It is difficult to change in life and doing so without your special soul love can be pure anguish. Are there ways to get through this time and remain productive and at peace? YES!!  Here are several very helpful WING tips to getting through that "in the meantime" space and other difficutlies that soul love relationships frequently present:

Begin with Understanding

Take time to HONESTLY look deep within. Identify the ties between you and your special other....understanding the nature of the energy connection that has drawn you together in this time and space is a very important first step toward dealing with the relationship and its many phases. Simply Understanding why all htis is happening can help a lot!

In the process of connecting to this intense love...that love at first sight connection....questions invariably arise. It is important to identify them and address them. A real understanding of the whys of the connection can lead to greater peace, more skill in navigating through difficult times over the course of the relationship and leads you to a more peaceful place.  Typical questions include:

1. Why did we meet?

2. Why do I have such a feeling over overhwelming love for this person I just met ?

3. Is this intense feeling my imagination?

4. How does he/she feel ?

Depending upon your spiritual perspectives and beliefs, the search for these esoteric answers can lead you in a number of different directions. Here are several that work:

Astrology

There are a number of astrology charts that can provide insight about the connection between you and your love.

Techniques that are especially helpful include the analysis of a synastry chart. This chart compares your birth chart to your love's birthchart, analyzing the different ways that your energy touches.

A first meeting chart is another effective tool to help determine why the two of you met. In the hands of a talented astrologer both charts can help identify issues that may arise in the relationship as well as karmic or past life ties between you.

Psychic Readings

stay tuned...........

You wake up and the sun is shining. Your pet is curled next to you relaxed and happy to see you. As you stretch and think about your day you realize that it isn't quite so sunny...the day has a gray cast to it. You sink back into the pillows.

Why?  Because of that familiar pit in your stomach and the sense that today is another day without your true love....that feeling that there is a piece missing, an unfulfilled emptiness reminds you. Another day of waiting.....wishing....hoping that you and your love will reconnect. Suddenly the day feels a bit cloudy and sad. 

Seem familiar? This can be all too real when we suffer from the Brad Pitt Syndrome.  In short, there is a deep longing for merger with that special soul who is not able to play that role in your life at this time. The frustrated desire to share a life with this person and the loneliness when apart can bring anguish and despair. Add to that the fact that we are powerless to make it happen and we find ourselves in the throws of the Brad Pitt Syndrome... our heart seeks no other conclusion. 

Managing the Syndrome

There is no cure for this life situation. The good news is that it does have a beginning and an ending. It does NOT last forever. One can simply treat the symptoms and work hard to alleviate the torment it often brings. The key while in the midst of this situation however is to see that there is a lesson and there is a growth opportunity here for your soul. This is not God's way of tormenting you even though it can sooooooo feel that way.

I know you are thinking..... as you roll those baby blues...oh noooo, not the soul lesson thing again. I know you are tired of growing as a soul...and learning life lessons...BUT...KNOW that because of its deep origin and ability to touch pure, raw emotion, the lesson of the Brad Pitt Syndrome may be the most important one of all.

In the following I offer my tips, tidbits, and wisdoms about how to best manage the Brad Pitt Syndrome!! Stay-tuned..........more on the way  :O))))))))))))

Having been a reader of relationship energies for some time, I have noted that there are a number of behavior patterns that are consistent given the energy of the soul in this lifetime. One I find most fascinating of all is what I have labelled the "Brad Pitt Syndrome".  Are you dealing with this syndrome? Take the test and find out :)

Just answer the following questions honestly and scroll down for the results:

True or False:

1. You felt an instant and intense connection when you met the object of your love.

2.  You feel the connection at the level of the solar plexus..at times as a wonderful tingling feeling and at other times as a pain or pit in the stomach.

3. You are experiencing a distance or separation from your love at this time and/or have in the past.

4. You cannot seem to detach from the energy and feel it as strongly now as you did when you met.

5. You believe deep down that you and your love are desitned to be together in this life.

6. Other people tell you you are wasting your time and need to move on to a new situation.

7. You have tried but have no desire to be with another.

8. You never felt this way about another person ay any time in your life.

9. Your mind says one thing about this connection and your heart says another.

10. You are beginning to feel as though it is all your imagination or that you are just "crazy".

11. This person's energy seems to haunt you. It is with you 24/7 including in your dreams.

12. Obstacles in the form of other people and situations seem to pop up again and again and block or inhibit the relationship progress.

13 You are able to overlook and forgive negative actions in the relationship in favor of keeping the bond.

14  The lack of this person in your life brings an overall emptiness to your days and the presence of this person in it changes the color of your world.

15. Even though your love is away from your physical life you know that he or she will return and all will be well again.

16. If Brad Pitt was on the phone asking you out you would pass because of a complete lack of interest in anyone but the object of your love.

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Tally up the number of true vs false answers to the above questions. If you answered true to 6 or more of these statements you have the Brad Pitt syndrome. Just what does that mean?

In my work I invariably talk to people who are so connected and in love with a another that all other potential love partners fade and life takes on a different color. The Brad Pitt syndrome appears exclusively in fated or karmic love ties.The bod is real. The tie is strong and tends to bind two people for good or for ill in this lifetime.

If you are fortunate enough to have the person active in your life and working on your connection, then you are indeed very fortunate. You then experience the upside of the Brad Pitt syndrome...the joy of connecting deeply with another soul and feeling that connection both in the soul and in your daily life.

On the flip side, losing that person ...whether for a week, a month or three years is pure anguish and brings a gray tone to your days. The fear of losing this person completely can be paralyzing at times.

The soulmate connection we dream of in reality can be very difficult and emotionally draining as the initial joy turns to a time when karma from the past must be burned by the soul. What typically happens is that the Saturnine or heavier energy of these love ties appears a bit later and tests the strength of the love connection and forces the love nature of each soul to grow and expand. The timing of these connections is driven by the universe and there is often little the individual can do to change its course.

While these ties can be very challenging they result in a far-reaching amount of soul growth and were chosen by each soul before entering this life.  Ultimately each person is forever changed at a deep level regardless of the finsl outcome.

How to Deal With the Energy of This Powerful Connection

Here are a few tips on how to best handle the energy of this love tie....a way to see it to its natural conclusion without losing yourself and your mid in the process:

Stay tuned of the solutions!.....

A Psychic Weather Report

I read and predict events using my ability to tune in to the energy field of the individual seeking a reading and then connecting it to the energy the universe is sending to the individual at the same time. It is not unlike a weather report!

Universal Energy can be positive, light, inspiring and beautiful but it can also be heavy, gray or just bland. In any form it always offers a purpose, a reward or a challenge to the individual soul. The effect the energy from above has on each soul below has to do with the indiviual soul's personal energy pattern and the soul's desires in this lifetime. 

Feelings Are a Form of Energy

Every thought and feeling a person experiences creates energy. It is the basis for the popular philosophy of "The Secret".  I was born with antennae of sorts that allow me to see and read the energy between two people, the energy around a career matter and in a general way life events. Timing of events is also a function of energy,,,as the energy around the soul peaks and wanes so does the soul's reaction to the energy

Energy changes are a key component of predicting life events. In essence what I see is how the soul is responding to the energy from within and from outside itself. We swim in a sea of energy and ther energy of tomorrow is in process roday. This energy is in creative form and shows the potential action of the individual. 

My Reading Style

When I read I focus on the numbers of your birthdate and then see symbols in my mind which I then interpret and relay to you when you ask for a reading. I psychically see events manifesting and see dates as well. Sometimes I receive an image of a person in my mind or hear a voice in response to your question. I also use my clairvoyance when I read. This ability to see future events together with my ability to read energy results in a reading that is especially powerful and accurate.

Energy Doesn't Lie

Energy does not have feelings. It simply exists in many shapes and sizes. For this reason reading energy brings greater clarity than reading what a person thinks and feels psychically. Feelings vacillate and change color...like a fingerprint or a snowflake, each energy has its own pattern and that pattern does not change...It is therefore an effective tool for seeing beyond the present and for looking deep into the outcomes of given situations.

Sylph Energies.....My Unique Gift 

The Tools of the Trade

There are so many ways that sensitives and psychic readers conduct readings as illustrated by the many unique and talented readers on KEEN. Some use tools such as tarot or pendulums. Others connect as mediums and through spirit guides while astrology is a tool of power in the hands of the gifted as well.

Some readers guide rather than predict, others relay messages that are especially meaningful to you, some predict the immediate future and others see further into the future.

Its All About the Energy

All of these tools and talents share the common thread that they attempt to connect us to the Divine, to the unseen, the non-physical, that which has yet to arrive in physical form or simply that which always has and always will exist in non-physical form. Simply put it is all about energy.

The best psychics on Earth are those who can connect with, understand and communicate with the energy of Spirit via a pure connection. Whether that is through cards or a Spirit guide it is the nature of the connection and the purity, power and ability of the vehicle transmitting the energy that makes the difference in the result.

Like Goldfish in a Bowl 

Why does that particular tarot card land in the outcome spot at that precise moment in time? Why does the pendulum stop when it does and point to a certain answer? Why does a message pop into a medium's mind? Through an exchange of ENERGY... energy of the universe that is ever changing, ever moving.... as your energy seeks the connection.

Visualize it as though we are swimming in this ocean of life stuff ...it is forever around us and before us and forever changing. It looks like "air" or empty space but is packed full of life stuff...prana...and always changing its shape and form.  

We swim together in this limitless pool of energy. We are goldfish in the bowl and energy responds to our energy and takes shape around us. New energy enters the bowl but we are all surrounded by it always changing and creating that which we know as life. Sometimes the energy is explosively basic and clear in a physical primitive way such as with an event like an earthquake. 

But our developed and less primitive self connects to the finer more spiritual energies....those that respond to a fine and higher vibratory energy pattern and then we enter the world of the psychic and the world of the sublime.

A Way Back to the Source...to God

Whether we wish to connect with a lost loved one, find out when we will meet our life love, or learn more about exciting career opportunities our spiritual self reaches out to reconnect with the Source in our wish to anticipate life changes, calm fears, and find joy. 

Psychics simply have a way to the Source that is fine tuned and developed and each reader, guide or medium has a special way of connecting. Each reader's ability varies and much like a radio... each reader's ability to connect with and tune-in to the right channel without letting in a lot of static and interference also varies significantly. The level of spiritual development, purity of their own energy and purpose for the work also has much to do with the quality of the energy connection.

Psychics Throughout Time

The three wisemen were astrologers and also the psychic readers of their time. Nostradamus was a gifted physician and a psychic visionary concerned with events on a global scale. John Edwards connects with loved ones who have crossed over helping their loved ones to heal with his work. Psychics have played important roles in human life throughout time and are the bringers of new planetary energy that creates change and opportunities for each of us.

Edgar Cayce who most agree was the best psychic who ever lived conducted his voluminous readings in a total trance state. He was a pure channel and relied totally upon his personal secretary to record the questions asked and answers he gave during readings because he had no recall.  His super-sensitive being and fine tuned mind created a pure channel to Spirit. 

His great faith in God and the need to help others drove him to conduct more readings than any other known psychic. This intense reading method and dedication did in fact shorten his life. Because of the great stress the numerous readings he gave placed on his heart and physical energy, his work ultimately shortened his Earthly life as doctors warned.  

Edgar when in a trance was directly connected to Spirit in a way not seen since his death. Again, it's all about the energy...of the psychic/channel and the universe!

My Way of Reading and How I am Unique

Stay-tuned next very cool and very personal piece about Wing soon to follow..............  :)

Dear Wing....................

Hi!  I recently told my boyfriend that I needed time out from him because so much was going on in our lives. Do you think I did the right thing and how does he feel about it?  Does he love me still?

A and K  - "Outer Events vs Inner Needs"

ANSWER:

Dear A....

We have all experienced times when despite our best efforts to be with another person, "life" has a way of intruding. Obstacles in the form of events and people seem to appear from nowhere, shifting our focus from being a couple to making it through the week. When reality intrudes in a significant way causing a pattern of difficulties it is often an indication that the "time is simply not right".

In this case, the energy between you and K has the distinct feeling of carrying lessons. This situation may require that two people take a break or separate in order to focus personal energy on events that would otherwise be destructive to our basic needs and desires as individuals. Nonetheless, the events represent growth the soul has chosen for this lifetime and at this time. The energy that brought you together also triggered the seemingly random events.

Two loving souls often agree in advance of a lifetime to help each other work through energy that challenges each of us as we enter a certain point in the life path. This is the case between you and K. Was your decision right? Yes, because the path and the intent was clear. Energy for the relationship receded and the need to address real life events gained ground.

Does he love you? Yes. Does it mean he will be back in your life ?  The potential for return is there but not until each of you has conquered the lessons that you joined together to solve...making inner changes which reflect in positive external events surrounding you both as individuals and as a couple.

In this case, the energy shows me that K is still on the learning curve and encountering issues that are keeping him in a pattern not unlike that which separated you. Continue to focus on your energy and your life goals thus allowing the new future to present itself....with him or another soul love. What you did took courage ...Bravo!

I predict that another individual will enter the picture who is loving, interested and on the same timeline. A choice will be involved. Above all remember that when souls enter our lives ushering in challenging times they bring us the blessings of soul growth and development which ultimately lead us to our greatest love and joy in this life and a gift the truly lasts forever! :)

Hope this helps!

Love and Light, ASTRO Wing

Wing Tips: Healing Your Broken Heart
 

Entering the Void...Each of us has experienced heartbreak...the crushing pain of missing another, losing precious hopes and dreams. Let's not overlook the deep void, the loneliness, rejection and pain of separating from love. 

Every human being has a basic desire for a deep enduring love. Each of us also loves in a unique way...a reflection of an individual's soul energy, life path and life lessons. Despite the different nature of love in each life, the beautiful tapestry love weaves is created by threads common to us all.

Positive Ways to Deal With a Break-Up

1. Tell yourself "I am the prize" aloud 15 times a day everyday!

2.Write a letter to your ex, say all you wish to say just as if he/she were sitting across the room. Then burn it, toss the ashes into the breeze and

Get Control of Your Relationships

....The majority of calls I receive involve questions about the future of a love connection or the likelihood of meeting a true love. Relationships challenge us all as we try to balance our needs with the needs of another. Sometimes in the desire for the lover we dream of, we become involved in a relationship that ultimately takes away power and leads to imbalance.

One partner becomes the needy one or the one who seems to care more. At times such power struggles define the love connection and issues of anger and control appear. Shopping for outcomes is another common difficulty because it takes away from a person's ability to enjoy the present.

 

Drama Can Be Damaging....The creation of too much drama in a relationship is another common difficulty in love connections. The key to the tackling of these issues is for partners to be aware of their behavior patterns and motivations. Once identified active change can turn the relationship toward its natural path.  Very frequently relationships become stuck in certain patterns. 

 

Roles Become Addictive...Over time individuals assume established roles and these begin to define the relationship. For example, he has issues with commitment and creates distance from his love and she in an attempt to stop the distancing becomes clingy because her abandonment fears are triggered by the behavior. This upsets him and he acts more distant, intensifying the fear she feels and a toxic circle develops.

 

Another example is the situation in which one person feels the other doesn't care enough, becomes hurt and begins to resent the partner. This leads to more disagreements and drama, often in a passive-agressive way. But instead of stepping back and recognizing the energy at work and their roles in the drama, they unconsciously make choices to "get even" through hurtful behaviors, withhold affection or they fight, makeup and continually repeat the process. In time this behavior becomes a habit and an addiction that is difficult to stop.

 

New Approaches ...This is the time for one person to step back, assess the dynamics operating and change, one step at a time. A few guidelines to consider:

 

... You cannot change your lover's behavior but any change in your behavior changes your lover's attitude and actions.

... If you have been clinging, let go. If you are taking on the role of the victim, take steps to regain your personal power.

... If your partner needs space, give it to him with love. Respect his needs because that's what love is all about.

... In angry situations, stay calm and do not become involved in battles with your partner. Try rising above the issue and above all listen and validate what your partner feels.

Changing your energy and how you react in a given situation will automatically change how your partner reacts to you and creates new, healthier ways of relating.

 

Destiny? ... There are times in life when we meet a fated love. In these situations the dynamics can be very different. Often, each partner has a life lesson that is triggered by the other. These relationships involve a strong spiritual bond. This bond is the universe's way of connecting two souls and keeping both together despite difficulties so lessons are learned and understood.

This bond also enhances the likelihood of success but these ties require extra patience and an ability to listen to each other. Recognizing the reason why souls are together can lesson difficulties and begin growth through healing.

 

How much do you know about the dynamics of a love relationship?

 

Take the Test...  True or False?

1. Your relationships teach you more about yourself. The reflection or energy directed back to you by your partner helps you grow and see hidden aspects of your own personality. 

 

2. That which you want to change most in your partner represents that energy which your soul seeks to change in this life.

 

3. When you, even at very deep level,don't want to make a commitment, you will attract a partner who wants a serious relationship and greater intimacy.

 

 

4. You choose who will become your partner through the Law of Attraction (like attracts like)

 

5. Lies can lead to a lack of intimacy in a relationship.

 

6. Openness and effective communication is the result of your ability to love yourself.

 

7. When people in your life keep telling you that you are being used by another it is a sign that you should remove yourself from the relationship, separating from the one you love.

 

8. Once you break up with your partner, there is little chance you will reconnect.

 

9. For some people, receiving love is more difficult that giving it.

 

10. There is a fine line between self-sacrifice and unconditional love.

ANSWERS 

1. True  2. True  3. False 4. True 5. True  6. True  7. False  8. False. 9. True 10. True

 

These guidelines apply to all relationships in our lives so why not get a jump on spring and tune-up your relationships? To gain clarity and change the dynamics of love relationships in your life, Call me!    

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White Light and Snowflakes

Journal Entry... I had another vivid dream about my mother. It was a warm and happy dream but as it continued I had the growing realization that I would need to say "Good-Bye" to her.  All seemed happy but suddenly in the dream I felt an overwhelming sense of dread.

I saw my mother standing at the bottom of the hill, in her winter coat, the beige one with the white pile collar. I ran down the hill screaming her name loudly, knowing in an instant that she was leaving and not coming back. I screamed her name in my head.

Asleep or Awake? I woke up at that precise instant, jolted awake. I sat straight up in bed. My eyes were wide open but I blinked in disbelief to convince myself that I wasn't still sleeping. Why? Because, I simply could not believe my eyes.

The ceiling was covered by a bright white light with a beautiful pink center. I blinked my eyes several times again in disbelief but realized without question that my eyes were open, that I was awake and seeing the light.

Seeing the Light Over my head glowed this beautiful light forming in a fine filigree pattern.... "like a snowflake" I thought. Or a mandala alive with love. It was large, spanning most of the bedroom ceiling. The light twinkled, tinkerbell style. At its center was an irridescent, shimmering pink light, ethereal and lovely. I heard the phrase "oh the pink light is so very beautiful" in my mind as it drew me into its energy...powerful and very loving.

A Snowflake? It reminded me of the patterns Christmas tree lights make when they reflect and glimmer on a ceiling. An image from my childhood came to mind, the look created when Christmas lights reflect on newly fallen snow. I was mesmerized and felt amazingly content and loved in the presence of the light. It shimmered for quite a long time and then simply faded away.

Its light alone would have woken me if its energy had not. It lit the dark room and covered most of the ceiling. I was shocked but exhilirated and happy as I ran downstairs to my kitchen. The clock showed the time of 4:30 am.

The Door Opened.. Little did I know at the time that the heavenly light would reappear not just once but several times. My door to the spirit world had been ajar throughout my life but that evening it opened wide. For me, its arrival marked the beginning of many more visions and greater focus on my psychic abilities.

Love, WING

Could people we know be deva spirits in human form?

AAhhhhhhh choooo!  Today the allergy season hit full force proclaiming that spring is in the air. I am sensitive to pollen and many airborne allergens and know many people suffer like me. This led me to a place of thinking and dreaming (and sneezing). Also today was my mother's birthdate and my thoughts drifted into the past. I try to capture images and even recall my mother's voice and face but it is difficult for her spirit left this plane many years ago. 

After well over a year on a waiting list some time ago, I had a reading with a well-known psychic/metaphysician who specializes in the reading of current and past life soul energy. She currently has three published books and tours the globe giving lectures.

I know I'm strange but during our first reading she told me I am a sensitive and the air of Earth is too heavy for me. She told me that I have a fear of being on this planet and that I agreed to come in this life to help others raise their vibrations in preparation for entry to the Aquarian Age.