Manifesting Miracles Forum

When speaking to several men and women about the topic there have been many scenario’s as to why the phone call did not come through as expected. You went on the first date and he or she asked for your number and you wait and wait and wait and the call does not seem to come through like promised. Why ask for the number to begin with? To not be rude, is that the way a date is supposed to end, dishonest in order to not hurt feelings. Is this person waiting in order to not feel desperate? Do we over-think the phone call and wait by the phone?

Speaking to several different people there are actually many reasons the call does not come through immediately or ever. There are times when men lose the number and you would be surprised at how often this happens. There are also times when yes the person is just not that into you. I was even told there are also times when the person gets tied up in their day to day and completely loses track.

I have read many people on the topic and can see if the phone call is coming or not to bother waiting at all. The bottom line is whatever the case may be it is important not to sit by the phone waiting for the call. Literally go on with your day to day activities too. If he calls, he calls if not you know that the number was lost (which I must admit I have done myself) or there is no intention to call at all. This person may be married, involved or just completely preoccupied.

The bottom line is waiting for the call is not healthy either way. If you read my blog about energy someone will feel the fact that you are not waiting and are going about your day to day. That is when the thrill of the chase begins. There are definitely times when the call will never come through. That is another big reason to continue on with your life.

If the call never comes through the best way to look at it is this was not meant to be. Listen to the old Garth Brooks song “Thank God for unanswered prayers.” It is basically about a man who prays for his HS sweetheart and is grateful the prayer was not answered because if it was he would have never met his wife who’s love could not compare to the woman he was praying about.

Trust me when I tell you we can grieve the loss of an old love but usually you will be quite surprised at what the universe really has in store for us. I am sure you felt completely in love at one point in your life and when real true love enters you never look back.

Remember to put the focus on you and love you first even on that date that may never call. Self-love brings real true love into our lives and when that happens it is more than an attraction or a great dinner your heart will literally skip a beat. Sometimes we really need to thank God for unanswered prayers. God and the Universe know what will bring us true happiness. Be open and receptive to what is to come. It will surely be much more than expected and the wait will be over.

I have spoken too many of my clients recently regarding manifesting and getting what they want. This is a skill that can be mastered if the time and energy is put into it. You can have the things your heart desires love, money, the perfect job and so on. The sky really is the limit. There are many who have used this concept (the law of attraction) for centuries. Who are we to argue with Einstein who proved that everything on this planet is energy? A word on energy all energy vibrates at a certain frequency. Your beliefs, feelings and your thoughts determine what frequency your vibration level is. Is it negative due to negative thoughts and feelings? Or is it positive because you believe strongly in what you want and that you will get it. Remember we are what we think.

Have you ever met someone new and felt an instant connection? That is because your frequencies match. Now let’s flip the coin you met someone and this person is just rubbing you the wrong way, that is because they are on a different frequency as you. Think of it as a record album spinning and your album is spinning at the same level as the person you feel connected with. .

The first place to start is to pay close attention to your vibration and your thoughts. Of course we are going to think a negative thought that is human nature. The sooner we acknowledge this negative thought we can change it. Some tricks on changing your thought pattern is to refocus on the goal at hand realizing you will not meet that special someone or land the great job if you are sending out a negative vibe. Others pick up on it immediately and like I mentioned earlier one will feel there is just something about you that is not connecting with them no matter how attractive you are or how great your resume is. .

To change that negative vibration think of yourself as a magnet and like attracts like. If you’re in a happy upbeat mood and run into someone who is nagging about only the negative going on in their life you will no doubt feel turned off and that is your energy pulling away. On an opposite note someone upbeat and positive, smiling and pleasant to be around will attract your energy.

The place to start is gratitude. Be grateful what you have now and the universe will be pleased to give you more. If you are complaining about your living conditions or the way your car runs you will get more of those negative feelings remember like attracts like. Being happy, fun to be around is contagious. The people around you can feel your positive energy and you make them feel good just by being in your presence. Of course like I said we are human and will find ourselves in a bad mood at times. At those times it is important to be conscious of your feelings and once again see yourself as a magnet. Being sad and miserable will no doubt attract those who are sad, negative and miserable and it becomes a vicious cycle. Gratitude is the highest frequency of all. As you get in your car that you are lucky may get you around the block be grateful for it and it will no doubt respond because your car too is energy. It is impossible to bring positive people and circumstances in your life if you are feeling ungrateful for what is in your life now. If you are grateful for the car that gets you from A to B even though it is not yet your dream car you are opening up the vibrations for more positive to come into your life. By having gratitude saying thank you often you are lifting your vibration to that of happiness and love. Make it a habit of saying thank you for what is in your life now on a daily basis.

Now it is time to manifest the finer things in life. Being grateful for what we already have opens the doorway, now is the time to ask for what you want and deserve. If you feel you don’t deserve it trust me (you are a magnet) you will not get it. When it comes to love if you believe this person is too good to be true and would never possibly give you a second look they will not. Put yourself on a pedestal. Trust me if you do not no one else will. Be truly grateful for whom you are and this person of your interest will be lucky to have you. Trust me they will feel your confident attitude and not only does that make you intriguing but someone interesting and remember like attracts like. See yourself as the perfect mate and not only attract that person but being the best you can be will bring in the person that at times you do not feel worthy of. When that thought crosses your mind dismiss it immediately and realize you are not only good enough but this person would be lucky to have you in their life. Now keep in mind we cannot manifest Brad Pit (even though I am sure Angelina did) there needs to be a genuine interest on the other side as well. The way to insure that genuine interest is to basically be the person you would like to be with. LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE!!! You need to love you before anyone else could love you. Get a notebook and write down what you want very specifically. Write down all the traits and the key is to make it very real. When you write it down, write it as it has been already been given. I am so grateful that so and so is in my life right now and everything is not only easier but we are so happy and in love I could not be happier. Remember what you wrote you can go back and adjust things as you see fit until you feel as though it is perfect. Let your guard down and let love in. I have told many clients recently when you see a happy couple send them your blessings. By doing so you are opening yourself up to love and relationships. The main person to love first is yourself, in that same notebook write down all the positive reasons for someone to be with you. If you are coming up with a loss for words (fake it until you make it) write down all the things you want to be in the present sense. Begin to start being and embodying that person. You are the commander of your ship and this is your story to write. Don’t be shy the sky is the limit.

If it is material things you want write down in great detail in the present tense as if you have it already. Smell the leather of the new Mercedes, see the house and literally walk through the rooms in your new home. Draw pictures or cut out pictures from a magazine and create a wish board but the trick is to believe you already have it. At first this may be difficult but over time the more you look at it and take visual tours of the home it becomes yours more and more. Yes be grateful for the shelter you have but believe very strongly that you are not only worthy of more but are certain you will receive more. What we believe we achieve!

If it is a job you are looking for write down the perfect scenario. What you love to do and you doing just that. There is no reason to work harder when we can work smarter be very detailed about what you want and write about it starting from the interview right down to the offer. This can also be used for money. Take a dollar bill and put it in your bag or wallet and take it out when you make a purchase and then put it back in and do not spend it. It is significant of an overabundance of money. Imagine you are spending this bill over and over again. This is to put in your mind and thoughts in an overabundance of money so you will have spent that bill many, many times over. Envision that you have an overabundance of money and it never runs out. At times take the bill out and put it in a place very visible and imagine all the times you have spent it. Literally see a flow of money coming to you like through a tube and take a moment to daydream on all the material things you will spend it on. If there is a specific amount of money you need write it down, put it on your wish board and the key once again is believe it is already yours. WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS WHAT YOU ACHIEVE!!!

I have mentioned what we achieve is what we believe many times through this document. Believing is the key to remember here. There are many great athletes of our time who literally use coaches to help them visualize what they want before they achieve it. They see themselves sinking that ball in a basket, crossing the finish line first and it also has become a very big deal in the area I live in with wrestlers trying to get in certain colleges. They visualize bringing down their opponent and literally pay big money to see coaches specializing in this area. Psychologists have finally caught on to what we have known in metaphysics for years now.

The keys to remember here are being grateful for what we already have. Sending out love and loving ourselves 1st before anyone else, settling for nothing but the best. Once we are grateful we need to pay attention to our minds and consider ourselves a big magnet. Try it for yourself go sit at a coffee shop or bar and close yourself off from everyone else. Dwell on the negative and you will not be approached, now try the same when you’re in a good mood open and receptive to love and people will talk with you and interestingly enough these people will have a lot in common with you.

An extra word on love because love does not only make the world go around but we all strive for the perfect love. We cannot manifest love from a specific person who has no interest. Who knows they may have hang ups regarding love. But if this person is someone who has a genuine interest in you trust me they will be open and receptive to this new person in you that is not sending out a desperate I need you vibes but you are lucky to have me energy. I can tell you this if there is feelings on both sides this person will feel a difference from you even if it is from a distance. Remember we are working with vibes and energy so pulling back your energy from a distance will be felt. It is very easy to leave someone on the back burner if you know they will be their when you are good and ready. As cruel as it may sound it is human nature.

A lovely psychic gave me this small prayer to say that has come from Joe Vitale (one of the speakers in the secret) I love you, I am sorry, please forgive me and thank you. Send that cleansing prayer to your higher power and watch the miracles unfold you will be amazed. I personally use it all the time. Now realizing the power we have through our personal energy can make a drastic difference in our life and empower you to take control of your life and repeat after me “I will not leave my life in the hands of fate, my life is mine to recreate.” Working with any religious belief works, energy is universal. I am a Christian and the bible states the power we have in Mark 11:23 “I tell you the truth, if anyone says to this mountain, ‘Go throw yourself into the sea, ‘ and does believes what he says will happen, it will be done for him. Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer believe that you have received it, and it will be yours. And when you stand in prayer, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.”

I would love to hear from you that is why I chose to post this in this forum. Please feel free to share your questions comments and stories in hopes of inspiring others to take control of their lives as well.

There is so much I needed to share that I had to condense this article and rush a bit because a group is waiting for it. There will be more to come in regards to things you can do to remain positive as well as personal stories and those from others. I look forward to reading your comments. This article is part of a book and cannot be reproduced without permission. I hope to hear from you soon.

I remember the day I went into the hospital to give birth to Robert. It was March 14, 1989 and you would think it was a summer day. It was warm and the sun was shining. I was excited to see what this beautiful baby that shared the same birthday with Albert Einstein would share with the world.

At three months old Robert loved to eat but was unable to drink a full bottle of formula without throwing up. The pediatrician changed Roberts’s formula several times and recommended a strict feeding schedule. Being a young new Mom, I really did not think it was abnormal for a newborn baby to take three hours to finish four ounces of formula. It was obvious he was hungry but all the effort it took for him to finish one bottle was exhausting. My constant complaints to the doctor fell on deaf ears.

What I saw as projectile vomiting the doctor assumed was merely a baby spitting up. I called the doctor in the middle of the night and insisted this was much worse than spitting up. The doctor’s response was if you don’t like my opinion I suggest you take your son to the emergency room. That is exactly what I did. A simple sonogram to his little belly showed that Robert had a blockage in his stomach that prevented him from digesting all his food. Changing his formula fifty times would not have helped the situation one bit. Robert was throwing up half of all his formula since the day he was born. The blockage in his stomach was called Pyloric Stenosis. Little food or drink passes through the narrowed pylorus which gets narrower over time. Affected babies do not gain weight and are in danger of quickly becoming dehydrated (lacking in body fluid) and seriously ill if the condition is not treated.

The emergency room doctor felt it was important to operate that evening. A surgical procedure called pyloromyotomy, which involves cutting through the thickened muscles of the pylorus, is performed to relieve the obstruction from the pyloric stenosis. During the operation I waited alone in the hallway listening to my new baby cry. I felt helpless and resorted to crying along with him. I went back into the hospital room where I fell to my knees to pray. Out of the corner of my eye I saw a shimmering gold light. I went closer to the crib and the sunlight coming through the window shinned down on what appeared to be the face of Jesus. I knew at that moment my prayer was answered. I asked every nurse I could find if this tiny charm with the face of Jesus on it belonged to anyone and one nurse replied I am certain that was left for you.

Eighteen months after Roberts’ birth his brother Nicholas was born. No matter where I went the boys were always with me. On one clear summer day we took a ride to my friend’s house to take her daughter and the boys to the park. When I went to pick her up on a very busy street I walked up to her door with Nicholas in a stroller and Robert holding my hand. When my friend came out of the house she realized she forgot something. She handed me her daughter and ran back into the house. So I am standing near the street holding onto the stroller and two toddlers who were quite antsy. Robert slipped out of my hands and walked toward the street. The cars were passing by so quickly that there was no way anyone would possible see this small boy heading for the road. My friend walked out just in time to grab hold of the other two children. I ran toward the road with utter shock and amazement. Robert was missed by the cars flying in both directions by inches. It looked as though he walked through them. Almost as if he had a protective shield around him.

As a small child Robert was misunderstood and unique. He had the classic symptoms of attention deficit disorder. His inability to sit still in nursery school was the result of a two month evaluation at Hackensack Medical Center. Robert was tested on everything from sight, hearing as well as his motor skills. All of the tests were inconclusive. They could not pinpoint anything wrong with him. The pre-school teacher made an amazing observation. She said, “Robert appeals to kindness”. He can not tolerate anything but kindness. She noticed that if asked nicely Robert would do anything he was asked to do. If he was told to do something in an annoyed or aggravated way he did not respond at all.

Indigo children are known as new generation of children that seem at times antisocial. If there are no others of like consciousness around them, they often become introverted; feeling very misunderstood. School is often extremely difficult for them socially. This has proven to be true for Robert. I have been his advocate at countless parent teacher conferences. They often see better ways of doing things, both at home and in school, which makes them seem like “system busters” (nonconforming to any system).

There are lots of speculations around the Indigo children. The term “Indigo Child” comes from synesthete Nancy Ann Tappe, who classified people according to the color of their Aura. It is thought that this phenomenon is happening globally and eventually the Indigos will replace all other colors. For instance now most adults are either Blue or Violet.

On another sunny afternoon I took Robert and his brother Nicholas for a ride to my sisters house about five miles from our house. Both boys were in car seats in the back of the car. Without even turning around Robert screamed “Go faster Mommy, go faster”. I reacted and hit the gas a bit, in the review mirror I witnessed two cars from the right and left of me collide. It was like we drove right through the middle of them. Glass covered the trunk of my car. Robert could not see the cars he sensed them.

As a teenager I understand how to deal with Robert in order to get the most out of him. It goes right back to what his pre-school teacher said he appeals to kindness. I look at Robert in his piercing blue eyes and reinforce on a daily basis his mission in this world is much more than we can comprehend at this point.

Robert started leaving pencils everywhere for me to find, this went on for about a week straight. On top of my dresser, in the my jacket pocket, sitting on my computer he even went as far as slipping one into the back pocket of my blue jeans. Finally I had to ask, “Robert what is up with the pencils?” His respond was, “you will figure it out.” This went on for about a month. At this point I had a collection of pencils in every size and color imaginable. He caught me pull one out of my purse and we both could not help but laugh. Robert said, "haven’t you figured it out yet?” “You are supposed to write.” Writing is my dream and Robert was pushing me to pursue that dream. He said he had dreamt about the pencils and they would not stop until he did something about it.

I was working one evening at a metaphysical bookstore and I decided to bring Robert along. We were sitting outside where I was giving Robert the talk. The talk about how he is special and one day will understand why. There will be a reason why all his photos are covered with orbs, and how he will be led to use his gift to help others. There was a group heading into a meditation class and a woman I had never seen before asked, “Is there a Robert here?” Robert with a baffled look on his face said, “I am Robert.” The women said she had a dream. A man came to her and opened up a scroll on the scroll was his name. She was told to come and tell him that he is a prophet. Because it was no more than twenty minutes before I told Robert there was something about him the women’s comments took my breath away. Robert did not know how to reply as well. He just smiled and thanked her for the message.

Recently I had the boys stay home on a Friday night and work on a wish board. On a piece of oak tag they were to cut out and draw pictures of anything they wanted and post it on the wish board for the upcoming year. Nicholas and his friend Curtis posted all kinds of cool things like cars, skateboards, guitars and of course pretty girls. Robert on the other hand took his assignment a little more seriously. On Roberts wish board was a picture of the world stating world peace. He drew of picture of Jesus conquering the Devil, and another drawing represented feeding the poor.

Robert is different, Robert thinks outside of the box; Robert is an Indigo Child, because of that I can’t wait to see what he will do next.

The best way to develop your intuition is through meditation. I like to use the Edgar Cayce style. He was a famous psychic in the 1800. Take a candle and lose yourself in it like you would a camp fire. Repeat the number one, one meaning one with the universe one with God one with all that is. Keep repeating the number one until the voice in your head stops talking. Our minds are always talking. You want to sit in total silence and listen to the universe. Messages are sent that way. We say our prayers and we make our requests but we never sit back and listen for the answers. Meditation will open up your mind and your spirit. Lose yourself and let your mind run wild. You will get to the point where you no longer need the candle anymore; you can imagine it is there. Look for signs from the universe. God likes to send us messages through birds and animals.

God has an army of Angels at our disposal to help us at all times all we have to do is ask. Angels can not help us unless we ask them that is what free will is. You can choose to have them help you or not. Think of how excited they get when you ask for their help.

Another great way to open up is with Tarot cards. They are symbolic images that reflect every stage of life. We dream in symbolic images. The famous psychic John Edwards uses Tarot cards as well. Start with a Rider-Waite deck it has been around since the 1800 and is the most popular deck for a reason. It is easy to read. Take each card one at a time and write down everything you see in it, all the tiny hidden images. Also write down what you think it means. 9 out of 10 times it will match the book meanings. I teach the intuitive style that gives you much more information than the mechanical style (book meanings). Then play with them all the time. When you run out of people to read, do readings on the news and make prediction on crime cases or celebrity relationships.

Free your mind and pay attention. The universe sends signs all the time. I was driving home from work and my mind was on autopilot. I have two sons so we always have some sort of drama going on. I looked up and the building to the left of me and the number was 333.  Little things like that confirm that God hears my prayers. On another incident I was in a bad way crying as I was driving. I looked up and the license plate in front of me said FAITH88. That was the sign of all signs. I wiped the tears from my eyes and thought oh yea of little faith. Needless to say what I was crying about was worked out that evening.

What we believe we achieve. Try to keep positive thoughts we are our thoughts. Everything is energy and we are all connected. Have you ever come home in a great mood and put everyone in that state of mind. It works the other way too you can have a bad day and put everyone in a bad mood right along with you. You have a choice today to be happy or sad. Choose happy and spread the joy!!!!

In order to retrain the brain our subconscious mind needs repetition. It is a known fact that if you say something seven times you are more likely to remember it, kind of like studying for an exam. Repetition makes it stick. Make a list of everything you want. Do not be shy about it if it is a million you want then write it down. If it is so and so to come back then write that to. Don’t just write a numbered list write with great detail. Write it down like you are living it. Before I started writing I introduced myself to people as a writer. I made a dream a reality. Fake it until you make it. Once again be very detailed about what you want and think of it as a contract with God, the Universe and all that is. Read it out loud. It is very important to ask. You need to read it at least three times a day. Carry your list around with you and change things when you think you want something else.

Miracles will begin to happen. Watch for the synchronicities. At my current day job they gave me a task that no one else wanted. It was taking meeting minutes for a meeting that was held daily. It was boring and I hated it. Once I sat and thought about it my writing skills were improving dramatically. It was the universe preparing me for what was to come. Needless to say once I learned what I needed to learn the meetings were cancelled. I kind of missed them in a weird way but no longer needed them. The universe was saying it is time to write my dear. I was given the tools needed to achieve greatness. What you are reading right now is part of a book that is already with a publisher so please do not copy it word for word. You can verbally give the advice to anyone. Don’t put off the list until the dishes are done or until the laundry is folded. Do it now!! You also want to create a reminder I call it a wish board. Take clippings out of a magazine and make a poster with everything you want on it. Hang it in a place were you will see it everyday. You must believe that all these things are coming and then say Thank you to the powers that be. Please keep me posted on how it all unfolds. Many Blessings and remember don’t be shy the sky is the limit.

Timing can be a very difficult thing to predict for a psychic and some will not even entertain that question. I usually do answer questions on timing because I have a very positive success rate in estimating a time frame. I think it is very important that there is an understanding of how timing works.

When I do a reading I am reading your energy in the here and now. I can look at the future but that can always change. Nothing is set in stone. Thanks God for that. That wonderful thing is called free will. Free will gives you the power to change your future and manifest whatever you want regardless of your present reading. You will get the outcome that was predicted if you follow the course you are on.

For an example lets say I do a reading on someone and get the answer no you will not get the job. Are there things you can do to change that outcome? Of course there are. I welcome the questions like how can I change that outcome. Remember you are the commander of your ship and do not give up the reins to anyone. My favorite questions to answer are what is my best course of action in achieving a certain goal? There is nothing wrong with a little input from an outside source.

I am going to use an example regarding timing to try to make it a bit clearer. I once had a client ask when communication with a certain person will take place. Instead of waiting for that to take place the person went to the home of who she wanted to speak to and waited outside his house. That action changed her future in return changed the time frame of when the other party would have called on their own. Remember anyone in question has free will too.

Whenever you get a reading from me or anyone else follow your heart. If your heart is saying pick up the phone and call then go right ahead and do it. If you feel uncomfortable about it then the timing is probably off.

Please do not get me wrong I am not saying that you must follow a certain course of action for predictions to come to pass. I am basically saying follow your heart and you will never go wrong. No one will ever be 100% when it comes to time frames. They are always estimated. Anyone who spoke with me knows that I am a strong believer in changing your own future. When I give a time frame it is estimated and can always change when free will is involved. We have the power to make things happen even sooner than predicted. Free will is a beautiful thing and thank God for it. Could you imagine not having choices and your future is set in stone? That would be a major bummer. What would we have to look forward to? I hope this somewhat clarifies time frames. Please feel free to respond with any thoughts or questions. Many Blessings!!