Blessings,
It has been some time since my last blog posting. I wanted to take a few moments to refect on one of the most dreaded things in life to have to go through. A BREAK UP. We have all been there and if you havent yet, you are in for an emotional roller coaster. Those of us that have gone through this process see the relivance to my last sentence.
I have recently relearned several very important lesson in life. Never put you happiness on the line when it comes to love, happiness comes from self! If you are seeing someone and it causes you to put your goals on hold, or off sets your spiritual path you may need to rethink or restructure the relationship. Even though at the end of the relationship "its a break up" we need to remember to treat others the way you want to be treated. If its over it is over no reason to behave without dignity.
It takes two people working 100% for a relationship to work. Both people have to want it to work for it to work. Open communication, respect, trust, compassion, and understnading are some of the things that a relationship needs to have to live. Without these things in a relationship is like a plant without water. It will soon wilt and die.
Finally after the break up be prepared to be changed. Hopefully you are not someone that had put your goals, ideas, and spirituality on hold because of love. When the relationship is over and the break up is done you will be left with what you came into it with. You will be starting where you left off with no growth. If you hold onto your values, goals, beliefs, throughout you will continue with your life path. I feel it does make it easier to pick up where you left off after the other persons path goes in a different direction if you REMEMBERED what is important and not let love blind.
I hope this blog opens your eyes if you are someone that forgot who you are. Love is GREAT don't get me wrong, but it is blinding too. Stay true to yourself. You are you before the relationship, and will be YOU after it is over.
May you be blessed, loved, and safe.
Till next time,
"Go in spirit"
Jasons Insight