In pagan ideology Halloween represends a day of transition, in fact it is their New Year. It is a celebration of of energetic change represented by the Sun which is a more agressive energy to the Moon which is a calmer type of energy. Interestingly enough my readings in the last week shared a common thread of clients tired of drama and struggles in their lives. Each person was seeking a more peaceful and stress - less exisitence. If we were to use the Halloween energy to help us smooth out our world it would benefit us in so many ways.
What life would not be better enjoyed by less annoying issues and ridiculous drama. The real "trick" in achieving this is to reallize and accept that MOST of what we preceive as important and warranting huge amounts of our energy is not at all important. If we could do that on a steady and consistant basis would that not be a real "treat"!
When we take a breath and stop charging forward this allows a moment of peace and quiet, in that peace we can think and listen to our inner feelings and make better, more positive choices. Therefore we are in the long run cleaning up less messes. Messes that not only affect us but the ones we clainm to love. The reason I say claim because if we truly loved ourseleves more and loved our friends and family more we would take better care not to cause pain and confusion. It is true we do not intend to cause problems but the fact remains everytime we rush into something without thinking twice about outcome or consequences we are doing just that.
We have tremendous inner strength to control ourselves for a mere moment and create just a much better outcome it is amazing. With peace and loving thoughts we create miracles. But human nature is basically fueled by emotional excess. We attach so much emotion, usually negative to our experiences it truly becomes harmful. Once we become aware and accept that ALL experiences carry the same weight in each lifetime we begin to detach enough to handle each and every experience with less trauma and pain.
So as we move from a Sun cycle into a Moon cycle -- enjoy the calm and give thanks for all your blessings. Try and make a commitiment to yourself to live your life in as much gratitude as possible each and every moment we are so lucky to have and enjoy. We all have so much to be gratful for. Don't focus on what you don't have but rather focus on what you do have!!!
So to all a Happy Halloween and don't take any wooden tootsie rolls :-)) Remember I am here when you are ready to remove the stress in your life and make room for happiness and peace.
God Bless Love Kat
We all go through periods of feeling lost. This is when we are in transition. This time may be when we are facing a difficult life choice or when we are faced with a choice not of our choosing. Someone we care about leaves or passes over, either way we feel lost and can not see what is to come with any faith or hope. This is transition.
Growth is obtained by choices either ours or Spirit for our highest good, either way we are faced with change. Human nature does not like change, as a rule, so we must be stronger than human nature. Not easy by any means or measure, but we do have the inner strength to make positive things happen. It is all based on faith; faith in ourselves and in a higher power. When we do this miracles do occur.
This miracle I refer to is simple: That we are able recognize that we deserve to be happy. With this conviction we are able to overcome the desire to stay stuck and move passed what we know as habit which often led us to unhappiness and a feeling of wanting. When we embrace that we do deserve more. we are then able let go of what is hurting us and holding us back.
"Everything happens as it should". You have heard that till you want to scream! But it is true. We go through what we go through to be where we should be in any given time in our lives. When our soul has had enough, we know it! What we do about it is up to us. Soulmates are not the Hollywood version of happy, silly, "aint life grand"-- it is about people that agreed to be our mentors, sometimes at their expense, sometimes at ours, to teach us. They teach us to grow, teach us to know, teach us to make the most of our time in this lifetime and always to encourage us on our path of enlightenment. The sticky part is the part in-bewteen-the transition!!
Transition is the part between the learning and the knowing. The part where we must give up the past - give up what we know and replace it with the unknown. That is where faith and self love comes in. We must leave our comfort zone no matter how tough and have faith that better is waiting -- Tough choice!!!
Trust me and my guides-- as many of you have -- to know that better is truly waiting once you decide to let go of what is comfortable (no matter how much of a habit) and more than likely disappointing and painful. Once we make this choice we face the transition -- the void if you will- the period of time where are unsure of what is next. The time of confusion and mostly fear. Fear of the unknown. For some reason we always fear what we don not know. I guess that is just basic human nature once again. BUT if we control the fear and have faith for that short period of time, we can manifest all our desires -- granted maybe not right away but KNOW it is always worth the wait!!!!
When do we know when we are making worthwhile sacrifice in a relationship as opposed to total loss with no return? True love should be unconditional BUT if your out pouring of love is not in balance with what you receive than that the relationship needs to be examined closely. I have also preached to myself and all my clients that one should give without expectation. BUT BUT BUT that does not mean you tatoo a welcome sign on your forehead. Relationships of any kind be they be romantic, friendship or blood, we still need to make sure that our needs, wants and desires are being met on some level.
Life in all its aspects is about balance that does not mean "tit for tat" which means literally this for that -- balance means that there is a comforting and satisfying flow of positive energy between the participants. Giving without expectation is the still the way in which to walk a path of light and love but when you are constantly in a state of wanting you must look at what you are missing. Happiness comes from within us and flows to the things, places and people we love including and ESPECIALLY oursleves. If you are looking for a relationship to "make you happy" you are lost before you start. If you think if you love someone enough they will love you back you are working in the "tit for tat" mode also no win. And finally if you give so much of yourself beyond reasonable sacrifice you are also on a path of disappointment and resentment.
Truly everyone has issues or trials they must deal with in their lives -- maybe it is a very demanding profession, relatives who are ill, children requiring lots of attention -- for these things we must make sacrifice if we value or partner or friend and the relationship. However, the real test is simple -- You must ask yourself without fearing the answer -- "Am I being used and taken for granted?" Do you feel that what you are giving is being returned in some suitable fashion or do you go around sad all the time feeling empty and neglected?
If you do! Then it is time to walk away. Walk away and give yourself time to reflect on what you learned. Time to reflect on what part your needs played in the sense of unbalance. Time to heal is not selfish it is necessary! All relationships require give and take in order to flourish -- some form of sacrifice and giving is needed by all the participants in order to contribute to the relationship and to feel good about what we give -- once again this is necessary BUT trust your feelings. Make sure at the end of the day, week, month, year that the feelings you have are one of love, appreciation and growth or find the strength and courage to leave, regroup and open yourself to BETTER possibilities because they are definately out there..of this I am sure!!!
And please remember leaving an unbalanced situation is NOT selfish, the person or people that were part of the relationship had the same opportunity to step up to the plate as you did. There is a fine line between giving and enabling -- do remember that lesson!!! Let me help you visit your realtionship -- HONESTLY -- to see what is really going on. To help you find answers -- is it you? is it them? or is it your karmic contract holding you back and keeping you stuck? I am here to help with the information from my guides so you can see the forest for the trees. We wish you well and help you seek inner happiness. God Bless Love Kat
Most of our readings are in regard to dating and relationships. Many of you have turned to the internet to meet hopefully the "right " person. Your rights in regard to dating websites and dating services are limited -- or so they would like you to believe!!!! Each state has laws regarding consumer rights specifically for DATING SERVICES to protect the consumer. (Just google -- (your state)+dating+laws+rights) You will be shocked as to the rights you legally have but don't wait to hear it from the dating service. You will turn blue and die before that happens.
When you go to the hospital you are given your patient rights -- to protect you and to let you know what a hospital can and cannot do to you. They are concerned with your well being. Dating Services are concerned with your WALLET!!!!
In New York State contained within the Attorney General's consumer laws is a bill of rights for dating services. READ IT BEFORE YOU GIVE ANYONE A NICKEL. A disreputable dating service known as A GREAT DATE NOW NEVER informed anyone of their rights -- NEVER once did A GREAT DATE NOW tell anyone there were NY STATE guidelines they MUST follow and that clients had legal rights to cancel and get refunds if services were NOT forthcoming. This was deceitful, dishonest, and down right cruel. When people became aware of their rights and demanded their money back because they had been screwed royally -- what did they do? A Great Date Now sold out to Meet Over Drinks -- nice job double screwing-- Is Meet Over Drinks telling you of your rights according to New York State Law -- NO!!! Meet Over Drinks is not honoring and refunds or lawsuits -- just honoring contracts. What does that mean -- make promises they don't think they have to honor --- Please KNOW YOUR RIGHTS IN YOUR STATE, because dating services like A Great Date Now and Meet Over Drinks is NOT going to tell you!! They will prey on your loneliness and your desire to meet someone and take your money -- they will try to set up with people that DO NOT meet your criteria and tell you they are trying their best -- Well their best when not good enough has laws protecting you!!!
I have done so many readings for people sadly abused emotionally by dating services such as A Great Date Now and Meet over Drinks -- I felt I needed to make you all aware that YOU DO HAVE SUPPORT LEGALLY regardless of what your contract states.....Make these services accountable if you are not satisfied with the service provided. Don't let them lie or mislead you -- and act fast if you are not happy OR you may face the classic sell out as was the case with A Great Date Now and Meet for Drinks --
A final message to A Great Date Now aka Meet for Drinks -- what goes around comes around!!! You better watch your back for all the pain and disappointment you caused -- Lies and disreputable behavior will and does come back to you ten-fold.
The expression "Timing is Everything" is never as true as it is when it comes to relationships. You meet someone and there is a spark or a "something". I have explained connection in earlier blogs. It just means there is something to learn. Well, very often when we meet someone and we feel that something, brace yourself AND get ready to learn! Pay attention to the actions not the words BECAUSE "Actions speak louder than words".
The infamous question asked so often by our clients is -- "When is he/she going to call?" is very telling. This weekend I watched the movie "He is just not that into you". Great movie - for its no nonsense approach to the reality of relationships. When a person wants to be with you -- truly wants to establish something real, they will twist themselves into a pretzel to be with you. Otherwise you live your life on their timetable BECAUSE you are just not that important to them. Truly it may be a case of timing -- their life is a mess -- they have some unfinished business -- they are seeking closure with someone else or simply they are not willing or ready to commit to more than a occasional and causal relationship -- all of these are fine and real -- EXCEPT when YOU are ready for more!
The argument posed is always -- well they are so wonderful they are worth the wait -- REALLY?? Your time and your feelings are valuable. Are they the ONLY person on the earth that is wonderful. Why are you waiting? While you are waiting for Mr/Ms Wonderful to get their act together you are missing out on your life and better opportunities to meet someone who is ready. You put effort and sweat into getting your life in order. You make time to communicate with someone you care about, why do you not deserve the same. I always tell my clients relationship questions are NEVER about the other person -- they are about you and what you are willing to put up with. How much do you truly value YOU!!! Sitting and waiting for the phone to ring and stressing over it-- this is ABUSIVE! If you do not realize that you need to step back and really think about it. Are you not worth more??....if not then continue to wait, wonder and put your life on hold for another person who just is not that into you or ready for what you are ready for!
Why wait? Live your life! Have the strength and faith that there is better out there waiting for you. Walk away and let the Universe provide a healthy and loving relationship that mountains are being moved in order to be together and share life -- healthy and happy! I always say -- "The past does not dictate the future" -- Want a different outcome CHANGE the approach. Stop waiting to Mr/Ms Wonderful to "get it" -- you get it and move on -- open yourself to better possibilities and stop wasting time and start living -- set your own timetable and stand by it without fear of being alone BECAUSE I have a news flash for you -- if the person you are sitting and waiting for is not there for you when YOU need them -- YOU ARE ALONE with lots of drama thrown in for good measure.
Want your life to improve? Want to attract a more stable relationship with respect and mutual growth? Clean your own house first -- remove anything or anybody that does not serve your higher good THEN do not let anything or anyone back in that does not treat you with respect and genuine affection. You sit, wait and wonder -- that is what you will get. Make it clear that this behavior or being ignored no longer will exist in your world. You set the timetable and attract someone who is on the same page. Life is precious do not waste a minute of it by waiting for a person that just is not that into you!
Not sure how to get there -- call me I will help you! God Bless Love Kat
Today's world has been strunk down to much smaller proportions. We talk to Australia like it is four doors down. Communication technology has enabled different peoples, cultures and time zones to chat, converse and share ideas with the speed of sound. This technology is amazing and beneficial to all its users. We travel without getting in a car , boat or plane. Although wonderous, it takes its toll on the human experience of relationships.
Normal local relationships today are an arduous journey at best. When you interject miles of land in between people trying to set up a repour it makes the prospect of success less likely. This is not to say these relations are impossible or doomed, but it does add another layer of stress and opportunity for miscommunication. Relationships take time. One report of sorts claimed that it took on average 12 to 18 months for two people to truly get to KNOW each other. That was based on fairly regular personal contact and interaction. Although energy knows no limits and has no confimed lenght, there is no substitute for sitting accross from someone able to watch their body language, the subtle inflections in their voice to truly "see" them. To learn about them and feel even more connected to them face to face has no equal.
The struggle for human contact is what we all look for in a HEALTHYrelationship. Touch is essentail for all types of human bonding and connection. We often hear in our readings -- "We have such a connection!" Everyone who crosses your path is meant to be there; they are ALL your soulmates --- Mom, Dad, Friend, Co-worker. Each is there to teach you and for you to teach them -- but when we add the element of romance and heart felt emotion, well the stakes increase tenfold. In addition, distance and separation is difficult to the basic human's need to express with all our senses. The joy to "see" our lover -- to "touch" their skin -- to "smell" their personal scent -- and to "feel" their enery touch ours -- these things are impossible to duplicate via email or text -- even a phone call can not attempt to match the embrace of a loved one.
Our day to day lives are filled with stress. We need and enjoy returning home to all our senses being filled with our loved ones presence. When you enter into a distance relationship you must go with your eyes wide open and realistically prepare yourself for long periods of separation. The key to success is to pace yourself and maintain your own identity and activities. If you are truly wanting a serious realtionship distance is not the way to go, however it is a great opportunity to examine your true motives -- distance also affords some "distance". Maybe you are not really ready for something consistant and restrictive. Making a weekly committment to someone takes desire, compromise and giving of oneself. Be sure first where you are in your life before you undertake something that very often adds more stress and less joy.
I get so many readings that I hear clients declare..."Why did this happen? I had no idea? Well the truth is you had a warning you were told but you did not listen. I tell clients during these readings that there were many "red flags" -- little comments or verbal warnings as to the other person's true intentions..Even in the work place -- remember -- this does not only apply to romantic relationships! Very often -- if NOT always-- we are given signals and verbal clues to what is going to happen, if you don't LISTEN and take heed-- you will find out the truth sooner or later. Sooner is always easier, trust me! Life is full of suprises, that is very true -- BUT situations NEVER totally take us by suprise or totally unaware of a pending outcome. We as humans want what we want when we want it -- simple human nature!
The trick is to truly listen to the messages we are given so we may be aware of some of the pitfalls -- surely if not all of them-- but any avoidance is helpful. Messages come many ways -- some are verbal -- some are actions -- some are written--BUT the most important messages come from our "gut" -- that inner feeeling of knowing something just ain't right!! Those are the ones we are supposed to take the most seriously and act upon. But we do not as a rule. We plain just don't listen and this causes us to have to go throuth situations much more painfully than they would have been if we had listened and prepared ourselves for the inevidatable. We will often force the issue--for example -- You tell yourself "If I am patient he/she will change" -- eventhough through action and comment you have been told over and over again that the person is NOT ready or that they want something else entirely -- and the worse part is that in your "gut" you know it. The most famous of all situations that make a perfect case for this situation of NOT listening is when a partner cheats on the realtionship. The wounded party will scream --"I had no idea!!" So very very very untrue -- you choose not to believe. There is a big difference between having no idea and living in denial of all the doubts and fears you are dismissing because you dont want to know..you walk around praying your instincts are wrong and all will be well tomorrow except tomorrow comes and you are blown away with reality. Trusting more in yourself will help to avoid this.
Let's get something clear, I am not saying walk around in fear and distrust -- I am saying the complete opposite walk around with your eyes and EARS open and trust your feelings and what the other person is telling you. Many will say that well they told me they loved me (but did not treat you as if they did)or they did not tell me but I knew they did(you "knew" because this is what you wanted but their actions told you something different) Stop ignoring actions and words just becasue it is not what you want to hear. Trust that when a person's actions match their words and your "gut" confirms this -- THEN you can go to the bank with it BUT not before.
Many times Spirirt will send us someone who is very good at being false -- see the "red flag" and learn from it -- You are not being punished you are being tested to improve your radar. To be able to see with confidence what is really going on..Do not let your neediness or insecurities allow another person to decieve you because you are lonely or feel that this is all you deserve..This is nonsence NOBODY deserves to be lied to, betrayed or hurt. People come into our lives to help us grow and overcome our fears of loneliness. Everytime you have the strength to be honest with yourself about the truth of a situation and walk away if it is not a honest scenerio -- it only gets better the next time. Spirirt will see that you are living in truth and the need to send another soulmate to test your resolve no longer becomes necessary.
When we decide that from now on we will be more respectful and mindful of what is being said to us and we don't allow our egos, wants and desire to cloud the truth of a situation we are able to make beter decisions as to what is OUR next plan of action. This will now be based on faith NOT fear. We give away our power to think and make sound choices when we ignore what we are given and push forward to our blind desires. The real situtation is always staring us in the face we put blinders on beacuse it it easier at the time to do so. But unfortuately the end is alot more difficult and painful. And when we do not accept responsibilty for our part in ignoring the truth we get to go on to another situation usually harsher than the last in order for us to hopefully "get it" the next time. By getting the lesson we slow down--- we pay attention--- we LISTEN and processs the information -- it gives us a chance to avoid pain and suffering when we "supposedly" get blindsided. We knew -- we always do -- we choose not to hear! When you stop ignoring the signs and follow their lead the path traveled will be much smoother. God Bless Love Kat
Everyday of our lives people come into our lives and some go. It is a cycle of growth for both them and us. The best way I can put it is -- for a reason and a season -- The reason is not always clear at first either why they came into our lives and more baffling -- unless they were is a case of severe unhappiness in the relationship -- as to why they left.
People drift into our lives to teach us lessons and for us to reciprocate. It is ALWAYS give and take. Sometimes one partner takes more than the other -- or it may just seem that way. But at the end of the day with awareness, one realizes they got many times more than they gave. Even when it does not feel that way a little honest soul searching reveals the truth of the matter. You may say, "It was horrible! I gave and gave but got abuse in return. How can that be something good that I received!" What you "get" is not always "good" but the fact remains you got something. You got the experience of "abuse" or "dishonesty" or "betrayal"...the list goes on and on. We only think of "getting" as something we want or that is "good". We don't, as a rule, think of "bad stuff" as receiving. We acknowlege "getting" as presents, flowers, hugs and praise as "getting". We feel abuse, pain, loss and disappointment as something we must suffer through. Like hell we are going to be grateful for these experiences and go so far as to "thank" the person who subjected us to these horric experiences. We go so far as to blame the ultimate scapegoat -- GOD -- for all the miserable things that happen when all else fails. What we fail to realize is the there is no "good" and there is no "bad" thing it is just an experience we asked to go through. WOW!! you say -- I asked to have cancer, I asked to be beaten, I asked to be raped, I asked to be alone all the time, I asked to have my child die -- Kat are you nuts??????? No, I am not nuts -- I have always wondered why none of the above made any sense -- why "bad" things happen to nice people?? Why bad things happen to me!!! Well, through reading books, doing thousands of readings and many late night conversations with people who have crossed over -- it finally all made sense to me...let me share it with you...it is so simple it is sad..but are not all things simple, WE make them difficult..
When we cross over we enter into perfection -- pure energy, pure love, pure light -- we can not know anything else because on that plane nothing else exists -- true we retain a degree of our human personality but it no longer contains fear, judgement, hurt, pain, or resentment. We are now ONLY absolute pure love. The human plane is the ONLY place we are able and equipped to experience ANYTHING beyond pure perfection.
The fact is one can not know -- love without knowing hate -- joy without sadness - gain without loss -- the list is endless. We are given the negative in order to enjoy the positive, otherwise we would have no frame of reference. We would exist in a nothingness...that was not the plan. The plan is simple -- choose what you want to "know" in this lifetime -- "contract" to experience it - hopefully master it and choose something else next time. Not "bad" or "good" just some kind of experience. Life is a series of experiences and with a closer look we see there is a pattern enabling us to fulfill our contract. Consider yourself a character in a play with other characters interacting inorder to experience and "know" what you can here to learn.
In even simplier terms -- we come here to learn and to interact with those we teach and teach us. When the class is over and we have mastered the coursework -- we graduate and move on. We leave or they leave because we have completed our soulmate contract with them. If the lesson has been mastered the pattern has been broken, if not someone else is brought to us to help us "get it" -- this is also the case of the other person. Don't kid yourself -- if you don't get it you are not off the hook LOL -- if they don't get it, they are not off the hook either! You may run or they may run but you can not hide!!!
We are here to "know", when you understand that and you will see your life change drastically. Recognize your patterns, accept them, be grateful for them AND then let them go. You do not have to go to your grave continually dealing with your contract. Reach a point that you say -- "I get it!" -- give thanks and live the rest of your life as you choose because the thing you faced and mastered - no longer serves you! I can help you with the aid of my guides to find out your patterns and put them to rest, so you can now know peace! God Bless Love Kat
One of the most difficult things in life is letting go of the past --- especially an old flame. We have all had to face it thoughout our lives -- INCLUDING YOURS TRULY LOL LOL. In most readings we assist clients in this tortuous process. We give them insight on the fact that it is over, why it ended and why it is a very positive thing in many cases that they are in fact gone. We then go to great lengths to give clients ways of letting go. We instruct on cutting cords, enlisting the aid of their guides and angels and just saying "No!" over and over until it starts to happen less and less. This takes time and patience -- yes -- patience the evil "p" word. These connections are deep and strong and take a great deal of efort for us to put in a place than can no longer screw up our future.
Holding on to these past entanglements doesn't just screw up future relationships, and prevent better from coming in, they also upset our daily lives. All facets of our lives get effected. We become sad, lonely and often feel there is no hope for the future. This situation of holding on to the past and of a past relationship are very negative and block us from happiness. We know it -- We see it -- We feel it -- BUT we just can't seem to get passed it. We hold on tight eventhough we truly get it-- that this is hurting us but we refuse to let go mainly because it is the fear of the unknown. Well I have a news flash -- the unknown is always better than the pain and heartache we are causing ourselves by not letting go. I have proof!!!
I have performed over 7,000 readings and so many of my clients have reported back to me over the years that when they were at the point where the past was neatly tucked away -- not forgotten, but put in a place of remembrance not emotion -- their lives changed for the better. Without exception, the veil of discontent lifted and they met new people. The last few readings I have conducted once again confirmed my belief in this outcome. Four clients recently which I have worked with over the years, have excitedly called to tell me of their new circumstances and to ask that I confirm their feelings and new found joy. In each case they had met new partners of real value. It is why I do this work to help people reach their potential and achieve all of life's abundance. Not only to help them find peace within themselves, but to manipulate in a positive way their lives in general. With inner peace and self-satisfaction comes an out pouring of positve and happy energy that ATTRACTS all our desires.
Clients sometimes don't realize that readers are human too! LOL LOL We face the same trials and tribulations our clients face. I myself was having difficulty letting go of a very strong soul mate connection. It took awhile to disconnect and make room for something and someone better to enter into my life. Two weeks ago I was blessed to have an epiphany and watched as the "ghost" of my past relationship drift away -- after months of soul searching work and the help from my firends -- thanks girls xxoo - the release was awesome. In about a week after the clearing, I was being introduced to potenital suitors. I feel free and open to so many more possibilities. It is a blessing to remove what no longer serves us, make room and allow the abundance to flow.
Whatever it takes and no matter how long, never hold on to what blocks and prevents our happiness from coming to us. The truth of the matter is the "right" person, the "right" opportunity, the "right" feelings are waiting for us to get out of our own way -- in order to come to us. In essence, happiness is waiting for us, not the other way around!!! God Bless Love Kat
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The bulk of readings and psychic work centers around the infamous question --"When is he/she going to call"? The question sure pays the bills but it saddens me for the pain and stress it causes the person we are reading for. In a perfect world people would have the guts and respect to end a relationship with compassion and grace. In all fairness sometimes this is done to a degree and the other person is too stuck and insecure to accept this and move on. This is self inflected pain and suffering -- but for the majority they face the "they fell off the face of the earth" phenomenon. They did not evaporate nor were they abducted by aliens -- they just plain ran and took their puff of smoke with them!
They were not strong enough to face the pain they caused or just did not have the wisdom to even know what pain they would cause. In many cases they were just not as invested, so they mistakenly felt it was no big deal. In any case it is up to the person left behind to sort out the pieces. The most effective way to let it go and start the healing is to be honest with yourself. There are ALWAYS signs maybe not billboards but stuff happens to give you a clue that you choose to ignore or make excuses for strange behavior. This does not include the player jerk who gives no clues and flies away as fast as they flew in!! But in order to move forward one MUST look at patterns from the past and ask the question---when is enough enough!!!
When I offer a reading to someone when they are in this sad situation -- it is often hard to say -- even through my guides are screaming in my ear -- he/she aint coming back--I owe it to my client to be honest so they can begin to heal and make room for better. I am often faced with anger, fustration and denial -- many times I get shot in the process -- but it is still far better than wasted time and illusion.
We don't always get the reason why it ended. We don't often get the healthy closure we deserve but we do get an opportunity to reach inside and find out what WE are made of. Very often that is the why it happened to help us grow and not allow other people to rob us of our strength and energy.
We are much stronger than we give ourselves credit for ESPECIALLY when it is the heart that is driving the bus. STOP pouring hard earned money and healthy energy into dead relationships, I am here and willing to tell you the truth--if is just a temporary misunderstanding I will tell you to hang in there and why-- if not I will help you to get free and move forward. I will be happy and pleased when you need to call me because you are ready to look into your future--without strings and hurt able to open the doors for so MUCH MUCH more. If someone left you or a relationship crumbled --- Ask THESE two questions --1) What did I learn from that person and the relationship? 2) How can I use what I learned to make MY life happier and healthier? --- Forgive and move on......Don't bother to ask when is he/she gonna call because if they have not called you in a reasonable amount of time--THEY DON"T DESERVE YOU!! God Bless Love Kat
For all of you out there who are presently not in a romantic relationship -- that includes yours truly-DO NOT let Valentine's Day be a sad day.....NOT AT ALL...Make plans with someone you love, care for or just plain enjoy spending time with..Celebrate LOVE in all forms..Every year for the past few years I have gotten all dolled up and so did my teenage daughter and we went out on the town..She is the love of my life and she loves me. That is what the holiday is honoring. The people in our life who enrich and share our lives with us.
For those of you still blessed to have parents alive -- one or both -- show them how you feel about them and share the day with them. ANYONE who is special to you call them up and make plans to celebrate love, life and friendship. If the day has no meaning to you then you are all set BUT the rest DO NOT allow the greeting card people, the jewelers and all the other commercial crap associated with Valentine's Day get you down. As far as I am concerned they missed the boat on this wonderful holiday--and maybe if we individually take a deeper look at what could be accomplished there would be alot more love and appreciation spread around and it might stay well passed February 14th.
I do not for one second feel like a failure or someone lacking because I do not have a "significant other" BECAUSE I have TONS of significant people in my life. I challenge you to kick back and start listing the people who you care about and they in return care about you...just because it is not romantic it makes it less "significant" and therefore not worth catergorizing as LOVE --- NONSENSE !!!!
Like I mentioned earlier to many it is just another day which is fine -- but what if you really expanded and capitalized on another day -- like Christmas and other joyful hoildays -- to shower some LOVE and APPRECIATION on the people and pets who give us joy!!! No one should sit home sad or unhappy because they don't have a "date" -- the hell with that LOL LOL -- If you can't get someone to play with you -- then set up a self love fest -- nice dinner smelly candles bubble bath -- the works -- or grab a good book -- kick back and enjoy your OWN company -- BECAUSE you are worth it!!!
Love yourself and treat yourself with the same care and attention you would someone you loved and love will follow -- either flowing from you to you or from someone to you -- does not matter what matters is -- Enjoy and make the most of Valentine's Day in any -- or no -- way but don't waste a moment of it in sadness or regret -- wake up with a smile of gratitude BECAUSE someone does truly love you...YOU! The rest of the people in your life -- well that's just the icing on the cake...In truth Valentine's Day should be every day -- think of the happiness we would be bathed in -- wow what a concept!! But for the meantime I am sending you all spiritual hearts, imaginary flowers and positive energy hugs....Happy Valentine's Day ^j^ God Bless Love Kat
It is baffling to me as it is to, I am sure, most readers, why clients like being ignored by the people they claim to have a "connection" with. Many will say "I don't like it!" Well then why do you allow it. Life is very short and we should fill it with things, events and people that bring us joy. If you do not like something then why do you allow it. When your emails, texts and phone calls go IGNORED the person is trying to tell you something -- they are too gutless to bother to explain why they do not want to communicate with you..ACCEPT this and move on..do not continue to smash your head against the wall as to --- will they respond and when--who cares they are rude, thoughtless, and self absorbed -- OR maybe there is some kind of crisis in their life that they need time and space to deal with on their own -- either way YOU should respect their privacy and leave them be--
In the case of temporary drama, you will hear from them in the future -- hopefully with an explaination--but the disregard of your feelings should not be totally excused -- if the relationship/friendship/ is over then LET IT GO!!!! Connection does not mean you will be together forever..it means YOU were brought together to learn something--very often it is SELF-WORTH!!!!!
If you value yourself -- WHY WOULD YOU ALLOW ANYONE TO IGNORE YOU? This is a form--like it or not -- of emotional abuse...YES ABUSE..Would you ignore someone you care about? Would not respond to someone on purpose? If you would not do that WHY in God's name would you let someone do it to you -- regardless of who they were...09 should be a year of examing what we allow in our lives. Once again I use the word ALLOW because -- no none can do anything to you unless you allow it--this means YOU must take responsibilty for your happiness.
It is one thing to check on a person - once maybe twice - but if you receive no response or it is cold or unfriendly -- you owe it to yourself to walk away. This does 2 things -- one-stops the emotional abuse and two-opens up space in your life for someone more caring into your life.
If you do not like doing something or having something done to you -- then simply stop -- if you "CAN'T" or feel there is a reason -- really it is merely an excuse you are making for their inappropriate behavior -- then examine why you think you deserve to be mistreated -- maybe that is the lesson..think about it...PLEASE!!! before you spend another nickle of your hard earned money think about the person that is not responding to you with a free telephone call! God Bless Love Kat
I would love to understand why a client would spend hard earned money on a psychic that constantly tells you what you want to hear but you know in your heart is not true. Psychic work is a form of healing. We can not heal by putting a band aid on cancer. The concept of going to a psychic is to improve one's life and heal one's soul. The heart has a mind of its own, so we have to help it with honest, direct information in order to knock some sense into our heart which very often causes more pain than joy. You WILL NOT change your life by continuing to feed and reinforce old patterns that just don't work anymore. A short, honest reading may hurt like the devil for the moment but when you are armed with the truth and you get past your fears and ego, this is when healing starts.This is when your life changes. This is when your desires become attainable.Stop wasting your money on readers who blow smoke up your ass and do not help you to move forward, heal and finally know peace and happiness.
Don't punish an honest reader for having the courage to tell you the truth by trashing them in bad feedback, just because you didn't get what you wanted. Very often what you what is not going to get you what you desire. Let's work together to overcome our fears and become happier.