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A long time ago, in a galaxy far, far away…


Sixty-eight years ago today, George Lucas, the creator of Star Wars was born. He grew up in California’s central valley town of Modesto. He had such a passion for cars on racing that he wanted to be a race car driver when he was young. But a near-fatal car accident at the end of his senior year in high school convinced him otherwise.

He was accepted into Modesto Junior College where he studied Anthropology. He later graduated from the University of Southern California of Cinematic Arts. Lucas had numerous successful films before his phenomenal success with the Star Wars franchise.

Star Wars quickly became the highest-grossing film of all-time. During the filming of Star Wars, Lucas waived his up-front fee as director and negotiated to own the licensing rights (for novelizations, T-shirts, toys, etc.) rights which the studio thought were nearly worthless. This decision earned him hundreds of millions of dollars, as he was able to directly profit from all the licensed games, toys, and collectibles created for the franchise. This accumulated capital enabled him to finance the sequel himself.

Lucas was hugely influenced by Joseph John Campbell, an American mythologist best known for his work in comparative mythology and comparative religion.

Star Wars features elements such as knights, witches, and princesses that are related to archetypes of the fantasy genre. The Star Wars world, unlike fantasy and science-fiction films that featured sleek and futuristic settings, was portrayed as dirty and grimy.

The first Star Wars film was released thirty-five years ago, on May 25th, 1977 (much to my squealing ten year old joy). This is when we were first introduced to such archetypical characters Luke Skywalker (the uninitiated hero), Princess Leia (the princess), Obi-Wan Kenobi (the wise wizard), Han Solo (the self-obsessed mercenary), and Chewbacca (the loyal sidekick), Darth Vader (the evil wizard), C-3P0 and R2-D2 (the fools).




We join Luke on his journey from yearning farm boy to competent hero and the destruction of the evil empires ultimate weapon, The Death Star.

All of the elements of Star Wars have since become iconic in American society. And our world will never be the same.

Happy Birthday, Mr. Lucas. And thank you!

May the Force be with you!

posted Monday, May 14, 2012 12:01 PM by James Vitale | 0 Comments
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The "Horror"! Or what NOT to ask a psychic!


"The great enemy of the truth is very often not the lie, deliberate, contrived and dishonest, but the myth, persistent, persuasive and unrealistic." ~ John F. Kennedy

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Well, every psychic gets it at some point. My latest feedback states that "horrible" would be a kind word to describe me. Horrible can also sometimes be used to describe the ups and downs and frustrations of love! So while I can understand my customers sentiments, I'd like to qualify what makes me so horrible.

I would never be so presumptuous to suggest that I am 100% accurate. I don't believe that anything we humans do is in the realm of perfect. Perfection, at this stage in our development, is reserved for gods, not human beings.

When it comes to men, I understand them very well, whether they be prince or pauper. When it comes to the intuitive process, I am an expert. This means I can get you highly accurate intuitive information about your man.

What can I not do as a psychic?

  1. I cannot be on the phone with you when you call him or talk to him. I cannot help you adjust any subtle changes in communication.
  2. I cannot help you to be resourceful under volatile circumstances. I can only give you moral support before or after.
  3. I cannot make you take my advice, be loving and nice to the man of your heart. Only you can do that.
  4. I can't advise your man, I don't have him on the phone with me. I only have you, the customer, to work with.
  5. While I can answer your questions about why your man doesn't want to talk to you, none of it would be polite or appropriate for me to write or say over the phone. I think it's far more constructive to focus on what you can do to improve communication, even though that may be outside your comfort zone.
  6.  I cannot guarantee anything will work out; especially if you refuse to follow my advice. I'm not a witch, warlock or purveyor of magic spells. All I can do is give you the best information, giving you the best possible chance of making a connection and getting the love you need.


In defense of the customer who left me the negative feedback, my heart really does go out to her. Like many of my customers, she is in a tough situation. Genuine heartbreak is very difficult to deal with. I know, I have been there; unable to eat, racing thoughts, etc.

However, I still think it is far better to focus on what we can do, then on what we cannot do. 

posted Sunday, May 13, 2012 9:15 PM by James Vitale | 8 Comments
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Married to the wrong person?


One question I get frequently asked is how a man can be a woman's optimum mate if he's already married?  The answer is simple: he married the wrong woman. 

An optimum mate is not a perfect or ideal mate, but the best person for you.   Is the relationship the easiest?  Almost never!  Is it the most beneficial?  Absolutely!  Is an optimum mate a 'soul mate'?  Truthfully I don't know; I've never read an adequate explanation of a 'soul mate.' 

What I do know is that I can intuitively sense and / or Remote View an optimum mate; and there is only one.  Soul mates seem to be numerous.

Optimum Mates are a part of your optimum path or trajectory in life.  To understand why a man or woman would be married to the wrong person is pretty simple.   They ignored their heart and / or their intuition.  This frequently happens in our society, which frowns up intuition as 'irrational.'  As we all know however, there are some things that make no rational sense but must simply be felt.

People not only make mistakes, in our overly-rational society, about mates, but vocations and location to live as well.  But that, is another story!

posted Friday, May 11, 2012 6:50 PM by James Vitale | 9 Comments
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The Psychic Mark Twain


Samuel Langhorne Clemens was born on this day, November 30th, 1835 and was better known by his pen name, Mark Twain.  He is most noted for his novels, The Adventures of Tom Sawyer (1876), and its sequel, Adventures of Huckleberry Finn (1885), the latter often called "the Great American Novel."

Clemens was born two weeks after the closest approach to Earth of Halley's Comet.

Hi father, John, died of pneumonia was he was 11.  The next year, he became a printer's apprentice.  In 1851, he began working as a typesetter and contributor of articles and humorous sketches for the Hannibal Journal, a newspaper owned by his brother Orion.

When he was 18, he left Hannibal and worked as a printer in New York City, Philadelphia, St. Louis, and Cincinnati.  He  educated himself in public libraries in the evenings, finding wider information than at a conventional school.  He returned to Missouri when he was 22.

On a voyage to New Orleans down the Mississippi, steamboat pilot Horace E. Bixby inspired Twain to become a pilot himself.   A steamboat pilot needed to know the ever-changing river to be able to stop at the hundreds of ports and wood-lots.  Twain studied 2,000 miles of the Mississippi for more than two years before he received his steamboat pilot license in 1859.

While training, Samuel convinced his younger brother Henry to work with him.  Soon afterward Twain had a vivid dream while staying at his sister's house.  In it saw his brother's body lying in a metal casket.  It rested on two chairs in his sister's sitting room and had a white bouquet with a single red rose sitting on Henry's chest.  Twain awoke.  So intense was his excitement that he hustled out the door and walked a full block from this sister's house before he could reason with himself that it was just a dream.  He returned to his sister's house.

"What's the trouble?" his sister asked him.  "Where were you going?"

"To see if Henry was dead." he replied.  "I had a vision last night.  It was so unlike any I have experienced before.  I thought it must be so."

"Sit down, tell me about it," his sister said.

He recounted the dream to her.

A few weeks later, on June 21, 1858, Twain and Henry were returning from New Orleans on separate riverboats.  The steamboat Pennsylvania, which Henry was aboard, had a boiler explosion.  Henry was brought to Memphis where he died a few days later.   Whereas most of the dead were placed in wooden coffins, the women of Memphis raised enough money to place Henry's body in a metal coffin.

When Twain went to his sister's house, he found his brother lying just the way he had foreseen in his dream, except there were no flowers.  As he stood there, a woman walked up beside him and placed a bouquet of white flowers on Henry's chest.  In its center was a single red rose.

Twain was guilt-stricken for the rest of his life.  He held himself responsible for his brother's death.  He must have felt there was someway he could have prevented it.

This experience inspired his interest in parapsychology and he later joined the Society for Psychical Research.

He later failed as a gold miner, in Nevada, and turned to journalism next.  While a reporter, he wrote a humorous story, The Celebrated Jumping Frog of Calaveras County, which became very popular and brought nationwide attention.  His travelogues were also well-received.   Twain had found his calling.

Between 1896 and 1909 he lost his two of his three daughters, Susy and Jean, his beloved wife, Olivia, and his good friend Henry Rogers.  He entered a period of deep depression.

In 1909, Twain is quoted as saying:

"I came in with Halley's Comet in 1835.  It is coming again next year, and I expect to go out with it.  It will be the greatest disappointment of my life if I don't go out with Halley's Comet.  The Almighty has said, no doubt: Now here are these two unaccountable freaks; they came in together, they must go out together."

His prediction was accurate.  He died of a heart attack on April 21, 1910, in Redding, Connecticut, one day after the comet's closest approach to Earth.

posted Sunday, May 06, 2012 2:21 PM by James Vitale | 1 Comments
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Emotional Connections, Appealing and Distasteful!


Everyone who has offered psychic services to the public has run into the phenomena of having their abilities and/or skills called into question because a customer didn't like the information.  However, I'd like to offer a more exacting examination of this dilemma.

Some psychics discover their gifts early on, some later.  For the ones who discover it early, it can be a painful process.  Being able to see, hear and feel what your peers cannot is not always understood or appreciated.  Many young psychics push the gift away at this point.

For those who understand the value of psychic perception, we go through a growth process of understanding just how our unconscious mind delivers up pertinent psychic information, how to interpret symbols and/or kinesthetic sensations.  Some of us go through formal training, most go through trial and error to determine this.

Once we have figured this out, we must decide whether to offer these services to others.  But there is an inherent problem here: our psychic information is not always emotionally appealing.  As a matter of fact, it is often exactly what our friend/relative/customer does not want to hear.

Every psychic crosses this threshold and must decide for themselves, if they will stay true to the intuitive information, or tailor it to the emotional appetite of the other person.

Most natural psychics never make it past this threshold successfully and move into the realm of charlatan.  They begin using their psychic skills to tune into what the other person wants to hear, rather than the truth.  For those who do successfully make this transition, they must learn the fine art of giving customers unappealing information in a positive, constructive and compassionate way.  As you can imagine, this is quite difficult.

Psychics must also learn how to deal with their own emotional reactions to the psychic data.  Many are detached from the content of the data and then become emotionally entangled with their customers, with strong desires for certain out comes.  This is why some psychics serve customers well for a while and then all their information becomes clouded and inaccurate later. 

In order to maintain accuracy, no matter how much a psychic likes or dislikes the customer, they must remain completely objective when psychically tapping in.

There is one other major area where emotions must be properly handled and interpreted for accurate information: that is the emotions within the context of the person being tapped into.  Now, psychic perception can certainly be used for more then just gleaning how your guy or girl feels, but that is a topic for another blog.  What must be interpreted by the psychics are what I will call here 'emotional lines of force' or emotional connections.

Emotions can be embedded in the environment as well, as in the cause of residual hauntings, but we will stick with the emotions of the customer's object of affection.

Almost every psychic can walk into a room and instantly tell you how every person in the room is feeling.  Feelings are not always an appropriate or accurate measure of the people, but they are a strong indicator.    So let's walk into our hypothetical party room, shall we?


The first couple we encounter is a young, married couple.  Both look great and are in wonderful shapeBut despite their smiles, we psychics can see that there isn't much of an emotional connection between these two.  Their cloths are trendy and expensive.  They mingle with others well.  But despite this we can perceive a barrier from the husband toward his wife; he clearly keeps things from her.  For me this usually looks like a dark blotch in the aura.

We probe him for more emotional connections and this leads us to another man who is genetically related; his brother.  We perceive business terms like 'corporate' and 'spreadsheet' and 'analysis'.  We conclude that this young man is in business with his brother and his brother is far more important to him then his pretty, young wife.

When we turn our attention toward the wife we perceive a shallowness that takes us back.  This woman doesn't have much emotional depth and certainly cares nothing for her husband.  We sense all this despite the laughs and smiles that emanate from them. 

When we probe her further we only come up with terms like 'money, travel' and 'horses.'  We see a quick flash in our mind's eye of her riding a horse in uniform.  She is probably into Equestrianism.

We probe them both together again.  There is no deep connection and we conclude that this is a marriage of convenience.  And it doesn't take precognition to predict that it probably won't last.


We next approach an aged man in a suit that is about 20 years out of fashion.  Despite this faux pas, he has a magnificent tie, cuffs and shoes.  We can tell this man has money.  He holds a wine glass and looks a little lost.  As we tune into him we get a strong indicator of an older woman, with emotional connections so strong, it must be his wife.

He greets us with detached, yet amiable dignity.  However there is worry all over his aura.  As we follow this emotion, we can sense it is attached to his wife.  In our mind's eye flashes an image of this woman in a hospital bed, with tubes, wires and machines hooked to her.

Being outspoken psychics, we briefly consider telling him that his wife will recover from her heart attack.  But as we probe him further perceive that he would not take that positive information well at all; not for religious or dogmatic reasons, but because he is a very private man.  He would be unnerved to realize that someone can see his beloved wife's plight through him.

We wisely hold our tongue and greet him with a superficial joke about falling stocks instead.


The next couple we approach are middle aged and their fine cloths look a little worn.  We can immediately sense the deep love and commitment between these two.  We can also sense the affection with their four children and a little anxiety with a son leaving for college soon.  The man and woman are very gracious towards each other and only tell the most playful of jokes about each other.  We can sense money problems pertaining to a severe illness the man suffered about six months ago.

As we probe them we perceive a young woman emotionally attached to the man who is not one of his two daughters.  We 'see' her blond hair falling around the shoulders of her medical attire.  We sense she was an in  home nurse, caring for this man while he was ill.  The emotional connection is almost as strong between these two as between the man and his wife and we know they are having an affair.

If the young nurse were our customer, we'd tell her break things off, because we can perceive this massive emotional bond between this man and his wife.  He is not going anywhere, he will not leave his wife for her, despite his numerous promises to do so.

I hope these three, brief examples give you an idea of how the psychic perception process works.  Things are not always what they seem.  The object of your affection may be rejecting you, yet be hopelessly in love with you.  They may smile to your face and yet despise you or just be using you.  And yet again, things may be exactly what they seem.  There is no way to tell at first glance because appearances can be deceiving.

Good, professional psychics will tell you exactly what they perceive with very little, if any, distortion.  But be prepared, you may hear what you don't want to hear.  You may need to go reassess your life and circumstances.  You may need to take up more spiritual habits or improve yourself.

Heck, some customers of mine have simply needed to attend 'charm school.'  ;-)

I need to attend to my children, but will be available most of tomorrow (Wednesday) and most evenings through the rest of the week and weekend.  Talk to you soon.

posted Tuesday, May 01, 2012 4:27 PM by James Vitale | 4 Comments
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Cold Objectivity


Cold objectivity has its value in psychic readings.  One unfortunate phenomena many of us have run into is having a Psychic let their personal experience color their view of your situation.  That will never happen with me. 

While I can be compassionate about your situation,  I am coldly objective about the psychic data.  My personal experience has no place except as an occasional point of reference. 

If you want brutal accuracy with practical application, I am your psychic!  Talk to you soon!

posted Saturday, April 28, 2012 6:10 PM by James Vitale | 2 Comments
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The Unfolding Soul


I am often asked by customers, why they are suffering.  There are many answers for this.  Sometimes we suffer because of our own choices.  Sometimes we suffer because of the choices of others.  Sometimes we suffer because we live in a fallen world.  As Buddha said in the First of the Four Noble Truths: all life is suffering.  

However, this would be far better translated from the original Sanskrit word Dukkha to English as, all life is uneasiness or maybe disjointedness.  There are many other words that could also suitable take the place of the word 'suffering' in the First Noble Truth.  These include:  pain, discontent, unsatisfactoriness, unhappiness, sorrow, affliction, social alienation, anxiety, dissatisfaction, discomfort, anguish, stress, misery, or frustration.

Now, I am not a big fan of simply saying that life stinks and we must suck it up.  ;-)  But a certain degree of suffering, because we live on a relatively spiritual undeveloped planet, is to be expected.  As Benjamin Franklin advised about tranquility: “Be not disturbed at trifles, or at accidents common or unavoidable.”

We are here on Earth to unfold, grow, and evolve our Soul.  This is not easy.  But obviously, the Soul needs contact with crude matter to reach it's potential.  And in this understanding, we can find some personal peace.  Let us take a better look at the lotus flower.  It is one of the Eight Auspicious Symbols and one of the most poignant representations of Buddhist teaching.

The roots of a lotus are in the mud, the stem grows up through the water, and the heavily scented flower lies pristinely above the water, basking in the sunlight. This pattern of growth signifies the progress of the soul from the primeval mud of materialism, through the waters of experience, and into the bright sunshine of enlightenment.

Though there are other water plants that bloom above the water, it is only the lotus which, owing to the strength of its stem, regularly rises eight to twelve inches above the surface.  According to the Lalitavistara Sutra, "the spirit of the best of men is spotless, like the lotus in the muddy water which does not adhere to it."

There are many things we can do to solve our problems or at least be at peace with the challenges that we cannot overcome.  If you need some insight into any areas of life, be it love, family, career or business, I can help.  Keen is also running a special over the Thanksgiving weekend you might want to take a look into.

Peace profound,


James

posted Monday, April 23, 2012 2:05 PM by James Vitale | 0 Comments
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It's not another woman!


Okay ladies, I am continuing my theme of giving you a more realistic view of men in general.  One of the most common questions I am asked when I take a customer is: "Is he with that other woman?"  I know you have heard all the horror stories of womanizers and maybe even been unfortunate enough to have been involved with one in the past.  They are certainly out there. 

But like I stated in my previous blog (Men and the 'commitment issue'), in 15 years of psychic work I have come across two dozen dirt bags, whom I told customers to simply dump!  I've come across about a dozen golden boys who were just fabulous. 

Keep in mind that I have conducted over 2000 readings in that 15 years, both via phone and working in two psychic bookstores in Arizona...and I've run across 24 scumbags. Only 24!  In one case, and one case only, did I tell a customer that she was loosing her man to another woman and their was nothing she could do about it.

Most guys, again, are striving to do the best they can.  They don't understand women anymore than many of you do men.  We really are from different planets.

Fortunately for you, psychics are available to bridge this gap.  I will give you cleariest information I can from an intuitive male perspective.  Please trust me when I say that I can help you improve your relationship.  But in almost every case you need to take some action or make some changes! 

There are many psychics who will tell you that your guy is a Saint or a scumbag.  Chances are he's neither and you can do something to improve your relationship. 

Also keep in mind that when I state that I'm 80-90% accurate in my readings (on my listings), that doesn't mean I am wholly wrong about whether your guy loves you or not!  Trust me, I can read him like a book!  Especially after tapping into him multiple times!  The 10-20% error rate might be about something like a specific time frame where I am off a week or two or about exactly what gift he may have gotten you. 

Emotions are some of the easiest things for a psychic to pick up on.  I can tell you whether he really loves you, doesn't love and is just using you, or there is a mixture of attraction, repulsion or other complicated feelings. 

Nothing frustrates me more than seeing customers begin to improve their relationships with my advice, only to then let fear over take them, fall back into comfortable old patterns, and sabotage their relationship with the love of their life!

I have focused on female customers, since that is the majority, but I love male clients as well.  Just make sure you are ready to use the advice I give you.

My next series of blogs will be aimed at male customers.  So if your man is open to intuitive information at all, tell him to give me a call.  You can also let him know I'm a trained Remote Viewer.  Remote Viewing is the formerly classified military psychic spy skill.  That should get him a little more interested!

Give me a call and let's get things back on track for you!

posted Sunday, April 22, 2012 10:08 PM by James Vitale | 0 Comments
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True Love

“The madness of love is the greatest of heaven’s blessings” 
~ Plato


The phrase true love is almost as misunderstood as the word love. What is true love according to this masculine male psychic? It’s optimum. It’s the best of all possibilities. It’s not the easiest, it’s not the ideal, and it’s not perfect by any means.

There are two things that are almost equally sad as a psychic: a customer who want to force a temporary relationship to be a true love one, and the customer who wants to make true love a temporarily relationship! 

I’ve been asked many times: how can you tell whether this is a temporary relationship or true love? It’s intuitive; I can feel it.

Forget the analytical answers and classic relationship texts. Chances are pretty good, you and your true love should have been done with each other years ago! And with good reason. But you cannot give each other up!

I am here to help you handle the madness. Give me a call.

My true love, my madness, heaven's blessing

posted Saturday, April 21, 2012 6:15 PM by James Vitale | 1 Comments
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What makes a good psychic?

There are many things that go into making a good psychic. I am only going to address a few key attributes in this blog.

Skill: This might seem like a no-brainer, but a psychic must have some skill. They must actually be able to do what they say they can; whether that be communication with the dead, predictions, or clairvoyance. Compassion and good intention are wonderful, but there is no substitute for skill.

Flexibility: A psychic must be able to get outside their comfort zone and talk about almost anything with grace. It shouldn't matter whether this is talking to your deceased conservative uncle or data about family secrets. The psychic's job is to reveal the unforeseen.

Tact: Direct communication is a necessity in psychic work but it should not be at the expense of tact. Being so blunt that the caller cannot concentrate on the information because of rudeness is unacceptable.

Humility: There is nothing wrong with being proud of what one does, but being a psychic does not give license for pretension. We psychics put our pants on one leg at a time too...unless some can levitate! ;-)

Compassion: It can easy in this business to grow desensitized to the suffering others. A psychic should be able to compassionately communicate with you while still remaining professional.

Some of my peers might add some additional traits, but these are the ones that are foremost in my mind.

posted Friday, April 20, 2012 9:16 PM by James Vitale | 3 Comments
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The Man Whisperer


I've joked with a few of my customers that I was going to start calling myself The Man Whisperer! Maybe I won't change my member name to that, but I'll blog about it.

Okay ladies, listen up: Everyday I run into the same series of problems with my mostly female customers. Don't take this wrong, I love you all and am happy to help. But the average woman is completely lost with the signals the average man puts out in a relationship. This is understandable, since we really are wired very differently.

About half my time on the phone is spent, not perceiving raw psychic information, but explaining how the male animal works in general; and then specifically, how the customer's man thinks and feels about her. This is wonderful too, since I really do help the customer.

The part that shocks me a little is how perplexed most women are about how men think. I would suspect with how much energy females put into relationships, they'd have their guy figured out by now. ;-)

Again, I do not mean to be insulting or offensive. It's easy for me because I am a straight-alpha-male psychic. One hint I would like to give you ladies before you call me is: guys are very, very simple. Most of the time, you're reading way more into the situation then is there.

There are many fantastic female intuitives here on Keen who can help you explore your feelings and spirituality in ways I probably never could as a man. So please don't think I'm being derogatory toward them.

But if you're completely confounded and hopeless lost in the forest of overly plain male behavior, please let me help you
. Honestly, unless you want to talk about your feelings at length, it will probably take me less then 10 minutes to help you understand just how little your man really thinks! :-D

I AM The Man Whisperer!

posted Thursday, April 19, 2012 7:18 PM by James Vitale | 3 Comments
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Notes from a Psychic Dad


When I first created this account on Keen a few year back, my Keen nickname was 'Psychic Dad.'  I choose that name because of how seriously I take my responsibilities as a father.  I only changed it because I didn't want anyone to think I was afraid to use my real name. 

You see I'm not just into to psychic work if it happens to pay well, but dedicated to it as a lifestyle and I'm not backing down for anyone.

So in this blog I'd like to cover two unique aspects about me: fatherhood and masculinity. 

During my marriage to my kid's mother, she ran into to trouble caring for three small children despite the fact that I worked my rear off at a traditional job to keep her home with them.  We switched roles when my youngest was less then a year old for what was supposed to be a six-month period.  While I am no longer with their mother, that was 9 years ago and I am still their primary care-giver. 

This has been quite the personal challenge for me, because like most men, I am money motivated and want to provide.  However, I cannot do so at the expense of my children...I will not allow them to suffer just to feel better about myself.


Kids

You will probably notice that my favored availability status on Keen is 'Alert Me of Calls'.  I rarely answer calls immediately on this status.  There are two reasons for this: I am almost always busy with my kids, or typical errands like grocery shopping, cleaning, cooking, homework, doctor's appointments, etc.

In some cases I am simply playing with or paying attention to my children, which in the case of my boys, they can never get enough of!  This also includes my daughter who is 'too cool' to have much to do with me.  ;-)


I'm a Man

I am a male psychic, which means I require a little more preparation to shift into to psychic mode.  I have seen female psychics can be sleep deprived, hungry and frazzled and still tap right into the person in question or even communicate with the dead.  I cannot do this.  I am a man and I cannot even get close to claiming the ability to multitask.  I move fast, but any appearance of holistic-brained, multitasking is an illusion, I assure you!

I must be well-fed, have had reasonable exercise, good sleep and preferably have meditated.  Men process psychic information differently and it is highly prioritized.  My unconscious mind will not allow me to tap into your romantic situation while my stomach is telling me I'm starving to death! ;-)  Yes, I am a typical man in many respects, despite being psychic.

The only exception to this is dangerous situations
: my psychic senses will come on full blast if me or my children are in immediate physical danger.  Thankfully, this is rare.

So my psychic perception operates along typical males lines of 'protect and provide.'  In order for me to use my skills to help you, I must respect these limitations.


So why should I use you?

So the logical question is: "If you are so high maintenance in regards to psychic perception, why should I use you as opposed to a female psychic?"  Good question!

First let me say that I have high regard for female psychics, especially the skilled ones who remain true to their abilities.  But we specialize in different kinds of information.  Being a man, I can tell you exactly why your man is behaving the way he is, what he feels and more importantly, what he thinks.  I'm not saying that will necessarily make sense to you, but I do my best to translate male thinking/feeling into the female perspective. 

You will come away with a better understanding of your man,
and possibly even past events he has gone through that shape his current views about women and relationships.  I am not suggesting that you will agree with them.  As a matter of fact, you will probably find yourself thinking, "Well he's stupid for thinking that!" 

I probably won't get your man on the phone and you are the one calling about the relationship, so all I can do is give you constructive information and understanding to make it better.

Trust me when I say that sometimes a man who seems to want nothing to do with you, is hopelessly in love with you and sometimes that man who seems to be head over heels about you is a player.  Ever situation (and man) are different, and there is no way for me to tell without 'tuning in.' 



Is it a deal?

So, even though I take my psychic work very, very seriously, I cannot always be instantly available.  I am a father first and need some preparation time.  What I can assure you of is that the instant I become aware that you want to speak to me, I try to wrap up my fatherly duties and meditate so I can give you accurate information. 

I am not sitting around playing video games and drinking beer while you are emotionally suffering.  I am preparing my best to give you information that will help you move ahead in your relationship or move on to another one.  And I can assure you, it will be worth the wait.

posted Saturday, April 14, 2012 9:12 AM by James Vitale | 0 Comments
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Purity: the abandoned ideal


I host a spiritual internet radio show on Blog Talk.  I strive to have a female co-host so that the male and female perspectives are both represented.  So as you can imagine, I am keenly aware of when other psychic shows with a male / female team come along.

Recently such a show premiered.  The woman was a friend on Facebook and the guy was someone I did not know.  But they were both attractive, wholesome, intelligent looking people, so I intended to listen.  I am a good, entertaining host, but I can always learn more.

I was completely appalled when they announced the topic for their premiere show: "Should you have sex on the first date?"  Now I realize we live in the age of instant gratification with no personal accountability.  But I could not believe that the woman, a supposed psychic, would even consider the topic!

I have been in the psychic business for 15 years.  And granted, there are some people in the industry who try rationalize one-night stands and random hookups.  But most psychics are well aware of the overwhelming heartache and pain that infidelity and promiscuity cause.   We live in an age, unfortunately, where many woman attempt to imitate the absolute worst behaviors of men.  Some people are even warped enough to call this 'liberation!" 

Since when did we allow the fashion gurus and supposed cool people to redefine 'liberation' to mean desensitizing your body and deadening your heart?  What about love, tenderness, loyalty and companionship? 

I realize we stopped crafting real men in America a long time ago.  But shouldn't we be encouraging men to be better men; faithful, loving and devoted, instead of killing their incentives for this by having random hookups and sex on the first date?

The question doesn't even need to be asked because the answer should be a resounding, "Hell no!"

Now, I understand that some of you may be thinking I'm a little archaic and old fashioned.  However almost every survey I have ever seen states that most women still want marriage and commitment.  Most of the exceptions I have come across have been discouraged women who simply no longer believe that such a relationship is possible anymore. While I sympathize with them, I cannot agree with them.  There are good men out there.  

Spiritual development, real spiritual development,  is about growth and personal responsibility.  Women, for centuries, were the sacred caretakers of all that is holy.  They helped shape good men, first at the knee, and then as their companions with their love and devotion.  Good women have always softened the harsher aspects of men. 

When did purity, the sacred ideal, become so unpopular?  We hear lip service being given to spirituality all the time, especially in the new age / self-improvement culture.  But since when did we cut off the roots of it?  Buddhism is a typical religious philosophy that is popular among new agers.  However few people are aware of just how rigorous Buddha's teaching are.  You are probably aware that one of the Four Noble Truths taught by Buddha was, "All suffering is caused by craving."  Did you know that 'craving' can also be translated as lust?  

Now I am not suggesting that we all become priests and nuns.  But our desire for love, companionship and our procreative powers need to be handled with care.  If we are reckless we will bring unnecessary suffering on our own heads.

Your body is a temple for your Soul and needs to be treated as such.  And this holds true whether you believe your Soul is the literal spirit offspring of or a divine spark of God.  Real self-love begins with respecting your temple.

Let us shake off modern, 'sophisticated' cynicism and re-embrace an old truth: Purity Purity of heart, mind, body and Soul! 


Resolutely yours,

 

James

posted Wednesday, April 11, 2012 6:50 AM by James Vitale | 14 Comments
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Man Trouble!!!


Okay, this blog is going to be a blatant advertisement for my services, because, frankly, I think it's necessary!

There are many good Advisors here on Keen.  I have met some wonderful friends too who are very good at what they do.  And yet, I continually see the same problem: women expecting men to think and behave like women.

I am not saying there are not bad guys out there; there are.  I am not saying your current relationship isn't incompatible for you; it might be.  What I am shocked about is how often female clients, and even some female Advisors perceive guys through their 'girl filter.'  

Ladies, men are wired completely differently!  Not to insult some of wonderful fellow female Advisors on here, but if you are having difficulties communicating with your man that you cannot seem to get past, please give me a call later today when I am logged on or arrange a call with me.

If I cannot help you, I will let you know quickly, so as not to waste your time.  If I can help you with my psychic advice,  you must follow my suggestions, as counter-intuitive as they may seem.  We men are a very strange breed

But, trust me, if there is genuine love there, you can overcome the communication challenges and have your man! 

Please note: if you want to connect with a deceased loved one, I can do that for you.  But it is much better to arrange a call or suggest an appointment with me, even if I am logged on.  I have done on-the-spot mediumship communication, but it is much better if I have preparation time first, i.e. meditation. 

No matter which great Advisor you choose here on Keen, please know that there is hope.  All of us men can seem like Neanderthals on occasion.  I believe that your chosen man is probably a Homosapien
though! 

Ciao!

posted Monday, April 09, 2012 8:00 PM by James Vitale | 4 Comments
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Humility

posted Sunday, April 08, 2012 1:53 PM by James Vitale | 0 Comments
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