You my lovely friend are like Venus, for Taurus shines with reflected light. You reflect true beauty, not only in the things you gather around you, but in the men you choose..To really appeal to her the man must be beautiful in her eyes, if they are well muscled and powerful, all the better.
She likes to be dominated by a man who is all man. Being eternally feminine she looks for the best the male species has to offer..Since her throat is her most sensual part without being graphic we know her secret weapon.
She is always discreet, she knows knows what to ask and how to ask it..She can move forward to embody the Earth Goddess and merge herself with her inner reality..
Behind the calm, patient exterior she has buried the bruises, slights and hurts that a less tolerant woman would never harbor. She needs to erase any anger by punching her beautiful decorator pillows...
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There’s only one kind of love that can fill us up, make us whole, and give us the happiness we all want: unconditional love or true love. It is unconditional love that we all seek, and somehow we intuitively realize that anything other than that kind of love isn’t really love at all—it’s an imitation of the real thing.
Unconditional love—true love—is so different from the kind of love most of us have known all our lives that it deserves both a name—Real Love—and definition of its own: Real Love is caring about the happiness of another person without any thought for what we might get for ourselves. It’s also Real Love when other people care about our happiness unconditionally. It is not Real Love when other people like us for doing what they want. Under those conditions we’re just paying for love again. We can be certain that we’re receiving Real Love only when we make foolish mistakes, when we fail to do what other people want, and even when we get in their way, but they don’t feel disappointed or irritated at us. That is Real Love (true unconditional love), and that love alone has the power to heal all wounds, bind people together, and create relationships quite beyond our present capacity to imagine...[♥][♥]
What sexiness Isnt...Trying to be something you are not.
Now a days there are many many people who believe just thinking something is enough for it to happen. While a positive mind set is essential for a satisfying life. Authentic positivity comes from being proactive in your life. Confidence and self esteem come from setting a goal for yourself and working on it- till you achieve it.
We make excuses all the time for not acheiving things - we think "if its meant to happen it will happen"
In truth if you really want something only you can acheive it. Even in cases of luck - you still have to make the most of the opportunities you have been given.
And in terms of being attractive - authenticity is so much more sexy than a person that has a big fake smile on their face - when on the inside their self esteem is shot. This doesnt mean crying all day for weeks on end, or dwelling on the past is o.k and sexy - its not. But it does mean that you can recognize when you are having an off day and not fight it. Instead listen to the message your heart is giving you and then you can choose to do something about it.
Dont hate on your emotions! Emotions are natural and are there for a Reason- They reflect back to you how you are feeling about your life. If you embrace your emotions and listen to their message instead of trying to supress them. You will be able to start changing the areas of your life that are holding you back and even start to love the process.
Learning to love all parts of yourself - even the... hyperchondriac, or the part of you thats scared of bungee jumping or that hates bananas, or that is grumpy unless you have a morning coffee...this is part of authentic self love. Dont feel you have to change for someone else- if you want to change only ever do it for yourself.
Its Time To Get Real Ladies! and love your life....Ask Suzy then Call Jody
So you've been cheated on. It was devastating--like being kicked in the gut and thrown into the gutter. You couldn't eat or function at work. Or maybe you were up all night watching old movies, crying and eating pints of Ben & Jerry's. The affair creates such heartache and pain that you do not want to be in a relationship again. Definitely never again.
The questions loom large. Is the cheater going to cheat again? Should you trust again or not? Is it true, "Once a cheater, always a cheater"? You may feel torn, like you want to take your cheating partner back but feel like it is a point of pride not to. You think, maybe you should just dive into that online dating pool, start looking for some great profiles and forget all about it. Or maybe not.
Well, I have some critical relationship advice for you: Research show that even among married couples, cheating is relatively common: about 25% of men and 15% of women cheat. According to recent studies, even spouses who describe themselves as "happy" with their marriage have affairs.
But the good news is this: Many people who are in committed relationships that have decent chemistry and benefits for both partners can actually work through the crisis of affairs. Not only that, their relationship can become more intimate and they can put an end to cheating once and for all. This means that, "Once a cheater, always a cheater" is just not true! There are people who learn and grow from the painful emotional hurricane and the loss of closeness in the relationship that are the aftermaths of cheating.
Of course there are players or sex addicts that will cheat and cheat and cheat again. These are the ones your truly have to watch out for. How do you tell if you are dealing with a chronic cheater? Here are five signs of relationship advice that indicate your cheater is not a chronic case and that the couple still has hope:
1. Your partner is truly remorseful and regrets having cheated. Look for heartfelt apologies that ring true when you hear them.
2. Your partner cuts off contact with his or her lover.
3. The cheater shows a renewed appreciation and devotion towards you.
4. You wind up having deep, open and honest conversations with each other about your relationship, what was missing in it and where you'd like to take it in the future.
5. Your partner wants to enter psychotherapy or counseling either individually or with you to understand his/her own dynamics and to make your relationship better and more intimate ~
I always wish that everybody that is going through this particular heartache will ultimately give their partner a second chance especially if you both know the love is still alive..These are the signs to look for if you are still distrustful and uncertain if you are still in love..
If the cheater shows these signs and the relationship is good for you in many ways, consider taking your partner back. One caveat: If your partner continues the affair or starts a new one, in spite of showing the above signs, you may be dealing with a player or a sex addict.
And just how do you know if the cheating is going on again? Here are some common signs:
• he/she's working late a lot
• he/she's's suddenly taking trips you can't go on
• he/she's got new hobbies that don't include you
• mysterious phone calls with hang-ups
• credit card bills for unexplained hotel stays or gift-type items
• less sex
• he/she's more distant, angry or picky
If you find out your partner is cheating again, it's time to protect yourself from any further heartbreak by breaking up with this person. There are wonderful new matches waiting to date right there on your computer screen!
In sum, if your partner strays, it doesn't absolutely mean he or she will do it again. Once a cheater, always a cheater isn't necessarily true. Forgiveness and a new coming together are possible. If you have been betrayed but want to see if it can work, just stay heads up for a while and see which way the train is heading!
Wishing you love sweet love ~ Jody James
Psychology Today
Possibly one of the most underrated abilities available in a man's repertoire of seduction. Definitely overlooked as an ability in a WOMAN'S repertoire of seduction, the neck kiss can evoke amazing results if done correctly, and if the recipient happens to be particularly sensitive in their neck, there's no telling what may happen!
How to Kiss a Girl's Neck:
This is for the gentlemen. Ladies, I'll be talking to you in just a bit. Guys, it's time to learn how to kiss a girls neck. When you are getting ready to kiss a girl on the neck, you need to know how powerful of a move this is. This is a kiss that gets very intimate, very close, very fast. This kiss can be made from a normal make out session, or can be started on the dance floor. There are no really set rules when it comes to how to kiss a girl on the neck.
From a make out session: Just break off the kiss, and use a hand to tilt her head back. This will give you a clear approach. Bring your face in and lay down small kisses, or pecks all around her neck, throat, chin line, and collar bone. Also, the soft area under the ear is a great spot to concentrate your kisses. You can try spreading out the kissing, or laying them down in a line. Keep them short, do not lick or slobber on her throat, just try to go with the small pecks.
While dancing: If you have been dancing for a few minutes, and you aren't sure what to do to intensify your interaction, you should start kissing the girl's neck. It should not be hard to figure out how to kiss her neck. Just lean your head over her back (assuming you are taller than she is and her back is to you) and breathe gently on her neck. Then take her hair and softly pull it to one side of her head. At this point, she may even help you, by pulling her hair sideways.
If you're doing these things right, then your girl will probably be closing her eyes, tilting her head back, and maybe even sighing with enjoyment.
How to Kiss a Guy's Neck:
Finally, what you've been waiting for ladies. I bet you never guessed that guys' necks can be just as sensitive as your own when it comes to a little wandering lip action.
The best part about kissing a guy on the neck is that sometimes he won't expect it. It feels great, believe me. Having a girl's lips nuzzling up against his throat and caressing his neck muscles, will send shivers right down the spine of any straight guy lucky enough to experience this. Follow pretty much the same rules as listed above for guys kissing the neck. Try surprising your guy by grabbing him from behind, wrapping your arms around him, and softly kissing the back of his neck...
By David Fishman
The first time you experience unconditional love as an adult, it may be a gentle melting of a glacier. Or it may be more of a cataclysm, like a giant earthquake that shakes you to your inner core. You are falling in love, but the act of receiving love that intense and all-encompassing changes your conception of yourself. You can’t swim in such a vast ocean and remain entirely in the small pond of your limited self. Even if that opening is only for an instant, even if it goes away and is apparently forgotten, that moment of realization, of the heart opening, colors the rest of a lifetime. There’s no going back. The lingering taste of that ultimate sweetness remains and won’t be denied.
Unconditional love dissolves any rational hesitation as we become drunk on its sweetness. We are like moths circling a candle flame, immolating ourselves in a fire of living love.
Beautifully written by Ram Das
"Healing your soul, Is truly in your hands. In your hearts language, In it's fight to keep you whole. Healing by telling yourself, that you care about you. That you want to be prudent to your soul. That you want to be your best And that sometimes when you don't feel you are your best Simply ask yourself why? And then tell yourself, I love you anyway. Accept that you are not perfect, that you are love And love in itself is perfection, and in that perfection of love and not your actions you have room to grow and then let yourself grow.
You see Acceptance of yourself is Healing. It really is that simple! When you accept yourself, you accept other things, too, other people, too. All things are do-able and when things don't work out, You truly understand it wasn't meant to be or isn't time yet That is love, love of self, acceptance of your soul, healing of your Heart.. My entire body rests as I write this, It is healing to just tell you that the love of ourselves isn't in the big things, it is in our moments alone. When we lay down to sleep and we can breathe in our day, our decisions, our detours and our love And say, "I worked from my heart today, enough to rest my soul for the night" Good night ...
Nadia Kahlil Bradley
When was the last time you tried contacting your angels - Or your angels tried contacting you? We live in a wonderfully interactive universe. Everywhere we go, we are surrounded by helpers that we cannot see: spirits of people who passed on, and most especially angels. Angels are with us all of the time, watching over us as they gently guide us to our own distinct magic. They love to help us and enjoy doing more, but they can't intervene on their own.. If you want extra help from your, you must ask for it! ~;~
When you connect with your messengers of grace, you align with your purpose and tap into your magic..You may have been diverted from the experience of grace by old fears and inhibited beliefs, yet the universe is eager to help restore it. You just have to know whom and how to ask..
Google and find the archangel that you connect with the most: I have two that I feel at peace with, one is Uriel, he is seen with a flame in his open hand..He is the angel of music, poetry, and prophecy. I have seen him with those who are starting their self discovery..Then there is the majestic Gabriel, he is the angel who selects the heavenly souls to be born on earth and spends 9 months informing the child what they will need to know. Gabriel silences each child before birth by pressing his finger onto the child's lips producing a cleft beneath the nose..If you can't conceive ask Gabriel for help! ~;~
After you decide which angel can best help you or which one your most comfortable with, on a plain piece of paper write the following: Dear Angel of my Soul (angels name) help me to accomplish (write request) Thank You..Fold up paper and keep it with you during the day ~;~
Life Magic by Bushnell
The skin is the body's largest organ. When massage-style caresses excite it--all of it--anxiety melts away, mood improves, and pain subsides, all of which enhance sex. Sensual massage from head to toe is critical to women's sexual responsiveness. Without extended, whole-body massage, many women find it difficult or impossible to become sexually aroused, let alone have orgasms. In addition, leisurely, playful, whole-body massage helps prevent and treat men's sex problems, notably rapid ejaculation and erection difficulties.
Human beings can live without sight, hearing, taste, or smell. But deprive infants of loving touch and they die. That's what happened at the close of the 19th century when some leading infant-care experts insisted that cuddling babies was "primitive." Hands-off infant care was embraced by many educated, wealthy Americans determined to greet the new 20th century with the latest scientific wisdom. The staff of many orphanages also stopped cuddling infants on the advice of these so-called experts. However, this message did not trickle down to poor, less educated women, who continued to hold and hug their infants.
From Psycology Today
We each come into this world with a specific purpose that is unique to us as well as a general purpose we all share: Our spiritual correction, or tikkun.
As students of Kabbalah, we learn that our tikkun is made up of negative behaviors carried over from previous lifetimes. Correcting these destructive patterns is our job here. Transforming and clearing out this “baggage” is how we achieve our correction and ultimately our perfection.
There are two ways to achieve this. The first begins with a dawning realization that, “This is not the person I want to be. I cannot be someone who lives merely taking from others; I will be someone who gives.” As a result of this understanding, we begin our spiritual work.
This in itself is an accomplishment! Making a decision to change represents a huge step forward. It is our nature as physical beings to be dominated by the Desire to Receive for the Self Alone. To depart from this mindset is actually quite amazing—and it does not happen to everyone.
The other way we complete our tikkun is through external events and their effects. If we don’t willingly come to see our need for change, we will eventually be required to by the pain and suffering. The universe will beat down on us as an effect of our actions.
One way or another, we will all eventually get there and finish the job, if not in this life, then in a future one—but a person who has consciously chosen to change reveals more Light and blessings for themselves and for the world than one who merely reacts to outside forces.
We are given a simple choice in this world: Self-transformation or suffering.
Neither of these options is easy! Anything worth having is almost always difficult to achieve, but when the transformation is of our choosing we eradicate suffering from not only our lives, but the entire world.
This week, know that whatever you find most difficult to do is what you came into this world to correct.
Know in the moments you most want to be reactive, “This is my moment! This is my shining hour!” It is only in these moments we hold the rare opportunity to release ourselves from the slavery of our previous incarnations....Kabbalah Teacher Yahuda Berg
There are many ways to tap into the gift of sensuality. We are born with it, but some of us just don't know it yet. Here is the scoop on how to be the source of your own turn on and in turn, turn your world on.
Reviving your sensuality engine is as easy as pie...and anything in between...Its really the enegy that you bring into your senses that awakens them and the interplay between you and the object of your attention.
Consider the difference between sensory and sensual. Sensory is all about the senses and the physical sensations that go with it. Sensuality is a personal energy experience of being alive and turn on to life! Being turned on is a key aspect of sensuality, because it is a process of anticipation, mixed with sensation and filled with satisfaction.
Try these easy exercises that will enhance your capacity to feel, smell,hear, taste and see. For starters and a small lesson in nature, watch a cat bathe themself while purring, without the purr its kind of a silent hum action. While purring, the cat is enjoying itself, loving its paws, loving the moment, basking in happy. Clearly the inherent joy inside the cat is what turns them from a licking machine to a sensuality pro...
Try the outdoors it is delightful smogasbord of sensory delights. Insted of rushing around and living in your head, think about what you need to do next, try stopping and take a few very deep breaths, when you're outdoors. Smell the air and take it into your lungs, feel the texture of the air inside of your mouth. Look at the sky and admire the beauty of the colors. Notice the feel of the breeze across your cheeks or the warm sun on your skin. Listen to the same breeze in the tree's, see if you can hear more the one bird.
Another easy way to tap into your sensual self is with food, insted of devouring your food take your time, savor each and every bite, roll the food around your tongue... so many textures, tastes, sensations. By taking a few seconds several times a day your senses will actuall sharpen and you will begin to wake up the parts of you that were numb..Nerve endings become more sensative and the world becomes a playground of ecstacy!
Is it really that easy? absolutley, but you have to be willing to risk the sex appeal that you will start to ooze. You might find yourself falling in love with nature in a new way.. you might find yourself surrounded by people who just love being near you, because of how it makes them feel...You just might become totally, completely sensual!
There are four stages of a relationship that we must go through before we reach that "Deep True Loving One" I will start with stage 1 and throughout the week will end with stage four.
The first stage of any romantic relationship is when we fall in love, our initial attraction to somebody grows rapidly to the point where we feel delicious feelings of a connection and of love.. it seems we have found the love of our life, and we will readily beleive that this relationship will last for ever.
The Honeymoon stage is a wonderful life experience and shows the potencial of the relationship for love and sheer bliss...We may be tempted to make long term commitments in this stage, without really knowing our love partner..This inself is not a problem proving we recognize that more challenging times are ahead as the relationship develops...Don't panic when this happens -stick with your partner and try to work past the issues.
Always remember the feelings you have in this stage-you can always find them again in the future if you commit to a better relationship.
Monday I will do stage 2) the Power Struggle
Recipe For Happiness:
Ingredients:
2 heaping cups of Patience
1 heart full of Love
2 hands full of Generosity
1 head full of Understanding~~
~ and a large dash of Laughter.
Directions:
Sprinkle generously with Kindness,~~
add plenty of Faith and mix well.~
Spread over a period of a lifetime~
and serve to everyone you meet with ~
LOVE ... JODY
If you notice yourself feeling that everything is someone else’s fault, or that every problem is explained away with reasons about why you CAN'T affect the situation or the outcome, you might be severely limiting your ability to create a successful life for yourself.
Recognizing the presence of a limiting, self sabotaging pattern of “not my fault” living can be the first step in making a shift into accountable living. Realizing the power in taking responsibility for our choices, actions, and direction is extremely important in our day to day lives. Without taking responsibility, it is very likely that we will look at our lives as failures because we allowed ourselves to be affected by external influences. We then blame those external forces for how things turned out for us instead of taking responsibility (from within) with regard to directing our experience from the inside-out.
Those who take complete responsibility for their lives experience joy and control over their circumstances. They are able to make choices because they understand that they are responsible and accountable for their choices. Even if events are out of our control or go awry, we can, at the very least, determine how we will respond to the event. We can see an event as a disaster or we can use it as an opportunity to learn, to grow, to cherish our personal power, and to expand our spiritual wings.
Hello Everybody!
I have learned first hand the power behind compassion. Without this beautifully healing soul elixir, we can remain bitter, angry individuals chained to the past or chained to criticism (of others and ourselves,) judgments, and fears. Developing a sense of compassion allows us to view life from an expansive perspective that stems from heart-centered vision and soul-centered understanding and awareness. It melts away the layers of protection that were unconsciously put into place by the ego in an effort to protect us from pain. The outward expression of those protective layers and walls is revealed in attitudes of non-acceptance, ridicule, inflexibility, judgment, intolerance, or even hate.
Once we tap into the healing quality of compassion, and feel the walls of the past slowly falling away, we begin to see ourselves and others with greater clarity and with unconditional acceptance. The benefits and rewards go far beyond words. They are measured in joy, love, and inner peace. You can determine how much or how little you are living a life of compassion by the level of those very things in your life. How joyful are you? How much love to you freely offer and accept? Do you feel at peace in your daily life? Compassion can beautifully and magically begin to elevate each and every one of those energetic qualities in your day to day existence. Living with compassion is simply a choice. It’s a choice to let go of the past, let go of pre-existing judgments and fears, and allow ourselves to see life clearly as it is seen from the heart~
((((Heartfelt Love)))
Jody