Lost in love

THIS BLOG IS FOR THE BEAUTIFUL LITTLE ANGEL CAYLEE!!!!

To The family of Caylee My heart goes out to you all. I pray that Caylee's Murder  dosen't go unpunished. Precious Angel you are so beautiful and innocent May GOD watch over you ALWAYS and may your family be blessed. You are a beautiful angel and deserve nothing but the best. Now you are in good faithful hands, the hands of god. This is a tragedy that must not go  unheard. GOD BLESS YOU!  You will stay in my prayers ALWAYS.                                    

I am truly and utterly AMAZED at how  this tiny little boy who joined my life in sept. has stolen my heart in 3 short months. My son is so beautiful and gives me so much joy. I LIVE FOR EVERY SMILE HE GIVES!!

I must tell you up front this is VERY real and VERY sad!! I couldn't picture this happening to my precious little boy and AM so sad that this family had it happen to them. Child ABUSE is no Joke.

That being said  here is Kalebs story. in 2007 At 5 months old  poor baby Kaleb was Shaken by his baby sitter. Somone the family trusted with his precious little life. What type of Sick person and i use the term person loosely could hurt an innocent baby. What could he have ever done to Deserve the abuse she put on his little body. It is so sad that this happens so often children are shaken , beat , molested and torn down Daily and to often people let it go. This AMAZING little angel and his family should not have suffered this. NO ONE should EVER suffer this.

If you are anrgy and can't handle it anymore walk away ask for help NEVER EVER EVER shake a baby  the following are links to video's and pictures of Kaleb and his Family Please  send this  around this needs to be talked about.

http://vids.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=vids.individual&videoID=2034427268

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7xlJxRQgV7g

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To all My friends and treasured clients I want everyone to know I will be online 24 hours a day up untill I have my son Who is due Sept the 20th. After that I will be taking a week or so off to recoup. I will be posting a new schedule and make time daily to be online as I am able.

I am sure you all understand it will be tough to keep a schedule  having a new born so please do bare with me. Thank you once again for being such great clients and friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

It's a fact both men and women are guilty of these actions..

Sad really but true.  The real question is, is it CHEATING?  The answer is no, not really but it is the beginings of trouble... Listen up I am going to give you a good piece of advice here!!!! If you happen to notice this going on DEAL WITH IT QUICKLY!!  It could become cheating.

Classic example  I have a friend who's just engaged and all is happy, they rarely bicker and have great sex and a ton of fun together. But one day not being nosey mind you, she used his phone.  While she was on it a text msg. came through.. "Is that all you wan't from me is pictures?" number unlisted just a number. Automaticly her guard went up.  Maybe just maybe it was a wrong number. So she looked at his in and out box and sure enough, he had be texting this girl. FIRST MISTAKE....

She confronted him this put him on guard automaticly he turned it around and said it's lies. Second MISTAKE 

When she pointed out that she called the girl and talked to her he still denied it.  She called the girl and put her on speaker phone.  This didn't help, he just sat silent and listened.  When she hung up, he said it was "all lies".  And oh "i love you its NOTHING"  LAUGHING MY ASS OFF HERE!!

 Do not get me wrong yes he does love her, VERY MUCH in  fact, and no he's not cheating he has no time to do so.  The girl even said they don't see each other, but it is wrong PERIOD!

After the confrontation this stopped for a while until she had  a feeling to look again.  Sure enough there was another girl he was texting. This time she took my advice.  Instead of confronting him she called this girl directly and told her that he's getting married and has a baby on the way, she needed to back off.  This was no problem for the other girl.  My friend kept quiet about it acting the same as usual. After a few weeks he had no weird texts and he no longer kept his phone on silent.  He never said anything to her about this  except that " I don't want to lose you over anyone or anything"

If this is happening to you and he/she truely loves you they will not act out.  He/she will FIX IT !  This is the best way to handle it.  No need to scream and fight UNLESS it dosen't stop after you handle it the way I suggested.  If it doesn't stop... it's time to move on an leave them to their own devices what ever they may be.

I'm available to take your calls daily and look forward to hearing from and helping you with any challenges you might have.

ABUSE...

I often hear that term used, it is truely sad that this is what Both women and men have grown use to. Be it verbal mental or physical.   Abuse is ABUSE and it is wrong... Often People in this situation see it and know that they don't like it .  It hurts, and IT'S WRONG. But become dependent and use to dealing because the person, (and i use the term person loosely), commiting the abuse often plays on the vitims weaknesses.  Weaseling their way in and making them feel like it is them ALL THEM , nothing could be further from the truth...

NO ONE deserves to live in fear or pain, Man Woman or  Child. 

Abusers are masters of disquise, able to fool family and friends into thinking that it is not possible. This is where the big problems begin I was reading Dear Abby and saw this question.

"My husband " Rick ," sometimes hits me and calls me names. It hurts me because he's My life , and I love him to death. When I try to tell friends about it, they don't believe me because Rick is a firefighter. They all say, "I don't think he's like that,"and when I tell them HE IS like that, they get mad at me. Rick and I haven't been married long. I love him with all my heart and don't want to leave him. PLEASE HELP ME> I am all alone in this, and I need some help. - Wounded in west Virginia"

A perfect example of  a MASTER OF DISQUISE , and their ability to both fool and manipulate family, and friends "he's not like that"  WHAT A JOKE.  If more people would take people reaching out more seriously we would have less  Abuse caused deaths and suicides.

Her first Mistake is  Making Him " HER LIFE"  No I'm not saying  don't love your other half completely  but when you make someone your life, it give's them the power to take that away.

Second mistake is telling an abuser that you love them "to death" THEY TAKE IT SERIOUSLY!!! 

Like in the movie "Madeas Family" reunion an exellent example of Abuse at it's Worst. A high Powered Man Beats his Fiance and no one know's  She tell's her mother and her mother Basicly tell's her to live with it.. Her sister finds out tells Madea and Madea tell's her to "Make him some Grits"I don't think I need to explain this But if your lost she throws the boiling grits on the Jerk and leaves.

No not the greatest way to do things but effective.

Abuse is SERIOUS and need's to be taken that way .. With that being said  Open your eyes If you or someone you know needs help DO IT  you could save a life or two  National domestic violence hotline 1-800-799-7233 Listen to those who may be trying to reach out wether you WANT to beleive it or not