Insight on love and life...

After reading over the title of this blog you might think, who me? I keep my ego in check! Why would I sabotage something I want to work! It is ego that tells you that you are not worthy of having a rewarding relationship. It is ego that whispers in your ear, no to call them since you have not heard from Mr. or Miss. wonderful in a few days. If someone has not called you and YOU want to see how they are pick up the phone and reach out to them. Where did the rule come from that says you are not the one to pick up the phone? No one likes to play head games when it comes to being in a relationship. I like to refer to Ego as a teacher. It is not just something that makes you doubt your worth, it is something that can show you why we make the choices we do in life. It can be a tool if we choose to look at it as simply that, a tool. Being in a relationship can often feel like we are on a rollercoaster, especially when things are not going so well. There are ups and downs, turns, etc. It is interesting how during a disagreement or argument we forget how valuable the other person is in our life! Instead of seeing how blessed we are to have this person in our life the gloves come off. The next thing you know things have been said or done that cannot be rewritten and we have to live with the regret of hurting someone we really love and trust is broken. When is the last time you looked in a mirror and told yourself how awesome you are? How YES, you do deserve to be loved and more importantly to love yourself? Maybe you are with someone that is going through the Ego scenario listed above. The only thing we can do is to assure them that we love them and understand what they are going through. In a situation like this remember not to take it personal. It would be great if we could see how blessed we really are being in a relationship and embracing it as such and not listening to Ego and saying or doing things we regret and making mistakes! Ego is not some super villain that wants us to just ruin our life. We need to look at it as a great teacher and realize that we are where we are in life because of it. Embrace it as a teacher and realize as we grow on our spiritual path we no longer have need for ego. A completely "spiritual person" has no need for Ego. Ego's job is done because your spiritual self is now in control and you no longer have a need for Ego. See it for what it is and learn from it. Lets not forget that being in a relationship is not the thing that defines you or makes you the person you are. What if the person you are with decided they wanted someone else? What if you woke up tomorrow and you're relationship was over? This happens all the time. Heartbreak, divorce, broken relationships. This might be a wake up call and if you are in touch with your spiritual self already you will be equipped to handle this situation. A sign for you to get Ego back in check and for you to wake up and start living the life you starting trying to manifest in the first place. I have had lots of people ask me "Why does it feel like my relationship is going no where"? Or "Why does my relationship feel stale"? Did you latch onto the relationship because it was easy? Was it something you settled for? Where you just tired of being "alone"? The important thing to ask yourself is what is it I really wanted? What was it in the beginning I was trying to manifest? Was I truly happy being alone? There are times in my life I have been between relationships. During those times I worked on my personal growth. Spiritual growth and self improvement. I would always reflect on why my relationship did not work out. What lessons did Ego teach me. For a lot of us this time can be very scary. It is unnerving to look inward and to be critical of self. A lot of people stay in unhealthy relationships so they don’t have to be alone or have to look inside. It is a way of avoiding getting to know your real self. Do not be afraid of knowing who you are, or being in touch with your spiritual self. A lot of time people are afraid of leaving someone behind if they grow. Or being afraid of change. Lets face it. We are not the same person we once were. Probably not the same person we are now from when the relationship started. Work on manifesting the rewarding relationship you deserve. You are deserving. Don't fear change. Grow! If you are on a rollercoaster remember, you do have choices. Keep Ego in check! I have taken time off Keen in the past to allow more of my time spent with live readings and healing sessions. If you would like to speak to me I will be on Keen more and available to take calls. As always, feel free to arrange calls. Blessings of peace and love! Jason

Blessings,

   It has been some time since my last blog posting.  I wanted to take a few moments to refect on one of the most dreaded things in life to have to go through.  A BREAK UP.  We have all been there and if you havent yet, you are in for an emotional roller coaster.  Those of us that have gone through this process see the relivance to my last sentence. 

   I have recently relearned several very important lesson in life.  Never put you happiness on the line when it comes to love, happiness comes from self!  If you are seeing someone and it causes you to put your goals on hold, or off sets your spiritual path you may need to rethink or restructure the relationship.  Even though at the end of the relationship "its a break up" we need to remember to treat others the way you want to be treated.  If its over it is over no reason to behave without dignity.

   It takes two people working 100% for a relationship to work.  Both people have to want it to work for it to work.  Open communication, respect, trust, compassion, and understnading are some of the things that a relationship needs to have to live.  Without these things in a relationship is like a plant without water.  It will soon wilt and die. 

   Finally after the break up be prepared to be changed.  Hopefully you are not someone that had put your goals, ideas, and spirituality on hold because of love.  When the relationship is over and the break up is done you will be left with what you came into it with.  You will be starting where you left off with no growth.  If you hold onto your values, goals, beliefs, throughout you will continue with your life path.  I feel it does make it easier to pick up where you left off after the other persons path goes in a different direction if you REMEMBERED what is important and not let love blind.

       I hope this blog opens your eyes if you are someone that forgot who you are.  Love is GREAT don't get me wrong, but it is blinding too.  Stay true to yourself.  You are you before the relationship, and will be YOU after it is over. 

May you be blessed, loved, and safe.

Till next time,

"Go in spirit"

Jasons Insight

   

    Well its Friday!  This morning I wanted to write about the ups and downs of an unconventional relationship.  You know the one I'm talking about.  Either you can't see them, or they can't see you for one reason or another.  Maybe you have someone, maybe they do.  Its hard to be confident in this relationship.  You don't get to just pick up the phone when you want to and call them.  Sometimes it seems like an eternity of time passes before you get to talk to them.

    I know that its hard to practice patience when you are sitting on pins and needles just waiting to hear their voice.  It sure is easy to pick up the phone and call your favorite psychic, I know!  Oh, and are they being truthful?  Could they call more?  Why do they act so rushed when we do get to talk, when we do get to see each other?  Am I being selfish wanting more of their time?  Just wanting more!  Its very frustrating isn't it?
    I try to work with my clents in this situation on being patient as well as using the time apart constructively.  Its important to see how the laws of the universe work.  When someone is in a relationship like mentioned above its hard to get them to see that they can manifest a good and healthy relationship.  It will just take some time and patience.   It is true that free will plays a role in this as well.

    Its funny how many people said "wow" when the movie or book The Secret came out.  It talked about alot of the same priciples that those of us who are metaphysical have been teaching for years.  This is not new information by any means.  Bringing things you want and deserve into reality is possible.  Sometimes it takes making changes in your life.  Going to a different store to shop, instead of the one you usually go to. Taking a different path to work.  Talking to people you never met.  Going out on a limb, taking risks!

    I hope this information helps.  We have all been there or are there now.  It does not hurt to try out new things, if it works.  Doing things to bring their energy closer.  Finishing projects.  Doing things to stay busy, not thinking of them 24/7.  I hope you had a great week and hope your weekend is great.  Getting what you want in life is worth the wait.  There is nothing better than living happy, you deserve it! 

    I will be off and on Keen most of the weekend, and on all next week.  Arrange a call and I will take your call as soon as I can.


Blessings of happiness and love,
Jason

   

    I have been psychic my whole life.  Growing up with a mom that was very sensitive, it was easy or me to see that this "gift" kinda ran in the family.  I started ghost hunting almost 10 years ago.  I stared out by going online and checking for local ghosthunting groups.  I found a couple small groups not far from my house and decided to give them a call.  I spoke with the person on the other end of the phone for quite awhile.  They were as interested in me being psychic as I was with their ghosthunting.  So we decided to get together and go to several local haunted sites.