Everyone who has offered psychic services to the public has run into
the phenomena of having their abilities and/or skills called into
question because a customer didn't like the information. However, I'd like to offer a more exacting examination of this dilemma.
Some psychics discover their gifts early on, some later.
For the ones who discover it early, it can be a painful process. Being
able to see, hear and feel what your peers cannot is not always
understood or appreciated. Many young psychics push the gift away at this point.
For
those who understand the value of psychic perception, we go through a
growth process of understanding just how our unconscious mind delivers
up pertinent psychic information, how to interpret symbols and/or
kinesthetic sensations. Some of us go through formal training, most go
through trial and error to determine this.
Once we have figured
this out, we must decide whether to offer these services to others. But
there is an inherent problem here: our psychic information is not
always emotionally appealing. As a matter of fact, it is often exactly
what our friend/relative/customer does not want to hear.
Every psychic crosses this threshold
and must decide for themselves, if they will stay true to the intuitive
information, or tailor it to the emotional appetite of the other
person.
Most natural psychics never make it past this threshold
successfully and move into the realm of charlatan. They begin using
their psychic skills to tune into what the other person wants to hear, rather than the truth.
For those who do successfully make this transition, they must learn the
fine art of giving customers unappealing information in a positive,
constructive and compassionate way. As you can imagine, this is quite difficult.
Psychics must also learn how to deal with their own emotional reactions to the psychic data.
Many are detached from the content of the data and then become
emotionally entangled with their customers, with strong desires for
certain out comes. This is why some psychics serve customers well for a while and then all their information becomes clouded and inaccurate later.
In order to maintain accuracy, no matter how much a psychic likes or
dislikes the customer, they must remain completely objective when
psychically tapping in.
There is one other major area where
emotions must be properly handled and interpreted for accurate
information: that is the emotions within the context of the person being
tapped into. Now, psychic perception can certainly be used for more
then just gleaning how your guy or girl feels, but that is a topic for
another blog. What must be interpreted by the psychics are what I will
call here 'emotional lines of force' or emotional connections.
Emotions
can be embedded in the environment as well, as in the cause of residual
hauntings, but we will stick with the emotions of the customer's object
of affection.
Almost every psychic can walk into a room and instantly tell you how every person in the room is feeling.
Feelings are not always an appropriate or accurate measure of the
people, but they are a strong indicator. So let's walk into our
hypothetical party room, shall we?

The first couple we encounter is a young, married couple. Both look great and are in wonderful shape. But despite their smiles, we psychics can see that there isn't much of an emotional connection between these two.
Their cloths are trendy and expensive. They mingle with others well.
But despite this we can perceive a barrier from the husband toward his
wife; he clearly keeps things from her. For me this usually looks like a
dark blotch in the aura.
We probe him for more emotional
connections and this leads us to another man who is genetically related;
his brother. We perceive business terms like 'corporate' and
'spreadsheet' and 'analysis'. We conclude that this young man is in
business with his brother and his brother is far more important to him
then his pretty, young wife.
When we turn our attention toward the wife we perceive a shallowness that takes us back.
This woman doesn't have much emotional depth and certainly cares
nothing for her husband. We sense all this despite the laughs and
smiles that emanate from them.
When we probe her further we only come
up with terms like 'money, travel' and 'horses.' We see a quick flash
in our mind's eye of her riding a horse in uniform. She is probably
into Equestrianism.
We probe them both together again. There is no deep connection and we conclude that this is a marriage of convenience. And it doesn't take precognition to predict that it probably won't last.

We next approach an aged man in a suit that is about 20 years out of fashion. Despite this faux pas,
he has a magnificent tie, cuffs and shoes. We can tell this man has
money. He holds a wine glass and looks a little lost. As we tune into
him we get a strong indicator of an older woman, with emotional
connections so strong, it must be his wife.
He greets us with
detached, yet amiable dignity. However there is worry all over his
aura. As we follow this emotion, we can sense it is attached to his
wife. In our mind's eye flashes an image of this woman in a hospital
bed, with tubes, wires and machines hooked to her.
Being outspoken
psychics, we briefly consider telling him that his wife will recover
from her heart attack. But as we probe him further perceive that he would not take that positive information well at all;
not for religious or dogmatic reasons, but because he is a very private
man. He would be unnerved to realize that someone can see his beloved
wife's plight through him.
We wisely hold our tongue and greet him with a superficial joke about falling stocks instead.

The next couple we approach are middle aged and their fine cloths look a little worn. We can immediately sense the deep love and commitment between these two.
We can also sense the affection with their four children and a little anxiety
with a son leaving for college soon. The man and woman are very
gracious towards each other and only tell the most playful of jokes
about each other. We can sense money problems pertaining to a severe
illness the man suffered about six months ago.
As we probe them we perceive a young woman emotionally attached to the man who is not one of his two daughters.
We 'see' her blond hair falling around the shoulders of her medical
attire. We sense she was an in home nurse, caring for this man
while he was ill. The emotional connection is almost as strong
between these two as between the man and his wife and we know they are
having an affair.
If the young nurse were our customer, we'd
tell her break things off, because we can perceive this massive
emotional bond between this man and his wife. He is not going anywhere, he will not leave his wife for her, despite his numerous promises to do so.
I hope these three, brief examples give you an idea of how the psychic perception process works. Things are not always what they seem. The object of your affection may be rejecting you, yet be hopelessly in love with you.
They may smile to your face and yet despise you or just be using you.
And yet again, things may be exactly what they seem. There is no way to
tell at first glance because appearances can be deceiving.
Good, professional psychics will tell you exactly what they perceive with very little, if any, distortion.
But be prepared, you may hear what you don't want to hear. You may
need to go reassess your life and circumstances. You may need to take
up more spiritual habits or improve yourself.
Heck, some customers of mine have simply needed to attend 'charm school.' ;-)
I need to attend to my children, but will be available most of tomorrow (Wednesday) and most evenings through the rest of the week and weekend. Talk to you soon.