Women are always saying they want a 'mature man'-who is faithful and honest. The kind they can take home to Mama! BUT in reality sometimes it is a 'bad boy' they find themselves attracted to! IF you find yourself falling for a 'bad boy'-here's some things you MAY want to consider.
Most women usually state they are seeking 'true love', a REAL man-who treats them with respect. On the dating scene, there are men like this-BUT on the other hand-there are 'bad boys' (*some woman would call them 'womanizers'). What attracts women to men like these and what do the 'bad boys' have to offer them? SOMETIMES a woman may have just gotten out of a 'bad relationship'-feeling hurt and betrayed-below IS such a story...
A woman recently hurt and angry begins to want a 'change of scenery'-not really SEEKING the 'bad boy'-but voila maybe out on the town with the girls-in a bar or restaurant-here comes this hunky man, dressed to kill-who approaches her. He looks like a model or is extremely handsome, muscular and wearing clothing that reveals every rippling muscle and is wearing that oh so RIGHT 'aftershave' that drifts around him. He could pass for a Chipendale dancer-but is well-mannered, and approaches the woman flashing a smile of teeth that came straight out of a tv commercial!
The woman is flattered as he greets her with a sultry hello, introduces himself "Hi, I'm Adam", and places one arm on her shoulder-just for a moment. He eyeballs the other gals around her-checking out each one-but can 'sense' this one woman seems 'receptive' to his approach. Men who are bad boys usually can tell when a woman is open to their advances-and usually quickly move in. The next thing the female knows is she's totally entranced with this 'to die for' hunk of a man who had to have fell straight off of a cloud somewhere-as he looks like an angel! The two 'click', him out of need for sexual gratification, her-out of wanting retribution for her lousy boyfriend who turned out to be a jerk!
She thinks to herself, "The HECK with Mr. Jerkoff who didn't even care about me after all the time and attention I gave to HIM"! The bad boy asks what a beautiful woman like HER is doing without a 'MAN' by her side? This stirs her emotions deeper from recent anger and hurt-and she blurts out what a JERK she 'had' for a boyfriend-but never again! He smiles to himself and knows 'he's hit the jackpot of GOLD'-a female who has just been hurt and could punch out her ex! EASY prey with this one. He smiles and asks for her number stating he might want to call her 'sometime'-if she wants to talk, 'hes a good listener". TALK-boy oh BOY--she quickly fishes for a piece of paper-but he already hands her one-pen in hand!
He excuses himself-and whispers he'll 'be in touch'-kissing her hand as he strolls off. The girls sit around her-all blubbering away their thoughts-but it doesn't matter what they SAY. She KNOWS what she wants-and it is to get to know this man MUCH better!!
A day or two goes by-he calls and invites her out to dinner-and she is overjoyed and quickly gives him her address. He picks her up in a fancy sportscar that impresses her even more-and away they go to an 'exclusive little restaurant' he chose. They eat, laugh and dance to the music in the bar next door. A few drinks later he senses the alcohol has got her floating. He quickly invites her to go home for a quick drink and to see his latest home remodeling; and she quickly accepts-excited and a bit intoxicated. The rest of the story is the usual-upon getting situated into his lovely bachelor pad-he pours another drink-and begins his moves. He's done them enough-unbeknownst to her-to women from 20-50. He's an expert at this and knows every 'trick in the book'. They end up making love in a bed that looks like it's floating with tons of satin and mirrors around the entire room-not to mention the ceiling above the bed. After passionate lovemaking-she drifts off to sleep on the satin sheets with a smile on her face. She thinks she is dreaming-and she does all night. She dreams of slapping her ex-and laughing in his face. The next morning she wakes up and turns over to caress her new lover-to find an empty impression and a rose on the pillow with a note saying, "Thank you for the lovely evening-I had an appointment to keep-will call later.. Am leaving you cab money to get home. Just lock up and put the key under the mat outside please. Chow.." She smiles and dresses-and grabs a cab to go home-still in a dreamy state of mind-excited about their passionate lovemaking. He HAS to be the 'one'. He was everything a woman could want AND more! Killer good looks, fancy new car-and that condo was amazing! She'd even gotten a glimpse of a huge hot tub in another room-while getting dressed! If my "EX" only knew she thinks to herself-he had this coming! HAH! She gets home and calls all her friends and laughs and blushes telling them about this wonderful new man-who was so wonderful-and even left her a rose on the pillow! The girlfriends listened-and some approved-most envious of her good fortune! One listened named Angie, who didn't get to meet Adam that day. She got very quiet-and said she had to hang up! How ODD!
She showers, washes her hair, throws on her jeans and then remembers it is SATURDAY! She looks at the clock-she'd been home an hour or more-so could go shopping for a new outfit! She goes through her purse and looks for her carkeys-but they weren't there! DAMN-must've dropped them when she freshend up in his bathroom! She didn't have his phone number though! THEN she remembers-his KEY-was still under his mat! SURELY he wouldn't mind if she dropped back and went inside to get her freakin keys! She could leave a note-just in case! she calls a cab-and getting out-looks for his car-but didn't see it-so reaches under the mat. She unlocks the door and heads towards the bathroom-when suddenly she hears a moan and another one?! "You are the one baby, come on now", she gasps in shock-as she KNOWS that voice! ADAM? She freezes-and listens as a female whispers his name and he laughs. Appointment she thought to herself--THIS was his appointment!? Not thinking now but furious-she marches into the bedroom-screaming as his female companion stares in shock-he sat up and glared at her and yelled 'get OUT of my HOME-NOW!' She turns and runs out-crying in utter disgust at what she just saw-then calls a cab from her cell-and walked down the street to a bench. Still crying she began to wonder what she had done and WHY? It all rushed back to her-I wanted to hurt my ex. Instead she had hurt herself - again-but this time with a man who had obviously just used her. She finally got home and wondered how could she be so stupid. She crawls into bed crying-wondering how could a man DO this and had the other woman in his bed been as deceived as she had been!? Suddenly she heard a knock on the door. She thought "OH GREAT"!, wiping the tears away she went to the door. Opening the door she saw Angie staring at her-looking upset. "Angie?" are you ok? Come inside" Angie walked in and sat down quietly and looked up at her. "I'm OK", but I have to tell you something", she continuing reluctantly,"see I KNOW Adam-and didn't want to tell you that-becausee.. Tears ran down her face and looking up she whispered, "I SLEPT with him 'too' and didn't want to tell you because I knew you'd find out for yourself what he is and I am so sorry". The two friends embraced and cried together-later sitting down to talk about what "ADAM" was and how they both 'met him' to discover Adam also went by the name Eric!
The above story IS a ficticious story-and I did write it. It is not true OR based on true events-BUT there IS truth within it.Bad Boys do exist. They usually can come across as suave, debonair, maybe like your knight in shining armor. They can be fun, spontaneous-even appear to be a total 'gentleman'. Their approach can range from 'subtle' to outright 'obvious sexual predators' who only want to have sex and nothing more. They meet women every day-and think nothing about what they do as being 'wrong'. Their sexual partners can range in age from 18-50-depending on their moods. Some of them do not use condoms-most do. They are selfish and only want pleasure at a womans' expense of her heart and body. They usually do not have have ANY remorse or regrets over having numerous sexual partners. It is a 'game'-one they love to play just to satisfy their own egos-with no regard to a womans feelings. SOME females will accept their 'bad-boy' behavior! SOME females love the man AND the sex-with no strings attached.
HOW do you spot a 'bad boy' who IS a womanizer? IF you're in the dating scene-ask questions before OR when meeting ANY man! Do not have sex with ANYONE out of anger because you have been HURT! Respect yourself AND your body-and know "MR. RIGHT" will be willing to wait and not rush into sex-and wait until you are really ready-because you share a SPECIAL BOND between each other-which is well worth it! The dating game can be FUN-just take your time-and you'll recognize the REAL deal!
Bad boys will always be out there--but so will the REAL MEN who want a real relationship with a woman who respects herself and wants nothing LESS!