New Moon in Scorpio

 I recieved this in my email box and loved the message it gave. I can not take credit for it but I would like to pass it on to you. 

So many times we hear those words: Destiny and Free Will.  Destiny is of course, something that is meant to be.  So how can free will be a factor that is involved?

Destiny is actually a road map created by the Universe that shows you where your life can lead if you allow things to continue in the manner in which they going.

Free Will shows that you have choices regarding that road map.  In other words, you do not have to go down a certain path if you really do not want to do so.  However, your life will eventually lead you to your Destiny, you may simply be taking the more scenic route rather than the more direct approach.

In love relationships, both individuals have Destiny and Free Will, which makes it very frustrating when you know that someone is the perfect one for you and they simply do not "get it."  This is when we need to choose to either wait until they do realize you are each other's Destiny, or perhaps go down a different path until they come to their senses.

Ultimately, Destiny will be fulfilled.  It does not have to be fulfilled in a time frame that "we" choose to have happen, though.

This is where both Patience and living Life in the moment come into play.  When you find yourself in a situation like this it is best to live in the moment and focus on you and the things you love to do, rather grow more frustrated with the situation. 

I can offer you accurate time frames as to when you and your choosen will finally become the couple that you want.  However, that time frame may not be what you anticipate.  So, with that in mind, having a plan B (Living life in the moment and focusing on yourself and those things you love to do) is always a great way to wait out any time frame that seems a little too long for you.

A Reason- A Season- A lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime,  when you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON............  it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have to come to assist you throught a difficulty, to provide with guidance and support, to aid you physcially, emotionally, or spiritually. They seem like a a godsend, and they are! They are there for a the reason you need them to be. Then without any wrong doing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.  Sometimes they die- Sometimes they walk away, Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.

What we realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.  The prayer you sent up has been answered, and now it is time to move on.

When people  come into your life for a SEASON,  it is because our turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an umbelievable amount of joy.   Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you a lifetime lessons: Things you must build upoin in order to have a solid emotional foundations. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

The New Moon in Scorpio on October 28, 2008 brings a new cycle personal transformation that can bring about positive changes in your relationships, finances and other areas of your life.

Scorpio is passion personified, both in and out of the bedroom, so this may be the time to go after what you really want. But first, because Scorpio is ruled by Pluto, the planet of purging, do some soul-searching about negative attitudes and habits you need to eliminate - and get rid of them

This negativity may pertain to the people in your life, too. Do you have friends or family members who don't respect who you are or support your dreams? You may need to say goodbye to these doomsayers, or at least limit the time you spend with them. Just remember, doing some inner and outer cleansing will create the psychic space for new opportunities to enter your life.

For more specifics, read your Sun sign and ascendant below to find out how you can take full advantage of this potentially powerful influence.

Scorpio: The New Moon in your sign heralds a new personal cycle. Whatever you're focused on, whether it's romance, work or staying healthy, you'll have an easier time manifesting it now because your powers of attraction are currently heightened. So be clear about what you want and go for it!

Sagittarius: Your unconscious is illuminated now, which means you'll have the opportunity to examine the past and resolve issues that hold you back from fulfillment. Heeding your intuition, analyzing your dreams and meditating are all tools that can help you gain the wisdom to make better choices in your life.

Capricorn: Socializing is your focus as friendships and other group activities bring joy (and perhaps romance as well!). Networking with friends and colleagues can assist you personally and professionally. Also, your humanitarian side may prompt you to get involved with community projects that help those in need.

Aquarius: The New Moon brings a new cycle of career advancement. If you can focus on your goals and know what you want, opportunities will land in your lap. Your reputation and expertise will help accelerate your career now. Just watch out for a clash of wills with someone in authority.

Pisces: Your wisdom and perceptiveness make you a magnet for romance. Look for love while on a trip, taking a class or during a spiritual activity. Your faith is especially strong now, so listen to your inner voice. It's time to expand your vision of where you need to go, personally and professionally.

Aries: Passion heats up, but you'll need to deal with any fears you have about being vulnerable. It's all about opening your heart to more intimacy. For rams, eliminating junk and dealing with debt is a necessity now. Also, look for a financial opportunity involving shared resources, such as an investment.

Taurus: Twosome trysts are in the limelight as your partnership sector gets a boost from the New Moon. Look for opportunities to work (and play!) with your significant other. Longtime relationship issues will likely arise to be resolved. Also, an opportunity for a business partnership may present itself.

Gemini: A new cycle of work opportunities is headed your way. It's time to show off your expertise and promote your projects. Opportunities may also come through volunteer work. Also, you may need to take care of health-related stuff you've been putting off, like seeing a dentist or improving your diet.

Cancer: Romance kicks into high gear, so get ready for some sexy encounters! If you're solo, be picky about who you spend time with. After all, the universe is on your side, so set your sights (realistically) high. Your creativity is also on fire, so get in touch with your inner muse and promote and share your artistry.

Leo: Entertaining at home and beautifying your abode are favored now. Getting cozy with your sweetie makes passion percolate, so use your abundant artistry to create a sexy ambiance. A clash of wills is likely, which may ignite some intriguing fireworks (and there's always the fun of making up!).

Virgo: Your naughty side takes over after the New Moon, which heightens your sensuality. It also heightens your flirting powers because it brings a new cycle of communications. So be creative with some titillating talk to accelerate passion. If you're solo, look for romance online or while traveling.

Libra: It's time to get clear about your priorities and values. The New Moon will help you discuss what's important to you with your significant other so your relationship will have a stronger foundation. Also, a new financial cycle is starting, so be open to moneymaking ideas and opportunities