To simply answer this, we can state that the reason why they love you is how you make them feel. However, Einstein said; ‘make everything as simple as possible, but not simpler.’ Therefore we want to reduce everything to the simplest explanation but not leave out essential details:
So how is it, that You can make someone feel love for you? In some cases you merely have to be yourself i.e that complex collection of physical attributes and personality traits that is the essence of you.
Other times an effort is involved. So begins a short series on how to gain and keep the love of a significant other.
Let us start with compliments. Everyone is fore mostly tuned to that personal radio station that broadcasts the wants and needs of our Egos and Ids (reference Freud). Therefore, we constantly think about what we want and how we look and how others perceive us. So, if want to compliment someone make it a specific one and make it sincere (and devoid of innuendos - this is part of the flirting tip). This way they will be sincerely grateful for your attention. In other words, keep it real!
Look forward to other love tips between now and Valentine's Day.
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