Until you know that you will never allow yourself to settle for a relationship that is not mutual and reciprocal, you will settle for less than the best. Until you ask yourself to daily reveal your magnificence, which is your grace, your love, your intelligence, your humor, compassion and empathy, how can you ask that others reveal those things to you? Until you accept that your past is done and you only have the glorious now, you are worrying about tomorrow and obsessing over yesterday which is doing you no good at all. Until you use your manners and say, "please" and "thank you", you are not revealing your wonderful self. Do a kind thing today and tell no one about it. Until you know you have a great deal to offer, you cannot see what others have to offer.
Respect yourself. Be honest with yourself. Do you REALLY ONLY want friends with benefits or are you hoping it will turn into more? If you want more do not allow yourself to settle for friends with benefits as it is rare that this arrangement will end up in a full blown, trusting, loving relationship. Never settle for less than what you want. Never. Ever.
Just FYI, the love of your life is honest, warm, supportive, caring...and flawed. No one is perfect. She isn't you aren't. However, love is a verb and in its most pure form it is the desire for the other person to know joy and peace and prosperity in all of its forms. The love of your life is an addition to you life, not the reason for it. Speak the language of love with honesty, with humor, in supportive, kind, compassionate ways and understand that love demands nothing and reveals much.
It is important that you use psychic insight as a tool to gain your own self-confidence, your own insights and your own sense of self. A psychic is a light in a dark room and is meant to help you find your own flashlight! Once you find your own flashlight, you can then find the way out of the room and fully into the light. Learn to depend on yourself. Spells do not work, not now and not ever. Your aura is clean enough - you do not need an aura cleansing! There is no curse on you and nothing aimed at you is stronger than the God of your understanding.
A psychic is there to support and guide but YOU are the one who needs to do YOUR life.
Be authentic.
Be you!
Let things evolve.
Be the person you want to be.
ONLY YOU can change your life.
It is very difficult to celebrate the fact that someone has been in your life and has chosen to leave you. It is so very painful, confusing and disruptive. However, remind yourself of all of the wonderful moments you shared and rejoice in them. Gratitude for all of our experiences is a fundamental component to our present and future joy.