No matter what your affiliation (religious or otherwise) the part of humans that makes us special from anyone else in our known universe is that we have the power of choice… or free will. Do you realize how much power this gives you? Free will is so amazing and yet we get so caught up in destiny and fate that we forget completely about how we have a CHOICE in whatever it is we want to do. This is so powerful that even the highest of deities will not touch it. Think about this for a moment… if even GOD will not interfere with your right of choice, how can anyone else? Unless you allow them, that is. What does this have to do with getting a reading, you ask? It is very simple, allow me to explain:
Let’s just say we come together and look at a situation where you would like for your lover to step up to the plate and make a deeper commitment. The energy around this seems very positive, and it seems as though he is headed in this direction. Now, mind you, this is should things keep progressing on the path they are currently traveling. Should you choose to derail that train by deciding that you are now comfortable with this reading enough to take matters into your own hands and speed it up because after all, if it is meant to be, it is going to happen no matter what, right? WRONG!!! You have now exercised your free will to call him every minute of the day and become overly clingy or involved in his business because you are preparing yourself for a deeper commitment. Now you have created a situation where he is reacting to this new attitude you have which he does not understand. This causes him to believe that you are not who you have been and that perhaps he has been manipulated this entire time and he decides that you are no longer who he wants to be with.
Now, while it is easy to blame the messenger where this is concerned, if you decide you want to get to the truth of the matter, you have to look at where you have made changes in order to try and get what you want when you want it rather than looking at for what it is and letting it all play out the way the other person involved is comfortable with it as well.
Just remember, there are consequences to your choices. Your choices are completely within your control, as are your reactions to other’s choices. By empowering yourself you can take charge of where you are headed. If he or she is not moving within a timeframe that works for you, then by all means, invoke your free will to move on! Just keep in mind, when asking others about what is going to happen, then it is what it is and make your choice from there… don’t get yourself into trouble by manipulating the situation to make things happen because then all you are asking for is a big heaping pile of karma!
Does there always seem to be things going on in your life that are frustrating and out of control? Perhaps the people who come into your life just seem to treat you the same way over and over again? No matter how much you do to try and find peace, is it sometimes just out of reach, or even worse, not feeling as though it is in the works for you at all? There could be a reason for this.
In this day and age where “reality” television runs rampant on nearly every channel from being a “real housewife” to being a “pawn star” and even to having a restaurant that is in dire need, it seems there is no boundary for eccentric, exciting, and (dare I say it) DRAMATIC programming in our daily need for entertainment. Somehow soap operas are just not suitable anymore because they are too unrealistic.
However “fun” and exciting it is to watch drama on television it can be pretty much agreed upon that drama in real life is so frustrating that one would be willing to do just about anything to be rid of it… except look at how they could be inviting those little chaos demons into their lives.
The first and best way to see if you are addicted to drama is to see how you are interacting with your world. Are you in a constant state of reacting to bad people, places, or things that are happening TO you? Before you go telling me you cannot help it how other people act, and it is not your fault that your job closed and you are out of work, and that your ex is not paying child support and that if these things would just STOP, your life would be so much better (enter heavy sigh because no one understands you). Here is a clue for you. 50% of all marriages ends in divorce, as of this writing the jobless rate in the United States is nearly 10% and there are many people suffering through money problems with INTACT marriages let alone the child support issue, so you are NOT unique. The difference between them and you is how they are handling their situation.
Another way one can be sure they are addicted to drama is if they become bored with just doing things that everyday people do who are… oh I don’t know, stable, reliable, and say… content? Sure content is boring, but it is also necessary for emotional growth and to reach a higher spiritual plane. See, it is really very simple. If you are so busy surviving from day to day that you never eat or rest properly, then how are you every going to expect anything more of yourself than mere survival? You have a higher purpose, you know… and you deserve to have happiness… now just accept it!
For more information on how to transform yourself from this drama filled existence first you must accept that this is actually what is happening. Then, once you have turned your back on the things that you are allowing to keep you from success, take a gander at this book I found to help you out: Discover Your Inner Goddess Queen: An Inspirational Journey from Drama Queen to Goddess Queen By Kelly Sullivan Walden. You should have plenty of time on your hands and it will keep you from being bored!
People reach out to a psychic for many reasons. All of which are due to the fact that they are vulnerable, and needing some guidance in their lives because they feel completely lost and need someone to help steer them in the right direction. When I say lost, I don’t mean they want to know what color they need to put into their hair, I mean they have been through a series of things in their lives and are at the end of their rope. They just need someone to tell them something to help them grasp reality once more.
In many ways, psychics are similar to psychologists (notice the similarities in the names). They can offer guidance and present choices, while also introducing to person with whom they are speaking a way of seeing they are in an unhealthy cycle in their lives from which they must break free. The psychic can also help to guide the person toward making the right decision for them. This is a great combination of psychology and metaphysics as it combines the science of getting to the bottom of how the person “works” and ads the faith of the person having a purpose for their existence that requires them to empower themselves and take responsibility for their failures and take credit for their successes.
Every reader can see SOMETHING about you if they are a reader; however, not all readers are going to see EVERYTHING about you.
Imagine yourself coming into a room. You are in the center of the room, and you are surrounded in a huge circle made by the readers. Obviously there is one person who is going to be directly in front of you and then they all go from there. There is also going to be someone who is directly behind you and people in that vicinity as well. Although these people can see some things, they are not going to be seeing everything, and they can see some pretty fascinating things, but nothing that a "yes or no" is going to completely answer.
The people you want are the ones who stand looking at your ears. They see what is behind you, what is in front of you and what is around you.... but you will notice you have 2 ears which means more than one person is going to see all of that information. These are the people you want to entrust, and you will feel this by connecting with their sense of humor, their attitude, and their presence. This will all speak to you. I say this knowing I am not for everyone... any person looking to help, REALLY help, will tell you they know they are not 100% accurate and they are also not going to be able to read for every individual who crosses their path. You must find the people who are "looking at your ears"...those are the ones you want to spend your money supporting.
Soul mates... the one thing that plagues every breathing human at one time or another. Let's delve into this head first, shall we? The first thing to understand about soul mates is that we all have them and they are EVERYWHERE!!! A soul mate is someone you have a connection to. They are someone you have a lesson to learn with and from and throughout the course of your lifetime, you are going to meet so many of them... but if you don't get the daydream of hollywood's definition of a soul mate, you are never going to really be able to appreciate them! Let's go down the list, shall we?
1) Your Parents- yes, it is true, your parents are your soul mates. They are the most important soul mates of your early childhood because it is from them that you learn where to look for soul mates. Your relationship with your parents forms the foundation of the soulmates that you attract to you throughout your lifetime. They influence who you are attracted to, and how you interact with them when you attract them to you. Imagine that... something else we can blame on dear old mom and dad....
2) Your siblings/cousins- in addition to your parents, your siblings and cousins are the first people you socialize with. They help form how you interact with other people you will meet throughout your lifetime. Especially if they are older than you... as they have had more access to the outside world and help prepare you for school life, and the cool things you will wear, say, do, etc.. when you finally get the chance to meet other people!!
3) Your friends- your friends sometimes become a part of, if not closer to you, than your family! You feel such a connection to your friends that you would be devastated if they moved away, or if anything happened to them. This kind of connection is not without importance... and it is very much a soul mate connection!
4) Your teachers- Love them, or hate them, you do not ever forget them! They cracked your hand with a ruler, got you grounded for telling your parents you didn't do your homework, lectured you for cheating and taught you everything they could to prepare you for life. Your teachers are huge influences... admit it, you are right now thinking of that one teacher who you could not imagine surviving that grade without...
5) You Lovers- I saved this one for last, because the rest needed to take a higher place. Seemingly everything you do in your life leads up to that one point... where you find that special person, you settle down, and share your lives together... seemingly forever, and they just make your heart do tricks you never knew were possible. You become physically ill at the thought of them no longer being in your life... this is the one who you place the most importance on because this is the only soul mate you believe to be a soul mate..
Think about it for one moment. Your entire life becomes consumed with this one person to the point of forgetting to spend time with your friends, ignoring your parents (because they did not approve), and losing contact with the outside world. Everything you did up to this point seems to not matter, because you have found your other half... the one you cannot ever live without... and then it happens... They do something, leave thier socks on the floor, forget your birthday, toss out your favorite top, burn your dinner, or become ill for one reason or another and become a burden to you rather than the blessing you were so hopeful for in the beginning... A SOUL MATE is not supposed to do this....right????
Well, think back at how many times your brother made a mess and you got blamed for it. How many times did mom go completely berzerk because you came home late or went out without cleaning your room? And dad... he was always at work and could not show up for your play... your best friend began dating that guy she KNEW you had a crush on... (grrrr) All of the soul mates in your life throughout your life have been preparing you for the person you are planning to spend your life with!
So see, it is not so much that your lover is your soul mate, as it is that your lover is the culmination of all the soul mates you have met in your entire life. When it comes to focusing on your life and how you are looking for your soul mate, think again... because what you are REALLY looking for is a conglomeration of all your soul mates into one person... and how you feel about your soul mates will dictate how you feel about the person you choose as a life mate!
You know how they say “Timing is everything”? Well guess what… that is not always the case. You see, asking WHEN something is going to happen—ESPECIALLY when it involves the attitudes/behavior/inclination of another person—is like expecting a cat to welcome you home with open arms as if they care you are there at all. There is this little thing called free will, and it is not a pretty thing when we want someone to do something within a certain timeframe. Sometimes they will, but more often than not, they are not going to. But there are more things going on than looking at WHEN someone is going to do what it is you are wishing them to do. The typical headache is when will someone call, or do something we want them to do…
Now let’s focus on “when will they call”: There is usually a REASON why someone cuts off communication. This is an extreme action that happens for an extreme reason which involves the person who is cutting off communication for the purpose of dealing with the extreme situation. During this time of duress, a lot of decisions are made that do not make a lot of sense to anyone but the person making the decision… and sometimes not even to them, once they have cleared their head, that is. As a result: intention and desire can be there to pick up the phone, but motivation due to depression, distraction, frustration, or any number of other things can cause them to not follow through on what is happening. See, just because they have decided that they want to clam up, their other obligations do not stop coming… and when they are not motivated to do things properly everything seems to kind of become overwhelming, and they get behind on what they WANT to do because they are behind on what they HAVE to do.
Where I (or someone like me) comes into play in looking at when such a thing is going to happen there are many layers of things that I have to look at when looking at possible timing. First, the person asking the question has energy around them such as: depression, frustration, anxiety, fear, and the strong desire to hear what they want mixed with an almost paralyzing terror that they are not going to hear what they want to hear. And that is just scratching the surface…
Looking through all that to another person who has withdrawn their energy for a variety of reasons that are unknown to you, there is even more digging to do because sometimes that person does not want anyone to know what is going on with them…or they would not be shutting down in the first place. To give you an idea think about a group of toddlers who have not had their morning nap OR lunch and someone walks in with a bunch of candy and YOU have to tell them all no…pretty difficult, and not something you want to do, eh? Then the added pressure of doing this in the smallest amount of time possible as to be conscious of the money that you are spending to receive this information only makes it even more fun!
In considering all of the components that go into looking at WHEN something is going to happen, sometimes, even the best of us can only venture into this arena with the energy as it feels at the time. This is not something we LIKE to deal with at all as our first interest is that of how to help those who come to us in need and we want to know when just as much as you, however we are all at the mercy of this wonderful gift called free will, and this is not going to be our friend when there are so many variables to consider.
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The Moon
If you are feeling a little in a
"haze" today, look toward the sky and let the moon light your path.
Take a deep breath and have the faith in the Mother moon as she lights the way
for us to see where we truly need to be going.
You may not be able to see anywhere but what is in front of you, because
if you are following the moon, it is probably dark. This is a chance to have some faith that
although you cannot see everything, you are not going to be led away from your
path.
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Princess of Wands
Your temper is on the agenda for the
day. Little miss princess really likes
to get her way and when she doesn't, well you know what they say about a woman
scorned... the problem is, when you are being called upon to watch your temper,
that is when your patience is tested the most.
Blowing up is not the answer and neither is it always a good thing to
get your way simply because you want it.
When you feel your blood beginning to boil, count to 10. If that doesn't work, then perhaps it is best
to let the situation ride for another time.
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The Devil
Overindulgence and hidden motives are the
influence of the Devil. This is a
warning to be sure your motives are pure when doing someone a favor today, even
though the temptation will be there. You
know what they say about Karma… it always comes back to haunt you one way or
another.
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The Empress
Today is a day of no nonsense, and the
Empress is here to remind us of just that.
Common sense rules the day and things need to fall into a logical
progression or they will not move forward and Mother Empress will keep us in
line by tossing us an intuitive bone throughout the day. If we are open to listening to her, we can
move on about our day with little to no resistance. If we fight it, we will spinout of control
into the nonsense abyss. There is
nothing wrong with listening to our instincts; but thrown in there will also be
our insecurities and fears so be mindful that what you are feeling is
interpreted correctly!
I PROMISE I have not abandoned you, I am having trouble mailing out the card of the day... I am still looking into it, but I may just post it here from now on to save everyone the trouble of "one more thing" in their inbox to open. I really enjoy getting them out to you and I hope you enjoy receiving them, so I will be getting something taken care of asap on this matter.
Thank you for being patient with me!!
Love to you!
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I know what you are thinking...
hello?? all I have to do is listen, right?
Well for the most part, yes.
However, there are a few other tips I would like to pass along so that we
can both get the most satisfaction and, more importantly, accuracy out of our
time together.
While I know it is not always possible to be in a calm and serene state
(let's be honest, when we are having a good and relaxing time, looking for
guidance is NOT on our list of priorities) but the first thing I will do is
introduce myself. Once introductions are
done, I will then ask how I may be of service to you. I will then ask you to take a deep cleansing
breath (maybe two) while I shuffle my cards and breathe trying to connect to
you. What I am doing while I shuffle and
breathe, is wait for the feeling of being "plugged in" so to speak I
know when I am plugged in because I get a shiver that goes through me. The amount of time this takes depends on how
clear minded you are.
It is at this time we become a team of
problem solvers looking for the best course of action to lead you down the road
with the best possible outcome for you.
For instance: If what you seek is
guidance in a relationship, there are many dynamics involved in that very
general topic such as are you in the relationship already? Is there a spouse that you know about? Are you currently friends with benefits and
looking for more and want to know if he/she feels the same? Perhaps you are looking at finances: Are you looking for employment because you
are out of work now? Are you looking to
change careers? Are you confused about
what it is you are supposed to be doing? Or is it just that you are in a
negative work environment and just need to get out of that place but still do
the same kind of work?
When looking at love, there could be
many different energies to work through and interpret. When you already know about these energies,
this takes so much out of the equasion so that we can get to the root of your
issue in a timely fashion. If there is
only one, then only a first name is needed.
Also, the more specific your question,
the more specific your answer. I don't
mean "what color will my soul mate's eyes be?" What I mean is keep it
somewhere between that and "tell me about love?" (going from too
specific to too vague). From there, we
will work together to discover what it is you need in order to have the joyful
and meaningful life you deserve!
Thank you for your time.
Love to you!!