To those of you have asked me why I have not been blogging for awhile...my answer is ....It is summer and you know how that goes!
For those of you who are yet still stuck in Limbo by a selfish person, or a cowardly person...who will not define your relationship by commitment or by letting you go........My prayer for you is to find the Strength and Courage to find the key to your LIMBO door (hey it might be in your purse) but when you find it ...you will take your power back....
This one is for a Couragous Lady I know ...who found her key...
Have a great weekend everyone...
All the single ladies, All the single ladies....if he liked it then he shoulda put a ring on you! You would have to live on another planet to have not heard the song! Often times we feel pressure to get married...could be we have put that on ourselves...or maybe family or frends have said Don't ya think its time you got married? Never settle into a marriage of not getting any younger attitude! Hang on to your top ten list of qualifications ...ie Love, Respect and whatever else is on your list.....Often times I am asked where will I meet him....because you do not online date via dating sites.......So I would recommend find a trendy little outdoor cafe (summer is now here) grab a book and go ...order a cup of coffee ...try to go to the cafe same time every week.....your bound to meet someone....it worked for my friend and she got the idea from her friend...who it had worked for.......(this is no urban ledgand)......Look at it this way...what do you have to loose...nothing but rather everything to gain..........ps don't forget to put on your best summer lip gloss shade.......
Happy Dating ALL YOU SINGLE LADIES!
All the single ladies, All the single ladies....if he liked it then he shoulda put a ring on you! You would have to live on another planet to have not heard the song! Often times we feel pressure to get married...could be we have put that on ourselves...or maybe family or frends have said Don't ya think its time you got married? Never settle into a marriage of not getting any younger attitude! Hang on to your top ten list of qualifications ...ie Love, Respect and whatever else is on your list.....Often times I am asked where will I meet him....because you do not online date via dating sites.......So I would recommend find a trendy little outdoor cafe (summer is now here) grab a book and go ...order a cup of coffee ...try to go to the cafe same time every week.....your bound to meet someone....it worked for my friend and she got the idea from her friend...who it had worked for.....(this is no urban legand)........Look at it this way...what do you have to loose...nothing but rather everything to gain.........ps don't forget to put on your best summer lip gloss shade......
Happy Dating ALL YOU SINGLE LADIES!
We live in a life of loss....the loss could be a partner/husband/wife or a child or family member or a friend...but it also could be a pet or home..or a love relationship. maybe a friend relationship or it could be a limb.....even a job or hair loss....but no matter the loss big or small it is our loss and any loss should be grieved....it makes no matter if someone tells you to get over it....It is your life and your loss..........So look at your loss grieve it appropriatley...and then God Willing move forward to the next stage........
God Bless and wishing everyone the best today.........
What are you expecting to get from love when you find it? Love has nothing to do with what you are expecting to get but rather to do with what you are expecting to give....which is everything!
Love is that act of giving of yourself .....with whole heart.....it is indeed a selfless act! Know that Love is repaid by love itself!
Have a Lovely day everyone.......
When does compromise become too compromising for YOU?
To Compromise in some situations is a good thing it has that feel of give and take equally....BUT ....are you starting to feel you are the one who always has to compromise and now it is turning you in to a person who no longer has a choice.......So ask youself this important and thought provoking question ...IS COMPROMISE NOW COMPROMISING YOU?
Wishing everyone a great day!
Some of us are blessed in life to be gifted with a Best Friend Soulmate...Mine is Dale ..he is a giver a kind man with heart and soul and the best ingriedient ever Compassion...he is on his way to visit his sweety in another country...with hopes of future plans with her ....She is a lucky person because if you had a friend like Dale who is Honest Compassionate, Kind and Careing ..well there is no better ....So look at your life your relationships is your partner a Dale.....YOU DESERVE NO LESS THAN A DALE!.....GOD BLESS
I HAVE FOUND THE APPEAL OF HONESTY SEDUCTIVE! If some one plays you how do you feel...Not Good...Say it is a date night and you are getting ready...a friend is over and you think you look HOT,AWESOME,GOOD TO GO....and you ask your friend they say yes..(and in fact you look awful) .ahhh but were they honest...or just trying to calm you down....now that is a good question....In life what is better honesty or an answer to calm you down or get rid of you ....or for no reason at all ...which leads me to say ....didn`t you grow up hearing honesty was the best policy.....Well I am here to tell you it is.....if your friend is dressed wrong or worse still going down the wrong path ...learn to have the courage of kindness and tell them the truth........apply this lesson to everything in life...HONESTY may hurt and not be the answer you want but it feels a heck of alot better that a LIE or TO BE LED ON.....so on that note .......Wishing everyone who reads this have a HONEST GREAT DAY.....
Ahhhh....you probably think I mean the limbo as in the dance....Nope|
Have you been left in limbo or worse still left someone else in limbo! Maybe the relationship you are in has left you hanging on to them while you keep your eyes out for someone else....OK...did you ever think that leaving them in limbo like that was hurtful and wasting their time.........Or if you are in a relationship and your partner has said they do not know if they want this with you..and will let you know later..that is limbo..and a very cruel form of it...I would run from that person as fast as I could.....or if you have asked a friend neighbor, or family member to help you out with something and they use the good old Hey I`ll get back to you ...and they leave you hanging ...well that is limbo........SO BE KIND REWIND...your behavior and ....think of how you do not like being in limbo .....and let them have an answer......Remember leaving someone in LIMBO is a selfish act!.......
Have a great day everyone.........
Even tho we live in a highly populated world...and we may be around people all day...we can still be lonely ..and then one day we go to our computer find some dating site...and BOOM we connect with someone...and the Romantic Chats begin...and those heaven sent emails from them ...filled with words and promises of your life together..and this goes on for awhile...and then awhile longer...Then come the big question why don't we meet...and that heaven sent person says timing is not right or they are busy but they tell you we will meet no worries...you know I love you....So then the emails continue and hours of on line chat with them.....then you say lets at least talk on the phone....the heaven sent person says ...well my cell is broken or some such excuse....but give me your number and I will call you.....so now you are getting those wonderful romantic calls...but you can't call them! I have heard this story before you are thinking and you realize it is your story!!!!!!!!!! Some people are just not who they say they are ...they are game player's who just want a virtual life! BUT you want a real person....so take note...No. 1 If a person can not share their real first and last name RUN No.2 If after a reasonable amount of time you can not have their phone No. RUN No.3 If they have excuse after excuse to not meet in person RUN ....Last but not least is No. 4 If you have not RUN by now well enjoy your VIRTUAL life because trust me that is all it ever will be..........
Ahhhhh but now you are sitting there saying to yourself...you just know its real with your heaven sent person...even tho No. 1 thru to No. 3 applies to you........
So all I can say to you now is GOOD LUCK WITH THAT!
Have a great day everyone!
I woke up today..and the sun is shinning..no rain...it is just lovely. I make it my priority everyday to make a difference in a least one person's life....whether it be to smile and say how are you to a grumpy overtired overworked store clerk.(It just might be the only time someone was nice to her that day)...or to ask a friend or family member if there is anything I may do for them...Why do I do this well because it makes me feel so darn Happy! So try it even if just once a week or once a month and you too will find a whole lot of happy in being kind to other's!
So to anyone who reads this I hope I make you smile when I say Have a lovely day...and GOD BLESS YOU!
I find myself still learning about respect! Right now I have a situation with a neighbor..it is a bit complicated...but they have something of mine which I tried to make a simple arrangement to get it....long story short it maybe a long time before I get it.... at first I was upset then angry now I am in pity them stage! So it leads me to ask ....How do you treat your neighbor and how do I treat my neighbor's ...I hope and feel I do the right thing towards them.but I feel I always have room for improvement......In all situations in life learn to respect your neighbor's and all other's that come into your life.....always try to do the right thing...be of help be flexible and always be kind/humane in your thoughts actions and deeds towards other's.... TO ALL MY NEIGHBOR'S AND THOSE WHO WALK THRU MY LIFE .....HAVE A LOVELY EVENING!
It is hard to imagine a weekday...without thinking what can I learn from Oprah this week! But if we paid attention and we listened...we will remember her legacy of knowledge, compassion,love and forgiveness then applv it to our daily lives! What a beautiful gift she gave us all!
God Bless you LADY "O" ! ! !
Hello everyone...WHAT IS YOUR TOP TEN FOR A RELATIONSHIP? Make your list check it twice and stick to it! Never settle for less than you deserve!... Make sure you put R E S P E C T as # 1 ....
Have a lovely day.........
Start your day today by. ..Loving yourself! Respecting yourself and your personal boundries! If you can do this for yourself...Other's will too!