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How to say "I'm Sorry" after a Breakup Upset

In a situation where emotional trauma has occurred bringing sorrow and hurt to another and has also prompted deep understandings about your own emotional growth and spiritual healing - (This example is about the type of upset which causes relationship break-ups, not the little things, although you might try it for less disturbing conflicts too.)

One possible way of  saying you are sorry might be:

Having a talk with him, letting him know:

- you see the mistakes you made,
- sharing everything you have learned in this situation and now understand about yourself and the situation,
- giving apologies and
- asking him to someday forgive you, and
- know that you do love him, and
- if he would ever give you another opportunity to share that love with him, you would honor love more wisely. 


Something along these lines will help you to forgive yourself and allow closure, which promotes healing and peace for all concerned.

Peace,
Laurel

Are You Your Past? Or Are You FREE ?

Set Free  
by Clear Spirit Intuitive

Let us gently loose the bindings
ties
that hold us to the wants
and want nots
hope
and hope not.

Unbound
we find wings
where hurt had been.

Free
we take flight
and soar
in crystalline skies

In Peace
Unfettered

In Joy
Delivered

In Truth
Now.

People don't change, only love creates healing changes from within.

The attempt to change someone, make them different  is often felt  as an attack. Sometime, try love, freely shared, with no demand, to be the healing agent.

Wanting a relationship to work,  sometimes means   being willing to love, just as things are, just as the loved one seems to be.

However, sometimes the true healing is a choice to shift one's own life around, rather than another's.

We can have a session, to discover where the change, the healing is best accessed in your life.

Peace,
Laurel

To Tell the Truth , or not?

So often callers are hoping with all their hearts that I will tell them that no matter how things seem to be, the happy ending they write in their imaginations is the one which will ultimately happen.

As one who is devoted to a path of healing love, it is often very difficult to gently tell what is given to me about that situation.  I would be very happy to know that all would be as the caller desires. 

The only choice, however, is to communicate what is shown to me, as gently and lovingly as possible. 

To assist in dealing with the situation, re-visioning the life focus, looking within for the peace and love which is the spiritual truth - many options are available while we are on the phone to release and heal the sting of honesty.  Even after the call, prayer work is available, only ask.

And when you call, please forgive that I remain, communicating the light of truth and spiritual love.

Peace,
Laurel

A Wonderful Occurence Today on Keen

Divine synchronicity responded to the healing need of a wonderful woman who called  on my  Spiritual listing while I was in morning meditation.  Soon it was clear that the communication was filled with light and clarity, and we each expressed appreciation for the sharing.  She asked for my extension number so she could speak to me again.

Surprised, I mentioned that she had called me 4 times before, but she didn't realize it as she had never requested a specific reader.   She prays, she said, for the best guidance and signals Keen to connect her with the next available counselor.  I was amazed that this method would have connected her to me 5 separate times.

Her inner connection to Spirit is very strong, as is her commitment to clearing out any and all obstacles to inner peace.  I am delighted that we were brought together again, to celebrate the  inner light.

A morning miracle, an extension of spiritual love.

Repeat Caller Feedback ... Where is it?

When you compare advisors' feedback you might notice that there seem to be fewer repeat callers to my listings.  Perhaps you wonder why.

Very often you will see that callers write about a shift in their perception of their life situation, a sense that they understand now,  after our talk, more about themselves or their relationship; they have a realization rather than just a "fortune" telling.

This type of work tends to free people from their anxieties rather than adding a call to me to their daily "must have" list.  Of course, I am honored to assist whenever a call comes in.

Many of the calls pass without leaving evidence in the written feedback.  Try it, you may find a peace that floats you away, without thought of leaving feedback.

Of course, some people don't get it, or don't even wish for peace or healing.  Then they may well try to express their upset, that they don't have what they want in life and I'm not helping them find a way to make it happen.  Even if I were a magician that could create such an effect, would it be right to do? 

Sometimes there does seem to be no psychic connection with a caller or their question.  In that case I acknowledge it and suggest we end the call.  And sometimes writing a bad review makes the caller feel better.

Hopefully this will assist you to understand some of what you may see when you look through feedback on my listings.

If you see light and hope here, and wish for healing that forgiveness hastens, I will look to see and hear what your Guides and Angels suggest.

Peace,
Laurel