LIVING THE GOOD LIFE

How does he feel about me? Does he like me? What are the chances of a relationship with him? Let me ask you a couple of questions… How do you feel about you? Do you like yourself? Do you have a relationship with yourself? In other words… do you enjoy spending time with yourself? If you don’t why would anyone else want to?

So often I hear those questions and yet in a lot of cases, the person asking them admits that they “need a man/woman”. They don’t feel complete without another person in their life. Neediness sabotages a budding romance because it feels like desperation. Think about the last time you were around someone who was desperate. How did you feel?

Relationships started in desperation rarely last and if they do, more often than not they are not happy ones. The reason we want a partner is because we think we will feel better with someone to love in our life. However if the basis for a relationship boils down to “this is not what I want but it is the best I can get for now”, it is doomed from the start.

Neediness focuses attention around what you don’t have rather than what you do have. We know that the Law of Attraction brings you more of what you focus on. A good energy shift would to be to start a gratitude journal so that you become aware of the positives that you have going for you right now. The movement from neediness to appreciation always starts the flow of abundance.

I know someone who desperately wants a relationship. She constantly daydreams and daily talks about a man that is so obviously a player and yet she thinks “he could change if he had the right woman.” She constantly asks me to do a reading on how he feels about her. A better reading for her would be why she is attracted to “bad boys.”

How do you attract the best man or woman for you in your life? Learn to “enJOY” time spent alone.  Use it as a time to refresh and grow. Dig deep and look at what went wrong in previous relationships and how those things could be corrected. Learn from your mistakes and become wiser to the signs that the wrong prospective partner sends. Most people will tell you everything you need to know about them right from the start. Someone once told me, “Someday you’ll find out that I’m not who you think I am.” I didn’t believe him… and we divorced 8 painful years later. Now, I believe it if someone tells me they are not good enough for me! …and I run in the opposite direction fast!

Embrace your time as a “single” person. Keep looking and don’t focus so hard on one person that you miss signals from someone who could be so right you. Life should be enjoyed not agonized over. As you relax and learn to really love yourself, the energy will shift around you and you will begin to attract more suitable, potential partners into your life. Then, with a “buffet of wonderful people” to choose from, your love life will blossom as never before!

Often when someone says something about you or anyone else, it reflects more on them than it does on you! Whether the feedback is positive or negative, you get an insight into the person who is saying it or writing it.

We worry about what other people will think, however only if the statement is true will others believe it. If we live in a world where energy expands with the attention we give it, then focusing on the negative comments will only make you more miserable. By understanding where the person is coming from you can to decide whether or not to forgive the person. In some cases they are just mean spirited and it may be best to just steer clear of them.

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When you call a reader are you really willing to hear what is said? Or are you so invested in your personal situation that the response cannot be heard?

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Every day we have the opportunity to choose happiness. I spent a month in France and realized that I was not LIVING.. I was just living! I was not enjoying my life. I realized there is a huge difference.

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You think you have come to terms with the break up but every time you think about him, you want to cry. This is probably the most difficult time of your life. Break-ups are never easy and how you deal with the charged emotions sets the tone for future relationships. Will you tell yourself, "I will never love someone that much again!" or will you say (a much harder thing to do), "We were good together for a time but I will get over this and I will find someone who loves me the way I want to be loved!"

In a lot of cases, couples break-up and then get back together and repeat the same scenario over and over again until the pain is so great that one or the other cannot bear it any more. Would it not make more sense to look at your relationships and see where there are repeating patterns? Unless you can identify the trouble spots and find a way to correct them or learn from them, you most certainly will create the same circumstances with your next partner. Are you attracted to the same type of person every time? Does your behavior change after the newness wears off? Are either of you addicted to drama, drugs or alcohol? Do you try to change your partner or his or her behavior? Is dishonesty evident in either of you? Are you overly critical of each other? Potential partners will tell you everything you need to know about them up front. It is your job to listen and learn from their words and actions.

I have always believed that relationships are for a season, a reason or a lifetime. If you are just not good together, learn from it, keep the lesson and throw the pain away. If we do that, our next relationship should be easier and more satisfying. Ultimately what we want is a life partner who loves us for who we are not who we should be. You deserve a partner who loves YOU the way you want to be loved (and vice versa)!

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All my life, things have had a way of manifesting for me. I want a job, and opportunity appears. I hear people say, "That might work for you but not me!" My response is... "Have you ever tried it?" I encourage you to find what gives you passion and make that your line of work. We spend 8 hours a day, minimum at our workplaces. I suspect that most of you are like me and want those hours to be productive and enjoyable. For me no pay check is worth the agony of 8 hours of suffering because you hate your job!

I was working for a company and loved my job for the first 6 months until I "became a part of the family". Once that happened the boss was no longer interested in my opinion. I was given responsibility but no authority. Being the loyal employee that I was, I stayed with the company and watched as 5 people hired for the same position, over a period of 8 months, left one after the other in succession. At a farewell lunch with a co-worker who was leaving because she was frustrated with the same things I was, she told me the new guy they had hired to do the same job as me was making considerably more money than me. At that moment I decided I wanted a job where I was appreciated and had responsibility and authority. A name popped into my head... the father of one of my daughter's friends. I called right then and asked to stop by after work. That evening, although they had not advertised  and were not looking for an new employee, I was given a new position at their company.

WHY? I believed I would find a position with a better company, I expected it to happen quickly, and I took ACTION. What are you willing to do with your Power of Intention?

Intuition in business has emerged into the forefront lately. Some of our brightest and most well known people use it! Why... because it works!

Bill Gates - "Often you have to rely on intuition.”

Albert Einstein - "The intellect has little to do on the road to discovery. There comes a leap in consciousness, call it intuition or what you will, and the solution comes to you and you don't know how or why."

Robert Graves - “Intuition is the supra-logic that cuts out all the routine processes of thought and leaps straight from the problem to the answer.” 

Ingrid Bergman - "You must train your intuition - you must trust the small voice inside you which tells you exactly what to say, what to decide”

Albert Einstein - "The only real valuable thing is intuition."

Intuition in business works miracles in any people related business due to fact that in most business situations there are hidden agendas. Trying to flush out that critical objection can be hazardous at best and if it stays hidden can scuttle a deal. Intuition in business is the edge you need over competitors. Once you have identified the type of prospective customer you are dealing with, you can then rely on your intuition to determine the information that they need to know which will in turn identify the benefits that will be most useful in completing the sale. Using your intuition will enhance your communication skill set and bring forth positive results. Sensing the best price to sell at or the reason behind a client's hesitance will win you not only more clients but also a more successful career.

Michael Munn, Ph.D. used his intuition in business and is upfront about letting people know that he did. Munn is an award-winning engineer who has managed multi million dollar covert projects. As a former aerospace chief scientist for Lockheed, he and his teams worked on challenging technical problems. Because they worked on the cutting edge of science there was no one to follow. They had a program aimed at stopping Russian nuclear bombs in space. Munn credited their success to brief meditation sessions during the day. This allowed them to take the time to listen to their inner knowing and the resulting intuitions. Munn said, "How do I know the answers are there? I see pictures or movies or dreamlike sequences. I have an immediate inner knowing that this is the answer for which I was waiting. My intuition lets me know, 'This is it!'''

Albert Einstein - "The intellect has little to do on the road to discovery. There comes a leap in consciousness, call it intuition or what you will, and the solution comes to you. You don’t know how or why."

Intuition Defined

Intuition is typically information that arrives in a sudden flash, an “aha” or a clear sense of knowing without effort. The sense of intuition is often a superior cognitive sense that uses insights resulting from various areas. The sense of knowing is so complete that I am often in awe of the process. The rapid time frame in which it happens brings with it a sense of certainty regarding the favorable or unfavorable outcome in the future.

How to Cultivate Intuition in Business

Meditation ...take the time to still your mind for short periods during the day. Transcendental mediation recommends spending 20 minutes in the morning and twenty minutes mid-afternoon to meditate. The more regularly that you practice, the greater the results you will see. Not only will your stress level be reduced, your blood pressure lowered, but your intuition in business will develop over time.

Keep a journal of insights that you have. Date the entries so you can look back and see if you were correct before the fact. I used to think I did not have an intuitive bone in my body until I started tracking my hunches. Written in black and white, it will be hard to deny the truth once you have enough instances logged. Anyone who has had "hindsight", has intuition that they have been ignoring.

Pay attention to your body. Be aware of the way it feels on a good day. Notice where you hold tension and when. If you are attuned to the "feel" of your body day to day you will be more aware when intuition hits you in the "gut". The solar plexus is generally where most people sense the physical forms of intuition. Because intuition in business or elsewhere is often very subtle, you must learn live in the present and in your body. It can be an exquisite tool for providing insights that will benefit you in all areas of your life.

Ask for feedback. If you sense something, ask a question that will allow you to determine if you have correctly intuited the situation. If it is a sensitive situation you may have to be careful in the way you word it however the feedback you receive is invaluable for your confidence in trusting your intution.

Listen to the still small voice within. The majority of people often have so much going on that taking the time to really listen gets lost in the clutter of day to day life. If the communication is too soft ask that the volume be increased. I have no idea how it works, I just know it does.

Get in the habit of playing small intuitive games with yourself to help build your skill level. Practice visualizing what your co-worker will be wearing when you get to the office. This is easily verifiable and will build your confidence. Intuit who is on the other end of the phone when it rings. Intuition in business is like any muscle, it can be exercised to strengthen it.

Most of all... have fun with it. Intuition is one of those things that will not not work if you try too hard. Be playful and relax and you will see results!

Are 68 seconds worth it to magnetize your future with the Law of Attraction? Ever caught yourself complaining about something…and it went on for five, ten minutes or more? Do you realize what you have done in those few minutes? You have activated the Law of Attraction to bring you more of the same “stuff” you’ve just been complaining about.

Have you ever wondered why things don’t change for you? For one week, write down what your predominant thoughts are during the day. These are the ones that cause you to become passionate about something. Passion about what you love or what makes you furious triggers the magnetic force of the universe.

Every time you think or discuss with passion for at least 68 seconds you create what Abraham calls “rockets of desire.” You put into escrow all those things that are just waiting to manifest for you. By choosing your thoughts and emotions more carefully you change your outcomes.

Our emotions are a tool to help us discover where we are putting our energy. By identifying your most predominant thoughts, you can choose whether or not they serve you. Are the results you are seeing in your life, positive or negative? Do you have satisfying relationships, financial abundance, and a healthy, strong body or are your relationships stressful and full of anger, your finances a disaster, and are you overweight and unhealthy. Every day you choose what you focus on, don’t you?

Look at the people you hang out with. Are they positive and successful or are they the “complainers” around the water cooler? Describe the success quotient of the five people you hang out with the most. Are they people you aspire to be like? If not, look for enthusiastic, focused, successful people to cultivate as friends. Keep in mind what positive qualities you can offer them with your friendship… they may be searching for a quality circle of friends too!

The Law of Attraction tells us that just 68 seconds of focused, passionate thought and visualization on your desires will draw to it another thought about how good it could be, and another thought of what that would mean to you and your family, and another thought about how good it would feel and so on. The passion continues to grow and the “rockets of desire” shoot off, drawing to you those very things. Ultimately what shows up in your life is your choice. What passions will your 68 seconds of visualization magnetize and manifest for you today?

The state of your life is nothing more than a reflection of your state of mind. --Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

Now is the only time there is. Make your now wow, your minutes miracles, and your days pay. Your life will have been magnificently lived and invested, and when you die you will have made a difference. --Mark Victor Hansen

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Look Good, Feel Better, an organization for women with cancer, offers makeovers to improve the self-esteem of women who are fighting for their lives. Doctors take care of the medical issues however the women are left with changes in their skin, nails, hair and faces. At a time in their lives when they need an extremely positive attitude to fight this disease, they look in the mirror and see a woman they don’t recognize.

Each patient receives a box of cosmetics that includes cleanser, toner, moisturizer, eyemakeup remover, foundation, powder, eye makeup and blush, eye liner, lip liner, eye brow pencils and mascara. They are also instructed in skin care and makeup application as well as how to choose a wig and what to do as their hair falls out. The products are donated by many of the cosmetic companies all across the country. Members of these same companies volunteer their time to teach the women in attendance how to care for skin that is now considered sensitive and dry. Learning to create eye brows that may be missing or are soon to be missing and how to hide the dark under eye circles resulting from their treatment is information they are eager to learn.

Many of the women coming in the door looked scared and unhappy however by the time they left, they had found friends with a common factor… they were not alone! One woman that I assisted, 83 year old Lisette, was a spunky little French woman who told me she had been washing her face over the kitchen sink for the last three years because she couldn’t bear to look at her face in the mirror. As the morning advanced I could see the change in her attitude. Her skin now moisturized and with a glow aided by a good foundation, looked radiant. The dark circles under her eyes had been minimized and she had applied a small amount of eye color and mascara, a little blush and lipstick. Lisette was smiling! “I think I’ll go dancing tonight!” she exclaimed.

The experience in working with the Look Good, Feel Better patients changed my life. I always thought that volunteering was about giving to someone else. I had no idea of the gifts they would give me in return. Even with their fear and uncertainty, these women had optimism and strength I could not believe. I left each session feeling thankful for knowing them and feeling that I was one of the luckiest people on earth.

What I wanted was more money from an unexpected source. You need to be specific where that money is to come from. What we wish for in general terms may not be in your best interests.

This past summer I accidently created a certain outcome that was in some repects what I wished for. Two car accidents left me with extra cash after the insurance money was spent on the new cars. The first car that was written off, moved me into a car that had 25,000 K less on the vehicle, was 2 years newer and I kept $1,500 of the insurance money after the vehicle was purchased.

After the second car accident, the vehicle I purchased was the same year and make, but had more options (all the bells and whistles) and 30,000 K less on it plus I kept $1,400 of the insurance money after it was purchased.

Were these accidents intentional? Did I want to go thru the time and expense of looking for replacement vehicles...NO! The last last accident put me in the hospital with two black eyes and luckily no premanent injuries. Did I want these experiences? Absolutley not. Did I get what I wished for... "cash from an unexpected source"...YES!

Learn to be specific in your desires so that the outcome is more in line with your desires and in the best interests of all concerned.

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These 5 tips will get you the best possible reading from your psychic advisor. Taking a few minutes to clarify what you want to achieve in the call, yields far better results in content and accuracy. This also provides the start of documentation which is critical in order to see the progress you make for each question you have.

1) Have specific questions prepared in advance.
This allows you to get the answers that are most valuable for you. It also gives your advisor the opportunity to tune in more specifically to the information. General readings are just that, general and they may be what spirit deems you need to hear however it may not be at all what you are concerned about at that particular time. If all you give is your first name and the first name of the person you are asking about... and then you say "Tell me what is going to happen", you will get what spirit feels you need to hear not necessarily what you had in mind. There are so many possibilities for "what is going to happen": relationship, work, family, travel, education, spiritual, etc." I want to give the best possible reading I can, however I need some guidence so you leave satisfied.

2) Be clear on your intention when asking your questions.
Are you looking for guidance with an open mind and heart or are you calling numerous advisors until one of them gives you the answers you want to hear? Is this a win/win situation for you and the advisor or are you testing her/him? Your intentions will guide your advisor… truth allows clarity… while deception creates falsehoods.

3) Listen carefully to what is your advisor is saying.
Before asking another question or making a comment, listen carefully to what is being said. It may not be what you want to hear. If that is the case, sit with the answers for a few days and ask why they are not what you want to hear. An advisor who changes what they say initially to accommodate your desire to hear something different, does not have your best interests at heart. It is in times of challenge and pain that we grow the most. What I attempt to do is help you understand how you can best grow through these situations. Let’s face it, if everything was great in your life, you would probably not be calling.

4) Keep notes.
Notes help you see or track what progress has been made. I have had clients call with exactly the same question time after time. Truly, I would love in a perfect world, to be able to tell you that he is going to call tonight, you will get the job, your money situation will improve, etc. For things to change, you must change! By journaling daily about what is happening in your life, you will see opportunities for growth and in making those changes you will be aware of an improvement in your situation. Keep in mind even the smallest of events can signal a change for the better. Someone buys you dinner or you find some money in a pocket …your finances have changed. Be thankful for the small things and larger surprises will begin to manifest for you.

5) Wait for the events to play out before calling again.
You will find over time that patience is paramount to getting what you want. It implies peace and confidence in the universe or God. By constantly agonizing over something, you cut off the “flow” and inhibit the manifestation of your wishes and dreams.

Working with a psychic advisor gives you insights into patterns or changes that need to be made for personal growth. Once the call is over, make a few notes on how you felt about the information received. Be sure to update your journal over time indicating any breakthroughs or ensuing results. The end of the call signifies your work is just beginning.

How do you feel love when you have been betrayed? It’s easy to love someone when they are good to you. However when you have interactions with someone who irritates you and you “feel” that irritation every time you see them, guess what you are attracting… more irritation! You always have a choice in how to respond. Analyze what it is that annoys you and decide what would be the best way to act or respond before you speak. Learn to “act” rather than “react”.

Kind loving responses will draw more of the same to you as will an angry outbursts however behaving lovingly to someone who has hurt or angered you, probably creates the one of the greatest challenges for most people. How can you reach a state of mind that allows you to respond in love? Abraham says it is as simple as reaching for a better emotion. Find something about that person to appreciate. Obviously you don’t like the energy or attitude emanating from this person however you may be able to appreciate the “passion” with which they deliver their message. Look for something no matter how small… it may be the way they dress, their punctuality, their persistence or their memory (even if it is their ability to recall everything you have ever said or done).

Once you have found something you can sincerely appreciate without judging them at the same time, focus all your attention on that and watch your attitude shift. Remember the only person you can change is yourself. The “blame game” never works and breaking through an impasse often takes some creative thinking.

More often than not what angers or irritates us is a trigger to some event that hurt us in the past. An elderly friend of mine, a very gentle, kind woman, walked thru the church basement one day and came across some people in an AA meeting. She told me she instantly felt angry. She went upstairs and saw the pastor standing there. Instantly she blurted out, before she had time to think, “They should all be dead!” referring to the AA members. Embarrassed and ashamed, she apologized and said that she had no idea where that came from. When we discussed the situation later she talked about her step father, a man her mother was forced into marrying. He had been an alcoholic and tried to molest her and her sisters when they were very young. Although she had not thought of that man since she left home at 14, more than 66 years prior, the reaction she had was as fresh as the day when she caught him going after her sister.

Ask the right questions and you will get the right answers. The quality of your interactions depends on the quality of your words which depends on the quality of your thoughts. Reach for positive feelings about your adversary. Though their feeling towards you may not change, your ability to act in a positive loving way towards them will make your life more joyful and your relationships far more satisfying.

The law of attraction says that when you think about something with great joy and attention for at least 68 seconds, you will create a magnetic attraction or energy that draws the experience into your life. This is a great gift to attract desirable circumstances into our lives however if you are depressed and sad and focus on that, you will attract more of the same. Develop skills to deal with challenges. All too often, we forget what we have to be thankful for. We focus on what we don't have. Everything is based on based on our perspective and our confidence to change our strategies for growth. See challenges as an opportunity to grow stronger, to learn more, to be a good friend or mentor to others. to others! All exponential growth in technology, our personal lives and business comes when people have to work harder, together to make it through a challenging situation.

Poor People
One day the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.
On the return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"
"It was great, Dad."
"Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked.
"Oh yeah," said the son.
"So, tell me," asked the father, "what did you learn from the trip?"

The son answered, "I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them."

The boy's father was speechless.
Then his son added, "I always thought we were the wealthy ones!"

Learn how to meditate as it is a powerful tool for relaxation and stress relief! Keep in touch with friends, choose activities that bring you joy. Learn how to forgive and forget. Old friends pass away, new friends appear. It is just like the days. An old day passes, a new day arrives. The important thing is to make it meaningful: a meaningful friend - or a meaningful day. ~
Dalai Lama

With less stress in your life it makes it much easier to master your emotions.

Then with joy and abundance in your thoughts, the magnetic law of attraction will bring you success beyond your wildest dreams.

I know so many people who live in quiet desperation. The sense of community that existed years ago seems to have vanished. We have more and more people living in large homes and everyone sits at the computer or watches TV, in different rooms. Isolation creeps into our lives and we hardly notice it. The joy we once felt as a child seems nonexistent.

Imagine you can sense that joy bubbling up again. Put a smile on your face and think about a time you experienced unbridled bliss. What were you doing that day? Relive that moment, feel the excitement, see the scenes in your mind, smell the aromas in the air. Can you feel a change in your physiology?

Experience the law of attraction ... be aware of your thoughts! If you think fat, you cannot attract thin. If you feel poor, you cannot attract prosperity. You will notice that poor people hang out with poor people and wealthy people associate with the wealthy. You are what you think about all day long. What you think about is what you draw into your life. You are a magnet that grows stronger with the intensity of your thoughts. The longer that you think about something, the greater the probability of manifesting it in your life. Think about positive outcomes and enjoy visualizing the excitement when your outcomes turn up in your reality. It's the key to success. Every moment of the day you are creating your future. Make it a fabulous one full of success and prosperity in whatever your heart desires!

You love him and think he feels the same way... but he just doesn't call. Do you feel a spiritual connection? Then waiting for him to respond is hardest of all!