Janes Affirmations and positive thinking forum

Spring Time is here

Tarot With Jane — Mon, 25 Apr 2011 19:42:00 GMT

Today I think the day after Easter it is time to rejoice and think about new beginnings. Spring is a time of cleaning out the old and bringing in the new. It is a time to start planting seeds to grow our flowers, our vegetables in our gardens, or it can be a time to plant the new seeds of thought in our heads to create and manifest the changes in our lives we so desparately want and need. Take this time of beautiful whether and a changing season to really let go of any of the negative thoughts you may have and replace them with new positive thoughts and stand back and watch your garden grow! Peace and Prosperity to all of you! Tarot with Jane

Finally April 2011 I am really back on

Tarot With Jane — Mon, 28 Mar 2011 17:10:00 GMT

I will be on at least 5 out of 7 days a week now. Your most likely going to find me online evenings after 5 pm, and not beyond 10 pm. Please get in line, I check to see if anyone is waiting and if I do not see anyone I may not log on. I am still getting calls about my Mom and having to go to the nursing home frequently so I try not to tie up my phone more than 1-2 hours at a time. I miss reading and I finally was able to get started last week and commit daily. I hope all of you are well and I look forward to reading for you soon! Love and Light, Jane

Absence due to Mothers Illlness, back on everyday beginning June 12

Tarot With Jane — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 00:37:00 GMT

I am sorry to all of you as I seemed to just disappear and then randomly show up and hour or two. My Mom as some of you know has Alzheimers a very tragic and mystical disease. She has unfortunately been progressing quickly into the latter stages, so I could not take calls as we cared for her at home. Recently, we had some very scary episodes at home and brought her to the hospital. She has been medicated and treated for psychotic disorder associated with Alzheimers. We just found a nice private care facility to care for her and she was scheduled to move Wednesday, to a lock down dementsia unit so she can't wander or escape. Today in PA it was on the news, they just lost a 90 year old patient and are still searching for him. My Moms move may be delayed. I am asking everyone to bear with me a little longer "in case" I am delayed another week. I will however get on every early morning and every early evening in the meantime so if you want to get in line at 7 a.m est, and 5 or 6 pm est I will be on an hour each of those times. Love and Light to all of you who have been writing to me and asking how things are going, I love you all and miss you all and hopefully will be reading for you once again! Love, Jane

Absence due to Mothers Illlness, back on everyday beginning June 12

Tarot With Jane — Tue, 15 Jun 2010 00:37:00 GMT

Hours on KEEN

Tarot With Jane — Tue, 25 Aug 2009 15:27:00 GMT

Please look for me, I may only get on 1-2 hours a day or night, always early mornings, as my Moms health and well being are at stake right now. We are in the middle of moving her out of her home, closer to our home. I have also been having some crazy issues with my feet and have had to take certain medications, whereby I don't read while on them. I am still here and hope to get back on track with more availability in September. Not working too much on weekends, but you can always find me at some time M-F, or try to ask me when I will be on. Miss you all hope all is well and you get what your heart desires. God Bless, Jane

Availability April 5-11 i will try to get on at 4.99/min in foreign country

Tarot With Jane — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 19:29:00 GMT

I will be out of the US from April 5-11. I will be on April 3 and 4th somewhat and then again April 12 onward.

For April 5-11 I will be in another country with very expensive cell phone rates and KEEN connection charges. I will try to log in and out to check daily for anyone in line needing me however I have to charge 4.99 a min. I hope you all have a great holiday week.

Love and Light, Jane

Getting the most out of a psychic reading

Tarot With Jane — Wed, 11 Mar 2009 01:45:00 GMT

I am often asked how I receive information to give to a client in a reading. To begin I use a tool to help me "hear, feel, and see" things called Tarot. The Tarot cards for me are a tool to help me focus to give the caller an accurate reading.

In addition when you call, it is best to be in a calm relaxed state with a clear energy field for me to provide the most accurate reading as possible. I also come to my readings clear, if I am having an emotional day, I simply do not log on and work that day or morning or whenever it is that my attention is elsewhere.

Many of my regular clients ask why I am non judgemental, critical and/or always happy. The answer is I am human too but I work as hard as I can on finding a better place in my mind to keep my energy positive and strong so I can manifest my wishes and desires just like you!

Lessons need to be learned, that is part of life, for me as well as for you. We are all in different places at different times in our lives. I will not judge where you are tomorrow, or where you were yesterday ONLY where you are today, so you can create and manifest a better tomorrow!

Love and Light, Jane

Now that we are dating, how do I get him to commit?

Tarot With Jane — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 14:42:00 GMT

So many of my callers once they have started dating the man of their dreams, or they are in the beginning stages of the relationship (1-2 months, or even 1-2 years) want to know "When is he going to call me"? "Why is he being so distant"? Why isnt he telling me he loves me"? You get the idea the questions are "WhyWhyWhy"?

First of all some men are READY for a commitment and even marriage. If your lucky enough to meet one of these men, things go much smoother. A relationship beyond having the romantic feelings is mostly WORK to sustain it. The dedication and the responsibility to CARE about the other person as much as yourself to do the right things to make the other person happy. Two people who are mature, and ready for a commitment usually don't have the "WHY" issues coming up as they can communicate their needs, wants, and have the intimacy formed by emotional closeness not just physical closeness to keep one another well informed of what is going on in each of their lives.

IF you've met a man who is in the 'dating" phase, realize there is something about you that made him STOP dating other women and has made him put his dating on hold, yes that is right ON HOLD until he finds out if you have the qualities he desires in a life partner.

1). Calling him all the time to tell him you miss him, isn't going to cut it. He can see right through that, the message he receives is "she is needy without me" and her life is on hold.

2). Answering every call, text, email immediately and being available also sends a message that I call "a warning signal" to the man that you have made him the most important person in your life, and yet, he is still learning about you., trying to make a decision, and this is a trigger. This one sends fear.

3). Being available everytime he asks to see you AFTER HE HAS PICKED THE TIME THAT WORKS BEST FOR HIM shows him your calendar is wide open, what else do you do for fun, or responsibilities, or things you want or need to do, besides being available for him?

4). He wants to know about YOU all about YOU, to see what you have in common and going to a bar to have a drink, dance, eat out or go to the movies, have sex, well every woman can do that. What makes you tick? What makes you unique? What talents, interests, education, hobbies do you have to share to make you an interesting person who may be compatible with this man. I.E skiing, floral arrangements, home decorating, stock market, travel etc etc. Diversity?

5). Are you taking an honest look at him? What does HE have to offer you? Is he interesting, stimulating, trying to get to know you past hanging out at each others houses, or going to the bar? Does this man truly uplift you or does he bring you down and your hanging on because you have been together a month or two or a year or two. Have you really used your checklist?

6). FACT: Men go into a dating or relationship situation using their HEAD not their HEART. Women enter with their HEART not their head. I try to empower all my callers to get into their own HEADS and pull their hearts out of it until they have decided this is a man worthy of their love and commitment to them.

I hope this blogs inspires you to think and become strong and empowered. Men are by nature the chasers, they are happiest when in pursuit. Men need mental stimulation and challenges, this is the way they operate.

If you can just sit back and realize, that each time he isn't available you worry you've lost him, or you want him more, or each time you dont hear from him you panic and you face how much you do miss him and want him in your life. Utilizing this psychology will show you that if you are to do the same, not a game, but dont focus all of your energy on him, in fact, make him part of your life not your whole life, your going to get much further.

If in fact you sometimes have to take a message and return a call, or take a few hours to return an email or a text, OR if you did have plans with your friends or family not change them but say, it was too short of notice I already had plans, these behaviors send a signal to a man that you do have a life separate and apart from him and it makes him more interested in knowing more about you.

I hope this blog proves to be at least insightful, I am just trying to get your mind working a little and get you to think a little bit differently, knowing the differences between men and women and how they approach the beginning stages of a relationship.

Love and Light, Jane

hours

Tarot With Jane — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 22:54:00 GMT

Hi!

I am a very early morning person! I just wanted to alert everyone, I have been trying to do early mornings and late afternoons for most of my calls M-F. I get up at 5 a.m est, so typically I am hard to get after 7:30 pm est, M-F. I sometimes take appts, but not after 9 p.m est M-F Saturdays and Sundays I am usually on and off all day long.

Love and Light to all!

Jane

AWAY November 1-7, 2008 but will be on 2 hours a day

Tarot With Jane — Mon, 27 Oct 2008 16:37:00 GMT

My family will be away November 1-7th 2008, yet, I am going to be on at least every other day to take calls for 2 hours. I will check the queue and take calls but will not be able to take appointments.

love and Light, Jane

Formal Announcement Wedding July 4th, 2009

Tarot With Jane — Fri, 24 Oct 2008 16:14:00 GMT

I thought my blog would be a good place to share the news that we have finally set a wedding date of July 4, 2009. I know it seems a bit far into the future, but our situation is that we have 3 children in school combined who live with us full time. We needed to be married in the summer!

We are trying to find a church to marry us right now in New Hope, Pa, close to our home and we booked a reception for family and friends in a nice little Italian restaurant. We want to have a good time and it is going to be fun!

If anyone reads this that is into astrology I am curious how this date looks for us. I am a Pisces and he is an Aquarian.

Love and Light to all, Jane

My own personal view of "rip off report" about KEEN

Tarot With Jane — Mon, 15 Sep 2008 15:46:00 GMT

I have been told recently by a few callers that many many many of the advisors on KEEN are being attacked by callers who feel they have been ripped off, misled, and/or stating that advisors are just not "psychic or accurate" and are just on KEEN for the money.

I can't speak for anyone else, only myself but I'd like to assume the best intentions are had by all advisors on KEEN.

My view is that if a reader is dishonest, unethical, unprofessional, completely off base all the time that their ratings and feedback will reflect that and over time they will get less and less calls and you as a reader will be able to see this person may not be a wise choice to call for guidance. On the flip side, if a reader has mostly 4 and 5 star ratings, whether this person is accurate or not, it is reflecting at the very least, professionalism, guidance, support and a GENUINE effort to "get it right" for the caller.

People sometimes ask me "how sure are you that this will happen in this timeframe?". The answer MUST be I am NOT sure. I am predicting the future, and I am making an assumption on how YOU are going to handle the situation heading towards the outcome I see and THOSE around you. A great example would be that I see you getting a new job in 3 weeks and after this call you do nothing to apply, send resumes, contact people and literally sit there and wait for it to happen because I said it would happen, well then YOU changed my outcome, as I saw this job coming to you from the Universe because YOU were TRYING and making effort to create this outcome. Now, I have also seen people trying to get jobs and really working at it, and I do NOT see the job coming, but 90% of the time I can see what steps you need to take for it to happen. Again, this is just an example.

When we read, remember whatever we see requires YOU to take the necessary steps to help this outcome come towards you in the time period we may see. Timing is hard, if you do not listen to what is being said to you from above and you create fear doubt and uncertainty it will surely be delayed, also being greatful for your life as it is now and really feeling that helps you manifest ALL that you desire. Unselfishness and helping others ALSO always pays back!

Many people get readings from multiple advisors. If you get a reading from me and then one from someone else, and I see contact coming your direction with you being patient, not acting, and letting go of the waiting for it to come, my timing usually works, but many of you contact the person first, do not get a response and then wonder why the person isn't calling you. You have changed the reading you have with me, as you became impatient and acted on impulse thinking something good will come of it. Sure, of course, there are times when this will work, my point is be careful with multiple readings that you dont blend them together such as Advisor A says contact in 5 days, and Advisor B says contact in 8 when one of them said DO NOT CALL OR MAIL and the other said CALL OR MAIL. At this point you must make a decision, but can not blame one of the readers if you blended your readings and said the majority said this. I think getting readings from 3 advisors is about the max, and one should blend abilities, a Tarot/Psychic like myself, with a Clairovoyant for example is a good choice.

Another point I'd like to make is that on rip off report, NO ONE KNOWS if the bashers of the readers are readers/advisors themselves or REAL callers, or if the caller has a relationship with one advisor and is trying to promote their business or cause. In addition, since timing can be hard for everyone because it depends on your actions I am assuming some of the people haven't even waited to see before deciding the person was just wrong and that really isn't fair. Also sometimes we are just WRONG, if your bringing yourself to the reading with bias or negativity it makes it so much harder to give a good read. Being clear is hard for all of us, but absolutely necessary for a good read!

When I read the report I felt bad that so many people had such a bad experience with their readings and left them with not one thing learned or guidance on their pathway. The purpose is to develop one self to gain the most of their life experience. I also noticed on this site that not many callers left reports of positive experiences. I also read some falsities. Readings more than anything else are meant to guide you in a spiritual way and to uplift you and raise your spirit and CREATE and MANIFEST a way to get an answer or reach the destiny point or even to be able to let go of a situation that is holding you back, which most times is the hardest of all lessons in life.

Groups are formed by readers by other readers of people they feel are professional in running their business. We have no way of knowing one another OR knowing one anothers abilities. As far as comments about discussing callers I find that HIGHLY UNPROFESSIONAL and I would NEVER do that, NOR with the few and I mean few 5 advisors I even ever talk to by email have we EVER talked about a caller. We each feel this is OUR business and we all have different abilities and see things different ways, what I do know we do is SHARE card meanings interpretations, meditation techniques, etc etc. Notes, I have never taken notes, each reading is a new reading and if something different comes of it, something may have changed AROUND YOU not necessarily with you but the people involved in this situation.

In addition, I for one, work a maximum of 5 hours a day, I cant do more than that, my head hurts. I also dont read if I am having a bad or off day. I try to post when I am on and off, and sometimes if I feel drained I do not get on or if I feel highly energetic and ON I may work a few more hours.

In closing, I wanted to say I love you all and I come to this site with your best interests at heart and I am only working here to try and guide your life path and help you with any bumps that may be in the road along the way.

Feel free to leave a comment.

Being a Pisces I was highly sensitive to what I read not only about myself but other advisors as well, Yes there were some wonderful comments about me, but shortly thereafter some horrible comments as well. It surely hurt me, but it made me think that maybe I was meant to write a blog about this and my thoughts for all callers to see. Again in closing, I feel if your calling readers with 4 and 5 stars predominant ratings they must be doign something right, it just may take time to connect with the right advisor for your journey in life!

Love and Light, Jane

Away May 31-June 5 cruise to Bermuda

Tarot With Jane — Sat, 31 May 2008 14:45:00 GMT

We are going away today May 31, -June 5, 2008. Returning and back to work Thursday afternoon!

Will miss you all., lots of Hugs and Kisses!

Will check to see if anyone needs me and try to log on, not sure I can from there.

Everyone have a safe and healthy weekend, Enjoy the weather

Love, Jane

NEW SCHEDULE: MORNING, AFTERNOON, EARLY EVENING

Tarot With Jane — Mon, 31 Mar 2008 14:37:00 GMT

I am going to try something new this week. I will be on early mornings to help International callers. 6 a.m to 7 a.m EST. I will post when I am doing this, as well as sometimes from 12-1 p.m est. Lastly, 4-8 pm evenings, for Monday through Friday. Weekends will be the same, availability on and off Saturday/Sunday.

I am finding I can't read more than in 1-2 hour blocks without getting headaches. I need to meditate and cleanse the cards and myself in between readings.

I want my regular callers to know if they are in line, just get back in later if their phone rings at 6 or 7 a.m and you are normally a early evening caller, or just get in the queue after lunchtime.

I am going to try to keep the hours posted all the time so you can see them. I am an early riser, but accordingly, I go to sleep early at night too!

Love and Light to all!

Jane

Horrible spring break experience made good by positive attitude Mar 19

Tarot With Jane — Fri, 21 Mar 2008 04:41:00 GMT

Well, we decide to take the kids away for 3 days to an indoor waterpark. This seemed like a great idea, very affordable, 4 hours away and a nice change of pace.

We arrive, check in, get the passes to the waterpark eat lunch. They told us to come back at 3 for the room key. We go back and they give us a flier that stated they have had issues with stomach problems, vomitting, diarrhea and the fun begins. Do we still want to stay? Well, gosh yes if we aren't going to get sick?

Next they say all the linens were sent out to get washed as they disinfect the place and half the waterpark is closed while they wait for the board of health to consider it safe again.

We decided to take it easy, enjoy what was open, wait for the room etc etc.

Well, 3 became 4 became 5 became 6 and still each hour they say the room will be ready the next hour. Now, people are getting mad, tempers are rising, everyone is yelling at the hotel staff. We kept being pleasant, patient and kind.

They sent everyone to another hotel comped on them for the night. I get to the front of the line he quietly tells me DO NOT SAY ANYTHING and hands me a hotel key. Remember callers, I stayed positive, kind and I kept affirming that there was a room for us! It is 10 pm but they just checked us in and they are still comping me for the night since I waited so long!

The power of being positive and good to people ALWAYS comes back 3 fold!

Now, I seriously do not think they have done a good job here, I pray we dont get sick , and I hope to catch up my calls tomorrow!

I thought I'd share my story of another law of attraction story that came to fruition!

Love, Jane