I am often asked if it is difficult giving psychic readings over the telephone. For me there is no difference in connecting and reading energy in a face-to-face psychic reading or a telephone psychic reading. Either way I have the ability to link to your energy and give an accurate psychic reading.
One of the most important requirements for any psychic reading is the connection between the reader and the client. Some people 'click' right off, other times it may take a minute or two for the information to flow. Sometimes there is no connection at all. If there is no connection, ideally the psychic SHOULD inform the caller and the caller should then end the call. If there is no connection, a caller should not penalize a psychic. I understand it is disappointing, but it happens. NO one is 100% accurate or able to read every body 100% of the time. It just doesn't work that way.
Every psychic has 'their own personal style' and their specialties. For me, I immediately start picking up the situation and begin relaying information to the caller about what I see. All I require is the callers first name and if I am looking into a situation, the names of anyone else involved. I generally pick up information about how a person feels, what they are thinking and feeling, the 'quality' of the connection, the current status of the relationship, influences at the job, or whatever else is coming through. I often ask for validation from the caller to insure I am correctly tuning into the right situation. This is NOT me asking questions, it is asking for validation of information *I* am providing (big difference!!!). Then, I encourage a caller to ask pertinent questions so I can provide them with a complete and accurate reading. My desire is for every client to walk away informed and satisfied that all their questions are answered and that they get a full and complete understanding of the dynamics going on with the particular situation in question. Not everyone has that 'style' other psychics may use a different approach. I use what works best for me.
My strengths are looking clearly into a relationship (or any scenario) and being able to tell you the climate of the 'situation', what your partner is thinking and feeling and guiding you to make decisions that support your best interests. Under NO circumstance will I tell you what to do or will I make your decisions for you. Within Spiritualism there is a principle called FREE WILL and PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY. What this means is each of you has FREE WILL to determine your personal path. If anyone (a psychic, a friend, partner, relative) tells you what to do and you do it and the end result is not in your best interest, then they assume a piece of responsibility and karma for their involvement. I do not involve myself in your personal decisions. I will SUPPORT all your decisions because I understand the dynamics of life and why we sometimes get stuck and why we make the decisions we make. However, I give you all the tools and information you need to make educated and well-informed choices. I will tell you what I see based on each of your potential decision(s). I will guide you through life's challenges and give you the tools to make smart and informed decisions that work BEST FOR YOU!
"Do NOT call me if you are looking for a psychic
to make your choices
for you or to tell you what to do.
That negates FREE CHOICE and is NOT
the job of a reputable psychic."
Some people want a psychic to tell them what to do. For those people I suggest that you call someone else. I am not kidding. The callers that are not satisfied with me are the ones that want me to tell them what to do, to make their decisions for them, and I will not do that. The decision for you to stay in a relationship or not is not my choice; it is yours. I will give you the information you desire, I will guide you and show you exactly what I see but to tell you what to do negates free choice and I will not do that. So, if you are looking for a psychic to tell you if you should leave a relationship or stay in it, or if someone is right for you or not, then I am not the right psychic for you. What I can tell you is clearly what I see. Does the person truly care? Are they loyal? Is there a potential for a future together? I will give you the information and tools you need to make smart and educated decisions. I will tell you is how I see energies aligning themselves. I will also tell you if/when I see a soul level connection. However, each of us has a responsibility to OURSELVES and part of what I teach is to EMPOWER each of you; so I will not demand that you follow my advice, i will not tell you what is best for you. No one knows that but you. I will tell you what I see and how I see things unfolding for you based on your current path. To change that outcome, you simply have to change your path. It IS that simple. I will give you time-frames. I will give names. But, I won't tell you what is right for you. NO ONE knows that but you!
"I will give you time-frames.
I will give names.
But, I won't tell you what is right for you."
Below are some guidelines for getting the best psychic readings and help in determining which psychic is best for you. This should explain and level-set your expectations and concerns. As always, if you have any questions, email me on Keen and I'll be happy to help you to the best of my ability.
1) QUESTIONS OR CLARIFICATION in READINGS
: It is my belief that psychics should not ask a lot of questions. However, many good psychics will ask for validation or clarification of what they are seeing. This enables a psychic to further interpret the information they are receiving and to give you a clear and meaningful reading. This is not meant to extract information from you. Psychics more often than not, get bits and pieces of information. Interpreting that information is not as simple as reading a book. If a psychic asks for your validation of facts pertaining to the information they are receiving, simple answers like 'yes or no'
are usually sufficient. Do not consider this a weakness if your psychic seeks confirmation of what they see. It is not. A genuine psychic reader may ask a question or two at the start of a reading to validate the information they are receiving. However, if a phone psychic does a constant barrage of questions then I would consider ending the call.
: Obviously, the best readings are with callers where there is a great connection. There is no definitive way in advance to determine if there will be a connection. However, sometimes you see a photo or you read a profile and you JUST KNOW that this person is RIGHT for you! The vast majority of time, they are! For pay-by-the-minute services, if a psychic has not connected with you within 3-5 minutes then simply end the call. Either email them after or request a few free minutes to give them another try and schedule another call at another time, or move on to another psychic. An honest psychic reader will always admit if they do not have a connection or if the information is not coming through clearly. At the pay-by-the-minute prices, I personally do not want to waste your time or money if the connection is not clear. If a psychic does not have a good connection that does not make them a bad psychic. It makes them honorable and respectful of you, your time and money.
Callers should try to see that in a more positive light. I see so much negative feedback because callers say the psychic did not have a connection. This is very sad. Especially, because the caller ALWAYS has the ability to end a call at any time. However keep in mind, that a psychic may very well be picking up information that you are not yet aware of. If you KNEW all aspects of every situation, then clearly you would not be calling a psychic. A psychic may tell you something that you were not particularly wanting to hear, but that does not make the psychic wrong. More often that not, the psychic is giving accurate information, but not necessarily information that you want to hear or that you are presently aware of. Take notes. Give predictions time to unfold. With my readings, even if a person is 100% sure that the information I am giving is not correct, I ask them to take note and inevitably, in time I prove to be right. If you are spending the money for a pay-by-the-minute psychic, then have faith that YOU WERE GUIDED TO THIS PSYCHIC FOR A REASON!
"The caller ALWAYS has the ability to end a call
at any time. However
keep in mind,
that a psychic may very well be picking
that you are not yet aware of.
If you KNEW all aspects of the
you would not be calling a psychic."
Do not feed the psychic information nor do not try to steer them to give the answer(s) you want to hear. Ask SPECIFIC questions, listen carefully to the answers and remain open minded. Oftentimes a good psychic will immediately pick up details that will validate to you that they have a good connection but keep in mind that THEIR JOB is to tell you things you may not know. If you truly KNEW everything about the situation you would NOT need to be calling a psychic, so expect to hear some new information and expect a psychic to tell you much that you know but things that you are not privy too. Keep an open mind and take notes. Just because you may not be able to validate information at that moment does not make the information given by a psychic is invalid or inaccurate. The best readings are ones that provide you with new information not currently known by the caller. Again, at the price many phone psychics charge, what is the benefit if they ONLY tell you what you already know? It’s the psychic’s job to bring up the facts about your situation and offer advice as they see it
. Do not try to make everything fit. If you are unsure about something that’s being said then feel free to ask questions or interject. A good psychic will pick up things you are aware of and things that you don't yet know. If you knew them, then you wouldn't have to call.
"If a psychic does not have a good connection
that does not make them a
bad psychic. Rather, it makes them
honorable and respectful of you, your time
4) NOT HAPPY WITH THE READING
: If after 3-5 minutes you are unhappy with the psychic reading or the psychic, end the call. If you get adversarial with the psychic or them with you or you try to 'lead' the psychic, then it becomes a waste of your money because the psychic is not able to give a honest and truthful reading to you. You may need a different psychic so MOVE ON. If this happens then the BEST approach is to either move on or contact the psychic directly after the reading before requesting a refund or BEFORE leaving negative feedback. You may get some valuable information from them that was not covered in the call which could be extremely helpful moving forward. Ask if they would consider giving you a few free minutes to try them at another time. The majority of psychics on keen or elsewhere will block a caller that leaves negative feedback, so if you call a psychic who has pristine feedback and you were not happy with the reading, the BEST approach is to discuss it with the psychic first. If a caller gets blocked they lose the opportunity to contact that psychic in the future who was potentially TELLING THEM THE TRUTH and BEING HONEST with them. in the end it is the caller that loses so THINK before tyou ACT. Remember, not every psychic will tell you what you want to hear.
And, just because a psychic picks up something 'different' than other psychics does not make them wrong. Minimally, allow the time-frame to pass that they have given you before judging them as WRONG.
"If you truly KNEW everything about the situation
you would NOT need to
be calling a psychic, so expect
to hear some new information and expect
a psychic to tell
you much that you know but things that you are not
Keep an open mind and take notes. "
5) ACCURACY OF PSYCHIC & THEIR PREDICTIONS
: The irony of psychic accuracy is that NO PSYCHIC is always accurate and NO PSYCHIC is even close to 100% accurate. Have you ever heard of Edgar Cayce? He is said to be the world's most accurate psychic. Do you know that statistics compiled over his lifetime of readings show that he was about 85% accurate. How many psychics that are out there today do you think will still be remembered and studied more than 60 years after their death? How many psychics will have a legacy of thousands of validated readings and healings that came true? Honestly, there are few people, if any that will ever surpass the popularity and accuracy of Edgar Cayce, yet statistics show he was only about 85% accurate. Skimming the claims on Keen most claim 99-100% accuracy. Sadly, the accuracy rates that many psychics use in their advertisements, plain and simple, are NOT TRUE. Those that ARE using REAL stats, well, when a psychic advertises that they are tested at 95% accurate that does not mean that in their test results they only got only 5% incorrect. What psychic testing results actually mean is that if the psychic has 95% accuracy (which is phenomenal) that means that the psychic tested better than 95% of the the general population. 85-95% of those tested, test in the lower percentile showing little or no psychic abilities. So, a 95% accuracy means that the individuals' test results were better than 95% of others that were tested. It is not indicative of the amount of questions gotten right or wrong.
RUN from any claims that a psychic makes of 100% accuracy. There is NO SUCH THING. If someone claims to be more than 100% accurate, hit <NEXT>.
6) VERIFY CLAIMS: If a psychic claims to be 95 or 98% accurate (or any percentage) - ask for credentials and who tested them. Then, verify those credentials. There are very few organizations that certify a psychic's abilities. Many psychics claim they are certified but fail to tell you by whom. VERIFY CREDENTIALS. But, keep in mind, even the most accurate psychic in the world does not connect with everyone. Just because you call a certified psychic does not mean they will be 100% accurate all the time, but you certainly have a greater potential of getting a genuine reading from someone certified by a reputable psychic testing organization who has gone through stringent testing procedures.
7) FREE WILL, YOUR READING and YOUR FUTURE:
As I mentioned earlier, within Spiritualism there is the principle of FREE WILL
and PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY
. This means that each of us has the free will to determine our future and our own personal path through life. The future is NOT set by what a psychic picks up. In reality there are countless 'potential probabilities' that a psychic COULD pick up on. Generally what a psychic gets is based on the current direction the client is going and the most probable outcome. If this concept confuses you do some reading on multiple probabilities or perhaps I will do a future article on that subject. What a psychic reading SHOULD do is it provide you with knowledge and information to make sensible decisions. If a psychic tells you that someone is intentionally hurting you or cheating, or betraying you, you can make smart choices accordingly. This is just as beneficial as knowing why someone acts in a certain way when the psychic tells you it is because they are 'fearful' or 'have issues' or they are 'in pain', etc but that they are loyal and supportive, this information will help you make smart choices for yourself based on the clarity of that information. Use your common sense and use the information in constructive ways to benefit your life and to make smart choices!
"Please folks, do NOT willingly give your power away
to a psychic or to anyone!"
8) CAN PSYCHICS REALLY SEE INTO THE FUTURE
The future is not set in stone because we all have free will
in our journeys through life. A psychic's role is to use their insight to see the potential future based upon your current situation and behavior and to guide you and help you address your problems and thereby help you make better decisions to bring about a brighter future. A psychic can help you avoid mistakes with their insight. So, yes, a psychic can see where things are headed for you but remember, you are NOT powerless. YOU HAVE the ability to change things. Ask me for more details!
Lady Fontaine os a certified Mater Psychic. In 2008 she was voted as America's #1 Love Psychic
by the International Certification of Psychics. In 2009 she was voted in the top 5 psychics worldwide. She is available on Keen most evenings between 8pm-midnight (EST) and sometimes has some afternoon hours.
Lady Fontaine is offering 5 FREE MINUTES THIS WEEKEND
for all paid calls lasting 10 or more minutes. For paid calls lasting 15 or more minutes Lady Fontaine is offering 10 FREE MINUTES
- through midnight Monday October 5, 2009.
With permission I am posting the International Certification of Psychics Code of Ethics. I am bound by this code and I live by it with ALL my readings. For more information about the International Certification of psychics please contact Toni Stevens. Here is their website: http://international-certification-psychics.org
Psychic's Code of Ethics:
The International Society for Certification of Psychics (dba International Certification of Psychics ) stands behind all psychics who are certified by us. Please review the following Code of Ethics and Confidentiality Agreement carefully. You will be asked to confirm that you have read and agree to these terms in the application/registry process.
We carefully screen all applicants to insure that the services they provide their clients are fair and accurate. Any member(s) found to provide insubstantial or fraudulent services will be reviewed for expulsion and/or put on probation.
1. I agree to be honest and truthful with my clients. I understand that the foundation of all legitimate psychic and metaphysical work is based on honesty.
2. I agree that the insights and predictions I give in my readings are the truth as I see it. I do not try to lead a client into believing I am psychic based on observations or information I pick up through mundane means.
3. I never attempt to "tell the client what they want to hear" if I do not honestly believe it.
4. I agree and live by 'Fairness and legitimate exchanges of energy' and understand that it is the fair exchange which perpetuates spiritual and material growth.
5. I do not and will not cause another persons rights to be violated.
6. I do not discriminate.
7. I will not pressure clients to do anything they do not want to do nor are uncomfortable doing. This includes using my authority as a psychic and spiritual counselor to pressure clients into buying services they do not want.
8. I do not provide legal, medical or psychological services that I am unqualified to provide. Furthermore, I clearly inform clients of our applicable qualifications, training and licenses, or lack thereof. These standards remain in place to protect all.
9. I agree and live by the principle of FREE WILL and PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY. I agree to give each client a thorough and complete evaluation of the energy and situations perceived but I honor their right to FREE CHOICE and lovingly support each client to make their own decisions. I agree to honor and SUPPORT each client's right to FREE CHOICE and I agree to fully empower them to make their own decisions. I REFUSE to make decisions for my clients. That is not the job or responsibility of any psychic.
10. I give the highest possible services at all times & treat my clients with respect.
11. I agree to provide every client with the HIGHEST level of confidentiality regarding any personal information they disclose/discuss with you.
12. I refrain from imposing personal judgments and prejudices while the reading is taking place.
13. If I am unable to resolve an issue with a client within a 3 week period, I agree to contact the International Certification of Psychics.
14. If a complaint is lodged with the International Certification of Psychics regarding any exchange or reading done by me with a client of mine, I agree to work with the International Certification of Psychics to quickly and fairly resolve the problem(s).
15. I agree to stay in good standing in the community and within my business.
16. I hold myself to this code of ethics & confidentiality agreement.