RELATIONSHIPS..SOUL MATES..SOUL CONTRACTS...

WAS IT REAL OR FLING??

SOMETIMES MANY OF US EXPERIENCE  AT LEAST ONCE IN A LIFETIME A RELATIONSHIP WHERE WE MEET SOMEONE, HAVE EXTREME ENERGY AND CHEMISTRY, BECOME LOVERS AND THEN WITHIN WEEKS HE/SHE IS NO WHERE TO BE FOUND..
THIS PROFOUND ATTRACTION AND CHEMISTRY USUALLY WITHERS OUT AS SOON AS WE GET USED TO THE PERSON. THERE IS NO ACTUAL SUBSTANCE TO IT BECAUSE IT WAS ALL CHEMISTRY AND NOT SPENDING THE TIME TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER BETTER.  RELATIONSHIPS LIKE THIS USUALLY HURT ONE PARTNER MORE THAN THE OTHER  AND LEAVES YOU STANDING THERE NOT UNDERSTANDING WHAT ACTUALLY HAPPENED.
MY ADVICE IS TO TRY TO GET TO KNOW THE PERSON BETTER,ASK QUESTIONS, SEE WHAT THEIR LIVES ARE REALLY LIKE AND TRY TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP BASED ON FRIENDSHIP, NOT LUST. IT IS USUALLY THE LUSTY RELATIONSHIPS THAT DON'T LAST. MEN AND WOMAN ALIKE ARE ALWAYS FOOLED BY THE CHEMISTRY THINKING THIS MUST BE THE ONE. BUT IN REALITY IT IS A HURTFUL PASSING OF TIME

posted Sunday, February 12, 2012 3:16 PM by AskMaria | 0 Comments

WHAT ARE SOUL MATES????

You have had many soul mates on this journey, and they came in many shapes and sizes and this is my humble attempt at putting them into words which make sense to me and hopefully will do the same for you. SOULMATES are THE SPECIAL PEOPLE in our lives… People who we have shared previous lives with, who we have loved, and helped and strove towards understanding and bonding with. Soul mates are People who when we meet, we feel a connection, a rapport and a sense of familiarity. We feel comfortable with these people and the relationship we share is usually on a POSITIVE LEVEL. While you may experience some friction and a few problems the negativity is easily resolved and, once understood, serves to help both of you to learn identical lessons.

posted Monday, November 30, 2009 1:22 PM by AskMaria | 1 Comments