I'm certain that everyone reading this has in some way or another heard of The Law of Attraction. The Law of Attraction says that our thoughts (both conscious and unconscious) dictate the reality of our lives. In essense, if you really want something and truly believe it's possible, then you'll create the reality of it in your life. However, what people don't realize is that by putting a lot of attention or thought into something you DON'T want means that you'll also attract that into your life.
All thoughts create a feeling. All feeling is what creates the energy that turns into the “magnet” to which we attract into our lives. Therefore, for manifestation purposes it’s very important to be aware of our thoughts, both positive and negative.
Fear and worry are very powerful feelings. If we allow your thoughts of fear and worry to create an uneasy emotion within us, then that is exactly what we will draw into our lives. Un-Ease. When you have un-ease within then you are not alligning yourself with the positive things you wisht to attract. For instance, say you are manifesting a new car into your life. You send out the thoughts and feelings of wanting a new vehicle. However, soon you start to worry, ok, what if I get a new car then I get laid off tomorrow and can't pay for it? Worrying about the "what if's" in this case just mis-aligned you with your intention. It's as though you've sent a mixed message to the Universe and now the Universe has no idea, if in fact you truly want the intention you send out there.
Aligning yourself prefectly with your intentions is the key to manifestation. By being aware of your thoughts you can indeed master this alignment process. It’s a matter of paying attention to where your thoughts flow, and the feelings those thoughts create within you. When you’re feeling upset or un-easy inside try to trace to what thoughts you have going on that create this un-ease. Once you’re able to pinpoint those thoughts, then make a conscious effort to change or turn around those thoughts.
One way of working with this is before you truly set your intention, imagine yourself living it first. Take a short trip into your mind and imagine as if you already have what it is you’re manifesting into your life. Take special note during your trip as to how having what you want makes you feel. If you feel any type of mixed emotions, fear or second thoughts into what you’re manifesting, then you need to adjust what it is you’re wanting to attract. Keep doing this until the object of your desire creates only positive feelings.
Let’s say you set your intentions on a brand new Mercedes-Benz SLR Roadster with a sticker price of $495,000.00. Imagine yourself owning it. Would you be worry free and happy with this? Would you be worried everytime you drove it that you’d get a scratch or a ding or would the thought of that car payment every month give you that small sick feeling in the pit of your stomach? These emotions are exactly what will tell the Universe NO, I don’t really want this in my life. Perhaps you should downgrade your desire a bit to something that is in the range of $30,000.00 then. Try that on for size and see how it feels. If that brings feelings of ease within, then you are learning to align yourself with your intention. Thus giving the Universe a crisp, clear signal of exactly what you want. I know this is an exagerated example, but you get my point of placing yourself into the scenerio before you begin your manifestation.
Now that you’ve learned to watch your thoughts and pay attention to the emotions they create you can align yourself with only those thoughts that bring positive balance and ease within. If it takes a few times tweaking or changing those intentions, that’s fine too. The key is to create the alignment by having only positive feelings attached to what it is you’re manifesting. Once you have that total alignment, hold on tight, cause the Universe has a way of working very quickly!
Happy Manifesting!
Often time we find ourselves the victim of the “Rewind Button”.
We as humans have perfected the ability to go back in time. When I say this what I mean is our ability to allow our thoughts to continually dwell in the past. The past pain and suffering, the past glories and achievements anything really that has already occurred in which allows us to wrap our minds around and cling to.
If you truly think about it, when we go back in our thoughts of things that happened, whether good or bad, it creates some type of emotion. That emotion is then transferred to the present in which we feel it. The result, for all intense and purposes is a counterfeit emotion. It’s an imposter, whether it makes us feel good or bad in the present time. It’s not a true reflection of what is our current reality. It’s a mirror image of something that is no longer an existence that we allow to reflect on us now
The past is NO-thing, it has no reality in the present. It is gone, it is over. The only true reality is NOW. We give so much of our energy to our thoughts drifting to the past. Creating those emotions over and over again. What happened that cause the pain is over. It can no longer hurt you. The only thing that is hurting you is your ability to hit that rewind button and play that pain from the past over and over in your head.
Consider this. What if everyday you woke up with amnesia. No memory or thoughts of anything at all from the previous days. You would have no pain or suffering to refer back to. You wouldn’t remember anything from the days before that can cause you to hurt today. This analogy goes to prove, that most, if not all, of the hurt we carry is from issues that really, in reality, no longer exist.
You are in the now. This is where you exist. So live in the present mind, body and soul. Don’t allow yourself to hit that rewind button. It’s as simple of being aware of when you’re doing it. Get in the healthy habit of watching your thoughts. The moment you feel your mind slip back to the past, say. “No, I’m living in today, I won’t allow the past to create how I feel NOW”. Be your own thought watcher. Live in today and allow the beauty of the present to create your life NOW.
Peace, Love and Serenity,
Kathy
Aka brigitwhispers
© Copyright 2009
It's very difficult when someone walks away from a relationship. Especially when one of the 2 people feel that there is more to come and the relationship has not reached it's proper end. However, as God has blessed us all with FREE WILL, it is out birth right to leave one path to walk on another. Although its very difficult to allow others to walk their own paths, it's something that must be respected.
When you've had someone walk away from you and end a relationship the pain and confusion can sometimes overcome you. Feelings of unfinished business can keep you stuck in wanting the relationship to come back again. It's understandable then, that often times when this happens we find ourselves in a position of trying to sway or talk the other person back into the relationship. Passive aggressive tactics, manipulation and even guilt are often times what we resort to. Sometimes not even realizing this is what we are doing.
The bottom line is that nothing you say or do can truly bring the other person back if in fact it is their soul's desire to walk another path. Even if it seems successful for a short time, and you're reunited, the soul gets what the soul wants. And, eventually you will find your way back to the same place of another separation. The only control you have in this type of situation is control over yourself. Control over your ability to allow the other person to leave and find themselves while moving forward for yourself. To come to a place of acceptance within yourself and restore your personal peace.
If the relationship is meant to come back around, it will...have no doubt in that. However, it must happen in the perfect timing. If it happens too soon then you will just find yourself repeating the same patterns of the relationship returning only to once again separate. Have not only patience but faith. Faith in what you know and feel deep inside your core to be true. Find that center inside of yourself that allows all to happen exactly the way it's supposed to. Then and only then, will you be at peace with all, and the healing of the pain can take place.
I can help you deal with these types of painful situations. I can help you find that place of healing within. We can work past this sense of being stuck...and finally get your life moving again. Contact me today for a reading. If I'm unavailable, please email me and I will set up a time to call that is convenient for you.
Much love and peace to you,
Kathy aka brigitwhispers
Imagine being healed of your long time mental, emotional or physical illness instantaneously….
Conscious and unconscious thoughts are the very fibers that create and make up our lives. Long held issues, fears and worries are all contributing factors that create dis-ease within us on all levels. Whether it’s emotional or mental issues that hold us back from our highest potential or, physical illness that create pain and suffering, these are all a result of the detrimental beliefs that are seeded deep with in us. Identifying, changing and eliminating these beliefs allow us to free our energy and create the healings that allow us to live happier and healthier lives.
ThetaHealing, founded by Vianna Stibal in 1995 is a simple technique that has been proven to contribute to immediate healing of not only emotional and mental but actual physical dis-ease of our bodies. This process proved itself to be valid when Vianna witnessed her own healing from a very advanced cancer that was on it’s way to destroying her right femur. By sharing and teaching this technique worldwide, it’s now available to anyone and everyone.
Acute pain, obesity, depression, hearing issues and chronic headaches are just a very few illnesses that I myself have been a witness to healing with Theta. I have just been amazed at just how very simple and fast this technique is. If I hadn’t witnessed this with my own eyes and in my own life, I would never believe it.
I’m excited to announce that I am now a Certified Practitioner of ThetaHealing. And, for a short time I’m offering sessions of Theta at a reduced cost. Healing doesn’t have to cost thousands of dollars. This technique is available to everyone at the low introductory rate of $60 per session (1-hour session). All sessions that are booked with me from now until January 31, 2009 will be honored at this reduced rate. This is $25 below the normal charge of $85.00. Book your session now and all sessions regarding the particular illness will be at $60 per session.
This healing technique was recently highlighted by FOX News. I’ve attached a link below so that you can see the report done on this healing modality.
Contact me today for more details on ThetaHealing. You owe it to yourself to have a life free of pain and suffering. Allow myself and ThetaHealing to help you achieve a happy, healthier life.
THETAHealing Part 1
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=utE9bCnMWJs
THETAHealing Part 2
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_EibwlNQKiU
Love, Peace and Serenity,
Kathy
Aka BrigitWhispers
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Get a full year Numerology Report for $30.00!!
(normally $50.00).
Take an indepth look at what 2009 holds for you. A personalized report based on your own specific life path numbers. This report is a full detailed report (up to 50+ pages). Not only does this report include information on your specific life path but includes your pinnacle years, your karmic lessons, your life cycles and much much more. Find out in detail what to expect per month AND day to day in the upcoming new year.
This offer is good for today Sunday 16th, 2008.
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Finding unconditional love for someone to allow them to walk their own path is not always easy. However, in order to find the PEACE and BALANCE inside of YOURSELF for the situation as it is, that love must be obtained. I've always found that once I have found that love inside of me, then and only then have I been able to truly accept what is. Thus finding my own serenity and peace.
Love Without Condition
by Sandy Stevenson
I love you as you are, as you seek to find your own special way to relate to the world, or the way you feel that is right for you. It is important that you are the person you want to be and not someone that I or others think you should be..
I realize that I cannot know what is best for you although perhaps sometimes I think I do. I've not been where you have been, viewing life from that angle you have, I do not know what you have chosen to learn, how you have chosen to learn it, with whom, or in what time period. I have not walked life looking through your eyes, so how can I know what you need..
I allow you to be in the world without a thought or word of judgment from me about the deeds you undertake. I see no error in the things you say and do, in this place where I am. I see that there are many ways to perceive and experience the different facets of our world. I allow without reservation the choices you make in each moment..
I make no judgment of this for if I were to deny your right to evolution, then I would deny that right to myself and all others. To those who would choose a way I cannot walk, whilst I may not choose to add my power and my energy to this way, I will never deny you the gift of love that God has bestowed within me for all creation, as I love you so I shall be loved; as I sow, so I shall reap..
I allow you the universal right of free will to walk your own path, creating steps or to sit a while if that is what is right for you. I will make no judgment of these steps, whether they are large or small, nor light or heavy or that they lead up or down, for this is just my viewpoint. I see you do nothing and might judge it to be unworthy. And yet, it may be that you bring great healing as you stand blessed by the light of God..
I cannot always see the higher picture of divine order. For it is the inalienable right of all life to choose their own evolution and with great love I acknowledge your right to determine your future. In humility I bow to the realization that the way I see is best for me does not have to mean that it is also right for you. I know that you are led as I am following the inner excitement to know your own path..
I know that the many races, religions, customs, nationalities and beliefs within our world bring us great richness and allow us the benefit of teachings of such diverseness. I know we each learn in our own unique way in order to bring that love and wisdom back to the whole. I know that if there were only one way to do something, there would need to be only one person. I will not only love you if you behave in a way I think you should, or believe in those things I believe in. I understand you are truly my brother and sister though you may have been born in a different place and believe in another God than I..
The love I feel is for all of God's world. I know that every living thing is part of God and I feel a love deep within every person, and every tree, and flower, every bird, river, ocean and for all the creatures in all the world...
I live my life in loving service being the best me I can, becoming wiser in the perfection of divine truth, becoming happier in the joy of unconditional love!
Reposted with Love, Kathy, aka Brigitwhispers
Autumn used to be a time that really depressed me. I would think to myself, I can’t believe summer is over already. Or, here we go into another long, hard cold winter *enter a big sighhhhh* But with everything else my opinion of Autumn has changed.
I look at this season as a time for things to come to a natural end. In order for life to take on it’s ever changing existence, change must occur. The physical changes we see around us in nature are proof of how things must end so they can be born a new. But, the important endings for me are more of an internal thing.
Past patterns, unproductive ways of being, even my likes and dislikes die and change. I love to take this time to reflect on my changes. To really go inside and review what doesn’t work for me any longer. What thoughts, feelings and beliefs I hold inside that inhibit my growth and rebirth. Letting go and recreating on an internal level are all a part of this season for me.
Life for me is all about being reborn again and again. Growing more at the soul level with each rebirth. Autumn seems to be when this begins for me. The death of the old so that the new may once again blossom.
Change is one thing in this life that IS certain. So now instead of fighting it I accept it. Instead of dreading it, I look forward to it. By embracing my ability to change and recreate myself I open myself up to the Universe with the understanding that ANYTHING is possible as long as I’m open to change
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Contact me today to find out what this season has in store for you.
Much Love, Balance and Peace to you!
Never allow someone to be your priority, while allowing yourself to be their option. ~unknown~
This quote says alot doesn't it? And, it's so true for many of us. We so often put others before us, even when they aren't deserving of it.
It's ok to put others first. While making sure to always honor ourselves in the process. The key is to make certain that you're not offering more of yourself and getting nothing back.
Honor yourself first by expecting the like...then honor others and it will always be a well balanced process.
PEACE,
Kathy
Would you like an overview of the upcoming New Year?...
About 3 years ago I had a client ask me to do a yearly reading for him. He asked that I pull 1 card for every month of the new year to see what the "theme" of each month was. I had never tried that type of Tarot reading but thought..what the heck?! So I honored his request.
That one reading ended up being so accurate for him that I've added it to my services the past 3 years now. It's been a huge success to old and new clients alike.
Would you like to see what the next year holds for you. With a overview of each month you can get a heads up on what is coming for you not only in love, but work and finances too. It's a great tool for you in decision making as well. Knowledge is power..and knowing what is coming for you on a monthly basis can be the difference between doing or saying something that may have an adverse affect on you way into the future!
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Much PEACE and BALANCE!
Kathy aka brigitwhispers
Getting Back on Track
by Sharon Marquart
A Witty Approach to Getting Back on Track if You
Have taken a Left Turn on the Road to Happiness
We all begin life traveling on the “road to happiness.” At some point during this journey we may come to realize we turned left when we meant to turn right; which sidetracks us and puts us on plan “D” instead of plan “A”. Life’s not exactly “unhappy” - it’s just not as fulfilling as we know it can be. We begin to feel as if life became” sabotaged” somewhere along the way. Now it’s time to regain control and get back on track.
You just need to readjust the road map!
That said, you are at “choice point.” Maybe your choice is to continue what you’re doing. OK. Just don’t expect different results. Maybe your choice is to do something different to get different results.
Once we set a direction in life, all our habits, behaviors, and choices either support or sabotage us in reaching that destination.
Let’s take a look at some choices that may be sabotaging your life and solutions that will support getting you back on track.
SABOTAGING CHOICES
SUPPORTIVE SOLUTIONS
#1 – Sabotage - Hit the floor running and don’t stop ‘til you drop.
Fill your schedule to overflowing so that even taking a moment to catch your breath leaves you hyperventilating!
Solution – Follow the airplane rule, “put your oxygen mask on first.” Before you wake each morning, give yourself a moment to be still with yourself. Consciously take a few deep breaths. Visualize your day flowing smoothly and easily as you continue to consciously breathe. On today’s calendar, block out 15 minutes and write your name in “pen.” Set your cell phone alarm. When the time arrives, use it to sit and do nothing but consciously breathe. Doing this ensures that you put on your oxygen mask first.
#2 – Sabotage - Hang out with toxic people who criticize, judge and carry around all their emotional baggage. For added effect and drama, make sure you unpack these people often.
Solution – Find the “balcony people” of your life. The people who always have “the best seats in the house”- those who make sure to see things “from the top.” There is at least one person who sees the best in you. Make contact with them frequently. Let them cheer you on, inspire, motivate and support you. Begin to create your “team” of balcony people- your own cheering section! (Keep in mind these people are different from the “nosebleed section people.” – those who can’t see anything beyond the tips of their own noses and are committed to sabotaging anyone who attempts to get better seats than them.
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#3 Sabotage – Procrastinate! – Why do today what you can put off until tomorrow!? Let’s face it, if you let something go long enough, it may just disappear altogether and you’ll be “off the hook,” right?
Solution – Procrastination is a symptom of a deeper issue and instead of being “let off the hook,” you’re often left “hanging” your head in guilt. Why would you need to feel guilty? You don’t, but you probably have a fear of succeeding and guilt guards you from this fear. (And those guards have some pretty hefty armor, don’t they!?) Instead of lugging around all that heavy guilt, break free, connect with your “balcony people” and let them cheer you on to victory each and every time you follow through! Count all these victories and as they add up, let them empower you to take the next step to success.
#4 Sabotage - Hold onto the “right” attitude and make sure you’re never wrong. It will keep you feeling like you’re in control.
Solution - It takes so much energy to be right all the time. Plus you really miss out on other ideas that can enhance your life. Learn to apologize. Learn to forgive. Learn to receive. Learn how to listen.
(I could be wrong, but my guess is that there will be many treasures waiting for you when you give yourself permission to not always be right!)
#5 Sabotage - Fill your life with clutter, stuff and mountains of paperwork.
Keep all the drawers empty and the tabletops full!
Solution - Clutter creates confusion. Confusion clogs your life’s energy flow, your ability to think clearly and to be creative. Clear your space. Begin small. Sometimes it helps to set an alarm for 15 minutes and begin. Take in small bites. As you clear the clutter, even a small corner, allow yourself to feel good. Exhale. Let that good feeling motivate you for another 15 minutes. You’ll be amazed at how quickly de-cluttering clears the mind.
#6 Sabotage - Ignore self-care. After all, your mind and body are only the mechanics that keep your life running.
You put gas in your car and send it for six month tune-ups; why is extending the mileage on a heap of metal and glass more important than extending the mileage on your life’s journey?
Solution - Taking care of the “self” is a number 1 priority. It is important to remember all areas of self: mind, body and spirit. To begin, make one change in one area. For the body: eat a piece of fruit every day, drink a glass of water, and say one nice thing about yourself when you look in the mirror. For the mind: have an intellectually stimulating conversation with someone; read a book; watch a group of children discovering the world at a playground during your lunch break. For the spirit: sit quietly every day, subscribe to a daily inspiration, and share your gratitude daily. You’ll be amazed at how much more mileage you get with just a little self care.
#7 Sabotage - Expect perfection or “black and white” solutions for everything.
– If it’s perfect, there’s no room for option or choice, which means you don’t have to deal with it!
Solution - There is no such thing as “perfect.” Perfect is a relative term. Striving to be perfect fits into the category of needing to be right. Redefine your standards.
Consider the option of making gray the “new black” when it comes to savvy thinking!
In reality, each of us practice all 7 of these sabotaging behaviors, so you’re not alone. But you’re also not necessarily in the best of company, either. These alternate ways of thinking and problem solving solutions allow you to begin to make a shift in the way you live your life, make the right turn and get back on track. Choose one solution and begin to put it into practice. You can make a change to empower yourself; and you can ask for help in creating a new pattern. Be inspired this week to stop sabotaging your life and get back on the road to happiness.
~THE CHOICE IS YOURS~
Part II
One issue that I fine a lot of people dealing with is how to
remain in a semi-relationship or friendship relationship
with a soul mate that is not longer interested in pursuing a
romantic relationship with you.
I always answer that question by asking a question......Are
you remaining in their life hoping for some type of
outcome? What is your expectation of them in a
friendship role? Are you hoping by staying their friend
they will return in the future?. Are you wanting to hear,
I'm so sorry for leaving..I love you and will do anything to
make this work? If your answer is yes...then for the sake
of your own growth, you can't have the SM in your life in
any capacity.
I see it often where the "runner" will return to want to be
your "friend", soon after they've left the
relationship.....because they know they miss
communicating with you, but they aren't ready to offer
you the true relationship that you're wanting. And, the one
that is broken hearted "thinks" that by allowing this
friendship to be, will eventually bring the SM back. Well,
you may not be entirely wrong. It could, but more then
likely it's a premature return. Too soon that the person
running hasn't done any growing. And, if allowed too soon
then you'll find yourself going through the same pattern
and cycle once again.
What will happen is you'll try to maintain this arm's length
type distance with your emotions. Then, when you have
communication and you didn't hear what you wanted you
will find yourself right back to square one. Crying,
unbalanced, angry, etc... you'll be overcome with all sorts
of emotions that just send you for a loop again. Throwing
you right back into what seems like a sea of emotions with
no life jacket to keep you afloat.
Every time you experience this upset, your growth
stagnates. You'll find you harden somewhere in your heart
and all the work you've been doing to find your self love
will be washed away, yet again. Then, you'll have to go
through the process of trying to find your balance and the
place where you're not hurting, crying and angry 24 hours
a day.
Now I'm not saying that a day won't come when you can't
be a friend to your SM. But, in my opinion this comes
further down the road when you're already healed and to
the point where you don't have any expections or want
anything from the SM other then simply their presence as
a friend in your life. That day will come, even though in
the beginning it seems like just a fantasy and so far away.
When that day comes you will recognize it as REAL
unconditional love for yourself and for the other person.
My end point here is this; You must give yourself the
love, support and time for healing. You must put yourself
and your emotional well being first and foremost. If you
don't allow yourself to have the proper healing then you
could find yourself in the pain and suffering for a very
long time. Walking away from the situation as it is, is your
FIRST and most IMPORTANT step to unconditional love
for yourself and the SM.
Once you are at this place you will find one of two things.
Either the SM has ALSO found this place of pure love
and you could have the opportunity to try the relationship
again as two souls that have grown to a place that allows
the connection to work, or, you will have grown so much
that you will not want the romantic relationship back and
the new doors for another SM will open. This time
drawing a person to you that is more at your growth level
thus allowing you the opportunity to have the healthy SM
relationship that you deserve.
The Choice is Yours
___________________
As a reader the most frequent situations I'm asked for help
on is, yes, you've guessed it...RELATIONSHIPS. It seems
that a lot of the clients that cross my path are all
experiencing very similar situations. They have had a run in
with a "soul mate connection". More then not, this SM has
crossed their path, to awakened something deep within my
client then bolted from their life. Leaving my client open,
confused and raw of a wound that seems to not want to
heal. Which, in my opinion, is exactly what that SM was
supposed to do. To touch something so deep inside that
you have no other option but to feel it, accept it, and learn
from it.
The forefront question of the situation is always ..."If this
person is my soul mate, then when will they return"?
I wish my answer could be just that simple. There are
many different reasons this connection occurred.
These connections never come into play for the single
reason of the relationship. I see time and time again the
client being bound to this situation (of their own accord)
just because they've been told this person is their "soul
mate". The REAL reason this person came into their life
is the lessons they bring about . The most important
lesson is finding the unconditional love for SELF. To
realize that they must learn to love themselves MORE
then they love anyone else or any thought of being in a
"soul mate" relationship. After all, how can someone truly
love anyone else , if they don't truly love themselves? That
answer is simple, it can't be done.
When you finally choose to look at the connection from a
different perspective is when you can finally start to heal
the wounds it left. When you decide to nurture yourself
and be true to yourself is when you finally begin to
break the chains of the connection...the chains you placed
on yourself.
The connections are always a 2-way street. BOTH parties
are faced with lessons. Because God gave us all free will
we can decide to face the lessons or we can turn our backs
on them. Eventually finding that somewhere down the line
you will be faced with the same lesson, perhaps on an even
more painful level. But mark my words...the lessons
WON'T go away until you decide to face and learn them.
You may have the chance to be in an actual romantic
relationship with the soul mate depending on the growth of
both people involved. If while you are apart you both
grow...then the paths may cross again, allowing you both to
try the cycle once again. If both people have done the work
then there is great probability the relationship will work. If
not, then you will just repeat the same pattern again.
Scrapping that scab off the wound, leaving it exposed to
the open air to experience the pain all over. You can
continue to cover it with a band aide, but until you decide
to TREAT the wound..it can't ever heal.
Treating the wound means choosing to finally stop
covering it up and actually nurturing it back to good, strong
emotional health. And that nurturing starts with YOU.
What I mean by that is CHOOSING (and YES IT IS
YOUR CHOICE) to finally say ENOUGH. Freeing
yourself from the illusion of the fantasy of the
"connection". Deciding to stop trying to control the
relationship...because face it YOU HAVE NO
CONTROL. Moving forward in your growth and not
concerning yourself with what the other part of the
connection is doing on their path. Their wound(s) are their
own to heal...not yours.
Once you finally choose to see the connection as this...is
when you can truly free yourself from the pain of it all.
When you see this is about YOU and your growth your life
opens to many new doors. And, as a result of your growth
the Universe brings you more connections
and more lessons that reflect more of the "New" you that
you are becoming.