Q. What book do you like the most?
A. Woman: "My husbands checkbook."
"A smile is a curve that sets everything straight." Anonymous
A significant day for Numerologists. In celebration , how about we do an exercise -
10 things in 10 days
List and do 10 things that you may have wanted to do for yourself or others over the course of next 10 days that bring you joy and makes you HAPPY !
Share with me and others if you'd like !
This October 2010 has 5 Fridays, 5 Saturdays and 5 Sundays, all in one month. It happens once in 823 years.
When you talk of Psychics and Psychic readings, one usually hears about many different experiences – some have enjoyed thoroughly and have had some rather enlightening experiences and then there are those that will disagree and say, not such positive experiences.
If you call upon a psychic, there are ways to enhance your experience and get the most from your session. Readings can be a powerful tool that one can use to gain knowledge, insight, and perspective on whatever life throws your way.
So how does one get maximum mileage out of their experience –
1.The first and foremost is locating a genuine psychic – When you step out to choose a psychic, there are plenty to choose from. Some are genuine with good intentions towards their work and clients, others commonly known as quacks or charlatans with no real skill. So locating a good one is the first step towards having a wonderful experience
2.A connection – In Life, we meet so many people, do we connect with all in the same way? Perhaps not. It’s the same way between you and the reader; you will not connect with every psychic in the same exact way. Now, that doesn’t make a psychic bad automatically either. Once you find one that you connect with, stick to them
3.Your state of mind – this is very crucial in determining what kind of an experience you would have. When you are calm and relaxed, even if you are calling about a stressful situation, chances are you would get all of your questions answered, you would enjoy your experience. If you go for a reading with emotions all over the place – mad, irritated, hurt etc., your capacity to listen is blocked partially by those emotions. So in that state of mind, one tends to hear what you want to and not really what you need to
4.Writing your questions down – Even though you obviously have an idea of why you are calling a psychic, but planning your question before hand helps. Although most times it’s bound to happen that you go in wanting to ask 2 questions but as you started talking so many more came up based on the information shared. It’s easy to get side-tracked. So write down your most important questions and have them answered first.
5.Look at going to a psychic not just as a question/answer session but as a whole spiritual experience – Readers can introduce to a whole new experience and world if you allow them to. You can learn so much, deeper things about life and metaphysical world, spiritual concepts, simple thing like – what is spirituality to begin with etc. It can turn into an educational/informational experience as well.
6.Paying attention to the Information – When you pay attention to ‘all’ of what comes through, you would be surprised that sometimes you will be presented with information that becomes a catalyst for you to take steps that will put you on the right life path. I have seen new career successful launches happen, best book being written, fulfilling relationships found once the person opened and listened to what was coming through.
I hope these steps will help you in enjoying your next session !
A woman is like a tea bag - you can't tell how strong she is until you put her in hot water.
Eleanor Roosevelt
The truth will set you free. But first, it will piss you off. — Gloria Steinem
"People who soar, are those who refuse to sit back and wish things would change."
Charles R. Swindoll
Author and Pastor
I was a reading a quote one day : “You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present.” I thought to myself – WOW! How true is it that so many of us choose to stay stuck in our past, whether it is holding onto memories of people or events. The thought that followed was - why exactly is it so difficult to let the past go?
Letting go of people and romantic relationships is a hard thing to do for anybody. I don’t know of one person who doesn’t take time in releasing and letting go, regardless of how the ending happens – mutually, one-sided or forced when the partner suddenly passes away. Sure the time taken to heal and the manner in which people decide to heal may vary from person to person but there is a commonality through it all for anyone who has suffered through an emotional situation and that is – Loss.
That loss is also the very reason why we tend to hold on to things. So what is the loss about? It comprises of -
1) Loss of a person, yep even if there were differences – You had a history whether you were together for 6 months or 6 years or 60; and that time together had some good moments , had love, care and affection or else there would never have been a connection in the first place. The bond is even tighter if there have been significant events attached like children or marriage or struggles through difficult times together. When the ending happens, it is a loss of a friend, a companion, sometimes one’s only outlet, a support system. And that makes things difficult to handle.
2) Loss of an idea – When you entered that relationship, you had plans, ideas and expectations of what you would like the future to look like. You had hopes, of things lasting for a lifetime. If you were single, you had dreams of finding the one and perhaps even settling down, if you were married, you had plans of spending the rest of your lives together. And with the ending of the relationship, that dream of everlasting happiness is crushed; your hopes dashed.
Losing something you cherish is difficult as it is and when you lose something unexpectedly, it becomes even more difficult because of what is known as unfinished business. What that basically means is that you still have questions but don’t have your partner to answer them for you. You have things to say but who do you say it too.
Feelings, especially negative ones also hinder and delay our process of healing. If there are feelings of anger and resentment, they can also cause us to hold on to things longer. Sometimes even accepting that truly the relationship is over takes time to happen. As many times as I have coached people, even when in reality the relationship is over, it is not necessarily over the in the mind.
The question to ask yourself is really – are you ready to move on? Are you ready to face the reality of things? Or would you rather just hold onto the memories. And it’s okay if you are not ready to let go.
One thing though that I do urge you to bear in mind as you’re going through your healing process is to be aware when that appropriate time has come to let go. Ask yourself – Why am I really holding on to things? You’d be surprised sometimes at what the answer is. Don’t let your ego come in the way. That’s right, besides the feelings, sometimes we can even hold onto things because, our pride got hurt, our ego – how can so and so leave me – those sort of thoughts can delay the process.
It’s easy to fall and stay in that place of complacency where even though enough time has passed and logically you have accepted the end, yet you are holding off from enjoying your present because of your past.
Past Memories are just memories, hold on to them if they are worth preserving but also clear out the space to create new ones.
Life will become easier and more enjoyable that way!
Do you believe when I say that often there are reasons why some people are not with you in the present ?
Before I state what those reasons are, I want to hear from you - what are your thoughts ? Why do you think, some people are in your life today and have been for many years, whilst other have come and gone ?
Having spent the past 20 + years in this field, associated with it in some capacity or the other, I really believe that readings can be used to our advantage. They can lead us to deeper revelations, sometimes as quick as in 1 session. Other times it might take a bit longer, depending upon where we are on our respective path, what and how much we're ready to really hear and absorb.
We all call readers looking for answers to our questions, some mundane, some not so much. Each question we ask is our prime concern and is pressing at that time. And as much as we say, we're calling to hear the truth and are open minded, many a times we really aren't. And that is when we get limited benefit from our reading.
Which do you like - the limited or the all encompassing one ?
I believe the key to receiving readings is TRULY to come with an open mind. Even when desire and emotions such as - love, hurt , ego, pride are getting in the way and forcing you to hear only what you want to hear.
Readings can force us to grow up, to face and accept reality (good or bad), act as an additional information tool that can aid in decision making, providing answers/clues to unresolved situations, help us with closures and really moving forward in life. In a nutshell, provide us with information that sometimes isn't as obvious. But it's insight we need to know/hear at that moment in time.
So allow your heart and mind to stay open , just so you can connect and hear what your own soul and spirit is telling you. Allow it to be your AHA Moment !