AmethystMoon's Rants and Chants.........

Getting out of a funk.....

2009-09-01T23:38:00Z

Getting out of a funk when you don't feel like you can. It can feel like your stuck in a rut that you'll never get out of. But, fear not! You can get out of it and quicker then expected or even realized. Just let the problem go. If you can't fix, solve it or do something about it right that minute just let it go! Work on something else and come back to that problem later. I've found if you sit and dwell on that problem then things can and most of the time will spiral downwards into a bottomless pit. Staying positive can be a huge help for you and your emotional state. Also keeping positive can make better things happen for you. It draws more positive things to you rather then negative energy and negative people.

Do something to pamper yourself and even that will make you feel better. Even just talking to an upbeat positive friend can help change your outlook on the problem. Give yourself a day to deal with the problem but don't let it consume you to the point that it's making you obsessed. And always look at it and try to laugh. There are situations that need your attention but things that can wait or that are less of a problem then you realize don't let that bring you down.

Some suggestions to make you feel better are: go for a nice long walk, talk to a positive friend, sit in a park and read a book, listen to music that you love, sit in a park and people watch and relax, take a nice long bubble bath, go workout at the gym, or whatever you like to do for fun or just to relax. That way it'll give you some time to think over the problem in a more relaxed manner and come at it from a different direction.

I hope this helped you in some small way. Remember to love and laugh each and every day!

Making changes can be rough.....

2009-07-30T03:59:00Z

Making changes in your life can be a rough prospect to say the very least. But, sometimes it needs to be done. Clean out the cobwebs, get rid of people in your life that aren't making your life better that are only dragging you down and depressing you and revamp how you do things. Start reassessing how it is that you operate your life and see if it's in a manner that you are proud of or are you just living life and not really enjoying it? These are things that you need to ask yourself on a 6 month basis. Really think about that friend that always calls you and dumps their problems on you but never reciprocates the favor. Try to really stop and think and ask yourself "IS this person making my life any better or just dragging me down with them?" If the answer is they are making your life better then do keep them in your life. But, if the answer is that they are dragging you down and always are in the same ole mess time and time again then maybe it's time to either talk to this person and tell them they need to make changes or just back away from them and slowly weed them out.

I know this sounds extreme but it's best to have positive energy flow into your life by making changes, and they don't have to be huge ones, then it is to always have to have the feeling of energy vampires sucking the life out of you all the time. That feeling that your always tired and never have time for yourself after you talk to someone that is always in trouble. If you don't want to completely get rid of them out of your life then just limit contact so that you can prosper and have positive things flowing into your life like you deserve. For instance, if the relationship your in with your partner isn't working ask yourself why it isn't, then set a time to sit and talk to the other person about it and see if he/she feels the same and what you can do to change it to feel like your actually in a functional relationship.

Changes can be as small as meditating and bringing positive energy into your life so that you can feel better about who you are and what you are headed towards in life. Remember to always try to look for the good in everyone so that your not always focused on the negative parts of life. Life is too short to sit and worry about every little thing. Learn to live, love and laugh!

Blessings,

AmethystMoon

Ground, Center and Get In Touch.....

2009-06-27T07:40:00Z

Why not take a day or weekend even to ground, center and get back in touch with yourself. Figure out what it is YOU want in life and not what everyone else around you is demanding of you. Once you do that you will feel so much better and be able to go out and tackle the world again.

Just take a few deep breaths and realize that you need to demand time for yourself and that you need to pamper yourself at least once a month if not once a week. Don't go overboard with it but make sure your making some "me time" so that you don't feel so stressed out.

Love & Light,

AmethystMoon

Free Minutes to use......

2009-06-24T05:09:00Z

We all enjoy getting free minutes from our favorite readers. But, these minutes are intended to be used with a paid call not as the only thing you use to get a reading with. It's extremely irritating to get a call from someone and you've given them 1 free mintue and they want a full reading in that amount of time. We all know as readers and clients that it takes a good 5 minutes if not more for a good reading. So, please keep in mind when calling advisors that you need to be mindful of the fact that most of us do this for a living and there is no way you can get a proper reading in 3 minutes or less.

Blessings,

AmethystMoon65

Is Love Really Out There?????

2008-12-30T01:49:00Z

After being divorced for 4 1/2 years now. I really have to ask myself and others, "Is love really out there?" Or is it just an illusion that we have created to get us through the long lonely days? I guess it depends on the day.

We say life is what you make of it but, is Love what you make of it? Can one be happy on their own and alone for say 20 to 40 years? I suppose the answer to that is yes but, it sounds like such a lonely life. To never have someone to come home to, to never hear those words we all want to hear (I LOVE YOU), to never have someone to just share a moment in private with, and oh yeah of course sex! But, you can get sex just about anywhere as long as you don't give a damn and never want to see them again.

Just thoughts for the new year is all.

Just so you know!

2008-08-01T04:28:00Z

Just so you guys know that when you block email on Keen you also block that person from calling you. Just thought you would like to know that for all you advisors out there.

Blessings,

AmethystMoon

Letting go and having fun.......

2008-07-31T20:15:00Z

Getting in touch with you're inner child and playing is something most of us need to do. We're so stressed out from day to day life that we take no time for ourselves. Do what you need to do to de-stress and relax. Put in a funny movie that doesn't have any good use other then it makes you laugh. Go for a walk. Sit and just ponder life for a while. Read a book or whatever it is you know you need to do to relax even if that means taking an hour long bubble bath. Do something just for the hell of doing it don't worry about anything else other then being in that moment in time. Doing this once a month to maybe even say once a week will help you get back to a balance that you can handle when the stress of life is getting to you. Having a good cry works too. Let out all that frustration and then move forward. Working out helps with stress as well.

Think back to when you were a child and didn't have any cares in life other then who you were going to play with that day or what you were going to do. Go on a hunt for fairies? Pretend like you were a pirate on a ship on the open ocean? Just running around with your bestest friend and laughing your heads off? You know how to do it you just need to get back in touch with the way to do it. We think as adults that we're supposed to be so serious and always in control. Life isn't always serious and a lot of times not in control. So let yourself go and have some fun! It'll be good for you!

Blessings,

AmethystMoon