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Psychic Readings: Frequently Asked Questions

 

 

Q.  Are you 100% accurate?  

A.  No, nor do I claim to be. 

Q.  How do I know that what you are telling me is accurate?  

A.  If you ask about a specific person, and by tuning into their energy, I tell you things about their persona, behavior, things they say and do, etc., then you know I'm on track. However, if you ask me a question that you already know the answer to or deliberately withhold pertinent information with the intent of "testing" to see if I will pick up that informaton then you may be interfering with the flow of the energy, thus affecting the outcome.

Q. I have been dating someone for a few weeks. Can you tell me if this relationship is worth pursuing or am I wasting my time?

There are certain things that I, your reader, may not be privy to all at once because you need to experience the relationship as it evolves. In other words, were I to tell you that a year from now this or that may occur in your relationship, it would take away from the spontaneity and natural flow of things.


Q.  Why have circumstances changed from what you told me in a previous reading?  

A.  The reason circumstances change or don’t prevail as we desire is we don’t have faith in nor do we trust the process.  All things are subject to Divine Order with a bit of free will interjected. What that means is, what I told you, say a few weeks/months ago, can be subject to change depending on various factors, energies, Divine Intervention and a change of heart. 

Another common factor is focusing too much energy on the situation rather than letting things evolve in their natural course. Do you think about that person/situation day and night? Do you call for psychic readings on a daily basis, or several times a week asking what so and so is doing and if they are thinking about you? Do you text, call or email them several times a day? Do you question their integrity and/or wonder if they are telling you the truth?  By doing this, that person can feel you pulling on their energy, and this can actually cause the opposite effect of what you desire. 


Q. How can I get someone to change or do what I want them to do?  

A.  You can’t.  You can express your concern about a certain issue or circumstance, but you cannot actually make that other person follow through on what you want them to do. For example, if you are in a relationship with or attracted to someone who is moody and/or won’t make a commitment, it is appropriate for you to tell that person how you feel, as well as ask the same of them. But in the end, it is up to that individual to make the choice.


Q.  You told me something different from what other advisors have told me. Does this mean that they are all wrong and you are right, or vice versa?  

A.  While I respect what other advisors have relayed to you, I can only go by what my own guidance is asking me to share with you. This does not mean that what other advisors, as well as myself, have told you is right or wrong. It is up to you to discern what resonates with you. Another factor to consider is you may want to take a break from psychic readings for a while so you can process all the information that you have been given.

 

 

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If you have any questions that are not posted, please feel free to ask and I will do my best to answer your inquiries.

 

Advisors: If you would like to share your answers to any of these questions, or if you have questions & answers of your own, please feel free to share your insights.

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Top 10 Reasons Why SHE Walks Away from the Relationship...

 

10. It's all about the sex: Relationship? What relationship? His text messages  and phone calls consist of "What are you wearing?" We rarely go out anywhere and when we do, all he can talk about is how he can't wait to get me home into bed.

9. He has a wandering eye: Whenever he sees a pretty woman he talks about how hot she looks. He even tells me his fantasies about having a three-some with me and my best friend.

8. He checks up on me: He calls and texts me everyday, sometimes two or three times a day. When I don't reply he thinks I'm with another man. Sometimes I'll see him driving by my house checking to see if there's another car in my driveway. If my car is not there, he'll call and ask where I am.

7. Divergent lives:  We live in different cities... 500 miles apart. It's hard to keep up the momentum, let alone see one another on the weekends. He rarely calls and I haven't seen him in weeks. I feel like I'm always the one who initiates contact.

6. He won't communicate with me: I can tell when something is bothering him, especially if it's about me or our relationship. When I ask him to talk to me about it, he replies, "Everything is fine." Then he'll sit in front of the TV or his computer and give me the silent treatment.

5. He won't make a commitment: We've been dating for nearly a year now and we love one another's company. But when I talk to him about long-term plans, be it moving in together or getting married, he says he's comfortable with the way things are at present.

4. He's unreliable: We make plans to go somewhere and then he backs out at the last minute or he doesn't follow through. A week later he calls and says he wants to see me on the weekend. When I ask where and what time, he says, "I'll get back to you."

3. It's always about him: He always wants to talk about HIS successes, but rarely if ever about his failures or setbacks. When he's sick he's like a helpless child who needs his mommy. When I want to share about my successes, he's more interested in his football game. When I'm sick he feels inconvenienced because I'm not available for him.

2. He doesn't take responsibility: Everything is always my fault. If we have an argument or disagreement he will never own up to his participation, let alone apologize for saying anything inappropriate.

... and the number one reason why SHE walks away from the relationship...

1. He still communicates with and has feelings for his ex.
 


 
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Top 10 Reasons Why HE Walks Away From the Relationship...

 

10. Boredom: The relationship has lost its sizzle and diversity.  We always do what she wants to do. Whenever I suggest we do something different that would peak my interest she sighs and rolls her eyes.

9. Burnout: We see each other exclusively everyday and on the weekends. Sometimes I just want some alone time or to play golf with the guys on a Saturday.

8. She's Too Needy: She wants to see me three times a week. She calls and texts me everyday, sometimes two or three times a day. When I don't reply she thinks I'm with another woman or that I'm ignoring her. Maybe I'm at work in a meeting. Maybe I'm outside mowing the lawn. Or maybe I got tired of her constantly checking up on me.

7. Divergent Lives:  We live in different cities... 500 miles apart. It's hard to keep up the momentum, let alone see one another on the weekends... OR... I travel a lot for business. By the time I'm done with my work day and dining out with coworkers, I just want to go to bed. I don't have the time or energy to chat on the phone for an hour every night of the week.

6. I'm in Over My Head: I like everything about her. She's pretty, she's intelligent, she's funny, and I'm starting to fall for her... But... I'm not sure I want to be exclusive, make a commitment, let alone move in together or get married. 

5. I Take Her For Granted: She's always there for me. She cooks for me, even does my laundry. She waits up for me when I'm late coming home from work at night. She never complains. This is too easy.

4. She's Too Negative:  All she does is complain and brood about how unhappy her life is and about the world coming to an end. Who wants to be around that all the time?

3. She Expects Me to Read Her Mind: I can tell when she's upset or angry with me. But when I ask her to talk to me about it her reply is, "You should know. You were there."

2. She Blames Me for Everything: Everything is always my fault. If I'm late because I got stuck in traffic she says, "You should have left earlier." If we have an argument or disagreement she will never own up to her participation, let alone apologize for saying anything inappropriate.

... and the number one reason why he walks away from the relationship...

1. I'm the Source of Her Happiness and Reason for Living: She has no other interests or friends outside of our relationship. She puts me on a pedestal. When she's had a bad day she expects me to "fix" it for her and make her feel good.





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Autumn = Transition

 

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The most noticeable sign of autumn is cooler temperatures and a colorful display of leaves. Nature's transformation also triggers a time of transition and a deep awareness within and around us. Change can be scary, but it can also be a positive thing when met with confidence and faith.

 

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Do you want to be Right or Happy?

When we interact with people who are not open to understanding, who are not able to see or recognize the light we have to share with them, no matter how obvious it is to us and how much we know it will make them happy, we are frustrated and angry. 
 
But in trying to be right, we are making ourselves unhappy. And we are making the other person unhappy as well. Who is right? We both are. Who is wrong? No one is. Each of us is on our path and each one of us is right within our own being, stepping on the path that we believe is right for us and creating our life with the information that we believe to be our truth. While it may not be right for someone else, until we decide that we need a change, it is right for
us. And this is true for everyone. Trying to change that when we or someone else are not ready for change just makes everyone unhappy.
 
If given the choice, would you rather be right or be happy?
 
If we asked that question of ourselves every day, with every situation, we would find that our choices may change. How often do we push ourselves in a certain direction because we
want to justify our decisions and sacrifices, rather than ask ourselves if that path makes us happy?

For today, give yourself the option of being happy. Choose something in your life that is a burden to you and ask yourself if you are trying to be right or happy? Then pay attention to the guidance you receive. You can always be right but the path of happiness is one that will let you be right and happy, follow your passion, fulfill your dreams and create your own version of heaven on earth.

~ Jennifer Hoffman (Insights from Uriel)
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First Date Deal-Breakers

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Whether you're 16 or 50, there's nothing like a first date. The excitement. The jitters. The potential for romance... And the potential for some big mistakes. If you're hoping date #1 might lead to date #2, here are a few things you should avoid...

Fakin' It... Why go with him to a WWE match if you hate it? Or ask a girl to see a romantic comedy when you love action flicks? It's great to try new things, but it's important to be yourself. Faking it can backfire by making you seem false, flighty, or even desperate.

Your Junk-Ridden Chariot Awaits... Unless she's a diva or celebrity, your date won't expect a limo or sports car to pick her up. But she also may not dig your car's "lived-in" interior, filled with old soda cans, banana peels, sweaty gym clothes, and matted newspapers. Clean out your car, make it presentable, and fill it with gas -- otherwise your date may end up running on empty.

Some Like It Loud... Why go to a loud restaurant or bar? Do you want to spend the evening nodding nervously and shouting at one another all night long while you're trying to get to know each other?

Primpin' Like the Prom... Getting dolled up in 3-piece suit-and-tie or frilly dress isn't the way to go on a first date. There are plenty of ways to look nice without looking overdone. Guys, opt for a crisp pair of khakis and a button-down shirt. Gals, slip on some casual slacks and a feminine sweater, or comfortable summer cotton sundress.

Friends ‘n' Family... In the beginning, it's best to keep it to the two of you. Bringing over-zealous friends and over-protective relatives into the mix is a lot to hit a person with on the first date. Start slow and get to know one another first.

Five-Star Fancy or Carelessly Casual... Fancy first dates can be a huge mistake and expensive. Pricey restaurants often feel fussy and put undue pressure on your wallet and your evening. If your date does treat you to dinner at a pricier place, don't order the most expensive thing on the menu. On the other hand, steer clear of cheap chain restaurants and other overly casual joints. Be thoughtful and creative. Try a picnic in the park or even minature golf. Good, cheap fun can be romantic and fun.

Bed-Lam... If you both like each other, there will be plenty of time for luxurious mornings lounging in bed together. Don't rush it. Let the first date be informal and comfortable, by feeling obliged, not to mention stressed about having sex.

Getting Snippy... A first date isn't the time to restyle your hair or change your hair color. You want to feel your most relaxed and comfortable. So save the experimentation for another time.

Now, Back to Me... Info-swapping is one of the centerpieces of your date. What music you like, whether you're a cat or dog person, and so on. But if you spend the whole time blabbing about yourself without giving your date equal talking time, you can say good-bye to future encounters.

Smells Like Desperation... People can smell a desperate singleton a mile away. So avoid dinner conversation with not-so-subtle comments like, "My mother would love you!" Or ending the evening with, "So, do you want to go out again? How's Wednesday?"

Return to Sender... Texting, whether you love it or hate it, don't be texting your friends while with your date. Even if your date is in the restroom. Even if you think you can sneak it under the table where he/she won't notice. Your date will not LOL, so put that thing away!

Contingency Plans... Sometimes that first date goes well; sometimes it's painful from beginning to end. Which is why humans invented emergency "outs." The problem is, contingency plans are way too obvious and offensive to your date. If you're concerned about how the date will go, don't have your "friend" call or text you with an "emergency" halfway through dinner. It's always best to speak the truth and exit politely with a "thank you for dinner."

And Now for the Big Goodbye... If all goes well on a first date, you may end the outing with a little kiss. If you find yourself freaking out about it way before the date is even over, know that a hearty hug can send the same message. If you do go for the lips, make sure your mouth is minty fresh.

by  Rita Mauceri and Elycia Rubin

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Should I Stay or Should I Go?

Many of you are struggling with the issue of soul contracts ending in ways that are unpleasant and painful.  In these situations you are not receiving the kind of closure you need to help you handle the disappointment and frustration of having worked so hard towards healing and stepping into a life with a soul mate without achieving the results you desired.

You do have choices in these situations, to stay or to go, to move on with your life or to wait for the person to make a transformation and join you. The choice belongs to you. But before you choose, know that this has probably happened to you before and all aspects of this situation, including the frustration you are feeling, are part of your karmic journey with this person. 

At this time people are being presented with choices as to which path they will take and one of those choices involves the ending of soul contracts. If the required level of learning and spiritual understanding have been achieved, the soul will allow the contract to end. But if not, the soul ends the healing opportunities that allow for growth to occur and lets the person return to their karmic lessons. That is why these relationships are ending so suddenly, without explanation or the kind of closure that provides you with some degree of comfort, even if you are broken hearted.

This situation has happened to you before, with this particular soul. There have been lifetimes where you came together for healing and to move forward into a different path together, away from your karma. In these relationships one person is always the healer to the other, providing them with an opportunity to raise their vibration in a quantum leap of healing. And in many lifetimes the person is not ready, so they end the relationship through betrayal, dying, physical or mental illness, or abandonment, . And the karmic cycle comes around again in another lifetime, another cycle of healing or denial, coming together or pulling away.

If this message resonates with you, you have the choice to stay or go, to get on with your life and your soul's growth or to wait for the person to transform and raise their vibrations to allow healing to occur.

But you can't do it for them.

And if you decide to wait, you are doing what you may have done in a past lifetime, pausing your own spiritual growth in the hope that someone would complete theirs. This is a karmic experience for both of you and your choice to move on may represent a victory that you have been unable to achieve for many lifetimes.

Know that you are not alone, that you are experiencing a transition that the Shift has brought to the forefront for many. And make your choice knowing that what you have completed or outgrown will be replaced with something that matches your vibration.

~ article by Jennifer Hoffman from "Uriel Heals" Newsletter

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Why Guys Dump Girls They Dig & Signs You Are About to be Jilted


Chances are, you've had at least one breakup that left you wondering, "What just happened?"

The guy dug you, you dug him, and the whole thing felt destined for a the foreseeable one. Then, out of nowhere, he bailed on the relationship. So what went wrong? The sad dating truth is, maybe nothing.

Here are five reasons guys break off a relationship:

Single women get serious when they meet the right man. Single men
get serious when they're finally ready to settle down. But if you catch a guy before he's ready to make the ultimate commitment (marriage), then he's liable to bolt especially if you bring up a future together before he's ready. 

They're Not Finished Playing the Field. Single men are natural-born one-uppers. If there's a possibility of upgrading what they already have for something better they'll do so. In other words, "the grass is always greener." No matter how great his current girl is, a guy doesn't want to feel like he's missing out.

Most guys feel compelled to put as many relationship conquests under their belts as possible. Every guy's definition of enough is different, so there's a chance he wrote you off because you didn't come late enough on his own personal hit list.
 
They're Fixated on the Worst-Case Scenario. From the times you chastise them for leaving a wet towel on the bed to those nights you rip through a pint of ice cream without stopping to breathe, they file each incident in a mental folder labeled "Evidence She'll Change for the Worse." Then they'll flip through that file when they have thoughts of breaking off the relationship. Many single men are hyperaware of what could go wrong down the road. Even if they're crazy about you now, they panic that you'll pack on the pounds and nag them day and night.  So they secretly flag certain things that might be a harbinger of bad things to come.
 
They're in Like, Not in Love. Just because a guy likes you a lot isn't a guarantee that it will evolve into love. They are intuitive when it comes to figuring out a girl's potential on this front. So why do many guys invest time in a relationship that they know will ultimately end? Because they're able to live in the moment for a while and chalk it up to a good experience. But once you show that you're more into them than they are into you, they'll leave, believing that you deserve to be with someone who loves you as much as you love him.

They're Too into You. Guys are protective of their emotions. They're scared of being hurt. So, if they start to feel like they're getting into a situation where they'll be heartbroken if you dump them, they may yank the plug first. Think about how vulnerable you feel when you're crazy about a guy. They go through the same thing with the women they really like. But men aren't as good at helping one another get over an break-up as women are. So they feel it's better to act like a winner before the humiliation and pain assail them. Thus, ending the relationship seems like the only option.
 
Signs He May Be Intended to Break Up With You:
* He ignores and doesn't return your phone calls.
* He's relunctant to make plans.
* He's mean spirited and moody.
* He's emotionally distant.

Article published in Cosmopolitan Magazine. 2008

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Common Mistakes People Make in Their Relationships and How to Correct Them

Most people see a man/woman and say, "I like him/her. I'd like that person to be my intended partner." A courtship follows for a while and along the way you learn that this person does not exactly live up to your standards/expectations. Soon, dissolution sets in. "I don't like it when (s)he does this or that." "I like going out on the town; (s)he always wants to stay home." "I love the outdoors; (s)he prefers to stay indoors all the time."

The most common mistake people make is they see someone they like, then try and mould that person to fit the attributes they want in a partner, when, in fact, it should actually be the other way around.

In other words, you must first have in mind a list of attributes that you seek in a partner. Then when you meet someone, make sure they match those attributes.

Now here's where the Law of Attraction comes in.

Make a list of attributes that you desire in a partner to include spiritual, emotional, intellectual and physical. Is it important that your partner be on your same spiritual wavelength? Must he/she have a college education, or not necessarily? Do you want someone who is emotionally expressive or someone who keeps their feelings in check? What physical attributes are you attracted to? Don't hold anything back. Be specific. It's okay to be picky.You're not looking for the perfect person. You're looking for the best relationship for you.

When making your list be sure to make positive, affirmative statements. For example, do not say: "I don't want someone who is always late and unreliable." Instead say: "My partner is reliable and dependable."

Keep your list near to you... by your bedside, on your desk, in your purse... and refer to it at least once a day, or more often as you feel so guided.

If you should happen to meet someone that you like, and if over time you feel a nice connection with this person, refer to your list to see if he/she possess the attributes you seek in your relationship. If there are more discrepancies than commonalities, chances are the relationship will not work out in the long term. In other words, do not try to mould this person into something they are not.

Stay tuned for more common mistakes we make with our relationships and how to correct them.

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Tips for a Purpose-Filled Life


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1. Take a 10-30 minute walk every day. It is the ultimate anti-depressant.

2. Make time for meditation, exercise and prayer, and sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.

3. Tape your favorite late night shows so you can get more sleep.

4. Affirm the three E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.

5. Read more books.

6. Dream more while you are awake.

7. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less processed foods.

8. Drink plenty of water.

9. Try to make at least three people smile each day.

10. Clear clutter from your house, your car, your desk and let new flowing energy into your life.

11. Invest your energy in the positive present moment. Don't waste your precious energy on issues of the past, negative thoughts or things you cannot control.

12. Life is a school and you are here to learn. The challenges you face are
lessons you learn that will last a lifetime.

13. Don't take yourself seriously. No one else does.

14. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

15. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.

16. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is.

17. No one is responsible for your happiness except you.

18. Forgive everyone for everything.

19. What other people think of you is none of your business.

20. However good or bad a situation seems, it will change for the better in the long run.

21. Don't burn bridges.

22. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.

23. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.

24. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.

25. Each night before you go to bed complete the following statements: I am
thankful for __________. Today I accomplished _________.

26. You only have one ride through life so make the most of it and enjoy the ride.


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What His Breakup Lines Really Mean & Can We Still Be Friends?


Every relationship goes through some bad times. Like the time you caught him flirting when he thought you weren't watching, or the time the ex called and left a sultry message on the machine, or the time when the two of you fought like angry reptiles when one of you decided it was okay to spend the bonus money on the latest turbo tool. But, the most awkward and uncomfortable time in a relationship comes at the very end of it - the time when the two of you (or at least one of you) decides it's time to move on.

No break-up is easy, and many guys resort to some old standards when it comes to conversational gambits in the final moments. This will help you decode what his cutting lines truly mean.

"It's not you; it's me."
Translation: "It's not me; it's you."

One-third of men admit that they're lying when they blame themselves for the demise of the relationship. Of course, they're trying to soften the blow a bit - to ensure that you know you're a great person, a caring person, a person who's perfectly right... for someone else. After all, if you were the right one (for him), he'd find a way to make it work.

"I'm not ready for a relationship right now."
Translation: "Whoa, slow down!"

Most guys take their time testing the relationship waters. If a woman comes on too strong with talk of making plans for the future, or that she's fallen in love with him after only a few dates then the man will retreat. It's not that he's not ready for a relationship; it's just that he's not ready to choose furniture together.

"Can I call you sometime?"
Translation: "If you're ever lonely at 3 a.m. on a Saturday night...."

He may or may not be that crass, but he is trying to keep the door cracked. If he's the one who's doing the ditching, then he's (unfairly) trying to lead you to believe that a break will strengthen the possibilities of some kind of rekindled romance in the future. If he's the victim, then he's trying to hang onto any slim chance he may have in the future with you. Either way, beware the late night drunk-dialing phone calls.

"I still care about you."
Translation: "Please don't tell your friends I'm a jerk."

Truth is, he probably does care about you in that you do well and get what you want in life. But what he's also saying is, that the relationship may be broken, but it's a big concern that his reputation remains intact.

- David Zinczenko
Editor & Chief of Men's Health


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Addendum

Can We Still Be Friends?

Sometimes a post-romantic friendship can in fact work out. But if your motivation in wanting to be "just friends" is in hopes of a reconciliation, most likely it will backfire.

To the person being asked "can we be friends?", "friends" means friends, as in the occasional phone call, let's have lunch sometime, and discussing other men/women for whom there may be an interest. This last point, especially, can be hurtful if you still happen to be in love with said "friend".

Therefore, if you want to be "friends" after a break-up, you have to really be in the proper frame of mind, otherwise it will only add salt to the wound.


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Quote of the Day: Eckhart Tolle


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You have a treasure within ...
that is infinitely greater than anything the [outside] world can offer.
~ Eckhart Tolle


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Quote of the Day: Wayne Dyer


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"Within you is the divine capacity to manifest and attract
all that you need or desire." ~ Wayne Dyer



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