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10 Ways To Choose The Right Man For You
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1. Choosing the obvious ones to avoid: addicts, child abusers, chronic gamblers, felons, “boys”, etc. If you always fall in love with the wrong type of men, you should get help. Please seek it. You need to fall in love with the right person

2. Going by sexual attraction alone. That’s a choice your reptilian brain is making which is to say not a choice at all. “Choosing” means weighing alternatives and being rational. Never in life do you want your reptilian brain in charge. It doesn’t “think.”

3. Choosing based on external qualities alone. It’s nice if he’s a hot hunk, but not if he's just another pretty face. Are you choosing a 37' powerboat instead of a man who owns one? His face will change. His toys may disappear. It's "for better or for worse," not "for as long as he can buy me Gucci handbags.” Seek TRUE love!

4. Rushing. Date him long enough to go through actual situations that test what you can't see and touch -- his values, priorities, manners, morals, and interests.

At first you’ll go to hockey games, WWF matches and beer drinking just to be with him, right? Do you really see yourself doing these things every weekend for the rest of your life?

On the same point, is he being nice to your kids just to get to you? Is he willing to go shopping with you and to the museums? Only time will tell.

5. Rushing. Give it time so he can sort out his feelings. Men tend to go from desire to action without thinking .This is why we see them make such poor choices in women, and then do the same thing again. You may be sure, but is he? Follow your heart AND your brain.

6. Rushing. You need time because even a workaholic will give you attention 24/7 at first. Only 6 months down the line will you discover that once he’s “got you,” and knows you love him, so he neglects you. Work comes first, then his golf. He’ll call you when it’s your turn.

7. Not checking out his attitude toward women.

How does he treat his mother? Your friends? His sister?

8. Trusting only your intellect. This means gathering facts, reading experts, not checking in with your intuition, and listening to advice blindly without looking into your heart as well.

Let’s say your best friend, who’s very perceptive, tells you he’s a womanizer. I’d give that some weight, but I’d check it out myself. It won't be hard. Give it time, stay awake and you’ll see.

Another example – You made the list of what you wanted. There he is in front of you, lacking 3 of the 6 items on your list, but you adore him. You really click. That’s a good time to go back and rethink your list. You’re always entitled to change your mind.

9. Trusting only your feelings. Come now, do you really think you can make a life with someone who is (admittedly) darling and sexy BUT hates your religion, has different morals and ethics than you do, has already alienated your father, wants kids while you don’t, refuses to “let” you work, and has already ordered you to get rid of your cat? This is like allowing yourself to fall in love with a married man. Just go stick an ice pick in your eyeball instead.

10. Misunderstanding the nature of feelings. Our emotions give us information. They don’t demand behavior. When I was a teenager I was dating a creep. My father told me I had to quit seeing him. “But I love him,” I said. Said he: “Love someone else.” No, you can’t manufacture feelings, but neither do they have to be acted upon. They can be taken “under advisement” and thought through.

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Dear Angels and Guides,

Take 2 pieces of colored paper.  Your favorite color is great!  I used purple.  I also used a heavier gauge paper, like a 3x5 card, only bigger.

On the first page, write out up to 3 things that you want to change about your life.  Money, Love, get healthier, whatever you'd like.  Make it as detailed as possible. 

Cut the other piece of paper into about 1 inch squares.  Then attach them all over the place.  The rear view mirror of your car, your monitor, your bathroom mirror, the TV, the front/back doors, the top of the dog crate, next to light switches, EVERYWHERE!

Re-read what you asked for on the first paper at least twice a day.  When you read it FEEL how wonderful it is to HAVE these things.  Picture yourself WITH these things and give THANKS for having them.

Throughout the day, you will see these little colored squares all around in your life.  Whenever you see one, it will remind you to FEEL how wonderful it is to HAVE these things.  Picture yourself WITH these things and give THANKS for having them. 

You don't need to figure out HOW you are going to get them, that is up to the Universe.  The Universe figures out all the hard stuff.  You just need to KNOW what you want then FEEL as if you have already received it.  Then your job is to go with the great ideas the Universe gives you to get what you want!

Just a little hint.  If you are looking for love, ask for a person who is your life mate, your eternal flame, whatever you'd like to call your perfect partner.  Don't pigeon hole youself into asking for a specific person.  There maybe someone out there far better than the one you have your eye on.  Don't forget the world is a HUGE place filled with wonderful AVAILABLE people who are looking for someone just like you too!

Your job as a person in this world, what you were put here to do is 1 thing.  BE HAPPY!!!   You are here to be happy and spread as much Joy and Happiness as you can.  I love the saying, "If someone doesn't have a smile, give them yours!"  That is how it starts!  Being joyful is contagious.  Ask yourself, what kind of person do you want to be around?  Someone who is happy or someone who complains and finds fault with everything? 

You can judge how well you are staying on the Happy Path by your feelings.  If you feel good, happy, or joyful, you are in the right place and on the correct path.  If you feel bad, sad, upset, restless, angry or any other type of negative feeling, you need to change what you want.

The first thing we need to do is focus on the positive.  Many of us have a real problem with that.  We tend to focus on our LACK.  Lack of money.  Lack of love.  Lack of the car we want.  Lack of happiness.  When we focus on lack, the Universe will send us more of what we are focusing on, or asking for.  LACK!  Let's change our focus!!

Take me for example.  I am the "late" queen.  I used to say, "I don't want to be late, I don't want to be late." The Universe heard, "I want to be late."  That is what I got.  I was late for everthing.  I learned the Universe doesn't hear the negatives in the sentence, just the WHAT.  Late.  So, now I say, "I want to be 5 minutes early!" Guess who's not late anymore?

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Thank the Universe for all the wonderful things you have in your life.  Feel the feeling of joy when you think of the things that you have and thank the Universe.  It's hard to be negative and put negative signals out into the Universe when we are thankful! 

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This is really powerful stuff.  YOU have the power to build your own road to the life you want.  YOU have to WANT to do it.