Harvest E mail questions

well Hasn't this question got us all at some time or another dring are dating life. Why if things are so good and he was coming closer would he end thing? the answer is not as complex as you might think. As the 'sex in the city" grils like to say his light just isn't on. Meaning he is not ready to commite so if things get to enotional he is going to run like the wind no matter how much he is getting in to you.
Rest a sure ladys and some guys. If they run when the getting is good chances are you are being saved alot of pain in the long run because they just aren't ready to commite to anything real yet.
love and light
Harvest

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When you think you have met your soulmate and it turns out to be a bad relationship how do you let the relationship go with out hurting the other person

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Well sweetie there is no way to end a relationship without hurting them or you. there is just no way to say I can't date you anymore painless. But there are things you can do to make is easier and less painful. Remember those your not saving any pain by putting it off. The longer you wait the more it will hurt.

So the best way is to set down your self and write a list of things about the relationship you don't like then what you do like. Cut out the bad stuff that you feel will hurt them more but that is really not of any use to tell them. Once you have what you want to say on why this isn't working, then work on the good points of the relationship. When your a man braken it off with a woman stick to thing that are less enmotional. " I love the fact we can talk" Reason if a woman feel you are doing this because you can't commite they will hold on so non-emotional type things will be less likey to have this happy. Then sit your lover down at home, where the two of you can talk and cry and so on. Tell them all the things you like about the relationship, then point out how it's not working for you and why. Then even if you want to don't make a call to see how they are doing. This is not good for the 1st few months. And better if you can e mail, or text even after that.

I hope this helps

love and light

Harvest

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hey lady harvest

I wanted to know could you tell me why at the begining of my life when everything was on track i met they guy of my dreams everything was great! i was in the military doing my job everything was so so awsome! I left home to start a new. but then slowly but surley everything turned bad. my ex cheated on me i wasnt doing so good at my job in the military. i eventually got out. i broke it off with the father of my daughter. I moved back home. and then everything was great again! i met a new guy i had a better job that paid more! i was happy again he accepted my daughter and everting. Then again everything went down hill! my ex tried to come back into my daughters life or acted like he wanted to and was talking to my mother behind my back. i lost my job. and then i lost my car. now again i have no job i have a new car but its old but hey ill take what i can get but things havent looked up since. could you tell me will i ever really truley be happy? and im tired of going through this. I want  brand new begining and i ve stayed positive i dont think about my ex at all for the simple fact he gets me so upset for the things that hes done! what should i do to really be happy? meet someone really new and is going to be there forever not temp not just for a few years or a few months and then dissapper. im so fed up! why doesnt my life make a change for the better? and stay that way?
answer-

I feel that a reading is really what you are looking for in this one, but becaue I see somethings in here I can comment on. I I thought I would do that part here.....

One thing I can say is maybe your looking for happiess in the worng place. Relationships don't make us happy. They should add to are lifes not be are life another words. If you are depeneding on a person to make you happy it should be you. No relationship or person can hold that kind of power over you.

So i would tell you to 1st find things that you like to do, want to learn, just haven't had time to do. Read a book you always wanted, write a book, take a class, start walking everyday. take some me time.

    Reason behind this is 2 things, You start rebuiling your self-estem and 2 you put your self in other place to met new people.

once you have done that, you'll be happy with you. you will hold your head up high and feel good about what you are doing and who you are. this will open you up to the higher powers can send you what you want and need and you'll stop getting into relationships that are only short trem.

Read some books on dating. How to marry the man of your dreams, isn't to bad a book. and Dating without drama is a very good book also. Both you can find an e books online.

Love and light

Harvest.

I don't know how many times i have had to say this to woman, some men, But soulmate don't mean the person you are surpost to be with. It's a mith that the higher power wants you to be romanicaly connected to anyone. They just don't care about that. who you want to sleep with, live with marry all this is free will and has nothing to do with the higher powers.

 

Soulmates and past life connections are just that people who are from your past life who you need to work out issues with and do work with in this life time. If you are romanic so be it that is your free will.

Soulmate and pastlife connetions will never leave your life for good. that is not saying your have the romanic love back, but that they will return in some way.

 

In order for you to find love, you must be open to it. Mr right could be right under your nose but will pass him by without a 2nd look if you are living in the past. Let go of them, if they come back good for you, if they don't you'll be ready for a new love that could be better in the 1st place.

love and light

Harvest

 

Well the short answer is that yes they are real. the long answer is yes, but not everyone who says they are, are real and not just out to make money. Now the reason behind the asker here leads me to believe that she/he has been useing  alot of psychics and all given answers that don't match. there are a few reason for this.

1) not all psychics are the same. look and make sure what psychic can best answer your question.

2) Being ready for a reading is very inportant. don't be upset when you call this blocks reads and can mess with the way cards come out or other tools used.

3) don't call more to two psychics at a time, this will just confuse you and this is the mistake many people make.

4) pay attention. sometimes when you want to hear sometime anything a reader says will sound like what you want to hear not really what then meant. If you don't understand what they meant  ask them. Or say what you think they meant and they can then explain if needed.

5) remember readers are human and sometimes we make mistakens, the hardest to get is timeing. But sometimes we are worng.

6) if a reading sounds to good to be true, it is. Don't believe in the fairy-tail. Be real. And point it out to the reader. if that is what they see then they can explain why it's not just a dream.