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Your 'relationship' with money is what dictates your income and your bank balance. Not the economy.. not your job performance or the number of customers or clients you have or don't have. These are just curves, hiccups and burps along the way. We ALL have the ability to create unlimited prosperity and if you are not enjoying the prosperity that you desire then the ONLY one holding you back - is you! There is a Henry Ford quote I often use in my workshops and seminars which says:

"If you believe you can..
       or
You believe you can't..
     You are Right!"


We think of Henry Ford as an innovator and business man - not a spiritual guru. That is exactly why I use his quote. This concept is a Universal (and powerful) concept recognized by many very rich and powerful men and women. People who have defined what America is all about. There are many spiritual gurus and masters who have delivered a similar message in different words. The words, or who says them is not the important part.. what IS the important part is that we understand that *WE* control exactly what we have, what we receive and what opportunities come our way by what we think and believe.

It isn't only your conscious thoughts that control what you manifest in your life. Your thoughts are controlled by your deep-seated beliefs. If you believe that money is evil, you will find it hard to manifest great prosperity into your life because who would intentionally want to expose themselves to evil? If you believe that 'money doesn't grow on trees' you probably come from a family that instilled strong work ethics into you - but there is a deep seated belief within you that you have to work hard for your money.. so that is what you will create. I can't tell you how many of my clients come to me to manifest prosperity and are completely convinced they have an abundance mentality. They tell me they 'want a better job', they 'want' a bigger house and countless other desires that are filed away in their computer brain as being representations of the success and abundance they desire. SO, WHY ARE THEY NOT MANIFESTING IT INTO THEIR LIVES?

"Money is energy. Money flows INTO your life when there is a cohesive flow of energy within yourself."

The Law of Attraction tells us that 'like attracts like'. A physicist might argue that telling you opposites attract (which in most areas of science is true). But, if we use the basic laws of attraction and want something - what is the message we are sending out to the Universe? Think about it? The answer is 'The desire to have what you don't have actually shifts you into a state of lack'. If we use the basic concept of the law of attraction - like attracts like - then when you desire something you don't have.. the 'energy' or the 'essence' behind what you want is actually 'lack' and that is what you attract. You are admitting to yourself and sending out to the Universe that there is 'lack' in your life consisting of big gaps and holes that are not filled and the Universe obliges by sending you more of lack (not having what you 'want)'. So 'WANTING' actually keeps your desires right out of reach or slows them down from entering into your life. How often have you wanted something so badly (a person or an item) and you want it and you want it and you never get it. Eventually, something inside of you shifts and you no longer want it. What happens? BINGO - You Get IT - it enters your life quickly and easily. You stopped wanting it - so you actually ALLOWED it to enter into your life.

"The desire to have what you don't have actually shifts you into a state of lack"

So, how do we translate this basic concept into a powerful technique that will DRAW PROSPERITY into your life. There are two critical steps to follow. The first step is actually a 2 part step - stop wanting and move into a state of gratitude. They go hand-in-hand to achieve the goal of manifesting prosperity into your life.

"Shift your focus to GRATITUDE"

1. To want or not to want. That is *THE* question! The answer is simple. Shift your focus to GRATITUDE. Once you begin to focus on the things you are grateful for the energy within you completely shifts. If 'wanting' something keeps it away - being GRATEFUL for what you have.. draws in plentiful blessings into your life. Let's take a minute right now to do an experiment. Take a few deep breaths. Now allow yourself to think of something you 'want'. Really imagine the item for a few minutes. Notice where you eyes are looking.. Notice your breathing and body language. Notice where you feel it in (or outside) of your body. Now, let that go and take a few deep breaths and now think of something you HAVE and are very grateful for. Notice where you eyes are looking.. Notice your breathing and body language. Notice where you feel it in (or outside) of your body. Do you see and feel the difference? In many cases people keep the vision of the things they 'want' outside of their body.. just off in the distance. Their eyes may go up or down but most often UP and to the LEFT. When you are grateful for something.. many hold it in their heart or solar plexus.. but definitely the energy resides WITHIN them rather than external to them. Our eyes usually go down. These are cognitive signals that go DIRECTLY to the brain and ignite your manifesting power. What that means is if you are in a state of 'wanting' and your eye movements follow the patterns described above - your cognitive message to your brain is that you don't have the things you desire so you increase your state of LACK in your life. You are 'thinking' about things or 'sensing' them but they are not in your life. However, when in a state of Gratitude this sends pleasurable energy through your body of 'appreciation'. Your eyes are generally positioned downward giving a cognitive message to the brain that you FEEL the joy and PLEASURE in the things you have. You are GRATEFUL for what you have. For your Life. This sends a cognitive message to your brain of BEING WHOLE and PERFECT. The Universe then aligns with this energy and sends you more situations to support this wonderful feeling of joy and your sense of feeling COMPLETE. The message the Universe gets is that you don't 'need' anything so the Universe sends you situations to support HAVING EVERYTHING YOU NEED. That is when we begin to experience the divine blessings we are ALL entitled to receive! Remember, money and prosperity are ENERGY. When energy flows effortlessly through you - you attract prosperity into your life. Every second of every day we ALL have a choice. Consciously chose to align with the state of gratitude. Your life will almost instantly shift for the better. Gratitude is a much different energy than the desire of 'wanting' something and draws into your life love, happiness and prosperity.

Gratitude: Watch your thoughts. Measure your thoughts about money and see if you are wanting or appreciating. If you are appreciating be sure you have an awareness of gratitude. Gratitude BRINGS it into YOUR life. Wanting keeps it just OUTSIDE of your reach.

"Detach from the Outcome"

2. Detach from the Outcome: OK, this is tough part. It requires a TRUST in a higher power. This requires that you have an inner awareness that there is a greater power out there. Some think of this as God. Some think of this as a 'higher force' or even their 'higher self'. It doesn't matter what you call it - but it does matter that you understand that there is some force GREATER than ourselves out there - that we are CONNECTED too. This is a loving, suppportive 'power' that you can TAP into at any time. When you have this awareness and understanding and you trust that this higher power will know the bigger picture and bring to you what you need at any given time. So, you want the 5,000 square foot house in the suburbs, the Hummer, $100,000.00 in the bank and the other niceties. Imagine if the Universe's plan for you is to bring you a 8,000 square foot house, 10 Hummers and $10 million dollars in the bank and even more. Or maybe you aren't supposed to have the Hummer but a Cadillac Escalade. TRUST and allow the Universe to bring you the GIFTS it desires. Don't limit yourself. Just OPEN to the possibilities of prosperity and allow the Universe to work out the details. The Universe SEES the BIG picture. With the way our brains are designed; we can't embrace the magnitude of this. We don't have that vision or capability. So, allow the Universe to do what it is BEST at - bringing you wonderful opportunities that could manifest way beyond your hopes and dreams.

"Allow the Universe to bring the opportunities and gifts into your life
that you deserve!"


Happy Manifesting!

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If you find this article helpful, Lady Fontaine is available to answer your financial, career, manifesting or financial questions.

Lady Fontaine is offering 15 FREE MINUTES for paid calls lasting at least 15 minutes through New Year's Day - January 1, 2009.

Blessings of Light and Love!

-Lady Fontaine
Hello!!

The power of prayer has been proven.  There have been several well documented studies proving the power of prayer and meditation.  On Wednesday January 16, 2002 Time Magazine reported that Dr Elizabeth Targ was granted over one million dollars from the National Institutes of health for two separate studies on the power of prayer.  The entire articles can be found here.  http://www.time.com/time/columnist/jaroff/article/0,9565,193084,00.html.  There was another study done earlier.  The CNN article can be found here.  http://archives.cnn.com/2000/HEALTH/alternative/01/18/prayer.power.wmd/.  There is definitely no shortage of proof (and belief) that the power of prayer exists. 

In 2005 Lady Fontaine founded the Inner Circle Prayer and Meditation Group.  This consisted of 12 extraordinary individuals who began prayer for individuals and world healing.  In the past several years over 600 people have asked to be part of this amazing phenomenon.  In early 2008 after I appeared on a radio show in New York City several requests came in to join this group.  They had incredible results.

You are cordially invited to join my International Prayer and Meditation Group. We have over 600 members internationally and last year was our most successful year ever. Many members around the world experiences miracles of health, wealth, love and happiness. Many saw their prayers materialize effortlessly bringing love and prosperity into their lives. Last year a few select Keen users asked to be included in my prayer group and their testimonials are below. These are REAL Keen users - and they have authorized me to use their testimonials here. There is a $30 fee for one year membership. Included in this membership is 5 FREE minutes every month. Each month I send out a meditation symbol and times for prayer/meditation, several types of prayers and meditations and full instructions. You are welcomed to join in at any of these times. We request that you spend anywhere from 5-15 minutes at the designated times in prayer and/or meditation. We offer meditation symbols for each month and prayers to help you manifest the life that you desire. You can either meditate or join in prayer (or both). There is power in prayer and unity.. and we invite you to make 2009 your most successful and happiest year ever!

If you are interested in joining this prayer and meditation group - send me an email and I will invoice you for $30.00. You will receive the information before the end of this year. Your membership officially begins on January 1st. And remember, I will send you 5 free minutes a month (valued at more than double this offer).   To sign up use the button (under PAID MAIL) on the RIGHT side of this screen or email me on keen and I will invoice you and sign you right up!

Blessings for a wonderful and happy holiday season!

-Lady Fontaine

Testimonials from REAL Keen users. You can email them for more information!

Dream Girl65: Wow, I joined LadyFontaine's prayer group and 2008 has been an incredible year for me. With the down-turn of the economy I was still able to manifest a dream job for myself. And, relationships have been amazing this year. I can't wait to join again in 2009 to bring more miracles into my life.

Secret Agent Man: Lady Fontaine is amazing and her prayer group is absolutely miraculous. I spend less than 5 minutes a day joining in on the pray and meditations at different times during the year and my marriage situation changed completely and the relationship is better than it ever was. I feel peaceful and happy and I am grateful to LadyFontaine for having this incredible prayer and meditation group.

Spirit Light91: Don't miss this chance to change your life. It takes a few minutes a day and almost immediately my life began having positive changes. Treat yourself to this amazing prayer group! Lady Fontaine rocks!

2 4 6 8: Lady Fontaine is an amazing psychic and she has a powerful prayer and meditation group. For those desiring spiritual help and guidance join her prayer groups and you will be glad you did. All you have to do is believe and spend a few minutes on this a few times a week. I saw big changes in the first few days of working with this prayer group. Thank you very much LadyF!

Psychic to the Stars: I have known Lady Fontaine for over 10 years. She is the psychic's psychic and consistently one of the best psychics around! I have been a member of her prayer group for over 3 years. She offers each member the ability to join in several times a week with prayer and meditation and in addition to that for emergency cases her staff works at NO CHARGE to help each and every member. her prayer group has brought success and happiness for countless people around the world.

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On Dec 6, 2008 The International Certification of Psychics announced it's top psychics worldwide. Lady Fontaine is their pick for America's #1 Love Psychic! The actual PRESS RELEASE is available on PRWEB.

Lady Fontaine wrote a syndicated Love Advice column for many years. More recently she has many of her articles syndicated on the internet and are featured on sites such as Tarot.com, AOL, Astronet.com, Astrology.com and many other sites! For many years Lady Fontaine hosted the AM Radio Show Non-Stop New York giving callers expert psychic advice. Search the internet and you'll find a host of her articles for your reading pleasure!

Lady Fontaine has been ranked in the top 5 psychics worldwide for the past 7 consecutive years. Lady Fontaine is currently working on her second book.

To know what men want.. you have to know what they don’t want. All too often, women give a man what they ‘think’ he wants but ultimately it pushes him away. Listed below are the biggest mistakes that women make in relationships. Any single one of these can drive your man away. If you do more than one the odds get stacked against you. Why? Because men process information in a different way than women. And it becomes important to learn the intricate differences in how men and women think so you can relate to them in ‘their’ language. If you go to Greece, do you speak to the natives in Hungarian? No, you speak Greek their native language. The same thing applies to being in a relationship with a man. Learn to understand how they think and how they process information and you greatly improve your chances of creating lasting love! The list below does not apply to every man nor every relationship. There are still some men that appreciate women and treasure a woman who gives fully of herself! But, if you embody these qualities and your man is not appreciating you the list below will explain why! Don't change who you are - but knowledge is power and sometimes women have to resort to some well-planned 'strategy' to get their needs met!! Men often tell me that they are not 'mind readers' and don't know what their lady wants, so these are designed to help you outsmart the Venus and Mars disconnect in relationships!!! The list below gives you the tools to empower yourself in a relationship by understanding how a man interprets your actions and how to get him to appreciate you more!

Mistake #1: Women who give too much. Giving too much love, attention, support, money, etc translates to your man that ‘you’ and ‘your feelings’ don’t count. If you 'always' put him first he quickly learns to do the same (put himself first) and ultimately he is more likely to ignore your needs. Not because he doesn't care about you but you are subconsciously telling him that his needs are more important than yours. Women think that a man wants the woman who caters to their every need. Well, they may want it, but when they have it they quickly tire of it and take it for granted. So ladies - balance it!!! Give, but also allow the man to give and do for you. When a woman is too nice, too helpful, too supportive or too loving it translates to your man as too much of a good thing. A man rarely sees himself married to a woman like that. Think about it, how many times have you heard about a man leaving such a good and loving woman for a demanding one? It happens all the time. Men like the novelty at the beginning of a relationship of being pampered and catered to but in the end they generally leave or begin to 'expect' it and take it for granted. When you make your entire emphasis in a relationship about your partner; you rob them of a very intricate part of man’s dream fantasy about love. Ultimately, this is one of the primary reasons men leave a relationship. They get bored. ~This is one of the biggest mistakes a woman can make.~

Mistake #2: Women think that men want to hear words of love and endearment. They don’t. Men don’t want to be overwhelmed with words. They think and feel in simplistic terms. For them, actions speak louder than words. When a man ‘pulls away’ emotionally or is not attentive or not calling then the absolute WORST thing you can do is send him a letter or email telling him how you feel. This will push him away further. You may get a knee-jerk response from a man but it won’t be lasting.

Mistake #3: Women think men need to be told how to treat them. Women think the way to get a man to do what they want is to tell them they are NOT doing what they want. This is a HUGE mistake!!! Men immediately turn OFF when you begin nit-picking by telling them what they are doing wrong. The BEST approach is to REWARD your man for his positive behavior. He’ll learn quickly to do the things that you desire. Always compliment your man when he does the little things for you. Make a big deal when he surprises you or brings you flowers, etc. Let him know what wets your whistle.. what you like.. what you want. Give him the chance to PLEASE YOU! Let him know how much you appreciate his thoughtfulness and he will surprise you with more!

Mistake #4: Women think having sex will bring them a commitment. Many women think ‘sex’ is the way to a man’s heart and the way to keep a man. It surely may get a man interested at the beginning; but your chances of getting a commitment by giving the man the sex they desire is greatly reduced.

The better approach is to put your needs first. He wants something (sex) you want something (commitment) - so withhold the sex until you get the commitment or the relationship is ‘secure’. When a woman gives a man sex as a means to getting a commitment it backfires 98% of the time. If she realizes it or not she actually is training him that he doesn’t have to work for sex. In other words, he doesn’t need to buy you gifts, doesn’t need to appreciate you and more importantly, doesn’t need to give you a commitment. All too often, women forego their true desires of having a commitment but they give ‘sex’ as a way to barter for what they want. The majority of time - it backfires. Don’t forego what is important to you by giving sex freely to a man. The best way to capture a man is to make them wait and make them work for what they want. The longer they wait, the more they desire you.

Mistake #5: Women think the way to win a man’s heart is to make NO demands. This is a HUGE mistake. Nice girls rarely finish first.. especially in romance. Making demands is not selfish; in fact, it is one of the best things you can do for the relationship. You set the RULES and REQUIREMENTS. If a man asks you to meet him at a restaurant and you want to be picked up - tell him. If you want to stay home or want to go to a restaurant or concert - tell him. Most women think that men want the woman who make no demands. That is 100% INCORRECT. Men like to know what is expected and they like to cater to a woman’s needs.

~These are the primary mistakes a woman makes in a relationship. My next article will address how you should strategize and once you have attracted Mr Right so you keep him!!~

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On Dec 6th The International Certification of Psychics announced it's top psychics worldwide. Lady Fontaine is their pick for America's #1 Love Psychic! The actual PRESS RELEASE is available on PRWEB.

Lady Fontaine is a Master Psychic and Love & Relationship Coach. Lady Fontaine wrote a syndicated Love Advice column for many years. More recently she has many of her articles syndicated on the internet and are featured on sites such as Tarot.com, AOL, Astronet.com, Astrology.com and many other sites! For many years Lady Fontaine hosted the AM Radio Show Non-Stop New York giving callers expert psychic advice. Search the internet and you'll find a host of her articles for your reading pleasure!

Lady Fontaine has been ranked in the top 5 psychics worldwide for the past 7 consecutive years. Lady Fontaine is currently working on her second book.

Lady Fontaine is available on Keen most evenings between 8pm-11pm. If you don't see her as available, put in a call-back and she will take your call at her earliest convenience.

Lady Fontaine’s wishes you all a very Happy & Healthy Holiday Season. Her tentative schedule for the next few days is:

Sunday Dec 21st from 6pm-11pm.
Monday Dec 22nd from 8pm-11pm
Tuesday Dec 23rd from 8pm-11pm
Wednesday Dec 24th - some possible availability earlier in the day - please arrange a call-back or appointment
Thursday - Merry Christmas - no planned availability on Christmas Day
Friday Dec 26th - evening hours

Blessings!

-Lady Fontaine
On Dec 6th The International Certification of Psychics announced it's top psychics worldwide. Lady Fontaine is their pick for America's #1 Love Psychic! The actual PRESS RELEASE is available on PRWEB.

Lady Fontaine wrote a syndicated Love Advice column for many years. More recently she has many of her articles syndicated on the internet and are featured on sites such as Tarot.com, AOL, Astronet.com, Astrology.com and many other sites! For many years Lady Fontaine hosted the AM Radio Show Non-Stop New York giving callers expert psychic advice. Search the internet and you'll find a host of her articles for your reading pleasure!

Lady Fontaine has been ranked in the top 5 psychics worldwide for the past 7 consecutive years. Lady Fontaine is currently working on her second book.

Lady Fontaine is available on Keen today - Sunday Dec 14th from 2pm - 11pm. If you don't see her as available, put in a call-back and she will take your call at her earliest convenience.

Blessings!

Lady Fontaine

PS - Mention that you saw this blog and receive 5 FREE minutes (with all paid calls lasting at least 10 minutes).
One of the worst feelings you can experience in life is a broken heart. There is never a good time for a relationship to end; but it always seems worse around the holidays. A broken heart tears at the core of your essence. It feels like your heart is being torn out of your chest. It hurts! So, what do you do when your heart is broken?

I have written up a list of things to do to help ease the pain. Although when you are in deep emotional pain caused by a broken heart it may seem like the pain will never go away, but it will. In time a broken heart does mend.. and life does go on. But, what do we do in the meantime?

1. Treat yourself with kindness. Allow yourself to see the big picture. As we begin to deal with the 'loss' of the relationship we begin a grieving process. The first stages of grieving - we blame ourselves. Keep in mind that it takes two people to be in a relationship and if a relationship fails - both partners have some responsibility. A serious relationship does not end because of something trivial you said, or did. Your partner may use that as an excuse; but the roots of the problem were planted long before the final break-up. Relationships end because communication is lacking or because two people are not compatible. Sometimes relationships end because your partner isn't 'ready' to be in a relationship, needs some space, falls out of love with you or a host of other reasons. Understand and recognize that it takes 'two to tango' and if the relationship ends - not just one partner is to blame, so if you catch yourself blaming yourself, STOP!!

2. Talk to someone. A friend, a therapist, anyone who will listen. The best thing you can do is verbalize what you are feeling. The worst thing you can do is just let it brew inside of you.

3. Write the person a letter expressing your feelings and all the reasons you feel hurt; but don't mail the letter.

4. Allow yourself to feel. CRY! YELL! SHOUT! SCREAM!! Let the emotion surface and get it out! It is okay to feel miserable and gloomy - if you allow yourself to express the sadness you feel, the pain will pass quicker. There are steps of healing. At the beginning stages it is important to allow yourself to feel the pain. The first stages of healing you will blame yourself and wish you did things differently but that stage will pass. As you begin to heal, the pain turns to anger and eventually leaves. These are all normal stages of healing. There are 12-step programs designed to walk you through the stages of healing.. that is a very good place to start.

5. Pound a pillow. Yes, you heard me - this is one of the best ways to release pent up emotions.

6. Spend time with friends. Even though you may not be in the mood to be social or be with friends - do your best to spend time with friends or family. Don't allow yourself to be alone all the time.

7. Turn your attention to your career and work responsibilities, friends, your pets, etc. Find joy in your daily routine.

8. Plan your day. Sit down with pad and paper in hand. Make a list of things you have always loved to do. Jot down at least 10 items. Now, grab a calendar or appointment book.. and begin working out a schedule for yourself. Plan your day from the moment you wake up until the minute you go to sleep. Put down everything. This is an imperative step to helping you survive the initial days of a broken relationship. The goal is to fill your day completely. The worst thing is to be alone and feel lonely and abandoned.

9. Go places. Go the the library, art gallery, museum, shopping, football game.. find things to do that you have always enjoyed. I want you to go and do it! Don't worry about feeling sad, you'd be surprised - especially this time of the year the christmas carols and lights and decorations might help lift your mood. Do NOT go to places where you and your ex went - explore and find new places!

10. Decorate for the holidays. Go shopping. Plan a decorate the tree party with close friends.

11. VOLUNTEER. Call your local charities. Most of the charities will welcome your help. You'll be amazed to find that as you help others, your pain will begin to heal.

12. Don't rush things.. your healing process will take as long as you need it to take.

13. Do the above steps even if you are not in the mood or if you feel like you are just going through the motions.

14. Call me. I am a Certified Love Psychic and Life Coach. My clients call me The Love Doctor. There *IS* life and happiness after a failed relationship. Before you know it you will be living your life to its fullest!

I have called this article 'part 2' because I did a similar article about this topic over a year ago. I have expanded on this and hope this helps some of you that may be struggling with relationship issues this holiday season. May God Bless and May You Find Within Your Heart Joy & Happiness This Holiday Season and throughout 2009!!!!

Blessings of Light & Love!

-Lady Fontaine

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Lady Fontaine is a Certified Master Psychic and Certified Life Coach. She has been giving private readings for over 25 years. She has been active on Keen for the past several years. Lady Fontaine is the former am radio psychic on Non-Stop New York where she gave insightful answers to callers 5 days a week. Lady Fontaine's articles on Love are syndicated on the internet and in print. She is certified by the International Certification of Psychics. Her psychic abilities have been verified at 99% accuracy. For an outstanding love (or career) reading - call Lady Fontaine today!

The Holidays are a time of friends and family and loved ones. Sometimes situations occur and you find yourself spending the holidays alone. Christmas and New Year's are the hardest days to spend without someone special in your life or in some cases, without friends or family. The best way to survive the holiday season alone is to begin planning now and arrange your day the best way possible.

OK, that certainly sounds easy but is it easier said than done? That all depends on your perspective of the holidays and where you chose to put your focus. Christmas and New Years are just like any other days of the year. There have been years that I have chosen to be alone to just unwind and have a quiet day, or spend the day with my dogs or one or two very close friends. So, cheer up, you are not alone. Approach the day with happiness rather than gloom and you will find the day peacefully passes!!! But, plan ahead and BE GOOD TO YOURSELF!!!

I've listed below some things you can begin to plan now to make your day very, very special!

1: Be kind to YOU!!!! You may want to decorate the house, send out christmas cards, buy yourself something special. Plan a special breakfast for yourself and if you are going to be alone for dinner - plan a nice meal for yourself. Buy a fine wine or champagne you have been wanting to try. Don't deprive yourself of anything! Treat yourself well.

2: There are millions of people across the country (and world) that are spending the holidays alone. I know it seems like you are the only person alone; but you are not. You may or may not find peace in knowing that.. but at times many of us spend important holidays alone. So, check out 'groups' and see if there are others in your community spending the holidays alone. Perhaps you can meet for brunch and have a holiday get-together with some of your neighbors who may also be alone. If not, then perhaps you have a virtual on-line buddy that you can plan to exchange holiday greetings with or chat with throughout the day

3: Check your community events. Some communities hold 'Community Dinners' or Singles events' throughout the holidays.

4: Plan events for the day. If you are going to be alone be sure to pick up your favorite book or movie and look forward to some quiet time to get caught up with work, reading, writing, watching your favorite movies, etc. Try not to have the book or movie about the holidays, or an especially sad 'tear-jerker' movie - that can make you seem more alone.. select carefully.

5: Call your friends. See if anyone else is alone for the holidays and if so - INVITE THEM OVER!!! You may want to host a small dinner party with some other friends who will also be alone.

6: Start now and begin to communicate with friends and find out what their plans are. If they know you are going to be alone, they may very well invite you over.

7: If none of the above works for you then if your situation allows itself.. plan a vacation over the holidays. There are plenty of singles tours/vacations with a host of locations you can chose from. Or go solo and enjoy meeting new people.

8: VOLUNTEER: If none of the above entices you, perhaps volunteering at your local charity would pique your interest. You can be with other people and gain a sense of inner satisfaction know you are doing something valuable helping less fortunate people. In reality I would love to suggest this first, but most people wouldn't continue reading. This is such a lost 'art' the desire to volunteer. Even if you are feeling lonely or gloomy - spending the day with the less fortunate will make you feel AMAZING!!!!!!

9: If all else fails, schedule an appointment with me. I will be available (by appointment only).

Most importantly, I sincerely hope you find the happiness you seek.

Blessings!

-Lady Fontaine

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Lady Fontaine is an authentic psychic CERTIFIED by the International Certification of Psychics! She has been listed on the TOP 5 PSYCHICS world-wide for 8 consecutive years!!! She is compassionate, honest, with astounding accuracy. Lady Fontaine is personally responsible for over 350 marriages - helping to coach and provide psychic insight to enrich relationships of her clients.

This weekend - Saturday Nov 29th and Sunday November 30th Lady Fontaine is offering 10 FREE MINUTES for all calls lasting 15 minutes or longer. For calls lasting 20 minutes or longer, in addition to the free minutes she will do a special 2009 New Year's Special BLESSING for you (a $75.00 value). Lady Fontaine believes in the Law of Reciprocity - which basically says 'What you Sow.. you reap' and in order to receive you must give. Her clients consider her extremely generous with her time and free minutes!

Lady Fontaine is available in the evenings from 8pm - midnight. Give her a call to experience a profound and informative reading.
BRAVO to the House for rejecting the $700 Billion Bail-out. I generally do not voice my opinion of politics or the economy publicly but this time I can't sit back quietly. Thank goodness this plan did not pass. It would have completely sunk our nation's economy. It is the WRONG approach. There is a tremendous economic imbalance. The answer isn't to make it more unbalanced and think that somehow that will 'fix' the underlying causes and resolve the problem? It won't. By feeding the 'problem' you make the problem worse.

Unfortunately, Wall Street has reigned supreme for so long and made huge blunders; and the government is trying to save it's own butt by saving the large financial companies. In reality, the more the government tries to exert it's influence onto private business; the more trouble we'll get into. There is a great financial imbalance. These are very scary times. But the answer isn't to make more of an imbalance; it is to make smarter choices. Unfortunately, there is no magic button to push to resolve this problem. Our society CREATED it; and there is a karmic debt for society to pay. That is the law of the Universe. You can't erase it and think you can side-step it and not pay the price.

Let's look at the track record of government. They are not good at doing business. What other business would spend $500 for a single paper clip or pen? And, this is who we want involved with making decisions about our economy?

When the bailout discussions started there was talk about saving the foreclosures and aiding the Americans in need. That was a solid approach. But, somehow that got pushed aside and the main focus became saving these financial giants. Is that really the job of the American people??? In my opinion the answer is NO. Who is saving you when you can't make your house payment? Who is helping when unemployment benefits run out? Who helps you put food on the table? Government agencies such as the IRS.. well aren't they the first to be unreasonable and make your life miserable by exerting it's power. The unfortunate truth is regardless of what happens; a revised bailout plan or none.. we are about to enter some difficult times. Real Estate prices will continue to drop; more sharply than ever. Prices will continue to rise and more and more people will become unemployed. The sad truth is even if there was a bailout - the financial institutions will begin laying off employees by the thousands. I have been making this prediction to my clients for over a year.

But, the bad mortgages are not all that caused the economic imbalance. Aside from the unrealistic government spending we have done for countless years - what corporate America does to us consistently is they create shortages so they can RAISE THE PRICES. Take notice. What we as Americans should do is take our business elsewhere. Businesses know if they create a shortage; we'll go out and buy triple and then they hold back for a week or two and then bring the same product back at triple the price. *THAT* is the problem. If American businesses don't change their modi of operation; a dark depression is eminent for us. The way to save us.. is to lower costs and operate businesses in a more efficient way and do away with CEO's getting millions of dollars in salary and perks at the expense of you and me. The way to save us is through honesty and fairness. That is why it is such a blessing that the House Representatives were listening to their intuition and inner guidance and said NO to this ridiculous plan. If there is a revision to the bailout plan which at this time I am not feeling; but if there is - then let's all PRAY that there is a stipulation that these financial institutions can not turn around and lay off thousands of workers. Imagine, funding such an outrageous bailout, then losing your job and eventually your home. We NEED to make the government accountable to it's people; if it feels it is accountable for financial giants; then what about the American people? Isn't the government supposed to be 'for the people.. and by the people?'

The world is now looking to the USA to 'fix' the financial problem plaguing THE WORLD. Unfortunately, there is no easy fix; and the best approach is for the government to leave it alone and create a bailout plan for the American people.. to insure that everyone has a roof over the heads, heat, electricity, transportation and food. THAT should be the ultimate goal. Can you imagine the good that $700 billion dollars could do for Americans if a program was set-up to help those who need help.

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Lady Fontaine worked as a Consultant for top financial services companies for over 20 years. YES - financial services companies *DO* hire people like Lady Fontaine. She has consulted for Chemical Bank, Morgan Guaranty, Merrill Lynch, CS First Boston, JP Morgan Chase and several others financial giants. She has consulted at these companies during some of their major mergers and buy-outs. Some of these businesses have been her clients for 10 or more years.

On the lighter side, Lady Fontaine is also known as America's #1 Love Psychic. She is one of the few psychics on Keen that can show credentials of being Certified by one of the premier testing organizations in the world; The International Certification of Psychics. Lady Fontaine has ranked in the top 5 psychics in the WORLD for the past 7 years.

Call Lady Fontaine for a career or love reading today. She gives honest answers. No sugar-coating.

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The Universe has very simple rules. You ‘get’ what you feel you are ‘worthy’ of. Henry Ford said it perfectly with these words:

If you believe you can or
You believe you can’t
--- You’re right!

-Henry Ford

So, how do you apply this concept to your love lives? Many of your ‘deep beliefs’ are so ingrained within you that you don’t even realize you have them. Some examples are: money doesn’t grow on trees, good girls should be seen and not heard, big boys don’t cry, no one will ever love you, and a face only a mother could love. Familiar?

You’ve all been told similar things when growing up. But how do these limiting beliefs really shape your lives? It is simple and a very natural way of life. As children you want to please your parents. Your parents tell you things.. you believe it. You want the praise, love and acceptance of your parents or care-takers so you do things that you know they will approve of. After time, you begin to accept these ‘things’ as truths. For example, if you get a hug and kiss every time you stop crying.. you begin to learn that expressing emotions and crying is NOT rewarded; but to stop crying is rewarded therefore the belief may become that ‘expressing emotions is not acceptable’. Add to that, your parents tell you: ‘what a good girl’ when you stop crying, so that further reinforces to you that it is a bad thing to show emotion. Another example is.. let’s say a young boy is artistic. But, his dad wants him to play sports. He takes him outside to catch balls. Every time the boy does something that the father wants – he rewards him. ‘hey son, that was great, let’s go get ice cream’. Every time the boy does something the father does not approve of, he gets negative input: ‘Son, why are you always drawing pictures and acting like a sissy, let’s go outside and catch some balls and act like a real man!’ Over time, these words and actions become ingrained within the boy and he begins to believe them. To make matters worse, he now has this inner conflict because he wants to draw and design things, but his father wants him to do something else.. so he shoves his true desires aside and does what his dad wants him to do.. and conflict and resentment sets in. All these thoughts become a part of your belief structure. So, the boy who might have been destined to be a top architect or artist.. might grow up trying to please his father and being a mediocre macho man; instead of allowing his natural artistic qualities to blossom. The example I used above also shows why so many Americans have weight problems; as children you are rewarded for ‘eating everything on your plate’ and ‘food’ is often used as a reward (as I used as an example with the boy and the ice cream). All of these things mold and shape you into the adults you are today.

Science has not completely figured out where thoughts come from. The consensus by psychologists is your thoughts are generated by your beliefs. So, if you believe you are worthy of something, you will THINK THOUGHTS TO SUPPORT THAT BELIEF and draw it into your lives; but if you don’t; you won’t. You might wonder how you really know what thoughts are limiting you. Fortunately, it is easier than you may think. Many of you say things like.. ‘I can’t do that!’ If you catch yourself saying something like that ask yourself 2 things: 1) Can’t do what? And when you identify what it is that you ‘can’t do’.. ask yourself 2) Why? You may discover that you ‘realize’ that you can’t do it because you were always told you couldn’t.. and as you become aware of that – and consciously allow yourself to do it.. you empower yourself as you break old habits and shatter limiting beliefs. Let’s look at this example. Let’s assume that you catch a thought that says: ‘you can’t get that high paying job’ [and let’s assume this is the IDEAL job that you have you have waited your entire life for]. So, you catch the thought and ask yourself: ‘Can’t do what?’ You respond: ‘get the high paying job silly!’ You then ask yourself: ‘Why not?’ [you may have to ask yourself 10 times, 20 times, a hundred times or a million times..] but keep asking until you get an answer.. because you WILL! If you suddenly start remembering how your mom always told you ‘you can’t do that!’ hold that thought because that is the defining experience that ‘set’ your belief. As you recall your mom saying that.. reflect on what you wanted to do as a child that she told you not to do.. and imagine that you allow yourself to do it.. and that your mom is supportive that you did what you wanted! Feel the JOY of experiencing what you have wanted to experience all these years! BRAVO!!!

So, how does this all play into getting the love you deserve? Simple. You ‘allow’ yourself to have the love (money, success, attention, etc) that you feel you are worthy of. There is NO way around that. So, take a minute and look at your OUTER WORLD. Your OUTER WORLD is a REFLECTION OF YOUR INNER WORLD. What is your outer world telling you? Is your life filled with love? Money? Success? Happiness? For the majority of you.. the answer is no. And the reason is simple.. because along the way you have lost yourselves. As children you are told not to focus on your own needs – to focus on others. By doing that, you put yourselves second and IGNORE your own needs and satisfy others. The ‘energy’ that radiates to the universe is ‘I am not important’.. and the universe is actually a very powerful, nonjudgmental ‘mirror’. What you radiate.. it returns to you 100-fold++++. So, when you radiate that energy (message) to the universe that YOUR DESIRES ARE NOT IMPORTANT,, the universe sends more of that back to you. When you radiate energy (messages) to the universe that you are WORTHY.. the universe multiplies that 100+++fold and sends you more and more!

So, how do you change the energy you radiate? The first thing you need to do is realize that each thought has a duality. I work with hundreds of people each year and they tell me: But Lady Fontaine, I *AM* thinking positive.’ I then ask them to tell me what they are thinking about. They often tell me they are thinking about ‘one-day’ having a certain person in their lives, certain job, etc. If you think about some future time when life will be better for you the MESSAGE the Universe gets is: Right now.. you have NO ONE and NOTHING and the universe’s job is to provide you with that 100 fold.. so it keeps you in that energy. THE SECRET teaches you to THINK POSITIVE THOUGHTS but listen very carefully to my words... ‘You can think these thoughts from now until eternity but until you truly believe them – you will remain stuck and unhappy inside.’

These are examples of some basic (but GREAT) Affirmations:

I AM HAPPY
I AM LOVED
I AM WEALTHY


But, if you really don’t believe those words; nothing will ever change. I don’t care how diligent you are in telling yourself over and over again all these positive affirmations if you don’t feel it and believe it – it won’t happen. The ONLY way to FEEL them is to DISCOVER the underlying ‘limiting’ belief and acknowledge it.

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Lady Fontaine is a 5-star psychic. She is certified by The International Certification of Psychics and has been ranked in their TOP 5 PSYCHICS Worldwide. Lady Fontaine is also a Certified Life Coach and Hypnotherapist. Lady Fontaine is now available on KEEN for readings and coaching most evenings between 8pm-midnight (EST). Schedule a call with Lady Fontaine for an experience of a lifetime. Read her feedback. She is HONEST – ACCURATE – QUICK – COMPASSIONATE! Lady Fontaine.. is the REAL THING!!!
Remember when you first met? The excitement.. the anticipation.. the hope!!! What happened? Now, your partner is less attentive. They are not calling. In just weeks or months all that excitement was replaced with more routine actions which often end in unhappiness and heartbreak. Sound familiar? Unfortunately, this happens with a vast majority of relationships. It isn't so much because the people involved are not 'meant for each other' but so often one or both partners simply do not know the skills of relationships. Imagine if you never took a Science class and then showed up in college and had to take CHEMISTRY to graduate. You'd be totally lost in class.. because you never had the education to learn about the basics in science which lead up to an advnced class in chemistry. The same is true for relationships. More often than not, the vast majority of us have ZERO training in how to act and respond in relationships; much less in our lives. Everything worthwhile - involves some sort of TRAINING or EDUCATION! The end result is ALWAYS worthwhile!

So, you are currently in a relationship that isn't flowing as well as you might hope. Your partner is less attentive, less interested, and is giving you mixed signals. You may be wondering if there is anything you can do to fix the problem? The answer is different for each relationship but with respect, nurturing, and learning to honor both yourself and your partner these initial feelings can be replaced by a deeper, even more intimate love and respect for each other. This second 'phase' of a relationship actually has more substance than the initial 'thrill' and often matures into a more intense, fulfilling feeling than that initial thrill and excitement; when you know the key to making relationships LAST! So, yes, it is completely normal that things settle down in a relationship.. but there are things you can learn to begin a journey of experiencing a fulfilling and deep love that will last through the test of time. But how, you may ask? First, you need to understand the patterns that so many relationships fall into which limit and actually suffocate both their partner and themselves. Second, and probably the single most important aspect is to recognize that you can not chain down a partner. Confidentially, give your partner space to grow and if you follow the techniques properly in step 1 - you will have a partner who desperately wants to please you. Third, Understand what you want deep within yourself.. and pick partners that mirror that belief. In other words, if you are looking to get married do not invest the time in a partner who doesn't ever want to get married. You can't change people and truly - why would you want too? All the techniques in the world combined can not guarantee that you can change a partner that isn't interested in marriage or a committed relationship to suddenly want one. It CAN happen - but is it worth your time? That is part of setting boundaries. Only you can decide that and what is best for you! Be realistic and honest with yourself. Lastly, learn how the opposite sex thinks.. the Venus - Mars mentality DOES make exist and DOES make a difference. Many women respond to being open and loving.. where men respond to sex and excitement. Is there a place in the middle where the two can find happiness? DEFINITELY!!!!!

The 4 key ingredients for a successful relationship are:
1. HONOR YOURSELF and Expand your horizons: Work on yourself both before and during your relationship. If you are not comfortable in your skin - a partner won't be comfortable with you either.
2. BE LOVING: Regardless how your partner treats you - be respectful, caring and loving. If you find you can no longer do that - then it is time to leave the relationship.
3. DEFINE YOUR BOUNDARIES: Boundaries are limits that we all have. Most relationships fail because we do not have clearly defined boundaries.
4. COMMUNICATION: Learn how to address and resolve 'issues' before they become major problems within a relationship. If they have already gotten to be 'major' then get professional help with a coach, therapist, counselor, etc to help you get back on track.

This is your life. If you sit back and do nothing - what are the chances the relationship will change or succeed? Sure, you can hope that things will get better but more often than not - that doesn't happen or when it does - the changes don't last. The better approach is taking responsibility for making your life happy and complete. Only you know the answer and only you hold the key.

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Lady Fontaine is a Master Psychic and Certified Life Coach specializing in Relationships and Self-Esteem. Lady Fontaine is often referred to as The Love Doctor. Considered one of the top psychics on Keen, she also is ranked in the top 5 psychics worldwide. Her Master Psychic Abilities have been confirmed and verified by the International Certification of Psychics!!! [check their website to confirm and verify her credentials]. She is also a certified Life Coach and has Advanced Certification in Hypnotherapy and specializes in past life regression. TRUST your life and YOUR life's situations and problems.. to an Expert with the education, background and psychic abilities to answer your questions truthfully and HELP YOU!

Lady Fontaine will be available on Keen today (Sunday) - September 14th from 2-4pm(EST) and 8-midnight(EST). Her regular hours during the week are 8pm - midnight (EST). CALL HER TODAY!!!!!
You only need one person to fix a relationship! That is not a typo - it is FACT.. Reality.. the way it is!!! You may ask: 'How can that be? My boy or girlfriend or spouse is treating me badly or cheating on me or not supporting me. How can I fix that myself?' The answer is simple.. FIX YOURSELF!!!

So, what does that really mean? Our outer lives are a reflection of what is going on inside of us. So, if you are in a love-less relationship or if a mate/partner is cheating on you - the place to look is NOT at them.. but within yourself. Why? In order for us to be experiencing any relationship issues the fact is you are resonating at that VERY SAME frequency yourself. If you are in a love-less relationship; you are not loving ourselves. If you are in a relationship where your partner does not respect you - you are not respecting yourself. If your partner is ignoring your needs then you are ignoring your own needs.

The one-liner from the movie Jerry McGuire became a popular phrase between lovers several years back; 'you complete me'. Actually.. our job is to COMPLETE OURSELVES. When you 'need' a lover (or anyone) to complete you - you are allowing holes and an emptiness to surround and embody YOU. Complete yourself. Make yourself whole. Re-connected with your 'higher-self' and your 'inner child'. If you feel empty inside that is a wake-up call that you are neglecting your own needs in some way; hence your partner is too.

Accepting this as TRUTH allows you to fix your relationships with yourself and your partner!

Lady Fontaine is often referred to as the Love Doctor... She is a Certified Psychic, Licensed Therapist and Certified Life Coach. Lady Fontaine is working on her 2nd book which intuitively ties together her spiritual approach with her dynamic Life Coaching techniques. She was the Radio Psychic Host for AM Radio Non-Stop New York for over 6 years. She has written a syndicated Love and Advice Colume for over 10 years. Many of Lady Fontaine's articles appear on websites and are syndicated throughout the Internet. Lady Fontaine is available on Keen for live phone consultations. Lady Fontaine is Certified by the International Certification of Psychics and is ranked in their Top 5 Psychics - Worldwide! She is the REAL thing! Please read Lady Fontaine's feedback!
How you feel about yourself dictates your level of inner joy and happiness. It also dictates the successes you have (or don't have). You achieve what you feel you are worthy of; nothing more, nothing less. Your sense of 'worth' is not based on surface values.. it is based on core beliefs. Self-esteem and your 'core beliefs' are the foundation of your life.

Imagine building a house without a foundation or constructing a new house on a weakened foundation. What happens? Eventually the house will crumble. That is exactly what happens in your life when you have a low self-esteem. You either fail to achieve your goals or you self-sabotage your successes. The end result is always the same; your lack of ability to fully reach your goals. You conveniently keep them right out of reach. You will continue this pattern until you are ready to address the low self esteem issue and devise a 'Life Makeover' plan.

Well, the obvious question then is - Where does the self esteem come from?

Self esteem begins at birth. Scientific research has proven that the first moments of life are bonding between mother and baby. These are your first experiences in life that contribute to a healthy self esteem. So, from our early childhood you have a natural instinct to 'want to please' your parents. When you fail to live up to their expectations, subconsciously your inner chatter begins to tell you 'you are not worthy'. You often don't even realize this inner dialogue is going on. This inner-voice molds a 'belief' and in time creates a 'deep-seated [limiting] belief' often called a 'core belief'. This is not a conscious process... and oftentimes you don't even realize you have this inner belief-system working or that you lack self-esteem. Let me give you an example. Imagine someone you know lost their job. The state lottery soars to $250 million. They stand in line to buy a ticket. They hold it in their hand.. and the first words out of their mouth are: 'I'll never win.. I never win anything'.. and in that instant they get this sinking feeling. Their low self esteem (and beliefs of not being worthy of this windfall) is at work telling them 'they don't deserve to win'. On the flipside, a person with a high self-esteem will hold that ticket in their hand and KNOW they DESERVE to win. This person 'expects' to win.. but even if they don't.. their life is FULL and COMPLETE and they happily move on to the next adventure. This same rule holds true for love, career, success, sports and just about every venue in life.

How does our Self esteem develop? Throughout your childhood parents, teachers, friends, relatives and peers all play a role in the development of your self-esteem. When a child is criticized, ignored, humiliated or ridiculed it begins the cycle of poor self esteem. Many good-intending parents expect their children to be 'perfect' or they set their expectations so high that it was almost impossible for the child to live up to their 'standards'. The end result -- a low self-esteem. On the other hand, those children who grow up in a supportive environment often have a much 'higher sense of worth' and their level of happiness and success manifests in strong, loving relationships, successful careers and a sense of inner joy & happiness.

What are the consequences of a low self-esteem? There are many. Some of the most devastating are: depression, loneliness, stress, on-going love and relationship problems, and devastating financial problems. When you lack self-esteem and continue to experience additional failures it further lowers your sense of self-worth as you enter into a dangerous downward spiral.

Can you succeed without a good self-esteem? Yes. But, inevitably you will continue to self-sabotage yourself, You may lose the job, relationship, opportunity, etc or if you manage to reach the pinnacle of success you strive for --you may find it did not 'quench your thirst' and you are still unhappy. That perpetuates the belief that you are not worthy of being happy.

So, how do I fix this? Depending on the individual there are options. Some may chose years of psychotherapy. Others will find the 21st century approach to low self esteem more easily remedied by consulting with a Life Coach. Coaching is different than therapy. Therapy deals primarily with your past. A Life Coach helps you to identify your passions and desires and helps you develop a custom life-plan and a blueprint to get there.

Self esteem is the foundation of your life. INVEST IN YOURSELF..
How Worthy Are You of Love?
By: Lady Fontaine

The Universe has very simple rules. You ‘get’ what you feel you are ‘worthy’ of. Henry Ford said it perfectly with these words:

If you believe you can or
You believe you can’t
--- You’re right!

-Henry Ford

So, how do you apply this concept to your love lives? Many of your ‘deep beliefs’ are so ingrained within you that you don’t even realize you have them. Some examples are: money doesn’t grow on trees, good girls should be seen and not heard, big boys don’t cry, no one will ever love you, and a face only a mother could love. Familiar?

You’ve all been told similar things when growing up. But how do these limiting beliefs really shape your lives? It is simple and a very natural way of life. As children you want to please your parents. Your parents tell you things.. you believe it. You want the praise, love and acceptance of your parents or care-takers so you do things that you know they will approve of. After time, you begin to accept these ‘things’ as truths. For example, if you get a hug and kiss every time you stop crying.. you begin to learn that expressing emotions and crying is NOT rewarded; but to stop crying is rewarded therefore the belief may become that ‘expressing emotions is not acceptable’. Add to that, your parents tell you: ‘what a good girl’ when you stop crying, so that further reinforces to you that it is a bad thing to show emotion. Another example is.. let’s say a young boy is artistic. But, his dad wants him to play sports. He takes him outside to catch balls. Every time the boy does something that the father wants – he rewards him. ‘hey son, that was great, let’s go get ice cream’. Every time the boy does something the father does not approve of, he gets negative input: ‘Son, why are you always drawing pictures and acting like a sissy, let’s go outside and catch some balls and act like a real man!’ Over time, these words and actions become ingrained within the boy and he begins to believe them. To make matters worse, he now has this inner conflict because he wants to draw and design things, but his father wants him to do something else.. so he shoves his true desires aside and does what his dad wants him to do.. and conflict and resentment sets in. All these thoughts become a part of your belief structure. So, the boy who might have been destined to be a top architect or artist.. might grow up trying to please his father and being a mediocre macho man; instead of allowing his natural artistic qualities to blossom. The example I used above also shows why so many Americans have weight problems; as children you are rewarded for ‘eating everything on your plate’ and ‘food’ is often used as a reward (as I used as an example with the boy and the ice cream). All of these things mold and shape you into the adults you are today.

Science has not completely figured out where thoughts come from. The consensus by psychologists is your thoughts are generated by your beliefs. So, if you believe you are worthy of something, you will THINK THOUGHTS TO SUPPORT THAT BELIEF and draw it into your lives; but if you don’t; you won’t. You might wonder how you really know what thoughts are limiting you. Fortunately, it is easier than you may think. Many of you say things like.. ‘I can’t do that!’ If you catch yourself saying something like that ask yourself 2 things: 1) Can’t do what? And when you identify what it is that you ‘can’t do’.. ask yourself 2) Why? You may discover that you ‘realize’ that you can’t do it because you were always told you couldn’t.. and as you become aware of that – and consciously allow yourself to do it.. you empower yourself as you break old habits and shatter limiting beliefs. Let’s look at this example. Let’s assume that you catch a thought that says: ‘you can’t get that high paying job’ [and let’s assume this is the IDEAL job that you have you have waited your entire life for]. So, you catch the thought and ask yourself: ‘Can’t do what?’ You respond: ‘get the high paying job silly!’ You then ask yourself: ‘Why not?’ [you may have to ask yourself 10 times, 20 times, a hundred times or a million times..] but keep asking until you get an answer.. because you WILL! If you suddenly start remembering how your mom always told you ‘you can’t do that!’ hold that thought because that is the defining experience that ‘set’ your belief. As you recall your mom saying that.. reflect on what you wanted to do as a child that she told you not to do.. and imagine that you allow yourself to do it.. and that your mom is supportive that you did what you wanted! Feel the JOY of experiencing what you have wanted to experience all these years! BRAVO!!!

So, how does this all play into getting the love you deserve? Simple. You ‘allow’ yourself to have the love (money, success, attention, etc) that you feel you are worthy of. There is NO way around that. So, take a minute and look at your OUTER WORLD. Your OUTER WORLD is a REFLECTION OF YOUR INNER WORLD. What is your outer world telling you? Is your life filled with love? Money? Success? Happiness? For the majority of you.. the answer is no. And the reason is simple.. because along the way you have lost yourselves. As children you are told not to focus on your own needs – to focus on others. By doing that, you put yourselves second and IGNORE your own needs and satisfy others. The ‘energy’ that radiates to the universe is ‘I am not important’.. and the universe is actually a very powerful, nonjudgmental ‘mirror’. What you radiate.. it returns to you 100-fold++++. So, when you radiate that energy (message) to the universe that YOUR DESIRES ARE NOT IMPORTANT,, the universe sends more of that back to you. When you radiate energy (messages) to the universe that you are WORTHY.. the universe multiplies that 100+++fold and sends you more and more!

So, how do you change the energy you radiate? The first thing you need to do is realize that each thought has a duality. I work with hundreds of people each year and they tell me: But Lady Fontaine, I *AM* thinking positive.’ I then ask them to tell me what they are thinking about. They often tell me they are thinking about ‘one-day’ having a certain person in their lives, certain job, etc. If you think about some future time when life will be better for you the MESSAGE the Universe gets is: Right now.. you have NO ONE and NOTHING and the universe’s job is to provide you with that 100 fold.. so it keeps you in that energy. THE SECRET teaches you to THINK POSITIVE THOUGHTS but listen very carefully to my words... ‘You can think these thoughts from now until eternity but until you truly believe them – you will remain stuck and unhappy inside.’

These are examples of some basic (but GREAT) Affirmations:

I AM HAPPY
I AM LOVED
I AM WEALTHY


But, if you really don’t believe those words; nothing will ever change. I don’t care how diligent you are in telling yourself over and over again all these positive affirmations if you don’t feel it and believe it – it won’t happen. The ONLY way to FEEL them is to DISCOVER the underlying ‘limiting’ belief and acknowledge it.

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Lady Fontaine is a 5-star psychic. She is certified by The International Certification of Psychics and has been ranked in their TOP 5 PSYCHICS Worldwide. Lady Fontaine is also a Certified Life Coach and Hypnotherapist. Lady Fontaine is now available on KEEN for readings and coaching most evenings between 8pm-midnight (EST). Schedule a call with Lady Fontaine for an experience of a lifetime. Read her feedback. She is HONEST – ACCURATE – QUICK – COMPASSIONATE! Lady Fontaine.. is the REAL THING!!!

More than half the calls I receive on a weekly basis are from women who are heart-broken that the man they desire is not calling them.  Many take matters in their own hands and actively pursue the man by calling, texting, and/or emailing.  This is perhaps the WORST thing you can do. 

"Studies have PROVEN that men are hard-wired to pursue women"

So, when men are pursued their built-in pursuit mechanism is short circuited; hence they back-off and retreat.  As antiquated as it may sound - let the man do the pursuing!   Regardless how tempted you may be; if you truly want the MAN - do whatever is necessary to RESIST calling or contacting him.   

"let the man do the pursuing"

Once the relationship is established - an interaction between the man and woman with phone calls, emails, text messages etc is perfectly acceptable.. but if he pulls away and stops contacting you - STOP contacting him.  More often than not, when that happens, too many women shift into the pursuit mode and leave 2-3 (or heaven forbid.. more!) voice messages, emails, etc.  Trust me 99% of the time the man is getting the messages.. so take a few steps backwards and let the man take the lead!!  If he needs space or is busy - you will push him away with your calls and pursuit.  Take a deep breath, and RESIST calling!!!

'If you really want the man, as a general rule of thumb..

for every 3 calls, emails or text messages (combined) he makes to you..

you call, email or text ONCE!'

 

DISH IT OUT SLOWLY

Women, on the other hand are hard-wired to be emotional and share themselves.  Therefore, when you meet a man you like you often open your hearts to them.  The BEST way to win the love of a man is to very slowly pace things with him.. sharing very small tidbits of who you are in very small doses.  This will tantalize and intrigue him and he is certain to keep coming back for more.. and more.. and more!!!!!   Men like a challenge.  When it is too easy they often move on to the next conquest.  It isn't that they are intentionally shallow.. it is just how they are 'made'. 

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Lady Fontaine.. often referred to as The Love Doctor KNOWS about relationships!  She wrote a syndicated column on Love & Relationships for many years.  She is an EXPERT in understanding relationships and the RULES OF THE GAME! 

 

Lady Fontaine is certified as an AUTHENTIC PSYCHIC.

  Her accuracy rate consistently exceeds 99%. 

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-Lady Fontaine

This is one of the most common questions I am asked.  The answer is simple; if the man doesn't call... he has lost interest.  Don't sympathize (or believe) a man who tells you that he is busy at work, sick in bed or away on vacation.   Last time I checked; they had phones at all those locations.  If a man is interested - he *WILL* call.. even if it is a 30 second call to say he is thinking of you.  Don't make excuses for him.  If it is early in a relationship and a man has stopped calling, pick up the pieces; learn from the experience and move on.  Don’t invest the energy in someone who isn’t interested in you.

 

Men are different than women.  If a women is involved with a man and talks to him daily for a week or two she feels they are connecting and she begins to open to him. She begins to think about the possibility of a future with him.  But, what is he thinking and feeling?  Well, keep in mind that men think and process things in a very different way than women do.  First and foremost, most men don't think of being in a 'relationship' as quickly as women do.  As a species men generally are more casual going into a relationship.  That is one reason why it is a wise decision not to disclose everything about yourself on the first date and certainly a reason not to get physical right off.  Pace it.  Throw small tidbits to him in the course of a few weeks.  Men like a challenge and they are programmed to 'work for the things they desire'.  The more 'detached' you are at the beginning of a relationship the more you will intrigue a man.  Now, don't get me wrong - I am not saying to play games; but balance things.  The more you open at the beginning of a relationship inevitably the more you will chase the majority of men away.  Don't ever volunteer to a man that you are interested in him for the first 3 months of a relationship.  Allow him the pleasure of chasing you and wine and dine you.  Give him the pleasure of wondering if you are warming up to him and give him the pleasure of chasing you - he is programmed to do that!  The more he wonders - the more he is intrigued and the more he will pursue.  It is genetic with men.. they are genetically territorial and if you pique their interest they will do everything in their power to win you over.  If you rob them of this 'chase' - their interest will likely wane faster.

"Men like a challenge and they are programmed

to 'work for the things they desire'"

Then, after 2-3 months.. as he begins to settle into the idea of having a 'steady' girlfriend in his life.. then it is more acceptable to open slightly because he will be more receptive.  Otherwise, what often happens is a man starts getting more distant as a woman begins settling into a relationship.  Just as the woman feels there 'is' a relationship and starts making inquiries or demands; the man begins to pull away.  Sound familiar?

So, it is imperative to learn the basic rules dating and how to entice a man and how to make him *WANT* to be in a relationship with you.  Pace yourself.  Be a little mysterious.  Don't disclose everything about yourself on the first date or even in the first few weeks.  If a man wants you to tell him how you feel.. smile and say.. 'I wouldn’t be here if I didn’t want to be...' and leave it at that (gee doesn’t that sound like what a man would say?  Hmm!).  Once you are really connecting and feeling confident in the relationship - begin VERY SLOWLY to disclose things.  Your man will feel like he won the JACKPOT!  Every time you give him what he has worked so hard for.. he will hear the fireworks going off in his brain.. knowing he has EARNED the attention you are now giving him!

Blessing of Light & Love!

 

-Lady Fontaine

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Lady Fontaine is an internationally known psychic often referred to as: 

The Love Doctor..

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Lady Fontaine was the AM RADIO host on Non-Stop New York for over 6 years!!!

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Certification by: The International Certification of Psychics
Ranked in Top 5 Psychics 4 consecutive years!

BA/Masters in Psychology, BA Parapsychology.
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In life and all things.. Trust your heart and inner guidance..
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Blessings of Light and Love! -Lady Fontaine




Many of you are holding onto the hope and belief that there really is a Mr (or Ms) Right for you.  But where are they and why is it taking so long to meet them?  Believe it or not, your compatible partners are out there looking [and waiting] for you!  So, when will you meet them?  That is the hard part to comprehend - the answer is:  'When you are truly ready!' 

We are co-creators in our life.  We are the writer, casting agent, director and producer of our own lives and dramas of our lives.  So, if you are not experiencing Mr or Ms Right in your life right now – it is because you have something to ‘acknowledge’ within yourself. 

So, what does this really mean?  How do you know what 'energy' you are resonating at?  Well, look at your life.  Is it filled with love, happiness, prosperity, good friends, and good job?  If not, look at the pieces that 'are' working and look at the pieces that are 'not' working.  Be honest with yourself.  And keep in mind - just because you have a relationship, job, marriage or money; doesn’t mean you are happy.  Be very honest when doing this work. 

"When things are not working.. The TRUE KEY to life

 is not to blame your partner..

but to ask yourself why you are experiencing this in your life"

The TRUE KEY to life is not to blame your partner when things are not going right.. but to ask yourself why you are so BLESSED to be experiencing this in your life.  Yes, you heard me right.  Even when things are not working – be thankful for the ‘gift’ in the experience; you created it!  In every experience in life there is an opportunity to see what your issues or limiting beliefs are and by acknowledging them we often release them.   Remember.. The only one that limits you.. is YOU!   What you are worthy of.. you shall have!

"The only one that limits you.. is YOU!"

If you are currently in a relationship where the partner is unavailable (be it married, or not fully attentive to your needs) and you are accepting that [even if you don’t like it - if you remain in that relationship - from an 'energy' standpoint' you are accepting it] then the message you are sending the Universe is "that is all you 'require' in a relationship" Those of you who have read my other articles or have spoken with me - very well know what that means; the Universe will happily comply and send you more. 

The primary function of the Universe is to hear your prayers/requests, and to GRANT YOU WHAT YOU ASK FOR!!!!  Yup, you read that correctly.. the Universe is more or less our Genie in a lamp.. all we need to do is be very clear on what we want and ask for.  The Universe is non-judgmental and will not weed through our requests and toss some out saying 'Nay, Lady Fontaine doesn’t really need or want that'.. that isn’t the job of the Universe; Ask and Ye shall receive.. And You WILL!

"The primary function of the Universe is to hear your prayers/requests, and to GRANT YOU WHAT YOU ASK FOR!!!!"

 OK, so the next obvious question is:  'How do I ask?'  Many of you tell me that every night you pray for Mr. or Ms Right.  Others tell me that they are asking spell-casters to cast a love spell, etc etc.  Well, let me ask you this.  How much of the day is spent by you 'wishing you had a better relationship?  How many hours of the day are you complaining about your current partner?  How many hours do you spend thinking 'he'll never leave his wife.. why am I bothering to do this?'  How many hours are you feeling sorry for yourself because you don’t have the true love of your life?  Well friends, the truth is.. when we focus our thoughts and energies on any thought(s).. and when you 'activate' that thought with an emotion (usually fear, unhappiness, etc) you are RADIATING A VERY STRONG MESSAGE TO THE UNIVERSE.  This strong message gets PRIORITY TREATMENT.  The Universe does not have separate phone numbers; one for prayer requests, one for complaints and one for moments of confusion.  Nope, they all come in on the same 'phone line' so to speak. So, imagine - if you are a receiver, and there was a 5 second weak signal and a 3 hours strong signal - which would get through first?  The STRONGER signal of course, the weaker signals often drop off or don't get through at all or are not fully understood.  So, if you spend 30-60 seconds each night asking for a loving partner to come your way, or saying positive affirmations and each day while commuting to/from work - you spend approximately 45 minutes to an hour wishing things were different.. getting emotional wishing he'd leave his wife, thinking about how unhappy you are, etc etc.. which message do you think reaches the Universe first and comes through loud and clear?   Obviously, the louder/stronger requests get through first.  The Universe will act upon the 'stronger' messages, intensify them and send you more!  So, if we are thinking.. 'he is married.  he'll never leave'  that is EXACTLY what the Universe hears (and assumes is your 'prayer request' and it magnifies that request and sends us more.  So, be very careful what you wish for - you may just get it.

"The Universe does not have separate phone numbers; one for prayer requests, one for complaints and one for moments of confusion.  Nope, they all come in on the same 'phone line' so to speak."

I have written an article here on my blog called 'The Language of the Universe'.  I encourage you all to read it and understand that each time we think a thought - there is a polar opposite.. and understand what we are really asking the Universe.

"Be careful WHAT YOU THINK.. you may just get it!"

OK.. so you may be wondering - how does this all translate into how and when you will meet Mr or Ms Right.  If you are resonating at a frequency where you are 'used to being alone' or 'used to being ignored or dis-respected' you are sending that energy frequency to the Universe as a ‘REQUEST’ and that is what will be GRANTED and what you will continue to experience.  So, to change that you need to radiate LOVE and RESPECT for YOURSELF and the Universe will send you more!  I know it is a hard concept to grasp and a harder concept to embrace; but our outer lives are truly a reflection of our inner world.  If we LOVE and HONOR ourselves.. then our lives will reflect that.  If we don't; our lives clearly reflect that too! 

"If we LOVE and HONOR ourselves.. then our lives will reflect that.  If we don't; our lives clearly reflect that!"

I have had clients tell me they do love and honor themselves.. but they remain in a loveless relationship or have been waiting for Charlie to leave his wife for over 10 years.  The ultimate message the Universe hears from that is:  'I am not worthy of more'.

"There is NO short-cut.

DO YOUR INNER WORK!  HEAL YOUR OWN LIFE..

and the blessings will be 100-fold!"

Blessings of Light & Love!

 -Lady Fontaine

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Lady Fontaine is a Certified AUTHENTIC Psychic Internationally Known and Ranked in the TOP 5 Psychics World-wide.  She is affectionately known by many as:  The Love Doctor!  She has written a Love and Advice Column for many years and was the AM RADIO Show Psychic on Non-Stop New York for over 6 years.  Listeners would call in and get Psychic Answers to their Love Questions!

Lady Fontaine is available on Keen most evenings from 8pm-Midnight.  She has a 5-star rating (over 99% of her clients have raved about their readings with her!).  Read her feedback.  She is AMAZINGLY ACCURATE, HONEST, COMPASSIONATE and considered by many as one of the Best Psychics on Keen!!!!

Call Lady Fontaine today for an Outstanding and Comprehensive Psychic Reading!  She truly KNOWS what your partner thinks and feels.. and has tremendous insight into your current problems!

Blessings of Light and Love! -Lady Fontaine