June 2009 - Posts
that goes, MY headache is more important than your funeral.....and that is proving to be an accurate statement for what people in our lives expect of us these days.....and for the most part that is easy to handle however when we have issues of our own
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Do you want to be happy or do you want to be right? (Dr Phil being the good doctor)
And I find in most instances that cuts right to the core of the issue in question no matter what it may relate to....and it facilitates rational thought and action where
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you gotta draw the line with people....And ask yourself IF what you are getting from the relationship is worth what you are giving.....Are they blissfully unaware that being there for them may in turn mean that you have the expectation of them doing that
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A real friend....
is there for you when you need them.......just as you should be when they may need you...
Suppports your latest diet or relationship and does not sabotage it....
does not spend all of the conversations or interactions talking
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*There is a way to look at the past. Don't hide from it. It will not catch you if you don't repeat it.*
Pearl Bailey
Amercian Singer and Actress ( 1918-1990)
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Woulda, coulda and shoulda treadmill is never a good place to be......
Because....it keeps you in the place of regret.......the place of not being able to move forward because we cannot change what we would have done, what we could have done
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Gosh, I never realized that I was SOOOOO lucky...
I got an email from a princess trying to give me money....imagine that? Li'l ole me, getting money from a princess......I am SO special.....
I appear to be getting money from Several diplomats, AGAIN I
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If you call with a preconceived idea of what you want to hear and are disappointed that you did not hear what you wanted, you do have to understand that different readers can pick up different things. Many readings the same does not guarantee a specific
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I sometimes refer to the expectations that we may have of others as our script for the scene OR part we want to play out with certain people at certain times in our lives....And wouldn't you know it, the other actor who we would like to bestow the
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Personals.....But one I saw caught my eye because it LOOKED more like a help wanted advertisement....and with high expectations no less.A 45 year old man who in his advertisement says he is disabled is looking for a woman from 22- 47 ( can't have her
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do we lie to ourselves AND others about what we want in a relationship? This ALSO applies to friendships, if we give too much the reciprocity can go too far one way or the other, and then that becomes expected of us, and we may become more resentful if
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Sometimes......
You read something that stops you in your tracks and you wonder WHY and the PURPOSE of it?
An Italian couple Johanna and Kurt Ganthler who were vacationing in
Brazil and arrived late to the airport for Air France Flight 447 and
missed
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like to thank all the advisors who contacted me through email regarding the blog I wrote about my mother being taken to hospital. And the ones who had kind thoughtful words on that blog also. It seems that when you need it the most that some you would
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cross the line from
being grateful to expecting and demanding things from another person
and the exchange becomes uneven it is best to pull back. I find that
lately people appear to expect things from you that they are simply
unwilling to do for you
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things can feel overwhelming.....And many things strike at once.....This appears to be one of those times....My brother who has just had a full recovery from colon cancer now has an issue with his heart, I am praying that he is okay because he's
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Frankly I am tired of getting emails soliciting business from readers that I do NOT call. I have asked several readers to remove me from their lists several times and I still get a pay to view email from this one? Or an update they are BACK, taking calls
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I know I am.......Tired of Repeat Blogs.....I mean some blogs are great, in fact I only wish I could produce stuff that is half as good as some of the stuff readers put on here...Educational, and with real substance, new ways to look at things, new things
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As a frequent flier from North America to Europe on those very kind of planes Airbus 330 I can only imagine what shock and horror the families of the people who were on board that plane are feeling right now. Reading the Irish Times this morning it gave
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