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"Our minds are like a computer"
I am not sure of the origins of this concept. However, in the last few months, this concept is becoming more real to me.
I have had computer problems for the last two months. I purchased a new computer, about one month ago. However, even with a new computer, I am having still having similar problems. I just formatted it again Monday night.
I think it may have been a spyware, or a virus.( It's funny how we Even say our computers get sick like we humans, and get with viruses. )
But this time, I am becoming more careful, more aware of these problems. If the problem re-occurs once again, It means this is an experience for learning more of the who's, what's where's when and the how's...
As I am going threw this experience, I realize our human minds are more complex than a computer system. Our human emotions, and our physical feelings, is what separates mankind from machine.... Making us a more complex machine...
Our individual processing systems are formed in many ways. Genetically, by our culture, our religious beliefs, our parents, friends, co-workers, and the friendships. Many of our 'programs' are very good, and helpful to us.
We fall in love, or do not, due to our processing the information about people... how we feel about anyone, and what we chose to think and believe is true of this person...how they make us feel when we are around them or not around them, determines the outcome of our love lives.
What type of program could be running in the background, that may make us uncertain?
Is it me ?
Is it them?,
Could it be..
I am on a 'shared network' ?
Is this a total system crash, or do we need an overhaul?
Or does our programs only need a little tweaking ?
Is it time to format, and start over with a 'new program'?
Maybe it's time for a new computer, and run some new programs ? :))
Life's complexities aren't always easy to figure out... Good relationships take work and some tweaks, to overcome the glitches.
When love's program glitches are becoming worrisome, and you feel you need a little more insight, I offer an honest, compassionate, perspective... Give me a call... I hope to help you, with some psychic insights..
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Jewels, Gems and Crystals. Most of us value and love them. Not for
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of our lives.
Do you know jewels, gems and crystals all have their own unique energetic and, healing properties?
These natural jewels, gems and crystals that come from the earth ALL
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us. Colors have a certain energy. Sounds also have an energy, and
smells, yes, smells carry energy too. All energy has an effect on us and our 'state of being' !
All of these energies in your
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bright
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Surround yourself with things, colors scents that you love, and that
which will be most beneficial to you. Our environment can help us with
the release of negative energies and helps us maintain a healthy state
of being.
Next Week: A blog on grounding stones. Most Grounding Stones (crystals) are beneficial for focus, psychic protection and more!
Please check back and comment. Let me know what stones or benefits from stones that you are interested in..
All comments/questions are welcomed and appreciated.
Love and Light,
Faith2liveby
This is for some insight into relationships.
We all want and crave love and acceptance, esspecialy from our mate. (Of couse, we need to obtian that level of self estem about self, for a healthy relationship to last.) I find most of my calls are women, working on and toward understanding there relationships, and where there life is going..
Most women are more comfortable expessing emotions than men. Women verbilze what is on their minds and in their hearts with much more ease then men. (Don't get angry guys, I mean most men)...
It is unfortunate what our society has done to the male psyche. I mean alot men are raised with the additudes of what a "real man" should be. They are taught that it is unmanly to cry or express pain or fear... to "suck it up", and they should be the leader and one incharge in a relationship. And a real man never shows fear.. that is weakness. (my next article will be on fear) Or anouther falsehood taught on a "real man's" behavior.
It has been stated as FACT...by many experts, Men and women THINK differantly. We process information in an entirely differant way. PEROID.
Over the years, many of my friends( female), my callers (whom are female) and myself included, seemed to beleive "IF he loved me he would/would not..." Ranging from he/orshe,WOULD take me out more, hug me more , and buy me that ring I wanted for my bithday, I love that ring and its only, 150 bucks! After all I SHOULD BE WORTH A MILLON TIMES THAT TO HIM!!.. (this ones my own rantings from years ago lol) to ..or He would not leave empty pototae chip bags beside the chair, to not flushing or brushing ...help me more with the housework, AND he would not CHEAT! (anouther blog to come, Cheating)-- Any of this sound like some of the dynamics in your relationship?
Relationships often times turn into a power struggle for dominance. Lets face it , men need to feel they are respected and incharge to feel loved, (a part of their hormonal and psyche make-up)and women have the need to be shown value. to feel loved.
Comunication of these value systems is a I say is a FOUR WAY STREET! 2+2=4 it takes 2 people using the 2 skills of speaking and listening 4 comunications to flow!!
When you atempt to communicate with your partner, (men and women alike) just be (and a good sense of lighthearted humor helps) Be just as open to listening to one anouther as you are to speaking and you sometimes may find you are saying and wanting the same thing, only in differant words. And just remember,
The whole Point of this blog...
If you remember nothing else, remember these 3 things: ( in all communication )
1.: Men need to feel respect, and a women needs to feel love.
2. Awarenes of self.. and ask self... am I showing respect? and/or am I showing love?
3. We cannot control the actions and behavior of anouther, we can only really try and control self. (self mastery is the path of a mystic)
4. Okay four, Love and Respect go hand in hand!!! wow!!!
Please give me any insights you may have on this blog, We are all on this wild ride of life together, lets enjoy figuring it out.
Until next time, I hope you may Live and Love with Laughter!
Please feel free to comment, I would love your input. Negitive or Positive... So we can bridge the gaps to one anouther....
Love and Light ,
Faith2liveby