How to Catch a Cheating Spouse

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ow can I find out if my husband or wife, boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on me?

It can be very difficult to catch a cheating spouse.

Tips, resources and advice to help you discover the truth can be found at the bottom of this page (take me there now).

But, if you want to catching a cheating partner; it often helps to understand the nature of the problem at hand.

Why is it so difficult to catch a cheating husband or wife?

Catching a cheating partner is difficult because cheaters have an unfair advantage when it comes to infidelity. In fact, most infidelity goes undetected, or unproven, because the rules of the game tend to favor those who cheat.

How does this work?

Exploiting Trust

Most people have a strong desire to believe what a partner has to say. Trusting a partner creates a sense of security and comfort. No one really wants to think that a spouse may be lying, especially when it comes to infidelity (see, love is blind).

Rather than assume the worst, it's often easier to believe a "pleasant lie" than to acknowledge an "devastating truth."

In fact, some people work very hard to overlook a spouse's infidelity, because to acknowledge the alternative is much too painful. This helps explain why the spouse is typically the last to know: Because knowing always causes a faithful spouse the most pain.

And cheating spouses take advantage of this. Cheaters often exploit their partner's desire to trust by telling their partners exactly what they want to hear ("I would never cheat on you.").

Signs of a Cheating Partner

Cheating spouses not only exploit their partner’s desire to trust, but there are few hard and fast signs of infidelity.

Cues of infidelity vary widely, from situation to situation, and from relationship to relationship; making it impossible to provide a list of behaviors that is useful with a high degree of accuracy. Though in hindsight, the warnings signs are ALWAYS obvious.

In fact, there are so many "telltale" lists of infidelity cues that it is hard to know what to believe (see, signs of cheating).

Given all the different lists that exist, it helps to keep the following in mind:

Providing a list of the signs of cheating is often counterproductive. First, any given behavior is open to multiple interpretations. Does a spouse's sudden interest in losing weight signal infidelity? Or could it be due to some other reason?

The explanation for any behavior is never as clear-cut as we would like to believe.

Furthermore, looking for signs of infidelity tends to fuels one’s suspicion. For instance, does your spouse clear his or her call log after each call? Dwelling on such matters tends to make people more anxious and suspicious. And the way people generally handle their suspicion ends up helping a cheating spouse.

Suspicion Tends to Help Cheaters

 Suspicion is a very strong emotion and it's difficult to hide. Suspicious individuals tend to signal their doubts by making accusations, acting insecure and anxious, being overly inquisitive, and so on.

And a cheating spouse’s worst fear is getting caught. So, cheating spouses constantly monitor their partners for signs of suspicion. And if a cheating spouse detects suspicion, he/she will adjust his/her behavior to better hide and conceal the affair.

Simply speaking, suspicion tends to help cheaters cheat more effectively. If your spouse is cheating, and you signal your doubts and suspicions, it's going to be much more difficult to discover the truth (see, common mistakes).

When you put it all together, cheaters have the advantage: Both, trust and suspicion, tend to work in their favor.

So, how can you catch a cheating spouse?

If you suspect infidelity, do not confront your spouse until you have proof.

And while it is helpful to talk to partners about most relationship problems, this is NOT the case when it comes to infidelity. A cheating spouse will almost never admit to infidelity, unless presented with evidence to the contrary.

Even when presented with evidence, some spouses continue to lie (see, husband won't confess).

Along the same line, while there are many tactics that you can use to get a partner to be more truthful, these tactics fail to work when it comes to infidelity.

Despite these problems, there are several practical methods for catching a cheating spouse.

All of these methods rely on some form of surveillance and careful observation. And while these methods can raise some ethical issues (see, is it ethical to spy on a spouse), they also tend to be very effective.

These methods allow you to establish proof of an affair. No matter what your situation might be, there is most likely a way to discover the truth.

Tips for Discovering the Truth

Despite popular belief, most lying and cheating does not get discovered because a suspicious spouse is good at reading his or her partner’s behavior.

Typically, romantic partners get caught in one of two ways:

Accidental Discovery:

Monitoring a Spouse:

Tips for Catching Lying and Cheating:

• Keep a journal of your spouse’s reported activities. Write down the times, dates, places, other people involved, excuses given, etc. Your journal will become invaluable as you compare what’s said with phone bills, credit card statements, atm withdrawals, talk to other people, etc. A cheating spouse is likely to change his or her story, or question your memory, so keeping a record of everything is critical.

• Keep track of all incoming phone calls. Record the time and number of all calls.

• Plan a surprise visit to work, or come home at unexpected times, or make announcements about having to work late, but then come home early, etc.

• Keep track of your spouse’s mileage, receipts, credit card statements, atm withdrawals, phone records, etc.

• If you can, check your spouse’s call log. Look for an unusual amount of phone calls. Keep in mind that cheating spouses often store their lover’s phone number under someone else’s name: a friend, a co-worker, etc.

• You can also purchase surveillance equipment (hidden cameras and voice activated recorders) or download computer monitoring software (keylogger) which will make it easier for you to monitor your spouse's activities. Using such equipment can, however, can raise some legal issues (see, surveillance issues).
  

• Never confront your spouse until you're certain that you have enough evidence to make your case. And never reveal all of your evidence at once. Most cheating spouses will try to concoct a story to fit the evidence presented (for example, see husband won't confess). But, if you withhold some evidence, and let your spouse create a story, it gives you the opportunity to use the remaining evidence as leverage. And by strategically withholding evidence, your spouse will start to question exactly how much you know, increasing the odds that he or she will tell you the truth.

Overall, if you find anything suspicious, do not confront your spouse until you're certain that you have enough evidence to get a confession.

And again, think for a minute about how your spouse might try to dismiss your accusations (e.g., we were just joking around, I was just flirting, it was a misunderstanding, we are just friends, nothing happened, etc.). If you can anticipate how your spouse is likely to respond, you can try to gather the evidence you need to counter what he or she says.

Finally, listed below are several more techniques, products, and services designed to help you catch a lying and cheating spouse.

Resources and Information for Catching a Lying, Cheating Husband or Wife:

• Computer Monitoring Software - allows you to see everything your spouse does online. Establish a record of all online activities.
  

• GPS Tracking Devices - purchase a global positioning satellite device which can track a vehicle's exact location 24 hours a day.
  

• Home Surveillance Equipment - hidden cameras and voice activated recording devices can be purchased in every shape and size imaginable.

• Comprehensive Background Checks - do you think your boyfriend or girlfriend is lying to you about the past? A background check can veal a lot about a person's past.
  

• Private Investigators - hiring a licensed investigator is the quickest and most effective way to discover the truth.

In most cases, the options listed above are very effective when trying to discover the truth about a cheating spouse. If, however, none of those options work for you, several more options are provided below. Hopefully, you can find a technique that will work in your specific situation.

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By Kathryn Lord

If you want a dating life that's free from disaster

, you need to invest in a little insurance. As hurricane victims know, it does no good to buy insurance after the storm has wreaked its damage. Here's how to get your own dating insurance package together:

1. Be ready

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Some folks approach life as if they were jumping into a cold swimming pool: They squeeze their eyes shut, hold their nose and jump. Who knows if they know how to swim?

It's far better to go into dating with your eyes open and your senses sharp. Take some time and review your current situation. What needs attention? Your physical self? Your surroundings? Your fears? Taking care of yourself first will help ensure your future success in love.

2. Get a life

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Nothing is more unattractive than someone with nothing to offer. While having space in your life for a partner is important, too much space will seem overwhelming to another. It's not up to a future partner to give you the life you haven't made for yourself.

Get out and get active! One of the best strategies for getting invitations is to give them. Try entertaining. If the thought of throwing a party scares you more than dating, you can invite people to all kinds of events as your guest. (But you might as well get your domicile ready for visitors. Where do you expect to entertain a sweetie?)

3. Enhance your good luck

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Many singles are so discouraged about the process of finding love that they can't help but feel unlucky. And most folks feel that there is little they can do to influence Lady Luck.

But research has found that is not so. What you think and do has enormous effects on bringing you good -- or bad -- luck. Taking steps to increase your luck will help you find the best of the best. Listen to your lucky hunches. Maximize chance opportunities by varying your routine. Above all, expect good fortune in your life. What have you got to lose? More bad luck? For more suggestions, check out my Top 10 Ways to Get Lucky at Love.

4. Be prepared to tell the hard stuff

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Often singles are so worried about how to tell bad news to a new partner that it gets in the way of doing any dating at all. We all have pasts, and none of us gets much beyond the age of 21 without accumulating a bit of baggage that we are not so proud of.

Part of getting ready to date is dealing with your truth and coming to terms with your life so far -- and what you have learned in the process. Tell the hard stuff now, before you are put on spot.

5. Toughen up

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Do you want to avoid rejection entirely? Well, you'd better stay off dating sites, because rejection is the name of the game. Because you are jumping into a very large pool of potential candidates, you will be saying "no" to many perfectly nice people, and they will be saying (or acting) "no" to you. Saying and getting "no's" is part of getting to that big "YES!" If the no's are too much for you, you are in big trouble right now.

If you are still not sure of your ability to adequately insure yourself from dating failure, visit my Find a Sweetheart Store. You'll find at least one remedy there for every one of the issues I've written about here. Why not take advantage of my experience? I want you to get what you say you want: love!

Body Language Basics

From a flip of the hair to hands on your hips, how you move, gesture, and make expressions can say as much as what comes out of your mouth.

By

Heather Hatfield
WebMD Feature

Reviewed by

Louise Chang, MD

Angel Rose, 34, an assistant vice president at a bank in upstate New York, was interviewing candidates for a teller position, which required that a person have good people and communication skills, a professional presentation, and a strong focus on customer service, among other abilities.

One candidate in particular stood out, but not in a good way. While she could have been very intelligent, her nonverbal communication and body language were way off. Her handshake was more of a finger shake, her eye contact was nonexistent, and her slouched posture exuded insecurity. For Rose, what the candidate said didn't matter because her body language spoke volumes: she wasn't a good fit for the position.

"Most communication experts now believe that almost 90% of what we say comes from nonverbal cues, which includes our body language," says Patti Wood, author of Success Signals: A Guide to Reading Body Language.

Body language, she explains, is everything from our facial expressions, to eye contact, to our gestures, stance, and posture. While the nuances of body language are complicated, there are some common body language signs worth a thousand words.

Body Language ABCs

Flipping your hair, shaking hands, making eye contact, and smiling are more than just movements -- they're a part of your nonverbal communication, adding emphasis and emotion.

"Body language represents a separate communication process beyond words," says Ross Buck, PhD, a professor of communication sciences and psychology at the University of Connecticut. "It exists simultaneously with language, but it is emotional and largely happening at the subconscious level."

What are some of the basic body language cues that we display and what kind of effect can they have on the impression we make on other people?

Here's a beginner's guide to understanding what our bodies are saying:

Handshakes.

A handshake can say so much more than hello, nice to meet you. "The most important part of a handshake is palm-to-palm contact," says Wood. "It's even more significant than the grip."

The palm-to-palm contact expresses an intention of honesty and openness, and that your interaction will be sincere and nonthreatening.

The "limp fish" handshake, Wood explains, seems so uncomfortable because it usually means that the palms don't touch, as Rose experienced in her interview.

Here are other handshake types:

Bone crusher: A person may be insecure and trying to overcompensate with an over-the-top hello.

Palm-down handshake: A person may be trying to express his dominance.

A left-handed wrap of the handshake from the top: A person may be trying to express his dominance.

A left-handed wrap of the handshake from underneath: A person may be trying to support and comfort you.

Synchrony.

Synchrony happens when two people who are interacting mirror body language cues, explains Buck. What can it mean?

"Synchrony is a signal that both people are on the same page," says Buck. "When you see someone copying your body language, or you notice that you are copying his, it's a clue that you are probably sharing a similar mind-set at the time."

Posture

. "Posture can be sign of dominance or submissiveness," says Buck.

Shoulders back with an erect posture can be a sign of dominance, he explains, while being slumped can mean insecurity, guilt, or a feeling of shame.

Eye contact

. "While the rules of eye-contact engagement vary from culture to culture, in the U.S., it can mean honesty and forthrightness," says Buck.

The eyes are a powerful part of our body language cues and can express everything from sexual interest, to annoyance, to happiness and pain, he explains.

Playing with your hair

. When a woman cups her hand, palm out, and tucks her hair behind her ear, it can be an expression of flirting, and can mean openness and interest, explains Wood. But be careful: It can also mean her hair is in her eyes.

Using Body Language to Your Advantage

"If you want to better manage your own body language, you need to think about every aspect of your day and how you behave," says Wood.

While you might think you are friendly person, if you go straight to your office and avoid eye contact with anyone, it can send the wrong signals to your co-workers, she explains.

Go through your morning routine -- what you do at lunch, how you spend your afternoon and evening -- and ask yourself questions like: Do I smile? Do I make appropriate eye contact with people? Once you better recognize your body language, you can start to manage it in a more meaningful way.

On the flip side, how can you use the body language of others to your advantage? Most important is to trust your gut.

"Body language says so much, that you can use it to gauge the sincerity of what a person is saying," says Wood.

If a person is telling you something, and he's covering his mouth, he might be lying, she explains. If a person's hands rub from his forehead down across his face, he could be wiping away an emotion, like

stress or anxiety. Either way, if what a person is saying contradicts his body language, your intuition might be picking up on something that is not quite right.

Still, whether you are trying to manage your body language better, or understand that of others, remember the value of words.

"If you become too attentive to body language, instead of what you are saying or someone is saying to you, you miss out on the larger process of communication," says Buck.

Body Language Put to the Test

A basic understanding of body language, combined with verbal communication, can come in handy in almost every situation in your daily life. Here are some common scenarios in which body language can have a big impact, plus tips for putting your best foot forward while you watch what others around you are saying with their silent signs.

Body Language Put to the Test continued...

First dates.

First dates are laden with body language signs that can help you gauge whether or not a person is interested.

"Men tend to talk a lot on first dates when they're interested in a woman," says Wood. "If you're interested back, make eye contact and listen."

If either person isn't interested, and looks around the room and avoids eye contact, that's a sign that a second date isn't likely.

Other first-date tips?

"When men touch a woman on the small of her back to walk her through a door, that's a sign of confidence and interest," says Wood.

For women, it's the length of their touch that measures their interest. While short, less-than-a-second touches are appropriate, touches that are too long could convey an intimate meaning.

Job interviews

. First and foremost, don't sit down while you wait for your interviewer to come and greet you; it puts you in an awkward position where you have to stand and gather yourself and your belongings in an odd sort of shuffle.

"Instead, stand and wait, or sit on the arm of a chair," says Wood. "And when your interviewer arrives, make eye contact, raise your eyebrows slightly in acknowledgement, smile, and then shake hands."

During the interview, she suggests you make eye contact when listening to show your interest, but don't stare. Sit up in your chair instead of slouching, and when you're done, leave strong by giving a good, palm-to-palm handshake.

Dinner with the in-laws.

"One of the most important body language signs you should convey during your first encounter with your partner's parents is eye contact with your partner," says Wood.

Your partner's parents want to know that you are interested in and care for their child. The best way you can tell them that you are "the one" is to look at your partner with love and affection.

DATING TIPS

8 First Date Tips for Women

First dates are all about getting to the second date. Here's how to make him fall all over himself for a second date with you

By Lauren Frances
Updated: Jan 17, 2008

 

As a love coach

, I've heard the following question more times than I can remember:

"What happened? I'm so confused. At first, he seemed to really like me. He made reservations, picked me up, and took me to a fabulous restaurant. But for some reason, over the course of dinner, he became a little cold and distant. By the time he dropped me off, he seemed withdrawn and just sped off into the night. I haven't heard from him since! And I really liked him. I'm so bummed! What do you think happened?"

Does this sound familiar to you? If so, you may have broken some cardinal first-date rules without knowing it. Here are eight tips to ensure that a first date will turn into a second if you'd really like it to:

Tip 1.

Don't be negative about dating. Why should a man pursue someone who isn't happy? It's ineffective manhandling to dump your dating disappointments on bachelor No. 3.

Talking to a man about how awful dating is just begs the question, "Are you in therapy?"

Talking to a man about how awful dating is just begs the question, "Are you in therapy?"

Manhandling Tip:

Be a romantic challenge, not a mental health challenge.

Tip 2.

Don't get tipsy. Always maintain enough sobriety to assess your date's character. Practice restraint, and don't have more than a drink or two when you're out on a first date. Otherwise, how in the world can you possibly observe him and decide if he's remotely right for you?

Manhandling Tip:

Always stay sober enough to remember how naughty you were the night before!

Tip 3.

Don't talk badly about your exes. I don't care if he cheated on you with your sister, don't recite a laundry list of grievances about your exes. This will only make you sound unavailable at best, or worse, wounded.

Reveal your secrets when you're both on a beach in Hawaii or, better yet, engaged!

Reveal your secrets when you're both on a beach in Hawaii or, better yet, engaged!

Manhandling Tip:

We all have baggage. Keep it in the closet on first dates.

Tip 4.

Don't spook your suitor. Now is not the time to point out your physical flaws. Only bring these complaints to people who can actually do something about them, and not to men who will now be forced to lie to you if they possess good manners.

Manhandling Tip:

Confidence is sexy! Sometimes, thoughts are for the inside.

Tip 5.

Don't talk about your personal pet peeves. Although your therapist might get butterflies inside when you talk about how traumatized you are by the staggering number of germs that thrive in public restrooms, the typical male will be horrified. You'll have violated the sacred air space of "romantic quality time" and these little monologues of strange pain will be as off-putting as if you started sorting unwashed laundry in a restaurant.

Manhandling Tip:

You already know all about you. Keep your problems to yourself and get to know him.

Tip 6.

Don't chase your date. Never deprive a man of the thrill of the chase. Besides, it's so much fun being caught! A woman can always initiate a first tea date, but after that, it's up to a man to decide whether he wants to pursue you. Entice men, play with them, and then release them! Allow men to initiate and take the lead in moving your relationship forward.

Manhandling Tip:

When men chase you, they're much less likely to fly away.

Tip 7.

Don't keep squawking. Don't feel pressured to try to fill up every second with meaningless chatter. If the conversation falls silent for a moment, don't panic, just let it happen. Natural pauses are sexy, and body language can be so much more powerful than words. Slowly smile at him and breathe. You may be surprised when he blurts out in the middle of a deliciously pregnant pause, "Come here and kiss me!"

Manhandling Tip:

Remember, sometimes less conversation really is more.

Tip 8.

Learn how to leave.

Anyone can be pleasant when they're enjoying themselves, but the true test of character is how one behaves when terribly bored

Anyone can be pleasant when they're enjoying themselves, but the true test of character is how one behaves when terribly bored, or worse, treated shabbily. There's nothing to be gained by suffering through a terrible date, so if you're having an awful time, depart quickly and gracefully, without being rude. When you're itching to leave, say: "Thank you so much for meeting me. I think it's time for me to go on home, Jerome. (Smile) Take care." Extend your hand for a quick shake, swiftly turn on your heel and depart.

Romantic Rule:

If you're on date number one and aren't having fun, release men back into the wild immediately.

Five Breakup Signs

How to tell when you're about to get the boot

By Elina Furman

One day, you are madly in love

. You're cuddling on the couch, reading love poems and feeding each other sushi. And that's when it happens: Your partner sits you down for the "It's-Not-You, It's-Me" talk. You're confused and left wondering, "How could I have missed the signs?"

Breaking up is never easy. Your ego and heart are bound to get bruised. But if you could just see the breakup coming, it might make the whole business easier to stomach.

While hindsight is 20/20, there are always warning signals

While hindsight is 20/20, there are always warning signals along the way.Top five signs you're about to get dumped.

1. Picking fights

. No one is saying you have to get along 24/7. Constructive conflict can actually be good for your relationship. But if you find that your partner has become argumentative over petty issues like your clothes or choice of restaurant, that should serve as a warning sign that he/she may be looking for an excuse to bail.

2. Forgetting to call

. Used to be that your phone would ring all day long with your sweetie wanting to make plans or calling just to say, "I love you." Now your significant other doesn't even call when he/she is running three hours late. It may seem obvious, but going from speed dial to a blocked number is a sure sign that your relationship may be nearing its expiration date.

3. Changing their stripes

. A major change in appearance can be a sign that your partner is looking toward greener pastures. Whether they've chopped off their hair, lost 40 pounds or gone from a bold brunette to a sultry blonde, major cosmetic changes should be noted. Of course, there's nothing wrong with being a little vain, but if the change is accompanied by any of the other signs listed here, you may need to get ready to go solo.

4. Criticizing

. If your sweetie isn't feeling you anymore, don't be surprised if he/she becomes less tolerant of everything, from how you brush your teeth to how you tie your shoes. Constant criticism is a telltale sign that your days as a twosome are numbered.

5. Losing sexual interest

. A healthy sex life can make or break a relationship. If you find that your partner is becoming more sexually aloof, you need to get to the root of the issue. While it's natural to have less sex as you settle into a comfortable groove together, waiting weeks or months to have sexual contact is a sign that something is amiss.

Now that you know the warning signs, don't panic. Just because your partner exhibits some of these behaviors, that doesn't necessarily mean the relationship is over. In fact, it's usually a combination of signs and not one isolated incident that foreshadows a breakup.

If you're worried that your partner is itching to get out, the most important thing you can do is sit down and discuss your issues in an honest and open manner. If you take these signs as your cue to improve communication, your relationship may just have a fighting chance.

I wanted to share this info with the holidays here and Winter, people are getting more depressed~ I have worked with several people with depression and this works!

WebMD Feature from "Psychology Today" Magazine

What's the best way to deal with depression and anxiety? Quickly and definitively. Whatever kicks them off, depression and anxiety both are maintained by styles of thinking that magnify the initial insult and alter the workings of the brain in such a way that the longer an episode exists, the less it takes to set off future episodes.

Anxiety and depression are probably two faces of the same coin. Surveys have long shown that 60 to 70 percent of people with major depression also have an anxiety disorder, while half of those suffering anxiety also have symptoms of clinical depression.

The stress response system is overactive in both disorders. Excess activity of the stress response system sends emotional centers of the brain into overdrive so that negative events make a disproportionate impact and hijack rational response systems. You literally can't think straight. You ruminate over and over about the difficulties and disappointments you encounter until that's all you can focus on.

Researchers believe that some people react with anxiety to stressful life events, seeing danger lurking ahead everywhere—in applying for a job, asking for a favor, asking for a date. And some go beyond anxiety to become depressed, a kind of shutdown in response to anticipated danger.

People who have either condition typically overestimate the risk in a situation and underestimate their own resources for coping. Sufferers avoid what they fear instead of developing the skills to handle the kinds of situations that make them uncomfortable. Often enough, a lack of social skills is at the root. Some types of anxiety—obsessive-compulsive disorder, panic disorder, and social phobia—are particularly associated with depression.

The fact that anxiety usually precedes the development of depression presents a huge opportunity for the prevention of depression. Young people especially are not likely to outgrow anxiety on their own; they need to be taught specific mental skills.

Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) gets at response patterns central to both conditions. And the drugs most commonly used against depression have also been proved effective against an array of anxiety disorders.

Although medication and CBT are equally effective in reducing anxiety/depression, CBT is better at preventing return of the disorder. Patients like it better, too, because it allows them to feel responsible for their own success. What's more, the active coping that CBT encourages creates new brain circuits that circumvent the dysfunctional response pathways.

Cognitive-behavioral therapy teaches people to monitor the environment for the troubling emotional landmines that seem to set them off. That actually changes metabolic activity in the cortex, the thinking brain, to modulate mood states. It works from the top down. Drugs, by contrast, work from the bottom up, modulating neurotransmitters in the brainstem, which drive basic emotional behaviors.

Treatment with CBT averages 12 to 15 weeks, and patients can expect to see significant improvement by six weeks. Drug therapy is typically recommended for months, if not years.

Exercise is an important adjunct to any therapy. Exercise directly alters levels of neurohormones involved in circuits of emotion. It calms the hyperactivity of the nervous system and improves function of the brain's emotion-sensing network. It also improves the ability of the body to tolerate stress. What's more, it changes people's perception of themselves, providing a sense of personal mastery and positive self-regard. It also reduces negative thinking.

However, just telling a distressed person to exercise is futile, as depression destroys initiative. The best thing a loved one can do is to  simply announce: "Let's go for a walk." Then accompany the person out the door.

It's been awhile since I posted last. Boy what a summer this has been! Geeeeeeeez. Lots and lots of work finished. Yeah !  I have some interesting tips that I will be posting here on losing weight, latest beauty information, anything that women will find interesting, funny or informative~ so I will post them as I come across them.

This is for single women needing dating guidlines;

Your "Secret Weapon" For Success With Men The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men Without EVER Realizing It...by Christian Carter Through my research and personal experience, I've found that these 3 mistakes are responsible for more failed dates and relationships with men than any other factors. Here they are: » Mistake #1: Leading A Man To Think You Are "Needy" And "Insecure" Did you know that there are 6 ways you can set off a man's "Insecurity Alert" and make him think twice about pursuing a relationship with you? Sadly, even confident women often "accidentally" give off one of these signs... and just one can kill the chance of a man asking you on a second date. As you read through these signals men pick up on as "needy" and unattractive, ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these deadly mistakes: Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends. Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you.

Speaking negatively about other women

. When women call other women names like "slut", "bitch", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you. Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her. This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good.

Too much physical contact, especially in public

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If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him.

The next 3 are far deadlier, but less obvious... and it's important that you learn what they are and how to avoid giving them off.

But before I show you how to do that, let's talk about mistake #2:

» Mistake #2: Appealing To His "Sexual" Side Instead Of His Emotional Side

Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well.

Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want. In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man's mind... and keep them connected.

Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF. In a moment, I'll show you how you can learn to do just that...

» Mistake #3: Not Knowing How To Size Up A Man's "Relationship Potential"

A lot of women will decide whether or not they should put energy into building a relationship with a man based on ATTRACTION.

Yes, attraction is important. But it can also be DANGEROUS.

When we feel a strong sense of attraction for someone, it can cause us to override our logic and ignore our instincts... leading us to overlook potential partner's deadly faults that could spell trouble down the road.

If you've ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that is dragging you down, this is probably why.

It's important to be able to size a guy up and spot any "warning signs" of a future bad relationship FAST... so you don't waste any of your time or emotional energy on someone who isn't right for you... or who will leave you heartbroken. Fortunately this is a fairly easy thing to do, and I'd like to show you how...

Your "Secret Weapon" For
Success With Men

My book is called "Catch Him & Keep Him".

By Christian Carter

I believe that if you learn how to understand "male psychology" and you learn how to handle a few key specific situations, that you can CATCH the man of your dreams, and then KEEP him for the long-term.

In my new book, I'm going to take you by the hand, and show you step-by-step how to catch that great guy, and then how to KEEP him around for the long-term...

I've decided to publish my book only online in "electronic" format, so you can download it right now , and be reading it within just a few minutes...

I'm not an accomplished author, so this book will have some flaws. If you read for literary quality, it might not be for you.

But if you're looking for the real... the genuine... no B.S. ways to make a man crazy for you, get what you want out of your relationships - and at the same time - avoid any of traps and mistakes that could cost you a lifetime of lost loves, this could be the most important book you'll ever read.

The Secrets Men WISH You Knew-
But Don't Know How To Tell You...

Have you ever read a romance novel about a strong-willed woman who met a tough, "dangerous" alpha-male man... and over the course of the story, she "tamed" him and won him over... and made him fall completely and helplessly in love with her... to the point where he wanted to be with her FOREVER?

We've all heard this one before... but does it ever happen in real life?

The answer is YES.

Great guys get snagged all the time. Secretly ALL MEN want to find a woman that gives them that "forever" feeling... and when they do, they want to keep her all for themselves.

So how does this happen? How does a woman give a man that feeling that lets him know that she's "the one"?

Well... as you can imagine... most guys don't really think about this stuff.

And even if they did... just as you don't want to have to tell a man how to turn you on, a man doesn't want to tell you how to make him fall in love with you.

Like you, he just wants it to HAPPEN.

So even though your man will never tell you or even hint at how you can completely capture his heart, you can bet he is secretly hoping you will do all the right things.

And that's where I come in.

When I set out to write this book, I made it my mission to find what REALLY works when it comes to attracting and keeping great men... and discover exactly how a woman could make love happen in a completely natural way.

I interviewed hundreds of men and women... and I discovered some VERY interesting things...

I started off by talking with women I knew who had "landed" great guys... desirable, successful men that any woman would consider a "catch".

It goes without saying that many other women had tried (unsuccessfully) to tie these guys down.

Not surprisingly, I started to notice some common things...

I noticed that there was one distinct thing these women did at the very beginning to make a man see them as his "future" rather then just a "casual partner".

Each one of them also had a unique, yet simple and accurate way of instantly "sizing a guy up"... so they NEVER wasted time on a guy who wasn't up to their standards (Several of these methods actually got the guy to spill his own "dirty secrets" without knowing it!).

They also had a way of handling conflicts, important situations, and "the talk" that was VERY DIFFERENT from what most men are used to seeing (This method instantly puts a man at ease by creating a "you and I against the world" bond that he treasures deeply).

Why Guys Fall For Some Women
And Not Others...

This book wouldn't be complete without the inside "dirt" from us MEN.

I made it my mission to track down dozens and dozens of the "cream of the crop"... and I got them to reveal "hows" and "whys" they themselves had never considered...

Not surprisingly, every guy I talked to had ways of "screening" women FAST... over the years they had learned to recognize certain signs that told them if a woman was insecure, a "drama queen", had "baggage", was needy or attention-starved, and even ways to instantly tell whether or not a woman knew what she was doing "between the sheets" before they ever got near the bedroom.

They also explained what women had done to secure spots in their hearts as the "one and only" (These were guys with plenty of options... but these women did 3 special things that made them completely forget about any and all other women).

And most importantly... I got them to reveal the things these special women had done to make those feelings last and last and last... perhaps the biggest challenge us men face in finding a woman to gave our hearts to.

I've been very fortunate in life in that I've never had a hard time meeting women or getting dates... but finding a woman who can keep my interest and attention has always been a different story...

Come to think of it, I can count the few who "tamed me" on one hand... with a finger or two to spare. (Every guy I interviewed actually said the same.)

So of course when I put this book together I looked back at the special women who made me feel those incredible feelings... and figured out exactly what they did differently then the other women whom I've met and dated.

I lay it all out for you here... and I hold nothing back.

The bottom line is this:

Some women know secrets that other women do not.

Some seem to know them "instinctively", while others figure them out over time.

I've compiled these secrets in my new eBook, and I'm really looking forward to sharing them with you.

This is the only book of it's kind... and you won't find these secrets anywhere else.

This is THE BOOK I wish a woman that I was interested in would have... and read often.

Inside are the secrets every man WISHES a woman would know... and they will bring strength, affection, attention, and love to all who learn them.

Here Are Some Of The Secrets You'll Learn Inside My Informative eBook

The inside scoop on what's REALLY going on inside a man's mind, including the things he doesn't want you to know (He'll think you're a psychic when you do exactly the right thing in every situation)

The big mistake women make when having "the talk" and asking a man about the relationship that is guaranteed to make things WORSE than they already are... and what to do about it.

A simple way to get your man to understand your feelings that makes him want to do whatever it takes to take things to the next level (You'll wish you knew about this with every man you were involved with in the past and you'll want to use it with every man you meet from now on)

A simple 3-step method to understanding how your man is feeling that makes him feel closer and closer to you with each step of the process, AND gives you the information you need to keep things moving forward

The BIG SECRET all happy couples share that unhappy couples never realize until it's already too late (You can use this at any stage in a relationship or even when you're just dating to keep things going on the right track)

How women who are "naturally" good with men handle important situations and conflicts (The answer may surprise you, but it's something you MUST know in order for YOUR relationship to ever have a chance of moving from casual to committed)

How to use powerful emotional "triggers" to practically FORCE a man to fall for you (He'll know you're "the one" for him from the first day you meet) - pg. 20

A way to let a man know that you are "selective" and make him want to do twice as much for you to get your attention (This is the REAL secret to making a man LONG to be with you... and it doesn't involve any weird "manipulation" or bitchy "tricks") - pg. 20

How to make a man see you as his future rather than just as a "casual" partner (Use this early on and he'll want to see YOU and only you ... keep it up and he'll love you forever ) - pg. 22

A way to spot a man who is too immature to have a loving relationship, FAST... so you can be sure to NEVER give up your time or your heart to someone who isn't "available" or capable - pg. 25

How your emotions can deceive you into thinking a man is right for you when your mind (and all of your friends) KNOW he's wrong (Use this simple test to know the TRUTH every time) - later chapter?

EXPOSED: How "players" use cheap and dirty tactics to get women to fall for them, only to leave them helpless and alone (Here's the secret to "turning the tables" that every guy PRAYS you'll never discover) - pgs. 26-30

The 3 different types of "players", and how to identify each one FAST - pg. 28

A simple 3-minute exercise you can use to charge yourself with HAPPINESS and EXCITEMENT any time you like! (Use this when you're feeling down or just having a rough day to quickly snap back to the "you" everyone knows and loves) - pg. 70

The 3 things every woman MUST do before she can have a healthy, loving relationship with a man (Skip any one of these and you run the risk of ending up alone) - pg. 64

The ways "quality" men screen potential mates (Here's how to make sure you end up on his "hot list" every time) - pg. 44

2 connection-killing mistakes that flip a man's negative emotional triggers and send hopes of a future spiraling down - pg. 48

"Relationship Balance" - How to connect his emotions with yours and send chemistry levels into overdrive (You won't be able to keep your hands off of each other) - pg. 53

A brand new 5-minute exercise you can use to clear your mind and uncap your powerful hidden communication skills (Use this to instinctively know the very best way to talk about a problem in your relationship) - pg. 54

The REAL reason why men want sexual variety (And what you can do to make him want YOU and ONLY YOU)

How to tell if a guy is interested in "casual" or "committed"... and the signs that say you should go for more - pg. 58

How to break the seemingly never-ending cycle of "fast-fizzling" relationships, FAST and FOREVER - pg. 67

When Hot Relationships Turn Cold - Here's a proven formula to put the sizzling sparks back into your relationship and keep the fire burning FOREVER (This is the secret every guy prays his woman knows, but few ever actually discover)

The Secret Of "Intellectual Attraction" - A powerful way to keep a man interested and crazy for you for as long as you choose - pg. 105

The Power Of "Emotional Fitness" - How to strengthen your emotions and self-confidence so you are ready (and irresistible ) when your soul mate comes around - pg. 61

A simple way to make a man realize when he's being an idiot or a jerk without saying a word (He'll be quick to make it up to you when you do this) - pg. 69

A way to handle an embarrassing situation that actually makes your date BETTER than it was before it happened! - pg. 69

How to create an emotional connection a man can't ignore the very first time you're out together (This one simple secret will keep him coming back for more) - pg. 69

Special Sneak Peek...

A Way To Get A Man's Attention FAST

If you REALLY want to impress a man who is flirting with you... instead of basking in his flirtatious attention, ask him - in an equally flirtatious way - this simple question:

"So tell me... what kind of woman do you respect?"

Adding a flirtatious element to a serious question is fun and inviting way of building SEXUAL TENSION that will instantly separate you from every other woman he's ever met. It lets him know that you're sassy, smart, and selective - an IRRESISTABLE combination.

The key to making a man forget any bad experiences he has had with women in the past that could stop him from having a relationship with YOU - pg. 73

The 11 traits that tell him you're a "catch" (Show him 5 or 6 of these and he'll start thinking about the future... show him all 11 and he'll be convinced you are "the one") - pg. 73

How to act around a man you like if you want him to ask you out - pg. 73

What to say when a man tells you he's having a "guys night" (Trust me. this is a situation you can't afford to mess up) - pg. 73

The way a man instantly knows how a woman feels about herself (Use this to let him know you are a strong, confident woman) - pg. 74

The 5 things women ACCIDENTALLY do to eliminate their chances of a second date with a man (Any one of these could cause him to throw away your number, even if it seemed like things went well ) - pg. 74

A "danger sign" that lets a man know INSTANTLY when a woman is "needy" (If you don't know what it is, chances are you are giving off this sign now, even if you don't consider yourself a "needy" person) - pg. 74

A way to make any time you spend with a man the best he's ever had (Do this to make him quickly forget about any other women he is dating) - pg. 87

How to make a guy feel like YOU are the one person who understands him better than anyone else in the world. even if you've just met (A sure way to trigger his "Keeper Alert" FAST) - pg. 88

The one thing you MUST know before you approach a man you are interested in (This piece of information will make or break it for you... so pay close attention) - pg. 97

What to do when he doesn't call you back (This one will surprise you, but it works like magic ) - pg. 80

A quick way to let him know he's on your mind that says all the right things and gets him thinking about YOU - pg. 108

Activities you can do with a man that create an instant bond - pg. 108

How to impress a guy with your talents WITHOUT coming off as conceited or a "show off" (You'd be amazed if you know how many women make this deadly mistake) - pg. 109

A way to compliment a man that shows just the right amount of interest - and actually makes him chase you MORE! - pg. 109

A sneaky way to make him go out of his way to impress you and try to win you over (ALL men secretly love when you do this- but they'll never admit it) - pg. 109

How to let a guy know you are an AMAZING lover before you even set foot in the bedroom (If you're ever wanted to drive a man into an uncontrollable frenzy of passion . THIS IS IT) - pg. 110

An almost UNFAIR way to get a guy thinking about YOU 24/7 (My guy friends are going to KILL ME for giving this secret away... Use it sparingly - because doing it too much can literally make a guy crazy and clingy with you) - pg. 110

The secrets women who are "naturally" good with men use to whip "unavailable" men into shape (It always surprised me that more women don't use this, because it's surprisingly simple) - pg. 111

The 3 subjects you should AVOID LIKE THE PLAGUE when you are talking to a man you like - pg. 112

The 3 deadly "enemies of attraction" that scare a man off FAST and FOREVER... no matter how much he was into you to begin with - pg. 112

Why physically attractive women have a HARDER time finding a great man... and what to do about it - pg. 102

The big mistake women make that instantly triggers a man's "Stay Single" response (If you don't know what it is, chances are you are making it now) - pg. 93

There's one thing that hurts most women more than any other issue - and you can avoid it - cheating! Learn and follow the seven steps to "cheat-proof" your relationship.

The one question you must NEVER ask within the first 5 minutes of meeting an attractive man - pg. 114

A "trick question" to ask a man that lets him know right away that he's talking to a unique and exciting woman (This is a truly awesome secret you'll use with every attractive man you meet. I can't wait to share it with you!) - pg. 115

What you MUST do differently when dealing with REALLY ATTRACTIVE men - pg. 118

The secret ways men TEST women. and an effortless way to pass these tests every time- even when you don't know you are being tested - pg. 118

How to use your magical flirting skills to make a man actually ENJOY having "serious" conversations with you (Do this and you'll be able to make him feel closer to you than you will ever know) - pg. 121

How to make a man more attracted to you by being SELFISH (I know this sounds crazy, but done right it works like magic and men love it. Here's how.) - pg. 107

The right and wrong way to make physical contact with a man when you're in public (Do this wrong and you'll come off as needy... but do it right and he'll do WHATEVER IT TAKES to get you alone) - pg. 124

What you should NEVER say about another woman, unless you want a man to think you are insecure - pg. 124

The big mistake women make without even knowing it that tells a man you have BAGGAGE - pg. 125

The 6 signs of NEEDINESS and INSECURITY desirable men use to disqualify potential dates (Sadly almost all women give off one or more of these signs ACCIDENTALLY, so it's important you learn what they are so you can avoid them) - pgs. 125

A simple 4-step plan you can use to GUARANTEE you will meet a man who is exactly what you are looking for - pg. 128

A surefire way to improve your dating skills FAST that is a ton of fun and requires ZERO effort (You'll be kicking yourself for not doing this sooner!) - pg. 130

An 8-step way to figure out what kind of man is PERFECT for you (When you know who you are looking for you'll be TWICE as likely to FIND HIM) - pg. 132

"Guy Talk" Deciphered - Here's how to know what he really means - EVERY TIME. Especially in those frustrating times when he hardly says anyting - pg. 136

The exact amount of time you should wait to have sex with a man if you want it to turn into something more (Men will HATE ME for revealing this, but it's just too important ) - pg. 137

The one rule you must set with a man IN THE VERY BEGINNING if you want to ever have a serious relationship with him - pg. 140

The real truth about how men think about women and dating (some of this you won't want to believe, because it's so far from what women think is going on) and the exact things a woman needs to do if she wants it to turn her situation into something that could last

I've read all the books, heard the speakers and seminars and listened and learned about everything out there for women. It wasn't until I started discussing with women this ONE THING that everything fell together. On page 19 I'll share the most powerful thing a woman can do to be more successful at attracting and keeping men, and why almost no women do it

Were you in a relationship that has ended or is in shambles and you want to repair things? Most women do the exact opposite of what works in this situation. Here's the ONLY SURE WAY to get things back on track...

The single most important thing a single woman can learn - how to identify a good man. And avoid all the wrong ones!

Why your man won't open up to you (Here's a magical way to communicate that makes him want to pour his heart out)

How to pinpoint a man's reasons for not committing so you know exactly what to do about it

The only way to truly repair a relationship that LASTS...

And much, much, much more...

Can You REALLY Learn
This Stuff In A Book?

When I first put "Catch Him And Keep Him" out there for women to read, I was honestly nervous.

I knew the information was fantastic and I'd done my homework, but would women be able to actually use it to find and attract the man they always wanted?

The responses I've gotten have been more than worth all the time and energy spent. Here's just a few of the great results women have had after reading and using this brand new information...

"Hello Christian,

I have read the book twice now! I have a few more wrinkles from not sleeping, but I also have my peace, power and integrity back. The book is truly empowering ... I thought that at this point relationships would be easy - you just gotta love someone with the same intensity, and you'll have a beautiful relationship a nd it will be reciprocated. Well not so, since the man I am attracted to is not on the same wavelength and this is where your book is so valuable...

Carolyn T., Thousand Oaks, CA"

"Christian,

Hey, what you said in your book sounds like you're a fly on the wall when my boyfriend and I had a discussion about our relationship the other night we don't even kiss anymore, he's distant and it's just like you talked about- I really feel like he's cheating because of the reasons you talked about but I know I love him. I'm great at communicating and he's not but I know what I've got do about my situation now after reading what you said about a man's mind and how to talk to him.

KC, Broken Hearted in Ohio"

"Hi Christian,

So far the things that you have written in your ebook especially about resistant and unavailable men have helped me tremendously with understanding my boyfriends non-verbal messages instead of taking it so personally like I have done in the past with other relationships. It can destroy a woman's self esteem and confidence. Thank you so much for de-mystifying your gender's behavior. You're a peach!

J.R., Galveston, TX

P.S.

- I actually thought my relationship was over, but now I feel like there's a chance for it to work. Thank goodness because I never had more fun with anyone else!
"

"Christian,

This was like a god send for me but I still wish I that I got this book a month. Then I could have saved myself from the stuff I just went through. I was just dealing with two of the things you talked about in your book on distant men with my boyfriend of four months. We live almost 500 miles apart. I was having the hardest time figuring out what to do and we were either fighting on the phone all the time or he wasn't calling me and didn't seem into us the way he used to be.

I've tried your ideas and so far things have been a lot better w/ us... probably also cause I've calmed down a lot. Now I can let him know what I feel & think and it's so much better.

Thanks Christian! I've told all my friends that they need to read Catch Him And Keep Him NOW!

J.R., Galveston, TX "

My goal in writing this eBook was to help make life better for you - whether you just want to find a good guy, develop a wonderful relationship, or find real lasting love.

If you're looking to have a great man in your life, this book will show you how to find him... and show him that you are the woman he wants to be with FOREVER, and not just another "fling".

If you're seeing a man now and you're unsure of where it's going, this book will show you exactly how to take things in the direction YOU want to go... naturally and comfortably - the way things are meant to be.

Let's Wrap This Up

The information in this eBook will save you years of time, missed love opportunities and wasted energy. Most women go through their entire lives never learning how to get what they truly want from their relationships. But it doesn't have to be this way.

Will it work for everybody?

Of course not.

But let me ask you this: What if this knowledge helps you get just ONE more date with an interesting, attractive man? Just ONE.

Or what if it helped you turn around a difficult, painful or "failing" situation with the guy you've fallen hard for?

What would that be worth to you?

Now ask yourself: What if there's even a chance that this book can actually teach you how to meet a wonderful man and make him want to be with you forever? What if you really can learn how to attract the kind of man that you've always wanted and finally experience that loving relationship you deserve?

How much would that be worth to you? A thousand dollars? Ten thousand? More? For most people I know, it would be priceless.

Just the POSSIBILITY of having this kind of special once-in-a-lifetime relationship would be worth the investment.

I know that when that time comes for you, you'll look back on this moment and be glad you made this investment in yourself.

This much is for sure: Sometime in your life you WILL cross the path of that 100% perfect man for you. Maybe you've met him already... and he's already in your life now...

The question is, do you know exactly what to do and say to take things in the direction they are meant to go? Or are you going to let this opportunity slip by and never know what might have been?

Do want to even consider the chance that you'll be frustrated and heartbroken again and again... and never get the help and answers you need. Or do you want to get this area of your life IN CONTROL and learn what works - so you can make the most of your time, energy, and your heart?

I have one final thought to share with you.

After studying behavior for many years, I know one thing: If you don't make the decision to get this part of your life handled right now, there's a very very small chance that you're going to do anything about it in the future... and a very good chance you'll be stuck in the same "dead end" relationship cycle forever...

When you're looking for lasting change and improvement in any area of your life, one of the single most important things to do is to find, meet and learn from the people who are already experts in the area that you're looking for change or growth in.

The world of dating, relationships and love is no exception...

It's common to think that you should somehow just know everything you need to know "naturally" when it comes to men and relationships.

In fact, lots of women (and men) can't stand to admit that they don't know everything there is to know about the opposite sex and this whole area of their lives.

But it's when things stop going "according to plan" (like when a man gets distant, scared or decides he isn't ready for a commitment, or stops "feeling it" for a woman) that we all realize that we're not the experts we had hoped we were...

If you're serious about finding true love, one of the single most important things you will ever do is to surround yourself with other people who ALREADY KNOW how to get there... and have seen and dealt with all the problems you're running into.

And while you're female friends are great, I'm talking about people who have not only been through it themselves, and KNOW the exact steps to take in each CRITICAL situation... but people who have also spent years successfully teaching others how to have the kind of success and fulfillment in dating and relationships that most women are looking for.

 

To answer some questions that I have been asked about;

1]  Well, I have gotten allot of emails from readers asking about the Retreat.  Yes, we had a delay in completing the log cabin house but it is on the verge now, only another 1-2 weeks and it shall be done! Yipppeeee ~

2] Thank you for inquiring about it so often! Some of you have asked [ being established readers]  if you could come out here to Montana Retreat anyway and enjoy the advanced classes,  the answer is yes! Of course you can! Why not? We teach advanced Psychic Development classes & teach you how to Spirit Journey~ We have also a class on Shapeshifting {sending your spirit into another animal} These are incredible classes!

3]  The cabin can sleep 6. Of course some are going to fight over who gets to sleep in the loft! hehhehe, it IS fun!

4]  Depending on how long you are here~ there is another place you may want to visit~ GLACIER INTERNATIONAL PARK.  "Going to the Sun" road is an awesome trip up into the ancient glaciers and to the summit of the Continental Divide you can hike a moderate trail into some of this countrys most beautiful territory!

5]  Bring tennis shoes, shorts, comfortable clothing! Bon fires may or may not be able to happen this yr. due to Forrest Fire danger [but who knows?]. 

6]  Yes, you can sit in the river and cool off if you want to!

Hope you enjoy ShaBear Retreat!

Shatwanee & RunningBear

  Shatwanee & RunningBear  teach spiritual & psychic development. We have been teaching for over 33 yrs. Our  Retreat in Montana is located in the high Northwest corner of Montana. 33 miles from Canada border and 3 miles from the Idaho! An incredibly majestic place~

Our cabin is for our students and vacationers looking for peace on our Yaak River which sits in back of our log home. We spend allot of time down by the river gazing at the animals that pass by and the Eagles that fly above. The moose momma and [big] baby yearling that is camping in back!

We welcome you to join us on this Sacred land at our Retreat. Give me a call for ADVISE and/or information on our retreat if you would like to make arrangements for a visit. Retreat schedule is from April  until September.  We are getting very booked up for the summer so please make arrangements soon!

I will be posting pictures of the Retreat as soon as possible so check back often!

 

WAX, A GIRLS BEST FRIEND { NOT!!!!}~ was one of the funniest stories I ever heard. I laughed so hard I cried...then passed it on the every woman I knew~ If I can find it again, I will post it here~