Her name really isn't Rose. I've changed it to to protect her privacy, though she wanted me to tell her story if it could serve as an inspiration to others.
Rose had been calling me regularly about the absence of a man in her life, her profound sense of loneliness and her concern that she never meets anyone she'd consider mate material anyway. She was discouraged, forlorn and despairing. She's had 2 failed marriages, a so-so job, just a couple of gal-pals, and kids who were more interested in being with their friends than spending time with Mom. Her recent relationship of 3 years ended when he informed her he wanted to go back to his ex-wife, and he did with no warning.Just poof;He was gone.Rose had no idea he was even in communication with the other woman, let alone reuniting behind her back. Rose became very depressed.
The void in her life was deep and her constant, continuous focus on it actually enhanced the pain she was suffering. She was thinking about it more and more and as a result feeling worse and worse. Each day that went by without the potential to meet a "decent, normal man, who can love me and make a life with me", took her another step further down on the escalator of despair. She went into the familair,"Why me?"..."How come I can't find happiness with a man?"....."I must be a loser"..."All the good ones are taken"...."There's nobody for me"..."I'll be alone forever" thoughts that only increased her sense of hopelessness.
Rose was as blue as it gets.....She did decide one day though that she was sick of feeling that way regardless of her circumstances. She began to read self- help info on the internet, took workshops and read books by Abraham-Hicks, Louise hay, Wayne Dyer and gained a much clearer perspective of her place in the universe, her Divine purpose, and most importantly how her own thoughts were keeping that which she wanted more than anything, away. She leanred that which she focused on appeared most evidently in her experience. "I don't have a man" and "I will never be loved" ensured that she didnt have a loving man." She's been affriming that. She also realized she was putting her life on hold, wasting precious time on negative thoughts.She decided to make 2 changes.She would work on her thoughts so that they were more positive......"I'll never have a good man" was changed to "I do not have a crystal ball, so I will stop telling myself that.Instead, I will claim a man who's right for me , knowing he shows up in Divine Timing." Next, she decided to fill the void by adding things to her life that she could enjoy without a man........Just thinking about these possibilities gave her a shred of enthusiasm that hadn't existed before.
So, she decided she wanted to learn how to belly dance. She found a class online that met at a local Y one night a week. She got to be pretty good at it, enjoyed the other gals she met in the class, some of whom are still friends to this day. They even did a performance in a convalescent home and had a ball! Yes, our Rose was having fun.
She was not at all religious but did have a spiritual inclination, so she found a New Thought church and joined.Once there she signed up to be part of the hospitality committee, the group that brings refreshements. Rose likes to bake, so this gave her the opportunity to trot out some of her favorite recipes, which were a huge hit.She loved the compliments.
Next Rose decided that she would make a contribution to the less fortunate.One of her fears was that she would one day die...alone of course...and that her life would never have had any meaning...Just here for a time and then gone. So, she searched online to find organizations to help in-need seniors, as that was her preference, and was paired with an old partially blind woman who dearly missed reading the paper, magazine articles and so forth. So Rose would go to her home for 2 hours on occasional Sunday afternoons and read to this woman. The senior lady was thrilled and delighted, not only for the reading, but for the company , as she was shut in and very lonely. The two became dear friends, as the senior lady was quite nurturing and Rose was in need of it. She talked to Rose as if she was her daughter...Rose loved it as her own mother had been gone for 20 years. On occasion Rose would bring her some of the fancy cake she had baked for her church crowd, and what a hit that was! The senior lady had never tasted such incredible confestions as Rose made. Her joy made Rose's heart sing!.........................
Next Rose decded she wanted to travel.She did not have much money or much time, but she realized she had not been out of her little town in 7 years. While she would have loved to go somewhere with a man, she continued on the path of being her own best friend inspite of her single status. She went online and found a singles travel group and found herself going to the mountains with them the following month.A short excursion that didnt cost much, but it gave Rose something to look forward to. She made some great new friends on that trip. One invited her to be her guest at a time share resort with a few of the others the following month.Rose went and had a blast.Since then she and her new friends have become close, and now Rose suddenly found herself with companionship for movies, concerts, outings and so forth. No man, of course,but Rose was having fun and enjoying herself.
Regarding the man, she still hoped for one, but she was excited enough about the busy-ness in her own life that she was no longer depressed about it. She wanted a mate and pictured herself having one,. She did a visualization where she saw herself with a partner who was perfect for her, having the attributes she wanted, claimed him as her own, and left the rest to the universe to handle.......She had faith and just KNEW that her desire would be fulfilled. Meanwhile her life was taking on more and more color. She was filling her void with things she liked to do and loving it.
Meanwhile back at her church, they were preparing a community wide Thanksgiving dinner, where they hosted several disadvantaged families.Rose volunteered to help prepare the food. Well, as luck would have it, one of the organizers had been impressed with her cakes she had made previously and spoke to her then and there about opening up a little dessert business together. And they did....But wait! It gets better!
A customer came in to place an order for a company event...and to make this long story shorter, they were married last summer.
The point here is that one has to be completely happy BEFORE the man shows up.A man cannot make you happy. he can enrich your life, but the happiness and sense of fulfillment comes from inside of you. Rose filled the void.
So many women are lonely and dwell on the fact that there is no man in their life as the reason they are unhappy.Worse yet women accept all sorts of mediocre treatment from men because they are so afraid of being alone. The relief from all this angst is in making yourself happy...by yurself...so that when the man comes in...he sees a woman who is joyous and fulfilled in her own right and is not seeking a man to be that for her.
Had a man come into Rose's life while she was miserable , he'd have either been her counterpart, another miserable person, or someone who she'd have been insecure with since having a man was her only priority......
This is a perfect example of Divine Right Timing. Ladies, trust Source to provide for your needs, and that includes a partner. Do not delay the process by wallowing in negative, discouraging thoughts.That only perpetuates the problem. Change the way you thimk and you will change the way you feel. If Rose can do it, so can you!
Please write me back with your success stories.Your fellow travelers on this path benefit from reading them..
It is only when we have the courage to face things exactly as they are without any self-deception or illusion that a light will develop out of events by which a path to success may be realized.
One of the most difficult tasks a reader has is to penetrate a wall of denial, the unwillingness to see a situation for what it really is. Why? Because it's painful for the caller to hear, and that without that piece of drama in her life she doesn;t feel connected. So many call wanting to hear something specific designed to provide them with assurance since their anxiety level is very high. While learning the truth might escalate that anxiety for a brief period of time, the opportunity to heal and then transcend the problem to enable a brighter, happier future, is more than some people can handle. I approach this with compassion and kindness, since everyone is doing the best that they can.
I had a call recently from "Jody"(not her real name). She wanted to know if the man she was interested in was going to make the changes he'd been promising her, for TWO ENTIRE YEARS. It doesn't take a reader to see that she was in denial, that IF the man had wanted to change he would have already done so. If he had wanted more with her he'd have made that happen. She was indulging in a fantacy and wanted a reader to support her. I am ALWAYS committed to the happiness of my clients. I recognize when they're hurting and when they feel most vulnerable.Thus I never, ever want what I say to add to their anxiety. But I do not lie just to make her feel good. That would be a disservice to her, preventing her from initiating her own healing so that she could get something far BETTER in her life. So I tell it straight. It's like taking out a splinter.It might hurt briefly, but healing is the end result.
I suggested she pay attention to his behavior and not his words, since his actions were speaking volumes about his intentions and desires, and had from the beginning...She wailed,"But he promised!!!!!!!!" as if that made it a real intention on his part. I shared with her that the right man was indeed coming in and he would be fully present to her. She would be secure with him, and the best part is that his words and his actions were in sync. She wouldn't wait for 2 years listening to promises that never happened.... But she had to trust the process, to pay attention to how she was kidding herself and thus keeping herself stuck, and allow Spirit bring her that which she truly deserved. Her card spread indicated the man had no interest in her other than for sex, and that she was fostering an illusion because she bonded with him. I chose my words carefully so as to protect her already wounded heart, indicating that he was not interested in the same type of relating as was she. She repeated,"But he promised!"....
This, to me, was a very dangerous level of denial, only perpetuating her pain and disappointment. She gave me a one star rating because she didnt like what she heard. However, the bigger picture is her unhappiness for 2 years perpetuated by denial....
If this message has helped one other woman recognize her own denial, her own participation in her heavy heart, then it will be worth all the one stars in the world. Your thoughts?
Hi Ladies,
I seem to be blogging around a theme lately. It's about being obsessed with a man and calling it love. Rosa(not her real name) was involved with Hal(not his real name either) for a few years when he went to a family wedding out of town, on his own, and hooked up with the widow of one of his relatives by the name of Claudette.Turns out they were high school sweethearts way back when, and really enjoyed reuniting(really, really, really enjoyed it). Upon his return Hal provided Rosa with all the details about being with Claudette again and added that he was moving on to be with her. He felt this was the woman for him, and poof, he was gone. Just like that! Naturally Rosa was devastated. How could she not be? That was 2 years ago. She still clings to the hope that this was just a mental abberration on his part, and that he'll miraculousy have a transformation such that he'll return to her,seeing the error of his ways and doing all in his power to convincer her to take him back. She has spent countless dollars on countless readers, all of whom promise he'll be back.The predicted date comes, then goes, with no sign of Hal. So she calls another reader to ask why the predicted dates of his return are not bearing fruit, and of course to get a new date. The outcome,however, is the same. Hal shows no sign of coming back. Rather than face this truth and allow healing to take place, because it's genuinely sooooooooooooooooo very painful, she has allowed herself to become obsessed with the outcome she WANTS to have. She denies she's obsessed, admitting only to being "curious."
Spiritually, a lesson is being missed. We are here to have joy, to enrich our lives with rewarding relationships, to fulfill our potential. None of that can happen if we are indulging our weakest, neediest and most wounded parts, clinging to situations that only offer unhappiness. If we're not experiencing joy, we need to look to ourselves to assess our own thoughts, since this is the core of the problem.........When a situation is full of agony like this one, that's a massage from the universe that THE RELATIONSHIP IS THE WRONG ONE. Rather than accept that , heal from it, and allow someone who is far better for her than Hal to come into her life, Rosa has wasted prescious years of her life in despair, seeking assurance from countless readers that he'll be back . However, he just never is.There is no reward for that kind of pain, that kind of suffering that Rosa is imposing on herself.
Rosa has a wonderful opportunity to face what the real issue driving this is, and that's her own sense of abandonment.That's the source of all this sorrow, fantacy, denial and suffering. Here is the gold nugget to her healing, her ticket out of this emotional quagmire. When Rosa can start to love Rosa, and not expect it to come from Hal, she will transcend her suffering, open the door to her own joy, and realize he was just a teacher on her path.
Ladies, I wanted to address some behavior styles that I have been listening to from my callers that are bringing them the opposite results of what they're trying to achieve. It is my hope that you can benefit from this information, which is why I am providing it.
Wanda(not her real name) has been consulting me for a very long time about her man, rather the man she wanted be hers but remained elusive. When they first got together she had a lot going on in her life. He put out all sorts of tantalizing energy in her direction. However, as she grew to care for him her own pursuits took back burner and he became the center of her universe. What this did was overwhelm him. She was texting regularly, emailing and calling. After awhile he didn't respond with the same enthusiasm. Soon he made excuses about his unavailablility, wanting to be with friends, needing to work etc.....BUT he always made time to be available for sex.The more his interest waned, the more upset she became. She began to complain to him that she was "doing everything" in the relationship, and then blaming him for making her unhappy . Finally she told him he needed to participate like a partner in the relationship or she would leave. He responded with the time-honored lament that he "wasn't ready" for a committed relationship. He baled and hasn't been heard from since. She was devastated. How could he toss her away after all she did for him? Didn't she mean anything to him? Why didn't he love her the way she loved him? He owed her an apology etc etc etc......
Here's what the problem was: She was over-functioning in the relationship. Men are NOT wired the same way we women are, and that is for security and consistancy...We thrive on that. They like a challenge and a chase.They also like to give. When the woman is doing all of the work such as Wanda, and providing sex as well, when he offered little in terms of connection, a formula for relationship destruction was just created. If you're at the point where you need to give him an ultimatum, you've alredly lost the game. His behavior is doing the talking, and he's telling you what he feels about you and the relationship by his level of involvement. When a man cares for a woman she doesn't have to ask. She doesn't have to coax. She doesn;t have to "campaign."So save yourself the humiliation. No ultimatums.You CANNOT make someone love you. You CANNOT make someone want to be with you. Pay attention to his behavior.If he wanted more he'd be seeking more.
So what do you do?....It's simple...YOU LET GO......You turn in the other direction and get involved in making your own life a rewarding one. You do not blame him. His reticence means only that you have not suffienciently inspired him (If you had he'd be connected enthusiastically. So suck up your ego and move on).You also do not provide sex to a man who is not your partner.Otherwise he will just see you as a booty call. Let him invest his heart.THEN he gets the "treats." If he gets it before, there is little motivation on his part to open his heart.
To inspire his love means to have a confidence in yourself, and a genuine joy in living your own life. You appreciate him, but do NOT make him the center of your universe. YOU are the center of yur universe. HE has to meet YOUR standards if he is to be a part of it. Do NOT OVER-FUNCTION. That's the kiss of death to a relationship.
Ladies, it's never about the man, but about you and the value you place on yourself. The more you honor yourself the more the man will too. So stop pursuing (texting, emailing and calling). Let him do that. You will then see miracles unfold in your relationships. LESS IS MORE, ladies.
In truth, when a man truly wants a woman she doesn;t have to do anything because it gives him pleasure to maintain the connection. That's what men do.Once you get clingly and needy you have just created the ending of your relationship. So instead of focusing on the man, focus on the parts of yourself that need to be healed. It is from this perpective that you are in a position to foster a healthy, thriving relationship. YOU CANNOT HAVE A RELATIONSHIP WITH A MAN THAT IS BETTER THAN THE ONE YU HAVE WITH YOURSELF>
I have been speaking regularly to Paulette(not her real name). She couldn't stop texting a man who traveled to see her once, had sex with her, and then never made another effort to see her again. She kept hoping he would come around. He continued the texting-only relationship with her, most of it sexual in nature. While I regulalry recommended if she wanted to have live communication with him, to refrain from texting . This would force him out from "under-cover"...He needed to feel the distance between them, a bit of silence so to speak, in order to be inspired to reach out LIVE. There was no opportunity for him to yearn for her since she was always right ontop of him with text messages. I know she was afraid of losing him, but no amount of explanation from me would convince her she never really "had" him. It was her own anxiety propelling her ardent pursuit. Rather than look at that and neutralize it, she just wanted to know when he'd communicate next. As a reader this was very tough for me.I care about the caller and truly wanted to see her succeed with this, but no amount of explanation on my part made an inroad in correcting her behavior. The upshot here was that he got involved with another woman and told the caller he would no longer be communicating with her. Her response was tohim was to ask him to call her if it didn't work out......Another mistake. Men love women who have dignity and pride, women who honor themselves.. It is not self-honoring to say,"Even though you've shown you don't love me and never have, that you can easily dismiss me, and that you're admittedly enthralled with another woman, should that not work out I'll just act as if this never happened and hope there's another chance to get you to love me."......Ladies, don't get desperate. This is what that kind of comment looks like to a man. Let go of what doesn't work. Pay close attention to your own inner dialogue about what's making you cling to a man. If you can diffuse that you are on the road to having a glorious relationship.
I Can Attract Relationships That Agree with My Desires... People are not finding it difficult to find the mate of their dreams because that person is not out there, but because of their own contradiction to their own desire in the thoughts they offer about the subject every day.
When you consistently offer thoughts about your future relationship that feel good while you think them, that means you are consistently matching the desires that you have discovered as you have lived life. And under those conditions, only someone in agreement with your desires could come to you. Under those conditions, no need for control is necessary.
Through each exposure to interacting with others, you launch continuous rockets of desires of what you prefer. And only when you are a Vibrational Match to the culmination of those desires will you allow your rendezvous with someone who matches those intentions that you have gathered along your physical trail.
Excerpted from the book The Vortex by Esther Hicks
The Law of Attraction Assembles Happy Relationships... Expecting your relationship with a man to keep you propped up is never a good idea, because the Law of Attraction cannot bring to you something different from the way you feel. The Law of Attraction cannot bring you a well-balanced, happy person if you are not yourself already that. The Law of Attraction, no matter what you do or say, will bring to you those who predominantly match the person who you predominantly are. Everything that everyone desires is for one reason only: they believe they will feel better in the having of it. Understand that you must feel better before it can come to you.
In simple terms, if you are not happy with yourself, or with your life, the attraction of a partner will only exaggerate that unhappiness, because any action taken from a place of lack is always counterproductive.
Underneath All Victories and Defeatsby Gangaji
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In the midst of some activity, even the activity of reading this now, it is completely possible to allow your mind to open fully, and in that opening to discover the peace and fulfillment of your own spacious awareness.
No place to go, no thing to get, no goal to be realized; no body to change no perfection to be attained. Simply, in this very moment, you can recognize what is always here. Here underneath all the lists and underneath all the victories and defeats.
In meeting yourself, free of all should's and must's and will's, for even a moment, you realize that even if nothing gets fixed or done, simple natural fulfillment is already here.
Of course there is much in our world, our bodies, and our minds that could use fixing. And part of the human evolutionary thrust is to use our mental capacities to discover what is wrong -- outside and inside -- and then to begin the work of correction by removal or augmentation. What a truly awesome power of mind. It is a hallmark of the capacity of the human brain.
The problem arises when this evolving, mistake-searching aspect of mind rules the life form called by your name. And this problem is huge in our culture.
How much of your attention is focused on what is wrong with yourself or others?
When we see how much is wrong or harmful in our thinking and our and others' actions, we can be overwhelmed by the tasks revealed. This overwhelm can result in giving up and reverting to cynicism or in strengthening our resolve to work even harder. To think and do more.
I am actually suggesting that before the overwhelm, or even in the midst of overwhelm, it is possible to stop, if only for a moment, and return to silence. In that moment, there is the recognition that to be internally free and at peace, nothing needs to be done.
Even a moment of true silence allows for true choice, for authentic, appropriate action or non-action to follow.
Some spiritual traditions refer to this silence as no mind. But for me that term is too close to mindless as in ignorant or stupid. I prefer the term open mind. The open mind is spacious and aware. It finds nourishment in itself, intelligent and aware without the need to follow thought.
In truth, all creative and fresh thinking comes out of this nourishment of aware silence. And it is available for you right now.
Your life is right now! It's not later!Nor is it yesterday.It's not when you make more money.. It's not when the the man you want makes a commitment. It's not when you've moved into the new house. It's not when you get the better job.
Your life is right now. It will always be
right now. You might as well decide to start enjoying your life right now, because it's not ever going to get better than right now--
until you make it better right now
Very often callers contact their readers for comfort and support when they're experiencing difficult challenges. I found the following passage and wanted to share it for inspiration during tough times:
May today there be peace within.
May you trust
God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget
the infinite possibilities that are born of faith.
May you use those gifts
that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May
you be content knowing you are a child of God.
Let this presence settle into
your bones, allowing your soul the freedom to soar.
These gifts are for
each and everyone of us.
So many women call in anguish because the man they want doesn't want them For 99% of women suffering with this the problem can be eliminated by NOT providing the most intimate gift they have to give. Men and women view sexuality differently, so a woman must not make the mistake of projecting her feelings and perceptions onto the man,assuming his feelings are equally intense. Usually they are not.
I am resurrecting a blog I did about a year or so ago because the message is just a vital today as it was then and bears repeating. We women can diminish "man pain" considerably by valuing ourselves FIRST and FOREMOST.
Today I have had a total of 8 calls from
women who all are suffering from identical doubts, sadness and insecurities
concerning the men in whom they are interested, though the individual circumstances are different,.I will change the names
to protect their confidentiality, but will give you an overview of a
few of their experiences. If you see yourself in any of these
situations,then this blog is is the perfect gift to you.
Rosalie:
She reunited with a man she hadn't seen in 2 years.He is living with
someone else and does not show signs of leaving,but has shared with her that he is unhappy,and clearly
enjoys it when the he and Rosalie spend time together. He comes over,visits for a
bit, and they always end up in bed.Then a long time elapses till she hears
from him again.When she does,he comes over to visit and the same thing
happens again...The result is she feels close to him (fantasizing about
a permanent relationship)when they are together but totally abandoned
when he disappears. She never knows when or if she will hear from him
again.
Gretchen: She has been "hanging out" with Paul for
a few months .It was casual from the beginning. He's upbeat, sexy
and charming.He never takes her out though,just likes to "hang out."She
now wants more and feels if she can just get a dialogue
going,expressing her longings with the request that he give a relationship between them a chance to grow ,they will be on their way to a
joyous future.He,however, won't even make time for the conversation because
he's busy "hanging out"with other girls. She's broken hearted!
Ingrid: She
has been sleeping with "Nathan" for 2 years. They get along well when they are together,, but the only time they are together is when he wants to have
sex. That's it!...She is hurting because in all this time he has not made her part of
his life ..She tries very hard to prove to him by
being extra nice and overly accommodating that she's the perfect woman for him.He's not
responsive to that, at all.
So she blames him for being limited,instead of
blaming herself for giving away the most intimate gift she has to offer
to a man who has no intention of committing to her, nor has he ever.. What she doesn;t
see is that she has "trained" him to treat her like that. She doubts
herself now all the time, as a result....."What's the matter with me?".."How
can I make him love me?".She is tormented with her own yearning, fear
of being alone, and doubts about her worthiness .
Sophia: She
met "Thomas" online.The chemistry was instant and fabulous! They couldn't
get enough of talking to one another.They lived for one anther's
emails and calls, exchanging several each day hungry to know more and
more about the other.......Finally after 2 weeks they met.They had
great date chemistry. They ended up in bed almost immediately....Thomas is now far more "busy at
work" than he was previously and is barely communicative at all. Sophia is
calling,texting and emailing him constantly,fearing like she's losing
him (she is),and trying to recapture what they had at the very
beginning.... She feels panicky and desperate.Was he just using her,she
wondered.The answer is no.She was a volunteer, and actually created
this debacle herself..
Ladies,what these women have in common is
an ignorance about how men's minds work ,and their own lack of recognition about
the power they actually do have.Men are wired for sex.That's the way
nature designed them. We women,while enjoying that certainly, really
want to be cherished,prioritized,protected,desired,loved and profoundly
wanted by our men....Men don't have that heavy emotional tug that we
do..Love can come,but only after a significant period of time where
they get to know the woman
beyond the flirting,sexual
innuendos,posturing and wooing....
It's always exciting in the
beginning,but that is not love.It's
infatuation..Many women think it's
love and do not realize that the thrill of newness is what's behind
the excitement.After awhile,that naturally fades away. If there is no
foundation of genuine friendship, the relationship is doomed. Women
kid themselves at this stage.What I've heard a thousand times is "He
told me he never met anyone like me before".....My response to this is
"So what?"...That comment doesn't guarantee he won't be trotting off
the reservation later to meet up with someone else he "has never felt
that way about" either.........When a man gets sex BEFORE he's given his
heart, he just isn't as motivated to pursue. Men are also wired to
appreciate variety. So if his heart is not engaged, his inclination to seek new encounters predominates.
Do know that if you are wanting to inspire a man's
love for you and you alone, you have to be prepared to give the
situation time....time for him to claim you as his own , to
demonstrate
his love and commitment.......Until he does, hold off on the sex.
Women
tend to bond with the men with whom they are sexual,and there is no
greater pain than to be dumped for lack of interest after that
particular gift has been given. So,how do you know when the man loves
you and is committed to you?Hopefully he will tell you...But sure signs
are when he introduces you to his family and includes you in their
events, when he actually dates you on a regular ,consistent basis...not
just wants to "hang out",when he wants you to share his birthday with
him and he wants to be included in yours,when he calls just to see how
your day is going,when he sees you have a problem and he wants to solve
it for you, when he surprises you with gifts, but mostly when he TELLS
you he wants an exclusive relationship with you...Anything less than
that,keep those panties
on, ladies.
Men want to feel
they are getting a prize.If you are so generous with that particular
gift, they put you in a category, and it isn't the future mother of his
children.
The fear of being alone forever is what drives women
to dishonor themselves,to throw away the most intimate thing they have
to give..... It is at this juncture that we women have to believe in
our own value and worth. Women need to convince themselves that no
matter how lonely it gets at times, to be assured with total certainty
that there really is a man out there,just for them, who can be a
respectful,devoted and loving life partner.....Nothing but that will do! I believe in you but am encouraging YOU to believe in you, and to never make a man a priority in YOUR life when you are merely an afterthought in his.
Hello,
Today I wanted to talk to you about gratitude. it is from this perspective that our lives take on new and positive direction. I have recently come upon some very inspirational quotes that I wanted to share with you today. The first is by author Melanie Beattie:
"Gratitude unlocks
the fullness of life. It turns what we have into enough, and MORE. It
turns denial into acceptance, chaos into order, confusion into
clarity....It turns problems into gifts, failures into success, the
unexpected into perfect timing, and mistakes into important events.
Gratitude makes sense of the past, brings peace for today and creates a
vision for tomorrow."The next is by Margaret Cousins:
"Appreciation can make a day, even change a life. Your willingness to put it into words is all that is necessary."
Ladies,
Know your worth. Do not make someone a priority in your own life when you are merely an option in theirs....
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Jovius 12/28/08
You
are in a physical body which has many distractions..
It
can be very challenging to do that which is in your own best interest. We speak to you of the soul. That very center of your being. You are capable of so much more and in order
to accomplish, from the best of who you really are, it is from the heart that
you must live.
We
use the word must, for your heart (that center of your physical being), can only
work in one way. It is with love.
If
you are creating for yourself that which does not bring joy, you are not living
from the heart..
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