Affirmations are a way of tuning your higher self to a goal. They let your guides, angels and helpers hear you state what you are working towards.
We all think affirmations are magic wands. They are not, however they ALMOST are.
Affirmations are statements made as if something already is happening in your life, even if it has not yet begun.
An example of an affirmation is:
I am a strong and spiritual person who walks in light and love, following my guides and higher self.
When you think of something that you want to do an affirmation for, first muscle test to see if it is in your life plan to have it (in other words, you just may NOT be able to marry George Clooney this lifetime!). There are many ways to muscle test. There are all kinds of examples all over the net. Some require two people, some do not. The most important part is to make sure that you do not try to control the outcome!
Then write your affirmation as clearly as you can, being literal, concise, and set realistic goals.
Say it out loud at least once a day. Tape it to your bathroom mirror and say it first thing in the morning. Copy it and take it with you, to say in your car on the way to work, on the way home, and again before bedtime.
Affirmations should be for your goals, not anyone else's. Make sure that you do not take away another person's free will, not only in affirmations, but in any energy work that you do! The only thing you should ask for concerning another person, is for the Universe/God/Higher Power, to provide what is for their highest good.
You can even use affirmations in conjunction with manifesting. They help put a boost to anything.
Feel free to leave exact particulars up the the higher powers. For example:
I will find the right person for my life partner ,at the time when I am spiritually ready for him/her to enter my life.
This is wonderful affirmation that will work wonders, where ones like "make Bob leave his wife this month and come to me" will not work. You are then meddling in someone else's free will, Universal lessons and Universal Law. If you did the muscle test first, the answer was most likely , "no". The Universe will not assist you in bringing harm to others , controlling them, or diverting their life paths that the Unvierse has chosen for them. We don't get to "play God".
Affirmations are wonderful ways to reach personal goals, for growth, for prosperity, better health, and for feeling more settled and content. Try some simple ones and see what happens, then work your way up from there!
Be careful of the wording, and say it like you mean it!
Namaste
Gina
It is time to harvest things that you have been trying to accomplish all year. Bring in the bounty and plan for next year.
Didn't get the crop to grow, or maybe you didn't even plant it? Time to make an easier plan for next year.
After we harvest is the fall, winter is a nice , quiet time to think about what we want to accomplish for next year. I have reached some wonderful goals, and now it looks like time for me to look in a new direction. There are so many avenues available to me, it would be crazy not to take advantage of them!
Really think about what it is you want to do.
Make realistic goals.
Make a plan to reach those goals and a set time (again realistic) to do it in.
Do the up front work and get ready to put your plan into action.
Make a picture board that will help keep things fresh in your mind .
Do affirmations and manifest it into being. Remember manifesting also takes real life action, not just sitting back in your easy chair!
Watch your dreams come true.
Sometimes you need to readjust your focus, and your path, and that is OK, just don't give up and keep going for it!
Not sure what path to take? Give me a call and we will sort it out!
Namaste!
Gina
I have noticed a trend of folks around me lately. They rush out to do things that they think will make them have a bit of fame, or on a more truthful front...loved, admired, liked, adored. People do all kinds of things for attention. Some of them are outrageous and even illegal (like stalking).
When you are working in the area of energy, spiritualism, metaphysicas, there is an line that you need to make sure that you do not cross. You do need to promote yourself, but you also need to make sure that Ego doesn't enter into the picture.
There is a person in my community who made a big deal about the charity work they were doing. You NEVER brag about charity work. The work they were doing was outside of the community. Another person in the community asked why not feed, help, clothe the people in this city? Then she answered for them...."because there is no glory in it".
When you do "good works" just for the glory, what will follow, is a huge Universal slap in the back of the head.
It is important to always remember INTENT. DO the right things FOR THE RIGHT REASONS. When the reason is to gather recognition, love, money, adoration, fame....it is not for the right reasons.
People wonder why, even though they believe that they are a good person, and run around doing "good things", that they keep having bad things happen to them. The reason is intent.
Always set your intention before doing anything, not just energy work. It is a very important part of what we do and what the results will be. IF you are about to do something for other than the right reasons...stop, evaluate, and get on track.
Always do the right thing, for the right reason, with the right intent. It isn't easy when you start to think about it, but it gets easier with practice!
Thoughts matter!
Gina
There will be many ups and downs to our lives, it is inevitable. It is how we handle those ups and downs that make us bypass a harder lesson; learn the lesson over; be rewarded; or extend or shorten the time period of that situation.
Our lives are a mixture of the pre-determined and free will. When we "like" what is going on in our lives we tell ourselves it was what was meant to be. That is not always true. You may have brought that happiness and success to yourself by manifesting or affirming. Those techniques also work in a negative way. When you walk around saying "I am so dumb" , all the time, you will do dumb things. When you walk around saying "I am fat" , you will have trouble losing weight. When you say "my job sucks", it will! Our words, throught and actions determine what is next for us in life. We DO have control over what happens in our lives to a certain extent, that is the free will part.We can turn a positive situation negative, and the opposite is also true, as long as it is not a predetermined life lesson. More of our lives are free will than determined.
Sometimes we are in a situation to learn a lesson, and sometimes we are in one to teach a lesson. Teaching a lesson however, is always done in kindness, with love, and without malice.
We have all heard the things we should do, like thinking positively, trusting in the Universe ,and not forcing things, being patient, kind, and open.
However in times of emotion and stress, we need to be very careful NOT to do certain things. Energetically they make life tougher. They are not difficult to understand, but for some people in certain situations, they are difficult to do.
Do NOT:
Do not...Wish ill on an ex or for their relationship to crumble, that energy comes back to you threefold, and I doubt that you want to wish that on yourself. The same goes for your boss, neighbor, or any other human on this planet!
Do not...Try to make an "ex" jealous or hope that they feel badly because they saw you with another person.
Do not...take it upon yourself to "punish" someone.
Do not...carry out or even plan a way to get revenge on someone, or to make anyone suffer.
Do not...try to rush things. The Universe teaches us all patience MANY times during our lives. The more patient we are, the less we get the lesson, and things happen more quickly. When we are impatient, things drag on and on and on.
Do not...contact your ex's new partner, for ANY reason. Leave it alone, it is not for you to decide the fate, or course, of that relationship.
Do not...wish , hope, pray, or manifest ANYTHING negative, or harmful to another.
Do not...do anything illegal, it will only be you that suffers.
Do not...do anything that takes another person's free will away from them.
Do not...try to change a person, their personalitites were formed when they were 5 years old. Small changes are possible, but basically they are who they are. Major life events (like death of a spouse), can change a person, but you harping on them will NOT.
Do not...expect that people who were unfaithful to another ,will be faithful to you, this happens a VERY small percentage of the time.
Do not...try to force a person who is unsure or insecure in a relationship to move forward faster, that only makes them more nervous, and they will move backwards or disappear.
Do not...have dishonest relationships. Let the other person know all about you. If you are dating others, your financial position, your true feelings, your goals, and your needs.
Do not...enter into relationships for financial support, a baby sitter, or any other reason than pure love, respect and caring. Don't use people who care about you, you will then be used.
Do not...be in a relationship just because you are lonely, get a pet. Be in a relationship because you are ready to make someone's life pure joy and get that in return.
Do not...enter into a relationship or job to have it "complete you". Only YOU can complete you!
In other words....DO UNTO OTHERS.
You get the idea!
All of these things will return to you energetically. When you handle things in the right way, you get rewarded by the Universe. When you think and live positively, good things will happen. When you walk around daydreaming bad thoughts, that bad energy will be attracted to you, not just sent out to the person you are wishing it on.
We all know people who we think are lucky. They attract that good energy to them. The people we think of as having a "black cloud" over them do the same, only with opposite, negative energy. It is as simple as a series of intense thought that causes things to happen. When you concentrate or dwell on something, it comes your way. Make sure it is GOOD things. The Universe deals bad things back threefold (some even say ten fold). It is NOT worth it.
Acting out of spite, malice, hurt, and anger, will never, ever make a problem better.
Treat others as you would want them to treat you. When someone treats you badly, let them know (nicely) then hand it over to the Universe. Your job is not to rush, force, punish, or to make anyone feel guilty.There is a higher power that will do that, all at the right time.
Live and think positively every day, and life will be wonderful!
Love and Light
Triple Moon Goddess Gina
(c)2009 Triple Moon Goddess Gina. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
This is a time where things are changing. People around you will leave, and new ones will come in. Not all of them by any means, but still some important people to you will be leaving. Jobs will be changing or lost, pointing the way to where you are supposed to be . The place where you live may change. That can be good or bad because instant "Karma", for lack of a better word, enters in strongly now. The Unvierse is putting things to right. If you were at a company that was unappreciative of you, you will lose your job, or drop it, and go on to a better sitation. If you were a person who treated others unfairly, stole from the company, or were a constant problem, then things will become a very hard road for you.
Bad things will happen to good people as the Universe gives souls one more chance to do the right thing, sometimes good people get caught up on the recieving end of that. They are energetic volunteers to be a teacher of the lesson, they suffer a small hurt in order to try to get the person who hurt them, on the right path. There are no more multiple chances, some of you will have just one more chance, or may have even used that one...let's hope not.This does not mean people will not continue to do "bad" things, but that those bad things will now seal their fate as to not being on the positive end of happiness and abundance.
It is an important time, a time when the Universe is shuffling everyone where they need to be, or better yet, where they have earned a spot. Sometimes that spot isn't so great, and sometimes it is wonderful. But that spot will be created by your actions, intent and energy.You are the captain of your ship, make sure it is steering in the right direction.
If you have done anything spiteful, hateful, out of pride, jealousy or vindictiveness....this year is your last chance. Your chance to make it right and start to walk a new path. The spiritual and energetic rewards of 2012 will not go to everyone , only those who are ready. Those who are meanspirited , vindictive, spiteful, vengeful, hateful, predjudiced, dishonest, or anything of the like, will not be recieving those rewards.They are no where near ready.
Those who are egotistical, nasty, greedy, will not reap rewards either.It is time to really straighten up and fly right. It isn't always easy.
Wishing ill will on your ex, harming others or their property, taking what is not rightfully yours, will now have more serious energetic consequences than ever. It is really time to do the right thing, and for the right reasons.
Be the one who is on the positive end of things at the end of this year, it will go a long way to putting you in position to reap rewards down the line.
It is simple...do all those things that you know you are supposed to do, do not try to make excuses for incorrect behavior...move past issues and forward, not run back and bite the person who didn't do what you wanted them to.
Be kind, honest, positive, supportive, forgiving. Grow, learn , be humble, appreciate others positive acts.
This is a special time, an important time, and a valuable time.
Make sure that you are on the right side of things, and start now! The rewardsa re beyond worth it!
Namaste!
Gina
There are several things to do (or not to do), to get the most out of a reading:
Be prepared for the reading. Be ready, do not have preconcieved notions. Be in a quiet place, be sober/straight, and clear minded. Try to be calm and make sure you listen to what is said to you.
Be ready to hear what you may not want to. Don't kill the messenger.
Feel free to call another reader for confirmation or to clear things up, but do not call 20 readers and take a consesus, it will just be a waste of your money.
Just because a reader tells you something that your last reader did not, doesn't make it "wrong". Take it into consideration and see how things turn out.
Part of our readings are how we interpret pictures, words, feelings. It is interpretation, this is part of why no one can be 100% correct.
When you are given advice, take it. Many things are changeable by your actions, or inactions.We all have free will and the ability to exercise it at any time. Not taking advice CAN and WILL change the total outcome of a reading.
Time frames are the most changeable aspect of a reading, due to people's free will, more than anything else. Use them as a guide, not as a calendar. Add to that time, as if it does fluctuate, it will most likely go longer, not shorter.
Readings are for circumstances as they stand, when you change those, you CAN change the readings results. For example if you are told you have a job coming, and then you no longer attempt to look for one, you may not get a job!
Find a reader you personally connect with. That does not mean find a reader that tells you what you want to hear. Find a reader that gives you the good and bad, and is consistanly more right than wrong. One that works within your belief system. NO ONE is 100% correct, except the Supreme Being that you believe in.
You can speed things up or slow them down, you can change the reading in SOME CIRCUMSTANCES. When you are working towards a job for instance , doing affirmations and manifesting will help bring more of a job that you want in a shorter period of time.
There are things that you can do outside of the reading to help things along....affirmations, prayers, manifesting, spells, rituals. Healings such as Reiki and Healing Touch. They are ALSO not 100% guarenteed. What you want must be in your life lessons and not cause harm to others, it must also NOT take anyone else's free will away from them. Reiki healing will do what is for your highest good, that may not be what you want, but what is for your higest good.
Arguing with your reader will not change the reading.
Please do not use the reader as an outlet for anger or frustration. First of all, that is not what the reader is there for, and for some readers, especially clairsentient readers, they will feel emotion most strongly and may not be able to work for hours or even a day or too.
Be open to alternate answers,what you just "know" is the answer is not always the answer.
Make sure that you then sit back and give the issue time to work itself out, even if it is over the time period a reader gives you. Most readers do not like giving time periods as callers try to hold them to a date and time. Some readers specialize in dates and have a talent for it. If a date is that important to you , find a reader that specializes in time frames. Remember also that you can CHANGE the time frame by your actions and inactions.
Remember that we do not all work the same. I do not shuffle my cards like a poker player. I was taught that was disrespectful to the cards and scatters the energy. If I am not making noise with cards, doesn't mean I am not looking at them. Readers have different styles, it doesn't make one right or wrong.
Forget just about everything you have seen on TV and in the movies.
Read the reader's page so you know what they do and do not do. We all have varied talents, and abilities. Some can find lost objects, some cannot. Some can tell of a person's emotions, others cannot. talk to the person that is most likely able to help you. You wouldn't hire a plumber to fix your electrical outlets.
Please do not ask for things that KEEN disallows, such as medical diagnosis, lottery numbers, etc. If you want infomation an expert can give you , such as a doctor or lawer, contact a doctor or lawyer.
Know what the words on our pages mean. Clairvoyant means "clear sight" and they may be able to give you a physical description of someone. A person who says they are "clairsentient" will NOT be able to give you a physical description, but can tell you very well how someone feels about a situation. Just like you would read a box at the supermarket or an ad for a new product, read the pages and understand them.
We are not mind readers. Don't play games. A reading is an information line with a higher source, not a game, Don't play, or the Universe will play back, and there is no reason to even go there!
The best readings come when you are open to finding the best path to take. Higher source information is for growth and change. These are the types of readings that give you the best information. When you want a certain result, and are not open to making changes towards that result, you won't get it. If you really want to know how to make things better, be prepared to do what will make things better.
Just like you want us to concentrate on your reading, be ready to concentrate on it with us. Try not to be distracted and have a lot of noise in the background, just like we try to make sure you can hear and understad us. Many times I cannot hear a question, or a caller's cell phone cuts in and out. Make sure you are in the right place and frame of mind for the reading.
Don't try to get an accrate, detailed reading in 1 minute. You can get an answer, but then you won't get the consequences or what you need to do to get that result. You may get the answer , but not an important "why" that will happen, that you need to know. You don't need and hour on the phone of course, and different people have differnt budgets, but a minute usually doesn't do it, unless you are clarifying or following up on an answer that you already recieved from that same reader.
Being ready, openminded, and willing to work towards your goals, that will help you get a better reading.
Go into a reading with the right expectations and an open mind, and you will get a better reading every time.
Enjoy!
Triple Moon Goddess
Gina
There are many times where I have been "taught" something in the metaphsical , only to learn that it was about 99% nonsense. It is really hard to know what is, and what is not the real thing in this aspect, because just about anything really IS possible.
What I have started doing is double and triple checking what I hear about, especially on the rare occasion that something new pops up.
Research, and know what it is you are doing, following or trying to accomplish. Make sure that you really understand it. Look and make sure it is genuine. Are there books on the subject? Hopefully there are several from many authors and do not refer back to the exact same source. Be very careful as to sources, there is a ton of info and entries on a certain type of class on the net, and it all originates back to the same source, which in actuality means there is only ONE entry on the net. If it is on the net and nbo where else, run far from it!
Don't be fooled, and if you are not sure, make sure that you check with a trusted person who has information on the metaphysical.
Know that anything that you do,to take another's free will away, will backfire on you.
Know that anything that you do out of malice, dislike, spite, hate, retribution, will backfire on you.
Know that anything you do or say with a negative demeanor, will backfire on you.
Be very careful how you word things, the Universe is VERY literal. And yes, be careful what you ask for!
KNOW, LEARN, RESEARCH, AND UNDERSTAND.
ALWAYS ACT OUT OF POSITIVE ENERGY , LOVE AND LIGHT.
...and you will have untold abundance, success, and love in your life!
(C) Triple Moon Goddess Gina, may not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission
Many people in this day and age have been hurt. Sometimes the hurt is deeper than usual from being with a problem partner, having a partner pass away , having had childhood issues, or childhood issues combined with romantic hurt.
The people who have had these experiences move more slowly than most people. The slowness of their pace sometimes causes their new partners to try to speed things up. Rarely is there a healthy and permanent way to speed things up . People find their inner security and feel comfortable in a relationship when they are ready and not before.
Anything that you can do to put their mind at rest, will work well. Be patient and understanding. It is sometimes very hard to do, but rushing people who need to move slowly, will only backfire.Telling them it is OK won't work, only good experiences with you will work.
We are in this state of wanting everything INSTANTLY these days, it is NOT a good way to be. The Universe constantly teaches patience, and the more patience we have, the better the rewards are.
We may sometimes need to take a step back and say, "When you are ready, I am here." That doesn't mean that you set up an on line dating account and go out every night with a different man while you are waiting. It also doesn't mean that you wait for years . It is an investment in that person, where, if they really do care about you, and they just have cold feet, it will pay off.
When we act impulsively and try to move things along faster, the Universe just slows us down, or puts atop to things all together.
Be patient, nurturing, and move slowly with those who have been hurt, are nervous about commitment, and who need to find their comfort zone. Being pushed into it won't help, seeing you with another partner won't help, being told how they should feel won't help.
It is sometimes very difficult when we care so much about someone, to stand back and let them catch up, but it is the only way to be permanently successful with the relationship.
That doesn't mean have no contact (unless they request it,if they do, honor that request), it means be there, be their friend, let things progress on their own. Let them steer the relationship.
Really caring about someone means working with their insecurities, and helping them overcome them, not bulldozing right over them . The problems and insecurities will resurface, and the person will still be insecure with you because you are not listening or working with them, but dragging them somewhere that they are not ready to go.
Relationships can be hard. The really good ones are worth the work.The great ones require no work at all! When you are lucky enough to be with the right person, it just flows. No roadblocks, no issues, no other partners, no running away.
Sometimes people are too damaged by past relationships and we cannot help them, then it is time to step back and let them be. It isn't ever easy, but no matter what you do, nothing will really change.
Dance the slow dance with your partner instead of force marching them through life. You may just enjoy the dance!
Love and Light
Gina
(c) 2009 Triple Moon Goddess Gina, May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission
I have often found, and I know that other readers have to, that there are times when I say,"Something is not right here, I don't want to take this call." Then we do anyway. I wrote an email to a caller last night, and knew that the reaction would be a bad one. But I also knew I had to do what was right and what I needed to do. I was right.The result was just as I pictured. I just wish them luck , and let the Universe do what ever it needs to do.
KARMA.
Life challanges are things that happen to us so that we can deal with them; learn how to deal with them; learn how to help others deal with them; be an example to others. They sometimes are for a day or two, and sometimes for a long period of time. We learn and grow as we work through them. We also may teach others as we work through them by example or word.
Karma happens when we do things out of anger, spite, to be mean , or to cause hurt or loss. Karma will bite us in the butt for that. I am a firm believer in how the Laws of the Universe work, and that they will take care of problems and help me address challanges. The Universe does not allow us to treat others badly, not for a moment, not for a year. There is always consequence. We may not see it for a while, or see it at all , because hopefully we then no longer have contact with that person.But it ALWAYS happens.
Life is full of challanges, and how we react to them is what puts us on the "good list" or the "bad list". It is that simple. If your reaciton is negative or harmful, then Karma comes your way. You handle things honestly, and positively with love and light, and all is well.
For 39 years I have been honestly helping others, being accurate, truthful and direct. It doesn't always go well, but I am not here to feed someone else's drama, fairy tale or vision. I always hope that callers are really listening and paying attention to what I am really saying, not what they want to hear, or what they fear hearing.
I will always continue to do so!
I live my life by Universal Law, always have and always will.
Always live your life in positive energy love and light. You may sometimes be on the bad end of things, as we all get life lessons all through life. But the life lessons are nothing like Karma.
Don't wish your ex harm, or hope that something bad happens to your boss. Don't be mean, spiteful, dishonest, hurtful or rude to anyone!! It will come back and bite you every single time.
Harm none!
Love and Light
Gina
Once again , Thanks to my loyal callers, I literally could not do it without you
Some folks ask what drumming is. It is...well, drumming.
It is a steady beat that either lulls you to another place or raises the roof.
Some drum circles involve only Native American based drums. Hand drums. Some are full of all kinds of great things like bodruns (pronounced "bo runs"), or d'jembes (those tall African drums you may have seen).
Shamans used them to journey and some people use them for that reason.
Some use them for meditation.
Many use them to raise the vibration and energy of the room, the area, the planet.
Drumming can be quite an experience. When our group drums for meditation, we usually hear Native American flute playing and singing that is not of this dimension. This is heard by most , if not all, of the people in the room, not just people who are sensitive or psychic. Drumming makes you feel better, no matter what. It gets the blood flowing, and tunes your heart and soul in to a channel where it is peaceful, enlightened and comfortable.
There are now drum circles all over the US, and in other countries. Check out the web for circles near you. See what their rules and requirements are (some allow instruments other than drums, like Native American flutes), some do not.
It is something that is easy to do to help you feel better, open your mind, and to raise your vibration.
It is just something new and easy to try. Before you know it , you will have 4 drums in the house, like I do..and rattles, and bells, and flutes....you get the picture!
Try something new. You may find a new love!!!
Love and Light,
Gina
This blog is excerpted from my personal blog published elsewhere:
When something happens that we WANT to happen, we say it is validation. No, regular events are not validation. People getting back together, people getting well, people selling their home, people winning at Bingo, are not validations. They are events.
First of all, remember that validations ALWAYS come in a series.This is how you know that it is something real, and messages are being sent. Events happen every millisecond, just having an event happen does not a validation make.
The validation must be something that does not occur commonly or naturally around you. For instance, saying...."if a white car drives past my house today, I am supposed to do this" , is not how to validate. Of course a white car will drive past your house, unless you live at the top of Mt. Kilimanjaro.
Also ask for it to be in at least threes.
Do not look too hard, or MAKE someting fit. Sometimes a cat looking in your window is just a cat looking in your window (another reason we ask for things in the Universal number of validation, three).
Sometimes you get signs all day long and have to figure out what they mean. They usually have a theme. Signs are akin to validations, but they are something that comes without asking. Validations, we ask for.
Everyday occurances are rarely validations.
Ask for unusual things, but of course, not impossible things (don't ask for Mt. Kilimanjaro to be delivered to your back yard).
Ask for things that are clear messages.
Ask for the message at least three times in that day.
Don't look to hard, or convince yourself that a dog is sorta like a cat, it is a pet , right????....when you ask to see a tortoiseshell cat three times (and please don't ask to see one if you own one and it lives with you), and you do, that is a validation.
Just for fun today, ask if you are supposed to do something. Be specific in your question. Ask out loud. Then ask to see/hear/feel..."whatever signal " three times today. You can leave it as open as....let me hear three songs on the radio that have cars in the title, if I am to buy a new one. But don't be too open...like, "let me hear a song today".
Remember, don't kid yourself...that is the hard part.
Have fun asking the Universe for validation!
Gina
(c) Triple Moon Goddess Gina. May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission .
This is a great time of transition that will continue through 2012, most dramatically through the next year as people are put where they are supposed to be by the Universe.
Jobs that are not where the person is supposed to be, will be lost.
Relationships that are not where the people are supposed to be will end.
Most important at this time is that you "do unto others, as you would have them do unto you". Do NOT take hurt, resentment or your bad day out on anyone else! The return threefold rule will be swift and strong in the coming months and years, and may put you in a position that you really do not like.
When a lover leaves, do not wish them ill will , as that ill will comes back to you threefold and the Universe won't send you a good replacement for them.
We are at a very important time in the energy fluctuations of this Universe. Things are being put to right. You need to do the right thing, and let the Universe worry about making sure others do the right thing.
The impetus to change will be strong in everyone. The change will always involve growth and life lessons. Those who do the right thing will leap forward....those who don't will be left behind.
It is also important to do the right thing for the RIGHT REASONS. It is time to walk your talk. To be fair, kind, considerate, patient,and caring.
When something makes you unhappy or unsettled, it is because the Universe is trying to give you a gentle push. Don't wait for the shove! When you are not happy with something look INSIDE YOURSELF to see why. Be honest with yourself...it isn't easy at all! However the change that results brings wonderful things to you!
95% of what happens to you is brought on by your reactions, thoughts, actions, and beliefs.
Make them good ones!
Love and Light
Gina
Taken from my personal blog, "Insights from The Goddess Gina":
"Perhaps the most important thing we can undertake toward the reduction of fear, is to make it easier for people to accept themselves, to like themselves." - Bonaro W Overstreet
Fear is the strongest emotion in many people, not love. How sad is that! So I looked and found the above quote, one that I had never heard before. The best part about this quote, is it gives a solution.
The solution is not easy, the good ones never are...but it is ever so true. If we have a love for ourselves that is HEALTHY...which means don't go overboard from "self love" to "ego", we do not make rash decisions because we are afraid that people will not like, love, accept, praise us. We wear what we want, and do the things we want to do. We go to new places, we meet new people, we try new things. We find the love of our lives.
It is all good. Only one good thing comes of fear...an adrenaline rush that allows us the strength and speed to get out of dangerous, life threatening situations. That's it. Period. We, as civilized people , rarely get involved in these life threatening situations. Our ancestors did daily, we do not. Instead we take that emotion and turn it against ourselves....
Fear makes these questions run around in our head:
Does my boss like me?
Do I look fat in this outfit?
Are they laughing at me?
Why don't people come to my house, is it because they hate me?
I can't do that, I don't know how, and won't be able to.
I can't go there, I do not know anyone.
If I let myself fall in love, I could get hurt.
If I break up with this person, I will be alone.
If I am in a commited relationshp, then the perfect mate may come along and I will already be unavailable.
When you get locked in fear, and make decisions based on fear, we make poor choices every time!
We create our own reality, and this is not the reality we want to create. You, your team, and God/Creator/Higher Being will always get you where you need to go, as long as you have faith, believe, and work towards it (yes, sitting on your butt doing nothing will not land you the perfect job no matter how hard you try to manifest it). There is always some type of "work" to be done, but when done right with the right attitude, it is never "work".
If there is something in your life right now that you are doing because of fear (be honest now!), then make plans today and carry them out starting tomorrow, to rid yourself or better yet, FREE yourself of that situation.
Have a wonderful day transforming!
Love and Light
Gina
(c) 2009 Triple Moon Goddess Gina, May not be used, copied or reproduced without prior written permission.
Just in my little part of the world, I have noticed that much of the hurt, issues, problems, and hurt feelings, come from people unconsciously hurting those around them. The reason for it? The are so focused on what they want, they need, they desire, that they do not see others around them. They do not see what their "too focused actions", are doing to the people around them. They do not see all the toes that they are tromping on.
The people that I have watched cause many a big issue lately, are nice people. They are ones who study a spiritual path and TRY to walk it. However, they have blinders on and do not see the people next to them or around them.
I will give you an example. A lady came to an event and brought a child of 12. This child's maturity level however, was more like 4 or 5. The child disrupted the event again and again, stomped over an altar, ruined ritual objects, handled other's personal property and looked in closed bags. This is cute when you are 2, not when you are 12. The mother? She was there, just going along with the ritual and not paying any attention to her child. Others complained about the child and a big storm errupted over this child and her mother. The child was acting the way she was taught to act (do what ever you want, I won't pay attention to you or reprimand you). The mother being the one really at fault here. The ritual was ruined for the group, some more than others, as their personal prorperty was ruined or messed with in some way.
To make matters worse, the facilitator, not wanting to hurt Mom's feelings, said nothing, and caused the group to get even more upset...then tried to cover it up to others that were not present by implying that this was a small child (toddler age), when it wasn't. That made the people who complained look bad. They got nasty phone calls and a huge tempest ensued.
Then to add to it, to "try to make it better", instead of being truthful, the facilitator implied that there was a group (a cultural group) who said he wasn't doing things right ...which he wasn't....but then that whole cultural group was attacked, whether they knew what was going on or not! It reminded me of racism.
All these "spiritual" people who were doing the wrong thing because they allowed their personal beliefs and emotions to interfere without knowing one iota of the truth. It was , and still is, a mess. It could have been simply handled by the facilitator at the time, but it wasn't and was allowed to become a huge issue with things getting broken, and people being hurt and insulted.All because the facilitator didn't think it was spiritual to ask a mother to tell her wild child to behave and quiet down.
Mom had her blinders on, trying to journey and reiki others. Mom was not taking care of what she needed to, right in her own personal life, and others suffered for it. She didn't mean to harm anyone, but harmed MANY. She thought that she was helping /healing...she was doing nothing of the kind, just the opposite.
Don't be so focused on what YOU want that you shove others out of the way. Especially when you are at a spiritual or metaphysical event, or when you are a facilitator. When a "Spiritual" person acts badly, it is ten times worse because they should know better. We all have bad days and make mistakes, but lately it seems like everything is "ME me me memememeememmeeee". Don't be one of those "Me" people. Please.
Build GOOD karma. Look around you and see what your actions are doing to others. Don't be so focused, that you lose sight of what is going on around you (you may even miss a great opportunity that way).
Say "thank you" to store clerks and waitresses. Say "hi" to people that make eye contact with you. When someone has a problem, help them, even if it is just holding a door, picking up something they dropped, telling them that they left something behind.....be kind. Be thoughtful...and all kinds of great stuff will come your way! Don't be so focused on what you want, that you walk all over people to get it. When someone acts badly....say something (and please say it nicely)!
Be the impetus for good change, not selfishness. The rewards are so much more thatn what you get being selfish and self centered. Leave retribution to the Universe. Live in positive thoughts and energy, not only for you, but your family, friends, and strangers around you. One of those strangers may become your best friend and strongest supporter!
Be very "aware" of your actions and make sure that they always have a positive result for all concerned!
The payoff is AMAZING!
Namaste!
Triple Moon Goddess
Gina
We are going through a time of great transition. This is all leading to 2012, but the transitions are so important. They get us where we NEED to be, This may not be where we WANT to be, but it does get us where the Universe needs us to be.
We may have mistreated people and end up where we won't like to be. That being a place of learning more lessons, or being retaught because we didn't get it the first ten times.
We may have been generous without compensation and end up finally being rewarded.
It is time now, more than ever, to do the right thing. To act in a way that is right with the Universe, your Higher Self, and for those who are affected by your actions.
Do not think or act out of a sense of revenge or to "give people what they have coming to them." The Universe will arrange that more now than ever.
Many people will also be transitioning out of jobs, relationships, groups and belief systems. It is our job to let them go, no matter how hard it may be for us. There is "better" as a reward for us when we put our trust in the Universe. Our test may simply be to learn how to deal with and help those who are "difficult". Make sure that you are not the "difficult one". We may need to help others transition, to help to learn to be a better person. That does not necessarily mean telling the boss the co-workers are mean to you. The Universe is testing YOU, will you pass?????
More than ever, do the right thing. Prepare for the wonderful changes that are coming your way , so that you reap the most benefit out of these changes. Get things cleared up and taken care of. Get the favors returned, the bills paid (even if you have to pay a little at a time). Get those past taxes done. It is clean up time on a higher level too, and we all need to do it. Meet your responsibilities head on, do not worry that others are not, and do not use that as an excuse.
Remain positive, faithful and always try to move forward and past things. You do not want to be on the bad end of things returning threefold, not ever and especially not now.
There is so much good and reward coming over the next few years, make sure that you are in line to reap the benefits, not to be retaught the lessons!
Namaste!
Triple Moon Goddess
Gina