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Oh-oh-oh, I think I’m in love with Beyonce’. No, not that way –I’m not outing myself, there’s no “out”, I’m boringly heterosexual. But I love, love, love her latest song* and I’m encouraging all of my “single lady” clients and sorta-single-but-don’t-really-know Read More
Yesterday – the Dealmakers list, your own personal standards that express healthy, positive boundaries; that make your non-romantic relationships a source of happiness for you and enrich your life.  Today – “don’ts” or the Dealbreakers list, the Read More
I’ve been reading a great little e-book, “Mr. Unavailable and the Fallback Girl” by Natalie Lue, who’s a very funny and extremely wise, common-sense kinda gal! The book inspired me to blog, so thank you Natalie!  Although I’ve been in a great relationship Read More
As we know from Part I of this article and have known all along, men and women are different.  In Part I we looked at some ways in which women reduce their awareness of what’s actually happening in a relationship with their Mr. Man (idealization, Read More
Men and women are different. Ok, I’ve said it and you’re ready to cruise right past this post because you know that. That’s no major revelation and there are no insights to be gained from such an obvious and clichéd observation. Stay with me – it gets Read More
That’s Mr. Man’s or Ms. Herself’s emotional baggage, of course. We’ve all had some of our own to carry, since no one gets through life unscathed by broken relationships, broken promises and broken hearts. Many of us have learned that we can choose when Read More
I can’t take the credit for writing them, but I recently received this e-mail and it gave me a good laugh so I wanted to share it.  Recognize yourself? Your Significant Other? Your Ex? A really awkward ONS* (gasp!)?  I know there’s more Read More
Are you involved with a sociopath?   Most of you are probably familiar with comedian Jeff Foxworthy’s now-famous, “You might be a redneck if…”  Funny stuff! But before you skip this post, thinking to yourself, “No way! My Mr. Man (or Ms. Herself) Read More
Maybe your relationship began with the giddy intoxication of falling in love. Maybe your relationship had to sneak up on the two of you until you finally said, “This is it! This is LOVE!”    No matter how it started, at some point everyday Read More
Many of my clients’ questions are focused on love and relationships, and the question I am asked most often is, “is he (or she) my soulmate?”  Well, that question might be running in a tie with “When is he (she) going to call?”  :) The term Read More
Yes, break-ups hurt. Yes, we can love and desire someone long after they’ve gone, and we may wonder why it didn’t work out the way we hoped and planned. But if obsessing about the person who’s gone would bring them back – or would bring them back faster, Read More
Need says, “My cup is empty, please fill it.” Love says, “My cup is full, please share it.”                                     Read More