July 2009 - Posts
in the course of an ordinary day something you see and witness touches you, today was one of those days....
I witnessed a masse of people who were waiting in line around the route I was taking while grocery shopping.... I knew that these people were
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These are some of my ideas and opinions about what makes for a good blog. They are in no way intended to judge anyone's blog, it is not my place to do so these are merely observations.
Subject matter....Interesting topic that needs to be addressed or
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Closure....
One of the buzz words over the last decade....people seem to crave it....they want and sometimes demand closure when a relationship ends....however the person who was in the relationship may not want to or be capable of giving it. If
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Truth.....
What is truth? The dictionary defines it as: the true or actual statement of a matter.....however there are usually many versions of truth depending on how many people were involved in the *matter* being disected...
Two people
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Emotion....
Our emotions can hold us captive, they can control us and they can be so strong at times that they are overwhelming...So please know and be aware that if you call for a reading when you are emotional, we may not be able to read
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So many people are unhappy, but are they unhappy enough to actually do something about it?
So many people are blissfully unaware of their own faults and yet point out the faults of others readily...
So many people are self righteous and holier than
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Faith...
Sometimes you just have to have it.... Faith that things will turn out okay, even if things look badly at the moment...
My mother has been taken back into hospital in Ireland and has been diagnosed with a clot on her lungs which at her
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Intention.....
Can one truly know the intention of another when they do or say things that affect us?
Why do we think that everything that another does or says, does not do or not say is about us? Are we that vain that we think they have us on their
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Chaos....
House full of company from Ireland......collapsed fireplace that is being lovlingly rebuilt.....cooking dinner for 8 people nightly...
And I miss my dog.... Madra ( my youngest baby ) and a field spaniel, is in Wisconsin at the Field
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Acceptance...
How often do we lament about how things used to be, how things could be and how things should be? How often do we not accept things as they are and moan and groan about how we want them to be and yet we take no positive action towards our
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Manipulation....How often do we use the feelings that others have for us to get what we want from them? How often have we used a child against their father/mother to get them to do something for us mostly for self gain? How often have we pulled
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Projection.....
Sadly we often accuse others of what we despise in ourselves....so we project our own fears, our own problems that we cannot see in ourselves, AND our own issues onto the other person as we are blissfully unaware of those aspects of ourselves
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that people are using manipulation to get what they want from others...
They use whatever they have in their arsenal. They do not even see
themselves as manipulators....they lie to themselves and their loved
ones to skillfully get what they want from
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they come back to haunt you.....even if you think they won't, they WILL........At times we think that we can stretch the truth to suit our purpose....In fact one of my favorite quotes from an English Poet called William Blake says *The truth when told
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I find that many people do their duty every Sunday....sitting up in the front of the church...Being seen in the right place...........being seen to do the right thing........and yet....they walk out that door at the end of the sermon and talk about their
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a frequently heard saying and yet......I find that those that are more likely to use such sayings are less likely to adhere to such things....Let's be honest........break ups are HARD.... and SOME people have a hard time dealing with them.............Letting
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you heard that Michael Jackson had died? It will be one of those moments that you remember what you were doing and where you were....I know where I was when I heard that Lady Diana had died...I was away with relatives in a summer cottage on a lake
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We all have it.....
The reader says something and the caller repeats back what they think
you said.......and you have to clarify because you did not say what they have
taken from the prediction. Because it is not the exact script of what they think
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blogs about obsessive calling.The
fact that the word obsessive itself means excessive as in too much
would lead one to believe that it is not healthy, the general theory is
that too much of ANYTHING is not a good thing.So perhaps it is the choice of
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I love the blogs, I love what I can learn from them and I love it even more when I can see a situation from a different perspective by reading a blog and that happens a lot and I love it.
But there are some aspects of the blog arena that do bother me
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We cannot make your choices for you. Those are for you alone to make. We cannot complete your lessons for you, those are yours to learn.
We may not have all the answers, sometimes the universe does not have
them available for us when we have questions.....they
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