I have some thoughts on this that may be worth sharing.
Even though I do readings, I have also seen psychics myself at various points in my life, since I first walked into a gypsy reader's shop in College Park (Madame Sylvia.) I was very young and confused about a relationship. In time I learned that Madame Sylvia's penchant for designer purses (Fendi) had little to do with having to use them to validate my sincere "investment" for her "candle rituals." I think I lost several weeks of my minimum wage paychecks on these guaranteed-to-work spells. After that experience I swore off of psychics for a long time and preferred to just study the symbolic, mystic and esoteric meanings behind the cards and astrology. I never lost faith in the mystical truth of ancient crafts, only the people practicing it.
But, I also realized that as hokey as Madame Sylvia was and as much as she bilked me, I did receive comfort at her assurances that the guy I was dating would come back. (which he did, but by that time, I had moved on.) As far as contacting the other side, regardless of her questionable ethics, there was definitely more than just idle chit-chat and swindling going on. I received several astral visitors who yanked me out of my body for a few nights in a row. I just hate it when that happens! I then realized that she had actually done something with those candles and whatever that was, it was real. This showed me the lesson of responsibility and right action when dealing with these tools. It also spooked me away from readers for some time, which is kind of ironic, in retrospect.
My father took me to every pop therapy (Gestalt, Transactional Analysis, Lifespring, I'm OK, You're OK) craze there was. By the time I was a late teen, I (along with my father and sister) had logged on many hours of therapy, which caused me to get interested in understanding more about psychology myself. So, I took several psych classes in college and really did have some epiphanies about how our minds work. But unfortunately, it seemed that in a lot of cases, it took far too much time and terminology to identify different states of consciousness which seemed to me to be bereft of any connection to a larger context. I couldn't find the "beef" in it. I'm sure I studied the tarot on my off-time as much, if not more, than any aspiring psychologist in my classes studied their profession. I went on to study Carl Jung and Joseph Campbell because of their depth when it comes to psychology, symbols and myths and realized that they were taking their work from the ancients that I had a fascination with (in the case of Jung, Greek gnostics and Campbell, the myths and customs of indigenous, ancient cultures such as the Mayan, Egyptian, etc) After that discovery, I felt much more comfortable with studying the products, namely tarot and astrology, of these cultures.
Well, it was inevitable that another romantic crisis was to occur to me and I really didn't feel like hashing it out with a therapist. This was beyond therapy and I wanted more than clucks and scribbles on notepaper. I didn't have time for all that anyway. I was in need of some real guidance and insight into the whole situation, primarily what the other side of the dynamic was about, which was HIM. So, I bit the bullet and decided to go to a very famous psychic for a reading in McLean, VA. Well, she knocked my socks off. The details, the insight and suggestions, in retrospect, were spot on. I couldn't believe it. More importantly, I needed to talk to someone and feel like I wasn't alone in my confusion. I wanted someone to see into my world and tell me straight up what was going on. I needed someone in my corner who would be honest with me.
To my mind, psychics fill a very special and essential need in society (they are routinely used by law enforcement for locating lost people) and one that doesn't get talked about much, which is listening and focusing on an issue while using, not only the brain, but that "other" something - call it intuition - call it divine guidance, call it messages, whatever IT is in service to others. And, apparently, IT is real. Numerous studies have been conducted to prove the efficacy of ESP, remote-viewing, telepathy, and so on. We now know that SOMETHING is happening, it just can't be contained or measured or guaranteed to deliver expected results. Therefore, it's not easy to sell on Wall Street or fit into a college curriculum. Now, like my friend Madame Sylvia, not all psychics are completely candid and well-intentioned so, as in any dealings with people, one must beware. However, for every one of those, there is at least one who has their heart and mind in line with Spirit. I personally have found more sincere, selfless and kind people in the psychic community than in any others I have encountered.
In life it seems when we need people the most, we are the most alone. Friends don't want to hear about our stuff after a while. They got their own stuff and, truthfully, it's uncomfortable for someone to be see a person close to them suffer. Unless you are exceptionally lucky and gifted with very good, empathetic and patient friends, there are few options open when it comes to guide you through your issue. Most people feel out of their depth to help and instead try to cheer you up, which in turn, has the effect of your feeling obliged to put on a happy front (which often makes the situation just that much harder.) Denial. It's more than a river in Egypt.
Psychologists and psychiatrists are bound to stay within their field of study and are trained to disengage themselves from their client's emotions. They are taught to be screens for their subject's projections. After a few weeks, months or years, eventually that person will have talked enough to finally figure out some of their issues (if they're lucky.) Meanwhile, the psychologist gets to give you all the impressions and feedback and conclusions that he got out of your sessions together - in a book that he's going to publish once he decides he has a unique viewpoint (if you're lucky.)
Psychics, like artists, musicians, entertainers, etc., fill a great need for others, but have rarely been given serious recognition for their skills. We've gotten to a point where listening with empathy and attention is rare. Our culture has all your creature comforts covered and, by some reckoning, that should be enough for all but the "dysfunctional" (or whatever label du jour they're using) people. When emotional confusion or crisis hits, how many of us want to invest the time, money and energy to go and see a therapist for help? Many go it alone, but they don't have to. Back in our ancestor's day we belonged to tribes and shared stories, myths and magic. Something primal is missing for a lot of us and society is just now re-discovering how important this type of human-to-human contact is.
Just because (most) psychics don't hold advanced degrees or have a personal secretary, does not mean that they don't provide real benefits. It just means that we are living in a time right now where psychics are not as closely bound, restrained and defined as those in other professions, unlike those skilled, clever psychiatrists who dispense Prozac and say two words in as many years to you. When we think about it, just participating in such a system that is so detached and clinical negates the very thing that allows for Spirit to come in.
Psychics offer the same privacy and confidentiality as a therapist would and have a broader range of tools and teachings to draw from. Also, a good psychic will listen and focus on you and your issue AND with compassionate awareness so as to provide meaningful feedback, which can be applied immediately to change and improve the course of the situation you're in. I believe this is a more accelerated way for the recipient to gain more self-awareness.
And from what I'm seeing today, that's a really good thing!