Declare an adventure day! Dedicate this day to having an adventure. During this day do things you haven't done before, are fun, and allow the world to teach or enlighten. Realize you have nothing to fear by going from the known to the unknown--it is exciting and it feeds the soul!
Available for Calls from 9 a.m. - 10 p.m. CST most days. If showing as unavailable, place a callback to ensure we connect. Watch my main listing for specials throughout the month of October as I will be offering discounted prices and free minutes randomly.
Advisor Lil Mel
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
Valentine’s Day is coming up quickly-a holiday filled with questions of love and romance! Whether you are enjoying a new love, curious about an old flame, or have questions regarding your love life I am here to help you find the answers. In lieu of sending out the typical virtual E-Greeting, I am showing the love with the following Valentine’s Specials:
- Get 15 Percent Off – I will be lowering my per-minute price by 15 Percent Friday, Feb. 13 - Sunday, Feb. 15, 2009. (Price-Per-Minute $3.39)
- Ask Advisor Lil Mel via Email - During Valentine's Weekend (Feb. 13th-15th),
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Psychic Readings by Email
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2 email questions- $25.00 |
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3 email questions- $35.00 |
{As most of you know, due to time constraints, I normally do not offer email readings, so for those who perfer email readings take advantage of this special offer. Email me with your questions and Pay-Per-View will be sent for the appropriate price. Please allow 48 hours for your Email Reading.}
Although you may not need life coaching or consulting services now, but when you do, feel free to contact Advisor Lil Mel here at Keen.com.
Have a wonderful month!
Thank you,
Advisor Lil Mel
Professional Life Coach & Advisor
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- Reduced Listing Price on Main Listing throughout October!
- Just in Time for Halloween! Host a Psychic Telephone House Party and receive a total of 15-Free minutes!! HOW IT WORKS: Arrange a date & time with Advisor Lil Mel--she will reduce her per-minute-price to 2.50 per minute for the duration of the party! Invite 6-10 of your friends or family, put out some snacks & drinks, designate a quiet place for readings, and have a blast! Invite your friends to participate at reduced rate of $2.50 per minute, gather everyone together, call Advisor Lil Mel at the pre-arranged scheduled time (rate will be reduced to $2.50 for the duration of the party) and conduct the readings via the telephone! After the party you will be sent (3) 5-minute readings for FREE! (Minimum of 6 guests required or 60 Minutes of Scheduled Time to Qualify for Reduced Rate! Additionally, reduced rate is for duration of party and with prior arrangements.)
{These specials expire on Oct 31, 2008!}
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Have a wonderfully spooky month!
Thank you,
Melody (Advisor Lil Mel)
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
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Salutations to All!
The great month of October has arrived! This month has not only brought with it a huge front of cool, Canadian air, but also a good amount of that earlier nightfall that relieves those of us who live in fear of the Earth spiraling out of its orbital pattern.
October is, indeed, one of my favorite times of the year; not just because of it’s the month of my eldest child's birth, but because it’s the month of the harvest moon, Homecoming games, Apple-cider, Baseball play-offs and Football broadcasts every weekend. Certainly, if there was a month that I would define as wholly American, it would be October.
And there is nothing more American, or more October-y, than Candy Corn. Although the invention of the candy is shrouded in the shadows of history, the first commercial production of the hallmark corn started in Philadelphia in 1898. Since then, the recipe of sugar, water, and corn-syrup has remained relatively unchanged, and, somehow, has wedged its way into its place as the staple of Halloween hand-outs. (Halloween sales accounts for 75% of the annual production of 20 millions pounds of candy corn—my teeth hurt just thinking about it!)
For those of you who can’t get enough candy corn, there’s plenty of variety associated with various Holidays:
Halloween Candy Corn (White, Orange, Yellow)
Thanksgiving Indian Corn (White, Orange, Brown)
Christmas Reindeer Corn (White, Green, Red)
Valentine’s Day Cupid Corn (White, Pink, Red)
Easter Bunny Corn (Varies between Yellow, Pink, Green, Blue, Purple and White)
I’m surprised they don’t have a Freedom Corn (Red, White, Blue) for July 4th, but, considering Candy Corn’s staying power, I imagine it’s not far off. (Let’s just hope they don’t come up with a President’s Day corn made of Old Hickory, Wooden Teeth, and Teddy Bears). Although I personally hated finding the candy in my trick-or-treat pumpkin-bag, I pay my respects to the great sugar-sweet facsimile of our native cereal staple.
Wishing all a happy, prosperous, and productive October!
Melody (Advisor Lil Mel)
NOTE: I will be available here on Keen to take your calls most days from 9 a.m. - 10 p.m. CST with breaks as needed. As always, if I am showing as not available place a callback and I will sign on as soon as possible to take your call. Additionally, I have lowered my normal price to $3.99 through mid-October as well as giving FREE minutes to all calls lasting a minimum of 15 mintues!
Be it an inspirational quote or a funny one, what's a quote that stuck with you, made you think of something from a different perspective or even just made you smile?
One of my favorite quotes is attributed to a movie, spoken by one of my favorite actors, and made a profound impact on me as a young girl; becoming my motto on ‘life’.
”I won't be wronged, I won't be insulted, and I won't be laid a hand on. I don't do these things to other people and I expect the same from them." ~John Wayne~ (The Shootist)
What's one of your all time favorite quotes?
Please let me know by using the comment link below.
Blessings,
Melody (Advisor Lil Mel)
Advisor Lil Mel is a Life Coach, Author, and Spiritual Advisor. Her private practice includes an Internet outreach program that offers professional coaching, counseling, consulting, and spiritual guidance. She is the author of Sweet Tea for the Soul and Ramblings from the Heart.
One does not reach my age without losing pieces of the heart along the way, however, being the strong southern woman that I am, I have always managed to hold onto my heart; only loaning it out for special occassions!
Well folks, that was until yesterday. I have finally met my match! From the moment he was placed in my arms, my heart truly belonged to him!
My FIRST Grandchild! "Ayden Ray" arrived at 11:43 a.m. yesterday morning, weighs 8 lbs, and 21 1/2 inches long....he has completely captured my heart! Just like his father, my son, he has a headfull of beautiful black hair, a button nose, and all his fingers & toes! And his smile......oh wow, watch out ladies--he is his father's son! :)
Naturally this is an exciting time for all of us...so keep us in your thoughts and prayers. Also, my availability will be sparadic the next few days, but I will do my best to be available for your calls.
As a matter of fact, I will be available for calls this morning and early afternoon, and then again later this evening after yoga class. As always feel free to place a callback to ensure we connect! I look forward to sharing with everyone today!
Blessings...and it truly is a wonderful life I have!
Melody "Lil Mel"
Often in the desire to find or maintain a relationship, many folks fall into the trap of being and doing things which aren't aligned with who they really are. What starts out as a small sacrifice can become a regular habit - giving in to please your partner. To be happy long term, all of us have to not only know ourselves well, but live and act in accordance with our authentic selves.
I call this being "emotionally honest". It sounds easier than it is. We are all conditioned that in order to be happy, we have to be flexible and willing to compromise in a relationship. I was somewhere recently where a woman said the secret to a happy marriage was to let her partner have the final say, to let things go.
I believe there's an important distinction that needs to be made here - it depends on what you are compromising on.
If we compromise on something things that matter deeply to us, we will eventually end up unhappy. If you are single and compromise on a less than ideal partner, the doubt and uncertainty will wear down the intimacy. If you are in a relationship and continually give in on what to you are important issues, you will lose respect and feelings for both yourself and your partner.
That's where emotional honesty comes in. By all means compromise, just not on the big stuff. You can't afford to. Continual half truths or agreements that you aren't happy with leads to resentment, unfulfillment and an erosion of intimacy. Don't think your partner will thank you for it either. Almost always the other person says they would far rather have known the truth at the time.
The idea then, is to know yourself well and follow through on that - make who you are and what you want an intrinsic part of how you behave. Let that be your guide, even if it means short term pain. Be honest with what is going on for you, and be clear with your partner or prospective partner the reasons why. More than anything, being true to yourself is where happiness starts.
When you do that consistently, you're then in a position to start giving and connecting with them from a position of strength and from a happy inner self. "To thine own self be true". Good words to live by.
Melody “Lil Mel”
Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
I will be available to take your calls on Keen throughout the day and evening, with short breaks. If I am on a break, on another call, or showing as unavailable, please use the callback feature to ensure we connect. I look forward to sharing with you today!
I would like to extend my sincere apologies for not being available here on Keen the last few days. I had intended to post an announcement that I was going out of town to work a charity event on Thursday, but time slipped past and I forgot to post the announcement!
The event was hosted in the town of Woodstock IL, a quaint historical town that is known for the filming of the movie Groundhound Day. The town itself was beautiful and the folks friendly and down-to-earth. I was treated to a stay at the Bundling Bed & Breakfast--absolutely adorable accomendations and the host was very accomendating, attentive, and a great cook! The event went very well with a turn out even bigger than we anticipated! Hosted by Courthouse Bar & Grill, once the jail and courthouse. If you are ever in Woodstock IL please check it out--the building itself has a very interesting history, a few spirits, and great food & service! We surpassed our set goals and a good time was had by the guests and vendors alike. However, after conducting nonstop mini-readings and signing books non-stop for 6 hours in one sitting I was totally wiped out! I returned home yesterday but took the evening off to recharge!
I will be available for calls here on Keen throughout the rest of the weekend with short breaks in between. If I am showing unavailable, please feel free to place a callback to ensure we connect!
I look forward to talking with you this weekend,
Melody "Lil Mel"
It is common in this profession to get the age-old question, "when will I meet 'the one'", or "when will he/she be back?", or "can you tell when my next relationship will be?". Then as we tune into the situation, either using a tool or not, 'the one' does not show up!
As I try to keep my readings to project no more than 6 months out, often times 'the one' does not appear in the reading! Or perhaps the reading reveals very little in the area of romance/relationships but shows other things. How many readers and clients have this happen?
Does this mean that the reader is not accurate in picking up the situation? No, not at all. In many cases 'the one' isn't just around the corner or the 'past lover' will not be back around in a timely manner. Most often than not, the client has work to do in order to prepare and open themselves up to the possibilities of romance, love, and relationships.
For example, a client calls me and wants to know when she will meet 'the one'... as the reading unfolds it is revealed that said client's life currently revolves around work & home--period! No socialization, no outside activities, very little friendships outside the occassional lunch shared with a co-worker. Now I am a true believer in divine intervention, but let's be real, unless one is actively living life and out & around, heartmates and/or dates do not suddenly appear on our doorstep!
For the clients that request these type of readings and do not get the results they long for; look around...
Is there something you should be doing to change the course of events? Look inward--is there unresolved issues that may be blocking you from meeting healthy partners? Are you truly involved in living life and open for what the universe brings to you?
For the advisors who have those readings when 'the one' is no where in sight; be truthful with the client and be prepared to look and see what the client can do to change the situation.
Remember folks, nothing is carved in stone and we are here to help enlighten and bring insight into your lives--it is up to you to live them! :)
I will only be available this morning and afternoon for Keen calls. I will be traveling this evening so I won't be able to take calls or reply to emails until tomorrow. Please feel free to place a callback to ensure we connect.
Have a wonderfully blessed today!
Melody "Lil Mel"
Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
As stated in my previous post, I am out of town until Friday. However, I will be signed on for calls this morning and afternoon as I am able. Additionally, I will sign on for calls tomorrow in the morning and afternoon.
For those interested in hearing how my reunion is going thus far, please refer to my comments on previous post.
Have a wonderful day and I hope to connect with many of you this morning and afternoon!
Blessings,
Melody "Lil Mel"
Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
Many cases I deal with in my practice deal with break-ups, breaks, separations, and two people destined to travel different paths for a period of time. Whether it is a soul mate, twin flame, heart mate, romantic interest or otherwise, there are times in our lives when someone we care for deeply has to leave our lives and travel a different path.
At this point we have several choices, we can literally 'sit & wait', pining away for something that we know in our hearts and gut is 'meant to be'; placing our life on hold and live in a vaccum until destiny brings him/her back again.
Or we can trust in the workings of the universe, detach from the situation, get busy with living our lives, and know that when the time is right we may have the chance again to reunion and travel once again with our heartmate.
By doing so, moving forward, we are opening ourselves up to a multitude of opportunities in all areas of our lives. You may even meet someone new and fall in love, travel the journey of life with them for a period of time, or even build a new life with them. As there are no random acts and everyone crosses our paths for a reason, the possibilities are endless!
As for me personally...
It has been more than 15 years since someone I felt was part of my destiny choose to travel a different path and left my life to create one of his own. Although it took quite some time to heal and begin the process of living life again (as I truly felt destined to be with this person), I gradually practiced what I teach and moved on with my life. In the past 15 years I managed to go back to school, earning several degrees, raised my children, finished a military career; I even met and fell in love with a wonderful man I had planned to marry! Although my plans to marry were cut short via a fuel tanker truck on a dark road late one night, the memories left in my heart have forever changed me. I have grown and evolved so much these past 15 years--as it should be!
Present day: I have since reconnected with my love from the past. After a vast amount of conversations, readjusting our schedules, and talking through our fears--I will be leaving today to meet him face-to-face for the first time in 15 years!
While I do not know what the future holds....ok, I have some idea as I am psychic and have an awesome personal reader...I am excited to be setting forth on what is to be yet another part of my destiny.
I share this portion of my personal life with you today, simply to remind everyone that things really do happen as they are meant to be, and to sit and wait for something to happen is to be stagnate and interfers with growth and happiness.
Additionally to let everyone know that I will not be available for calls today or tomorrow. I will accept callbacks on Wednesday & Thursday during the day as he will be at work during those times.
If time allows I will pop on the blog to up date everyone.....:)
Have a wonderful blessed day!
Melody "Lil Mel"
When you are a mother, you are never really alone in your thoughts. A mother always has to think twice, once for herself and once for her child. ~Sophia Loren, Women and Beauty
Happy Mother's Day to all the mothers out there...Enjoy your special day with your mother and/or family!
Blessings
Melody "Lil Mel"
I will be available for your calls throughout the morning and early afternoon then I will be joining my family for an outing. If time allows I will sign back on later this evening for calls--look forward to connecting with you today. If I am showing as unavailable or alert, please place a callback to ensure we connect!
Dear Readers,
It has been quite some time since I have posted a Keen blog. My only excuse is that I simply have not been able to find the time to post a decent blog. Due to expansion of services provided in my business, my schedule and availability have underwent some changes. Having said that, it has become necessary to make adjustments to my availability here on Keen as well.
Starting March 28, 2008 my normal Keen availability will be as follows:
TUES - THURS 10 a.m. - 1 p.m.
And 6 p.m. - 11 p.m. CST
FRIDAY - MONDAY (hit or miss/mostly evenings)
I will do my best to sign on for Keen calls during these stated hours, however, it may not always be possible. For those times I am showing as 'unavailable for calls', please feel free to place a callback and I will do my best to take your call as soon as I am available.
I do not want to lose touch with any of my Keen clients, so feel free to drop me a note once in awhile to let me know how things are going for you. I will be checking my Keen mail daily, but may take a few days to respond to emails.
Have a wonderful Easter!
Thank you,
Melody "Lil Mel"
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
"It's almost Valentine's Day and love is in the Air. But it's nothing a little disinfectant can't take care of!"
I just love that old gal Maxine!
For those who may need some insight or clarity into a love situation, I will be available normal hours this weekend & next week. Let’s work together to see what is in store for you.
Melody “Lil Mel”
Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
**NOTE**
My normal hours are 10am-1pm CST and 6 - 11 pm with breaks as needed. If you see I am unavailable, please place a callback to ensure we connect.
Welcome to what should be a dynamic, event-filled week. With Mercury turning retrograde yesterday and Mars turning direct on the 30th , we are heading into an interesting period. Now is the time to prepare to leap without looking! Begin this week by reviewing ideas, plans, and recent events as Mercury turns retrograde. WIth Mars turning direct tomorrow, the 30th, you will notice things that have stalled or been on the back burner suddenly start to snowball.
With Mercury in Aquarius you can be certain to experience plenty of exciting conversations. This Mercury Rx is an excellent time to think outside of the box—leaving old and outdated concepts behind. You will have additional support from Mars in Gemini, giving you the energy and support you need. Be careful not to act prematurely as you may end up ahead of yourself!
If you discover you need help navigating the topsy-turvy climate created by these two major planetary shifts, I am available to help see your way through the chaos. Although my availability on Keen as of late as been rather hit & miss, I will do my best to sign on for Keen calls during normal hours this week--especially if I see you have placed a callback.
Let’s work together to open your mind and help you make decisions wisely and with ease.
Melody “Lil Mel”
Melody "Lil Mel" McGowan
Life Coach, Author, & Professional Advisor
Let Your Heart Heal Life Coaching
**NOTE**
My normal hours are 10am-1pm CST and 6 - 11 pm with breaks as needed. If you see I am unavailable, please place a callback to ensure we connect.