POWER OF SELF MASTERY

What I wanted was more money from an unexpected source. You need to be specific where that money is to come from. What we wish for in general terms may not be in your best interests.

This past summer I accidently created a certain outcome that was in some repects what I wished for. Two car accidents left me with extra cash after the insurance money was spent on the new cars. The first car that was written off, moved me into a car that had 25,000 K less on the vehicle, was 2 years newer and I kept $1,500 of the insurance money after the vehicle was purchased.

After the second car accident, the vehicle I purchased was the same year and make, but had more options (all the bells and whistles) and 30,000 K less on it plus I kept $1,400 of the insurance money after it was purchased.

Were these accidents intentional? Did I want to go thru the time and expense of looking for replacement vehicles...NO! The last last accident put me in the hospital with two black eyes and luckily no premanent injuries. Did I want these experiences? Absolutley not. Did I get what I wished for... "cash from an unexpected source"...YES!

Learn to be specific in your desires so that the outcome is more in line with your desires and in the best interests of all concerned.

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The few who have chosen, not the chosen few, will succeed with the information from the Secret. Your choices and vision of the future today, will determine your lifestyle tomorrow. What have you been focusing on? Do you look for the positive things that have happened or do you dwell on the negatives. Whichever you think about the most, will repeat over and over.

If the vision is great enough and the determination and excitement are high enough, the law of attraction states that you will create a magnetic energy that literally draws it to you! Have you ever used subliminal CDs? They work extremely well if you need a helping hand to change your attitude. Attitude is the one thing we can contol. Choosing to see, hear and feel the good that happens to you is a powerful catylyst for change.

For one day, attempt to only say good things. to only see the positive, to only feel love for your life, the people in your life and every situation in your life. If the situation is not one you want to repeat, then find one thing you can learn from it. I have always felt no matter how bad something is, if you can learn one thing from it, it was a worthwhile experience. Choose the high road for just one day and see what happens. If you like the results, then try it for two. Who knows, it may become a habit!

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As readers or advisors we are here to assist you in growing through or past the challenges you are having. Are you open to the answers we receive... or are you too invested in the status quo?

The one thing we can count on in life is change... and when we embrace change as an opportunity for growth, life shifts and things usually improve.

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Weekends are always my time to clean up around the house. We do that regularly but how often do we clean the clutter from our minds. Abraham-Hicks talks about the power of our feelings and our thoughts. They say, "Nothing is more important than that we feel GOOD!" However when something goes wrong in our lives, the first thing we do is beat ourselves up. "If only I hadn't...",  Why didn't I...", "How could I be so stupid...". These statement clutter our thought processes and make us feel inadequate when, "Nothing is more important than that we feel GOOD!"

When something goes wrong, that is the time to be kind to ourselves, love ourselves a little bit more and maybe pamper ourselves a little bit more. Now, if you continue to make the same mistakes over and over then maybe some lessons have been missed and it's time to do some soul searching. Until then, be kind to yourself and realize that if you learned one thing from the experience, it was worth it. 

The power of belief creates our results because we act based on our beliefs and then our actions create our reality. Any belief we have whether it is true or not can change the way we respond to events in our lives. Therefore we have ultimate control over our lives if we choose to shape our beliefs to serve us rather than vice versa.

Belief precedes knowledge. We see our world through a filter, shaping the facts to fit our pre-existing beliefs. Did your mother ever say, "Don't go out with wet hair, you'll catch a cold." For most of us, when new facts come to light that support our belief system, we assimilate them. When new facts call our beliefs into question, we ignore them. My health improved dramatically when I decided, "I don't do sick!"

Beliefs are powerful in that they shape the kind of society we create. People that believe others are aggressive and violent treat their neighbours with suspicion and distrust. Is it any wonder arguments break out. Communities built on this premise develop into aggressive and war faring societies.

Belief in money as a source of happiness creates a materialistic and competitive world. Belief in the importance of control and domination creates a society of castes. A strong belief transferred to others becomes powerful and that can be good or bad. A benevolent system or a totalitarian system is based on simple belief. Not giving ourselves credit for our own intelligence, often we seek advice from others believing they have the answers. When we convince ourselves that someone else is stronger, smarter or more capable we choose our own enslavement.

Have you ever challenged your own beliefs? Parents, friends, mentors, teachers and the the media contribute to our belief systems. At one workshop I was at the facilitator said "Take what you like and throw the rest away," leaving us to choose what would work best for us. How often to we accept blindly what is presented to us.

Rather than accepting everything at face value, we should choose to look deeper and find the underlying meaning and value the idea offers us. This is our responsibility if we truly want to change the world. What if we have control of our beliefs? We could shape a radically different world. Choosing positive beliefs instead of embracing cults of death and sacrifice would be life affirming! Choosing beliefs of the value of dignity and self-esteem and passing them on the next generation would make our world a beautiful, peaceful place to live!

Beliefs like habits require effort to change but it can be done. When significant events in our lives or in our friends and family's lives, touch our hearts and minds they are a catalyst for change. Rarely do intellectual arguments change one's beliefs or habits.

Be careful what you believe or wish for because in all cases they shape your reality.

The law of allowing enables us to powerfully and passionately permit our focus with the law of attraction to become a reality. We were born into an environment where we all have choices. This is the beauty in our world which gives each us the opportunity to find our passion, our calling.  You are here to work on yourself. You are perfect in every way and can be happy with what you have created. If there are things you would prefer were different then you can be thrilled to know that you can create that reality as well. It is a process of continual growth.

The Law of Allowing Others

Diversity creates a marvelous opportunity for growth. You are not here to change others. Accept that you can allow others to be as they are, to believe as they do. The only person you can effectively change is yourself. In changing the way you relate to others you in effect change the way they relate to you because you have upset the balance in the way you interacted with them before. In accepting others as they are, you allow them to grow and to learn for themselves. The law of allowing loves diversity!

The Law of Allowing Yourself

Many successful businesses that are passed to the next generation slowly decline. The passion that built the company is not there unless those next in line are passionate about the work. If they are not, the successors take for granted what was given to them and the profits drop. So it is with our growth. Passion is the juice that makes it fun.

The law of allowing requires that you feel good. I was working as designer for a ladies wear company and I had a dream one night. The office I was in was identically to the one I went to every day with a couple of exceptions. Everything and everyone in the room was in black and white and there was a door in the corner that opened up to a glorious sight. Through the door I could see green fields, a beautiful flowing brook, deer, birds and butterflies all in living color. When I woke up the next morning I realized that the job and the people I worked with were sucking the life out of me. There was a lot of backbiting and negativity in the workplace. It took me two minutes to decide to give my notice and look for other employment. My mood improved and I got excited about the opportunities that lay around the corner for me. Success is not measured in money if you lose yourself along the way.

The Law of Allowing Abundance

The Law of Attraction says that you attract those things and events in your life correspond to your beliefs of worthiness and deserving.

The Law of Deliberate Intent tells us that we are creating at all time whether or not we believe it this to be true and that we can deliberately choose what will enter our lives.

Once you understand these two laws you will want to work on law of allowing to let the abundance in. The trick here is to generate a feeling of well being or success that vibrates through out your body. Think about the feeling you get when you first fall in love, it courses through your body and the results are unmistakable. You glow with anticipation and excitement! By remembering a time when you felt incredible, you can recreate that feeling while anticipating the fun, joy, excitement of recognition you will achieve when you have reached your goal. The law of allowing makes your emotions work for you in a very beneficial way.

Imagine designing a life using the law of attraction and the law of allowing instead of taking what comes your way. What if, by simply changing the way your feel, you could create a miracle in your finances, your personal life, your career? Would you be willing to take the time necessary to still your mind and really focus on what makes you happy and build that vibration so that you can feel it coming to you? I know it works.

Someone once told me, "Don't try to get the big goal with the law of attraction, right away. Play with some little ones. It will build your confidence when you see this truly works!" I sat there in Starbucks mulling this over and though that most of the people coming in seemed very low key, no smiles. So I started to get the vibration, the buzz going and focused on the fact that the next person walking through the door would look at me and smile. A man walked in, looked straight at me, smiled and said, "Good morning." What a rush! Ok, but that could be coincidence. I agree, it could be.

Then I decided that I would buy a scratch and win lotto ticket and that I would win a small amount.. two dollars would be fine! First I had to get the buzz going. It's a good thing you can do this quietly and no one can tell what you are doing or the other patrons in Starbucks would have thought I was off my rocker. Over to the corner store, I walked, vibrating all the way. If this works it could be powerful don't you agree? I entered the store and looked at the tickets, picked one and laughed at myself for being so gullible.

I started to scratch it and what do you know... I won two dollars. Now you are probably thinking, "What's two dollars?"  The amount is not what is important, the fact it worked is!

On my walk home I focused on feeling good, on letting the law of allowing work for me. "I want a customer to place an order", I thought. I could see the order and the money and that vibrations was strong. On opening my email, it was there, the order form a client who I hadn't heard from for awhile. These three small incidents with the law of allowing, right in a row, indicate to me that we have far more power than we give ourselves credit for. We just need to tap into the universe, give ourselves permission to feel good on a daily basis and enjoy the success it brings. I know the law of allowing works. Are you willing to give it a try?

You think you have come to terms with the break up but every time you think about him, you want to cry. This is probably the most difficult time of your life. Break-ups are never easy and how you deal with the charged emotions sets the tone for future relationships. Will you tell yourself, "I will never love someone that much again!" or will you say (a much harder thing to do), "We were good together for a time but I will get over this and I will find someone who loves me the way I want to be loved!"

In a lot of cases, couples break-up and then get back together and repeat the same scenario over and over again until the pain is so great that one or the other cannot bear it any more. Would it not make more sense to look at your relationships and see where there are repeating patterns? Unless you can identify the trouble spots and find a way to correct them or learn from them, you most certainly will create the same circumstances with your next partner. Are you attracted to the same type of person every time? Does your behavior change after the newness wears off? Are either of you addicted to drama, drugs or alcohol? Do you try to change your partner or his or her behavior? Is dishonesty evident in either of you? Are you overly critical of each other? Potential partners will tell you everything you need to know about them up front. It is your job to listen and learn from their words and actions.

I have always believed that relationships are for a season, a reason or a lifetime. If you are just not good together, learn from it, keep the lesson and throw the pain away. If we do that, our next relationship should be easier and more satisfying. Ultimately what we want is a life partner who loves us for who we are not who we should be. You deserve a partner who loves YOU the way you want to be loved (and vice versa)!

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In relationships, at the beginning, we are on our best behaviour, presenting ourselves in the best possible light to the person we are going out with. After we have been together for awhile and as we get more comfortable, we tend to shed some of our inhibitions. If we are tired we may not be as considerate as we were in the earlier stages of our romance. Looking our best may become less important to us, because he or she “loves me” the way I am. How often have you started paying attention to the differences rather than the similarities? Have you pointed out the faults of your partner? This is when many people start trying to change their partner. 

A common refrain is, “If you loved me, you would…” It has nothing to do with love and is all about perception. In the beginning, we don’t notice the little things that become major annoyances as time goes on. If we really paid attention, when we began going out with someone, we would find that our potential partners tell us everything we need to know right up front. The problem is we have to listen or read between the lines. I remember complimenting someone I was going out with and he said, “Someday you will find out that none of that is true!” I did not “hear” him. We got married and I only remembered that statement after the divorce proceedings began.

The pain in a relationship comes from trying to force someone to do something they don’t want to do. You are not here to change others. Accept that you can allow them to be as they are, to believe as they do. The only person you can effectively change is yourself. In changing the way you relate to others you in effect change the way they relate to you because you have upset the balance in the way you interacted with them previously. By accepting others as they are, you allow them to grow and to learn for themselves. If you can’t tolerate their behaviour, consider whether or not you really want to continue in the relationship, assuming they may never change. We all deserve to be loved the way we want to be loved. The choice is yours.

Seems everyone else has all the luck. Do you ever think that things just don't work for you? You try and force "your luck", doing all the things you know you should do but still with that gnawing feeling in your gut that it probably won't work this time either. Whether in relationships, business or your personal life, success still seems to elude you.

You are resisting the "flow" which is the only way the universe sends her goodies to you. You are paddling upstream and just can't paddle any faster. You feel you have been stuck in the same spot, forever. However, everyday is different and every day you draw to you what you are focusing on. The only way to change the results in your life is to change the focus. Paddle with the river! Go with the flow and the tasks become easy. Allowing God or the universe to assist you in your desires results in a massive shift. The most important thing is that you FEEL GOOD about whatever it is that you are doing. If a relationship doesn't feel good, it probably isn't good! Pay attention to your gut feelings, the area around your solar plexus. You will have a better idea if you are allowing the "flow" in you life or if you are resisting something.

The law of attraction says that when you think about something with great joy and attention for at least 68 seconds, you will create a magnetic attraction or energy that draws the experience into your life. This is a great gift to attract desirable circumstances into our lives however if you are depressed and sad and focus on that, you will attract more of the same. Develop skills to deal with challenges. All too often, we forget what we have to be thankful for. We focus on what we don't have. Everything is based on based on our perspective and our confidence to change our strategies for growth. See challenges as an opportunity to grow stronger, to learn more, to be a good friend or mentor to others. to others! All exponential growth in technology, our personal lives and business comes when people have to work harder, together to make it through a challenging situation.

Poor People
One day the father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family.
On the return from their trip, the father asked his son, "How was the trip?"
"It was great, Dad."
"Did you see how poor people live?" the father asked.
"Oh yeah," said the son.
"So, tell me," asked the father, "what did you learn from the trip?"

The son answered, "I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us, they have friends to protect them."

The boy's father was speechless.
Then his son added, "I always thought we were the wealthy ones!"

Learn how to meditate as it is a powerful tool for relaxation and stress relief! Keep in touch with friends, choose activities that bring you joy. Learn how to forgive and forget. Old friends pass away, new friends appear. It is just like the days. An old day passes, a new day arrives. The important thing is to make it meaningful: a meaningful friend - or a meaningful day. ~
Dalai Lama

With less stress in your life it makes it much easier to master your emotions.

Then with joy and abundance in your thoughts, the magnetic law of attraction will bring you success beyond your wildest dreams.

I know so many people who live in quiet desperation. The sense of community that existed years ago seems to have vanished. We have more and more people living in large homes and everyone sits at the computer or watches TV, in different rooms. Isolation creeps into our lives and we hardly notice it. The joy we once felt as a child seems nonexistent.

Imagine you can sense that joy bubbling up again. Put a smile on your face and think about a time you experienced unbridled bliss. What were you doing that day? Relive that moment, feel the excitement, see the scenes in your mind, smell the aromas in the air. Can you feel a change in your physiology?

Experience the law of attraction ... be aware of your thoughts! If you think fat, you cannot attract thin. If you feel poor, you cannot attract prosperity. You will notice that poor people hang out with poor people and wealthy people associate with the wealthy. You are what you think about all day long. What you think about is what you draw into your life. You are a magnet that grows stronger with the intensity of your thoughts. The longer that you think about something, the greater the probability of manifesting it in your life. Think about positive outcomes and enjoy visualizing the excitement when your outcomes turn up in your reality. It's the key to success. Every moment of the day you are creating your future. Make it a fabulous one full of success and prosperity in whatever your heart desires!

Last night I was out at a pub with some friends. At another table, there was a couple who were alone and although they were maybe having an ok time, it looked like more people to talk to would have been nice for them. Being who I am , a little shy and understanding what that feels like, I invited them to over to our table. 

It was nice to meet them however what was really nice was seeing both of them really getting into meeting new people and having a good time! How often do we notice things and not act on our intuition? Who is losing out when we don't make that first move? Both parties lose out. We lose new friends, more fun and a possible relationship that could evolve into something more!

I challenge you to step out of your comfort zone today and to make a difference not only in your life but the lives of others!

1) Meditation ...take the time to still your mind for short periods during the day. Transcendental meditation recommends spending 20 minutes in the morning and twenty minutes mid-afternoon to meditate. The more regularly that you practice, the greater the results you will see. Not only will your stress level be reduced, your blood pressure lowered, but your intuition in business will develop over time.

2) Keep a journal of insights that you have. Date the entries so you can look back and see if you were correct before the fact. I used to think I did not have an intuitive bone in my body until I started tracking my hunches. Written in black and white, it will be hard to deny the truth once you have enough instances logged. Anyone who has had "hindsight", has intuition that they have been ignoring.

3) Pay attention to your body. Be aware of the way it feels on a good day. Notice where you hold tension and when. If you are attuned to the "feel" of your body day to day you will be more aware when intuition hits you in the "gut". The solar plexus is generally where most people sense the physical forms of intuition. Because intuition in business or elsewhere is often very subtle, you must learn live in the present and in your body. It can be an exquisite tool for providing insights that will benefit you in all areas of your life.

4) Ask for feedback. If you sense something, ask a question that will allow you to determine if you have correctly intuited the situation. If it is a sensitive situation you may have to be careful in the way you word it however the feedback you receive is invaluable for your confidence in trusting your intution.

5) Listen to the still small voice within. The majority of people often have so much going on that taking the time to really listen gets lost in the clutter of day to day life. If the communication is too soft ask that the volume be increased. I have no idea how it works, I just know it does.

6) Get in the habit of playing small intuitive games with yourself to help build your skill level. Practice visualizing what your co-worker will be wearing when you get to the office. This is easily verifiable and will build your confidence. Intuit who is on the other end of the phone when it rings. Intuition in business is like any muscle, it can be exercised to strengthen it.

7) Most of all... have fun with it. Intuition is one of those things that will not not work if you try too hard. Be playful and relax and you will see results!

Caroline Myss - "Clear intuition requires the ability to respect your own impressions"

When you create positive habits that will change your life you will be inspired by the results! It takes 21 days to change a habit however you must believe that the results will be worth the effort to make the change. How much do you really want it and why do you want it. The power of self mastery is evident in self help guru, Tony Robbins. He says, unless the pleasure of achieving it exceeds the pain of not doing it, chances are it will be like the results of most New Year's resolutions. You must have leverage so that the short terms sacrifices are worth the gain.

The next step is belief. Everything created in this world started with an idea. An idea that blossomed in someone's imagination long before it became a reality. The ability to dream and see the future before it happens are the reasons we have such amazing technology today. To believe it is possible and work until it is completed, is the step most people leave out. The "knowing" that it is a done deal and that it is a reality, in one's mind, is essential to the final completion of the goal. The power of self mastery, mastering your emotions, your time, your money, is that you will truly direct the course of your life.

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All my life, things have had a way of manifesting for me. I want a job, and opportunity appears. I hear people say, "That might work for you but not me!" My response is... "Have you ever tried it?" I encourage you to find what gives you passion and make that your line of work. We spend 8 hours a day, minimum at our workplaces. I suspect that most of you are like me and want those hours to be productive and enjoyable. For me no pay check is worth the agony of 8 hours of suffering because you hate your job!

I was working for a company and loved my job for the first 6 months until I "became a part of the family". Once that happened the boss was no longer interested in my opinion. I was given responsibility but no authority. Being the loyal employee that I was, I stayed with the company and watched as 5 people hired for the same position, over a period of 8 months, left one after the other in succession. At a farewell lunch with a co-worker who was leaving because she was frustrated with the same things I was, she told me the new guy they had hired to do the same job as me was making considerably more money than me. At that moment I decided I wanted a job where I was appreciated and had responsibility and authority. A name popped into my head... the father of one of my daughter's friends. I called right then and asked to stop by after work. That evening, although they had not advertised  and were not looking for an new employee, I was given a new position at their company.

WHY? I believed I would find a position with a better company, I expected it to happen quickly, and I took ACTION. What are you willing to do with your Power of Intention?