. Love changes hearts, condemnation fosters rebellion.

What you 'Think', GOD THINKS, About YOU! This is a very important tongue twisting concept that can actually alter the course of your life. Whether you're Christian or not, I've never met anyone who didn't have a 'thought' about what they 'think' God thinks or believes about them. That said, based on a divine revelation occurring this morning, I am compelled to deliver this message in a way, today, on this Sagittarius New Moon day, about what you think God thinks about you. We all have great days in our lives where we do a good deed or two, where we're more honest than perhaps on other days, and we deal with our spouse or children & partners with a bit more grace and forgiveness. Basically, we're just having a 'good day'. It's those good days that we feel good about ourselves, and we also feel good about what we think that God is feeling or thinking about us, too---and of course, we're thinking that He's thinking hey, you're doing good today. And then... there are those days when we act out selfishly, perhaps tell a lie, or violate our own convictions relative to something that we promised ourselves and God that we would never ever do again.

It's those days when ---because we are thinking badly about ourselves that we also think God is thinking badly about us, too. What is so interesting here is that it's during these times of thinking either Good or Bad about ourselves, that we actually believe God is thinking just like us! And if you think about this notion, you may even laugh, or at least giggle because ----if God's thoughts about us were based on how we think about ourselves, then God would not be God, our Creator, and able to 'forgive us', because He would 'be us', and God is 'GOD', He is not 'YOU, Me, or Us'---He is not Human. Therefore, God does not think in the way He created our human minds to think. He is GOD & God Loves you, whether you're good or bad.

Now some of you are saying, ok, God is God, but what about Jesus? Wasn't Jesus, God in a Bod? Yes, He is, 'was' as Jesus walked the earth, He was God, incarnate in human form, given all the powers of 'God' by divine right. God created Man in His Image---and His Image "THE MAN WE COULD SEE WALKING AROUND ON EARTH" was Jesus. God created Man, 'Jesus' in the image of a human so that we humans would be able to identify with Him as a Human being, enduring and suffering all the human iniquities and consequences that YOU as a human being are faced with. And thru it all, recognize Him, as a human being, and by virtue of His demonstrating 'Love',  see "GOD" & experience "FORGIVENESS" thru Him.

Nobody ever had to make someone go to church when Jesus was speaking. Ungodly people liked Jesus. It was primarily the Godly people during Jesus' time who had the problem with Him due to his associations with whom they considered 'ungodly' people.

This fact alone reveals how God so loved the world, that He gave His only Begotten Son, to the World as a demonstration of His absolute unconditional love & forgiveness for all human iniquity, and sin. And for one reason, because God created us and 'everything' therefore, His plan and purpose is only to 'reveal Himself' via Love, to all of His creations, and gift us with a choice to remain always in a state of grace via His absolute love is forgiveness.

God's message thru His incarnation as Christ, allowed us then, and continues to allow us today, 2000 years later to 'See' & know Him, regardless who we are. Good, bad or otherwise. When we recognize & accept that God doesn't think or act with human emotion, but accept & rest in the fact that His Love & forgiveness is the only real valuable true gift to us, which will allow us to accept 'ourselves' by choosing to 'love' ourselves as His divine creation, and rectify or 'make right' our human feelings and emotions of feeling bad about ourselves and feeling unforgiveness of ourselves and others.

By understanding ---not interpreting, but understanding & accepting God's true love for us by allowing us to actually 'See Him' and recognize Him as Christ who was the only perfect human being, because He was 'God in a Bod, enduring all that we humans do, (because Christ was human) every day living in this world. And because God saw via His own incarnation as Christ that we as humans need 'HIM' in order to experience His divine LOVE, that He chose to give to us all the powers of Himself enabling us to experience absolute healing, forgiveness, mercy & grace thru the Holy Spirit of His human self, which was 'Christ's resurrection unto Himself.

God who was Christ, on earth, after his 'human death', returned to His actual state of Spiritual Omnipresent perfection, gracefully and mercifully giving us His Holy Spirit and the choice to accept His Holy Spirit as our gift of 'absolute unconditional love, forgiveness, mercy & grace' because He did create us, Human. And He is not there for only 'one of us' or for only those who believe they are 'good', but for all of us, and loves us all equally, regardless of whether we think or believe that we are 'good or bad'.

We are all Bad. And we are all Good. We are all God's creation, and He knows us all, and loves us all exactly the way we are. What we as humans must decide is whether or not, we prefer to remain in a state of condemnation, or accept God's mercy, grace, love & forgiveness. And it is when we come to this decision to accept His grace, and stop thinking that 'God' thinks about us the way WE think about ourselves, that our decision to accept suddenly allows us to surrender our self judgment to GOD, rather than remain in a state of what we believe to be a miserable 'fall from grace' or self ridicule and judgment that will only prevent us from experiencing a close and personal relationship to and with God, in the manner He intended for us to see and recognize by His decision to incarnate as 'Christ' and walk the earth as a visible 'to us' human being----spending more time during His time here on earth with those 'ungodly people' vs. 'godly people'.

Most of us probably consider ourselves more 'ungodly than godly people', which allows us to remain in a state of judgment rather than a state of grace, projecting from a place of divine love. Read Luke 15:1 forward. You will learn that God sees us all 'equally', regardless how we behave, good, bad or otherwise.  Our feelings and thoughts are not 'God's feelings and thoughts'. If for a moment you could actually 'see yourself' as God sees you,  on what you consider to be one of your bad days, you would actually become tearful, crying in amazement at how much you are truly and totally loved. And not for anything you do or don't do, or for what you do, or how you act, but because you are 'God's Creation'. Period. And God only creates that which is good and representative of His Love. And that means YOU----regardless of your behavior.

The prodigal son is the parable or (made up) story about the party nobody wanted to go to. Read it. If it never registered or made sense to you, it will now. Luke 15:1-32

Today's message about 'who God is', allowed me to accept 'myself' ----and when we finally accept 'who we are', we can then accept who God is, and in that---- rest in the 'knowing' that His love is not a license to behave badly, but to see our behaviors that we don't like or are unable to accept within ourselves ---- as those that we dislike in others ----with 'less judgment' and be more accepting, acting toward them, in a spirit of love & forgiveness, rather than 'judgment'.

Enjoy your Sunday and week ahead.

Aloha Love,
Daija

Weekend Astro-Update

The weekend dawns Saturday, with a feeling in the air of embracing abundance. We are in challenging times, & especially during the holidays, when it’s easy to feel challenged about staying on a budget, dealing with less in the IRA and 401K, you certainly don’t want to even think about borrowing from those areas. The trick is to look around you and celebrate all the abundance within our natural resources, still here, surrounding us every day. Life itself is abundant. In the US, things are still in more generously abundant than anywhere else in the world. Celebrate this in your Spirit, offer gratitude.

“Pay special attention to your emotions and in particular to any subconscious assumptions you may have made.”

On Sunday we find Mercury (Communication) working in conjunction with Pluto (Transformation) — a clear indication that your discussions and social events will be very important for you in the upcoming weeks ahead, when. A mystery could be solved, although you may not recognize this until later in the month, during Mercury Retrograde. There’s a certain balance about you as the Moon (Emotions) works with the Sun (Power & Personality) enabling your light to shine, even over the most dark & difficult places. You’re feeling good about your circumstances & within your environment. Take a moment to pay special attention to your partner today, doing so will smooth out any tension.

The work-week launches with a mixed bag of astro-energies & influences as the Moon squares off with Jupiter and Uranus, dancing in harmony with Neptune and Chiron on Monday. It’s also working in conjunction with Mars (Action) planet of initiative, helping you forge ahead even though there’s some resistance to your new ideas. You overcome any stress with strength of Spirit, recognizing that a certain amount of ‘positive tension’ is necessary to actually get the work done & keep it interesting by allowing you to apply your individual creativity.  Seize the week.

Tuesday finds a recurrent of boundaries as the holiday season forges ahead, & romance is looking hot for the day. What boundaries? Budgets still remain one kind of “restriction”, and in relationships, each person sets up their own “parameters.” Once you establish, accept and are able to respect these boundaries, your life goes much more smoothly, allowing you actually, more freedom. Pay special attention to your emotions, avoid  subconscious assumptions. Being presumptuous only creates mind freaks & emotional melt downs, and really how does that help you or your situation? It doesn’t!

Mercury Retrograde on Friday! We’ll talk more about that next week!

I am available this Saturday evening between 8pm & 11pm., pacific.

Enjoy this beautiful holiday season & Saturday Shopping Day!

Aloha Blessings,

Daija

Greetings!! Friday Dec 3rd. 2010
I am available today until 1pm., pacific and
then again this evening between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.
I look forward to hearing from you.

Relationship Tip of the Day:
Is it time to Change, Walk Away, leave it all behind?
Could you be feeling as though you need a change, whether it's in your personal, professional life or romantic relationship? Perhaps you've not been happy or even content for a long time?

Prepare yourself, today, those impinging thoughts of 'moving on' could actually wind you up like the energizer bunny, you are quite prepared, at least intellectually to set yourself 'free', and start a fresh new journey. Your emotions are soon to follow. Remember that there is a process to all things, whether you're ending something or beginning something, or doing both simultaneously, the bottom line is to remember that anything worth having will always have a process involved, and you will need to go thru that process, whether you actually want to or not, if you want 'what you want' to stabilize and become beneficial to your life.

If you're thinking about it---it's time, now to consider your plans especially over the next several weeks while Mercury is Retrograde. Then as soon as Mercury stations direct on the 30th of December...you can then launch your new plans. How perfect is that? A whole new plan, a new life as you launch your fabulous New Year!!

It all begins this weekend.

Looking forward to talking with you.

Aloha blessings,
Daija

Greetings!
I am available today until 1pm., pacific & then again
this evening between 7pm & 10pm., pacific.

Relationship tip of the Day:
If you want 'love', then give 'love'.
Loving someone is a verb, it's in the actions that you take to 'show' the other person that you love them, not just merely 'stating that you do'. In the action of 'giving, showing, & expressing love', to someone, please remember that it's not about how you perceive love, but all about how your partner, or the other person, recognizes and perceives love.

We all have a love language of our own. For some it's words of affirmation, for others it's acts of service, and many people recognize they are loved when their lover, or partner spends quality time with them, and then for some it's special gifts, and finally, there are many people who recognize love in the form of physical touch, (not to be confused with sex).  When 'the person who loves us---and whom we love' expresses their love to us, in 'our particular love language', we are then able to recognize, feel satisfied and secure that we are truly loved.

Ask your partner to tell you what their primary love language is, and you also, let them know yours. Showing someone in their love language, that you love them, will alter the dynamic of your romantic relationship, in many beneficial ways.


I look forward to talking with you soon.

Blessings,
Daija