Now That You Have Marked The New Year...

Now that you have marked the New Year, throw away the calendar!

 Watching and waiting has got to be one of the most demagnetizing things a person can do. If you really want something then let it be. The TRUTH is what belongs to you can't be taken away. It is on your path, but if we are preoccupied watching the calendar and noticing how what we want has not shown up yet then we will miss the signs that lead us to our dreams.

This month I will have a manifestation. It is one of my big ones and it has taken 2 years, that is right, 2 years to take form. Because it has taken a bit of time I realize now, looking back, on how I could of made it happen sooner. I did block the flow by caring about the how. The how is never our concern, but is the Universe's domain.

Another thing that delayed my manifestation is I did not quite get into the energy of already having the manifestation. It took me quite a while to feel as if it had happened and who I would be as a result. In the future I can do better on that especially sense I know it is key.

I find mantras to be very powerful and I create a personal mantra of about a paragraph in length and I say it out loud with feeling three times in the am and three times in the pm. The mantra serves in many ways. First, it works to program the subconscious mind and what the subconscious mind believes is true will show up in your world as truth. Second the mantra is a way to focus your energy/intention and keeps you clear on the direction you want to go. How you get there is not of your concern, but knowing where you want to go is very helpful. I end my mantra with, “It is mine, given to me under grace. Thank you!”

Do you have a manifestation that is taking years? If so email me for guidance or call for an alignment reading that reveals where the kinks are in your flow of good.

Smiles and love,

:)Malika

"When will I meet someone?"

“When will I meet someone?”  Well, it just so happens I was ruffling through the calendar when you called!  Not!

There is nothing wrong with the question, but let us check the energy behind the question.  Some people ask it and I can see they are in a good place with themselves.  They are content, receptive and if the timing is a few months away they do not panic or hang up in disgust like a dream has been shattered.  They ask the question from a place of power and are content to allow the flow and process of all things.

Then there are those who ask the question, “When will I meet someone?” but I see what they are really asking is, “When is my next relationship fix?”  These are the people who want to hear, “Next week I see a tall, dark…”  You get the picture and we readers know the score.  We know what you want to hear and just by giving you the fairytale we are giving you a little fix.

Looking at this from another angel suppose you meet Mr./Ms. Wonderful, but you miss seeing their essence because before you have even met they have been debased to just filling a role, providing a fix so that you do not have to be alone.  Eventually the relationship will fall apart because the foundation was faulty and the intention insincere. 

Every reader is different and I can only speak for myself when I say I do not read for ego gratification.  If I did I would be a fairytale reader, tell you all what you want to hear and no one would call me back because none of the predictions would happen.  That said, I am good with timing, but if you are watchful then no one can read the time.  Watchfullness is a block and it is stating to the Universe that you do not trust nor believe.

I am reader on KEEN.  I am not a “fortune teller”.  I am a human evolutionist.  A human evolutionist is someone who guides you to experience more of the good stuff by expanding your awareness and your relationship with yourself.  When you expand what is possible for you expands.  This I know and take fully into account, even though you may yet realize how powerful you really are!

“When will I meet someone?”  Right now! The most important person you will ever know is with you right now!  Get that and the best will fall into place.

:)Malika

A Fabulous Tool That Opens Doors and Lets 'It" In!

Hello Dear Ones~

I am sharing this meditation because so many of my clients have reqeusted it and also because for so many of my clients I see so much good stuff waiting to come in yet the doubt and lack of belief keeps it away.  This simple meditation will open the flood gates!

My favorite quote by Abraham-Hicks is:

"99% of every creation is complete before we see any evidence of it."

The 1% remaining is to allow!  Know it is yours.  This is the purpose of the meditation.  Enjoy! Please do share your success stories because this does work! 

Meditation/Mental Focus of Energies

The Not So Merry-go-round

We all do it and only because we choose to.  I have humbly disclosed that some of my reactions to undesirable behaviors and situations are so predictable a 10 year old could prophesize them.  I have been a slave to patterns that do not serve me, yet time and again I chose (whether consciously or not) to go on the merry – go – around turned by the charge of my unhealed reactions.

It takes effort at first to step out of the reaction cycle that looks like this:

Stimulus -> reaction pattern -> pain experienced -> unhealed charge

It is the charge we feel about certain things that draws a stimulus to us. The cycle can repeat over and over until we become aware that we can make a different choice.

My list is long, but one stimulus I am choosing to react differently to is negative people.  100 good things might happen in their day, but they will draw a great deal of attention to the one unwanted thing that happened.  They get all charged up about it and the complaining process can go on and on as others jump in to share similar experiences.  (BTW I am not talking about any of my callers!  You guys are amazing!)  In the past I would react by judging this behavior and I would attempt to interject a positive perspective, which usually was not appreciated.  In disgust I would turn from the situation and my charge would remain unhealed.

Now, I choose to just observe and I do nothing.  My reaction still gets triggered at this stage, but I observe it within myself and I know it is mine and I need not do anything with it.  I am healing this judgment of others who engage in behaviors that I previously would disagree with.  They are allowed to be who they are and I have the freedom not to be bothered by it.  When this particular charge is healed I will probably not even notice such behavior if it is even in my experience at all.

What do you see about yourself?  Do you have any reactions to heal?  Are your reactions easily predictable? 

The more we clean our energy field the clearer our vibration is so when the Universe looks at us to give us back what we are vibrating it is less and less a mixed bag of desirable and undesirable.  It is all good :)

Smiles and love

Malika

Let's Get Naked!

Let's get naked!  Ladies that means taking all those black slacks that make you look thin to the thrift shop.  And men, muscle shirts don’t create muscles.  I am using our clothing as a metaphor to how we are not really seeing the real us, nor letting anyone else see.

The thing is energetically we are always naked.  Swirling within our vibration is every fear, doubt, judgment and belief in lack that we have.  Simultaneously we are launching rockets of desire that get the Universe’s attention.  Then the Universe looks to see if we are in harmony with that desire.

In the ways that matter and shape our lives we are always naked.  The Universe is always checking us out to see if we have lost any of our weighty issues. The Universe is always giving back to us what is in our vibration so it is of great benefit to strip down and take a look at what the Universe is seeing.

It never occurred to me until recently that I was holding judgments in my vibration and the Universe was giving me mirrors of what I judge.  I have very charged judgments against dishonesty and mean spiritedness.  So guess what I encounter from time to time.  My reaction to such behavior is the same every single time.  I get angry and confrontational, thus further enhancing the charge of attraction in my vibration.

Many, many years ago Spirit told me something that I did not know how to apply.  That something was, “In the midst of this who am I?”  I understand that to mean that outer circumstance originate from within us.  We are to look at the cause (inner) and not the effect (outer).  So, in the midst of encountering dishonesty who am I?  Am I an angry confrontational person?  If that is what I chose then guess what I get to keep experiencing.  Or will I finally make a different choice?

What kind of choice would heal the charge of judgments?  The choice of seeing that the Universe is so magnificent it is always giving us what is in our vibration and the creation/manifestation we are looking at came from us.  We are so powerful.  I can then choose to feel gratitude for the person(s) who mirrored my judgments to me.  By replacing anger with awareness and gratitude the charge is then diffused.

The examples of how things within our vibration are in our experience are infinite.  We could look at fears, doubts, beliefs in lack and go through the same process of identifying our down pat reaction vs. a different choice we can make to diffuse the charge of the unhealed pattern.

When the Universe looks at me naked and responds to what it sees my goal is to appear as a Goddess and we all know what Venus attracts.

When a Person Changes AND When a Thing Becomes Its Opposite

Have you ever stopped calling a reader because you felt they were pigeon holding you, your future and those you ask about?  Because the reader has not seen your guy/gal or relationship in a good light in past readings they are prone to hold onto that perception of things.  Yet, life and people are not so black or white.

Publicly, right now, I would like to throw up my hands!  Really!  What I know, what I have seen over and over again is how dynamic we are and how dynamic life is!  I feel we are gradually transcending our rigid tendency to view life and people with a black and white frame of mind.  Every time (in my own life) I have tried to put someone in a box I have failed miserably. 

Carl Jung introduced the concept of Enantiodromia.  Funny word, but I like it!

Enantiodromia. Literally, "running counter to," referring to the emergence of the unconscious opposite in the course of time. This characteristic phenomenon practically always occurs when an extreme, one-sided tendency dominates conscious life; in time an equally powerful counterposition is built up, which first inhibits the conscious performance and subsequently breaks through the conscious control.

“…occurs when an extreme, one-sided tendency dominates conscious life…”

So, we can understand that when we rigidly view things, people, life, situations, relationships as “totally wrong”, “not for us”, etc  the opposite of that will eventually make itself known.  Meaning what is “right” about it will influence you more than you realize.

Carl Jung goes on to state that enantiodromia often foreshadows a rebirth, which makes sense to me.

Wikipedia sited examples of enantiodromia:

For example, it has been applied to subject of the film The Lives of Others, to show how one devoted to a fascist regime breaks through his loyalty and emerges a humanist.

The term has also been applied as a neologism to describe the tendency of a younger generation to manifest the undesirable traits of a previous generation, despite the repudiation of these traits when they were young.

Are you now ready to throw your hands up with me?  Truly, we are all so very dynamic that it is futile to place anyone or anything in a box.  Everything in the Universe seeks a state of balance and harmony.  Closed doors are always an illusion.

In my readings I can tell you what is going on NOW.  The future is not written in stone.  We have many potential futures and I can see the ones that are most prominent in your energy.  Just because things have been a certain way does not mean they will remain so.

The doors are open!

 Smiles and Love

:)Malika

FEEEEEED ME!

What is your strategy?  You do have one right?  Here I am Ms. LoA with a history of professing, “Know what you want and expect it to come!”  I do believe that, yet sometimes our intention, thoughts and vibration are not pure and we may attract a mixed manifestation. 

So how do you know if what has manifested is THE manifestation or is it a mixed bag kind of manifestation that tells you that you are close, but not quite there? 

Let’s focus on romantic relationships.  Most people have a strong inkling if not a clear picture of the relationship dynamic they want.  It is very important you know this much and use it as your template. 

For example, I like men to behave as men.  I like them to be strong, decisive and action oriented.  My ideal dynamic is the gentleman and lady dynamic.  He courts with flowers, gifts, attention, gestures and sweet surprises.  Basically he treats me as the goddess I am.  My strategy is to relax, sit back and see what kind of banquet he serves.  I let him show me who he is and what he has to offer.  I then decide if I would like to proceed and invest further emotion.

Now here is an example of a mixed bag manifestation where at first it seems the two people have complimentary ideal relationship dynamics, but it is eventually discovered that they do not.  (Names used in this example are not actual people.)

Lola’s ideal relationship dynamic is the gentleman/lady dynamic as described above.  Lola meets Richard and he asks her to dinner.  When he picks her up he has a sweet, but discrete gift. They continue to date a couple of times a week.  The first two weeks Richard sent sweet and flirty texts during the day and had romantic gesture type gifts when he would see Lola.  Then after the 3^rd week the texts declined to maybe one a day and the gifts stopped completely.  None of the gifts included flowers btw.

As Lola is still noting what Richard is bringing to the table she realizes when he spends the night and leaves his dirty laundry at her home he expects her to have it cleaned upon his next visit.  Other subtle clues to Richard’s ideal relationship dynamic begin to surface.  He comes over one day and does not give Lola a proper greeting.  Instead he hurriedly gets out his mobile and begins texting.  He asks to use her computer and then starts printing pages and pages of documents from her printer.  He then tells her, “I am hungry.” And waits for her to solve this problem for him.

After a few weeks Richard’s ideal relationship dynamic has emerged: The catered to man/The doting mother figure.  Perhaps subconsciously, though the psychology makes no matter, Richard wants a mommy, but what Lola wants is a man.  These dynamics are incompatible and neither Lola nor Richard will be fulfilled.

In LoA you take the contrast of experiencing what you don’t want in order to have even more clarity about what you do want.  It had never occurred to Lola to be clear about the type of relationship dynamic she wanted until she met Richard.  Richard could behave like a gentleman, yet he was not quite a man.

I hope this has helped someone.  Feel free to comment and share your ideal relationship dynamic.

Smiles and love

Malika

I Know That Man Loves Me

Think of the times you slip slidded away into a reality that was not of your making or of your choice.  Now imagine a reality where you choose your perceptions and thus shape your experiences.

When I moved to Paris I did not know anyone and I did not speak French.  I found comfort and a sense of belonging at the cafes.  Every street had a café where you could indulge in your favorite beverage, sit and muse, write in your journal and fully relax.  I, like most French people, had a local café that I would frequent.

One day, early on during my stay in Paris, I went into my local café, sat down and waited to be approached by the waiter.  I waited and waited.  I knew the waiter from prior visits, but this visit he ignored me.  He never came to me.  Finally another waiter did come and I ordered my usual café crème.

I felt very uncomfortable and confused.  When I left I remember thinking, “Oh no this is not good!”  I was dissed by the waiter at my local café.  I felt negative energy and did not know how I could return.  I wondered if I unknowingly had committed some faux pas.

Then remembering Abraham-Hicks teachings I shifted.  I shifted because my perception of no longer being liked or accepted at my local café was just too horrible to digest.  Seemingly out of nowhere, “I know that man loves me” came to my mind.  I began to think that statement over and over as I pictured the waiter.  Then as quickly as the statement had come to me it evaporated and I went on with my day.

A couple of days later I went back to the café.  Within seconds of sitting down the waiter approached me, hugged me and kissed me on the cheek!  All the other patrons and café staff saw this unusual display.  I was in shock at the welcoming he gave me.  It was like he had missed me and he loved me.  Lol!  LoA!

We have more power than we know.

:)Malika

Catastrophe

"My barn having burned to the ground, I can now see the moon."

I love that Chinese proverb!  That is so the way life is sometimes!  I just love it.

Several years ago when I faced a big shake up in my life I had a dream.

I dreamed an artist's house totally burned to the ground and everything he owned burned with it.  Yet, from the destruction he made great art. He put the pain on canvas.

That is a key I think.  There is no such thing as total destruction.  After every ending there is a new beginning.  I am going to go out on a limb, albeit maybe a skinny and weak limb, and say that I have reached a point in life where I don't care about certain things anymore.  I do not fear worse case scenarios or catastrophe.  Lol!  Why bother?  My comfort zone now is viewing things as either favorable or unfavorable. 

There have been times in the past when I was standing on such an unstable foundation that catastrophe was in the offing.  But not now.  Having let my barn burn to the ground I can now see the Moon.  Catastrophe is no longer a fear, but funny though, I do like the word. 

Ca- tas- tro- phe!

:)Malika

THE ONE

Fashions come back around and so now has THE ONE.

I know it is trite just as wanting a “soul mate” is trite.  But I predict The One is making a come back and rightly so!

Soul mate relationships are very seductive.  You feel a familiarity and bond with the person almost immediately.  Right away you are hooked into each other so much so that you can’t imagine life without that person.  It is a high intensity bond accompanied with karmic energy patterns that need to be healed, thus they are often painful relationships that bear fruit only after the break up.

The One on the other hand is someone you are in sync with.  The One is someone who prompts you to grow, but not in a heart crushing kind of way.  The One is the perfect partner for you.  The One has learned their lessons and has chosen to move forward rather than get stuck or settle with a partner less than their ideal.  The One knows that to try to make the wrong person right is a futile effort and chooses a progressive path instead. 

You will meet The One on the progressive path.  They are not on the path to the past.  They are not on a path of desperation.  Energetically they sit in knowing.  They feel good about everything they have encountered and have no regret for all they have said goodbye to.  Their heart is clean and they like who they are. 

Your decisions lead you to or away from The One.  Can you give up a relationship that is more pain than joy?  Can you calm yourself and find the God place within you?  Can you move towards knowing that there is a perfect someone for you? If yes, then you are on the path to The One and you are The One for them.

:)Malika

SIZE Does Matter!

Size Does Matter!

We all want big, fine, exquisite, more, more, more!

Question:

Are you excited?  Do you feel passion?  Are you anticipating something delicious?

If your answer is no then you are dreaming too small.  Expand you vision and go for it!

Step 1: Know what you want.

Step 2:  Believe you will have it.

Late last year I returned to the U.S after living in Paris and London for a few years.  Upon my return I went through a period of looking at the metaphoric blank canvas and thinking, “How can I top what I have already done?  What do I now want?”

The canvas is no longer blank and I am super turned on by what I want.  But if you do not believe it is yours then your desires don’t feel so good.  If you concern yourself with how something will take place then you will have so much resistance you will never be in alignment with your desire.  Never worry about how.

Right now take a moment and think of something absolutely wonderful that you desire.  Something BIG!  No doubt you are getting turned on and starting to feel good.  Now before you go any further say, “It is mine!”  “Thank you!”  The Universe just heard you and is doing things that you need not concern yourself with to bring that very desire about!  You just did it!  Now, very important, DO NOT go back on your request by doubting or sharing it with someone who may cause you to doubt.

The Universe will never prompt you to do something you do not want to do.  For example, if you want to meet a romantic partner and the last thing you want to do is join a dating site, then don’t!  Pay attention to how you feel and if you feel resistance within yourself then get back to the desire that turned you on in the first place and savor its essence.  It is coming to you!

“When you think about your desire and you feel good then it is on its way.”  Abraham.

So, turn yourself on by dreaming big and know it is coming!

Are you ready?

:)Malika

Still Kissing Frogs???

Still kissing frogs?

And kissing and kissing while you hope on one of those kisses he will finally turn into the prince?

That fairy tale is embedded in our psyches, but we have added new twists to it.  We re-wrote it as:  We keep kissing the frog and with enough kisses he will finally be a man who loves us, adores us, builds a life with us etc…

But if you want a fairy tale ending you must begin with the right fairy tale.  Do you really want a frog who MIGHT turn into a prince?  Do we really still want a prince or is it a King that we now want?

Think about it.  Who really wants to kiss a slimy, warty toad?  And what is the prize in having a prince?  A prince keeps his lady in a cold castle as she waits for his return, but a King shares his kingdom with his Queen.

I have done 1000s of readings on Keen and it is clear to me all women want the same thing: A Good Man who is emotionally caring and present; who is loyal and desires true intimacy; and who builds a wonderful life with his lady.

Step 1:  Know what you want.

Step 2:  Believe you will have it.

If you do this simple exercise you will be well on your way! 

Look back on your relationships and from the contrast write down what you now know you want.  By contrast what I mean is you have encountered what you do not want and the contrast of that has enabled you to be clear about what you do want.

  I titled my list:

Rockets of Desire Born From Relationship Contrast:

I want to be treated as special by the man in my life.

I want a partner who adores me and considers my feelings.

I want a partner who gives me gifts and romantic surprises.

I want a partner who gives our relationship a high priority.

I want a strong, passionate and fun romantic partnership.

I want an honest, kind, considerate partner who has a spiritual awareness.

Etc…

Make your list as long as you like.  Turn all your past disappointments to positive statements about what you do want.  This opens you up, shifts your focus and begins to put you in alignment with your desired partnership.

Then believe, know it is yours. 

I got so tired of kissing the frogs and though the little princes do have some charm what I really wanted was a King.  I did my list, I knew it would be mine and voila!  He has arrived and I did not even have to leave my home.  It is a funny story, but it is absolutely true he came to me.  All I did was work with the energy and one evening he literally knocked on my door.

Abraham says that 17 seconds of pure thought is equal to 20,000 action hours!!!  Pure thought is thought without contradictions.  No doubts, you must believe it (Step 2) and expect it. 

If you would like further guidance or a reading to see if you are in alignment and what ways you need to shift your vibration feel free to call me.  I have no doubt you will have it!

Are you ready?

:)Malika

WARNING: The Law of Attraction may cause Panic Attacks! :)

I love you!

Listen, I have one thing to say and there are infinite ways to say it and that is:

You can have it!

You can do it!

You can be it!

Yes, I am talking about the Law of Attraction, but really it is so much more.  It is a path full of wonder and satisfaction and full of FUN!

You will be amazed!  I recently had a long awaited manifestation!  It is a BIG one!  When it came I was so freaked out I had a panic attack!  The vibration and excitement of the manifestation is so awesome my physical body had to catch up to it and thus, the panic attack.  But hey!  I would not have it any other way.

I have been using the Law of Attraction since 2001.  I know how to get things to happen quickly and I know what to do to bring it on!  Never let anyone tell you it can’t happen!!!  Never limit yourself or let others limit you!  I know beyond any doubt it can and will happen!

Know what you want and then believe it is yours.  It is really that simple.  If the space in between knowing what you want and believing you will get it is full of doubt then you need to call me!  You will be set right and on your way!  You have to feel it!

I want to see you rejoice!  I want to hear you screaming to me, “I am so amazed Malika!  It is happening!!!” 

My blog will be all about getting you to where you want to be!  What else in life is there than being happy and satisfied?  Let the desires take root in you and savor their flavor!  If you want to know if you are in alignment with your desires call me.  If you want to know how to shift so you can let it in call me!

I love this work and I am on fire with passion when I see you get what you want!

Stay tuned because more is to come.  I will share keys I have learned through my own trials and it could save you much time.  Have fun today and laugh at all your wonderful creations.  We are never ever done with desiring and drawing those desires to us!

Feel free to leave comments and ask questions.  Also if you would like to speak to me on my LoA listing and you send me an email before hand for a limited time I will be lowering my rate on that listing per special request.

Now let’s have some fun!

:)Malika