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Boundaries

How to keep healthy boundaries in your relationships

June 2007 - Posts

Expectations.........
They are always going to get us into trouble, because while we are busy having them, others are busy catering to their own agenda which does not inculde our expectations of them and are blissfully unaware of our expectations of them..... In oder to get Read More

posted Thursday, June 28, 2007 6:14 AM by DruidsGlenTarot | 1 Comments

Now I NEVER normally send these, But this one had a very good message...... for all
Mystery Angels Your response will be interesting. Pay attention to what you read.After you have finished reading it, you will know the reason it was sent to you. Here goes:People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.When Read More

posted Wednesday, June 27, 2007 8:10 PM by DruidsGlenTarot | 5 Comments

Learning and growing.........
I am ever amazed at the comments that people feel they are entitled to make, and it causes me to wonder do they ever think about anyone else EXCEPT themselves..... I announced to a woman who I know as a casual aquaintance that I was going to give her Read More

posted Wednesday, June 27, 2007 2:39 PM by DruidsGlenTarot | 2 Comments

Selective Hearing....
We ALL suffer from it, it's a tricky disease because it's one of those kinds of insidious things that we do not know we have until we are forced to see it and yet even then we might not choose to acknowledge it.. When our ego is involved we tend to be Read More

posted Friday, June 22, 2007 10:00 AM by DruidsGlenTarot | 0 Comments

You have the right to....
State how you feel about your reading. What makes for accurate feedback ? How can one measure accuracy in something so personal and tenuous as feedback? It's a personal experience, a personal consultation, and a opinion about the interaction that you Read More

posted Tuesday, June 19, 2007 3:41 PM by DruidsGlenTarot | 2 Comments

When Push comes to Shove......
I remember when I wanted a man so badly that when he told me, he could not give me what I wanted, I did not want to believe him so I kept seeing him in the hopes that he would change his mind...... And I was not listening until I stopped falsely maintaining Read More

posted Monday, June 18, 2007 2:25 PM by DruidsGlenTarot | 2 Comments

Saying what we mean, meaning what we say.....
If we want to be taken seriously, we must stay away from DRAMA, and not make silly threats towards the person we are involved with to get them to do what we want to..... whatever that may be ( calling us more, keeping their word, whatever the behavior Read More

posted Tuesday, June 12, 2007 7:35 AM by DruidsGlenTarot | 0 Comments

I refuse to....
answer certain questions when I read because I have certain beliefs that make those questions very uncomfortable for me to even attempt to look at. I do not like to read on the timing of the ending of one relationship so that the person calling can *be* Read More

posted Sunday, June 10, 2007 9:42 AM by DruidsGlenTarot | 2 Comments

Training them wrong.....
At first, it's wonderful, the contacts are regular, they are consistent and if not consistent there is a plausible explaination for the let down or changes of plan. And it's all good, both are making efforts and HEY this could be something here.... Read More

posted Tuesday, June 05, 2007 7:50 AM by DruidsGlenTarot | 0 Comments

Closure........
I came across a message board on aol about relationships and one of the  biggest complaints on that board was people complaining that either the other party had ended it in an inapproproiate manner or they had not achieved closure on the relationship Read More

posted Sunday, June 03, 2007 5:50 PM by DruidsGlenTarot | 2 Comments