Divine Creations

Periwinkle- Your Eyes Dance, My Heart Smiles

2011-06-23T22:48:00Z

Periwinkle: Periwinkles are some of the most truthful, down to earth, strong, respectable, courteous and kind members of the aura spectrum.

In relationships, periwinkles have the absolute MOST staying power. This can be both to their benefit and to their detriment, as they are the color most likely to attract the wrong soul mate connections in the aura color family. Periwinkles are profoundly grounded in their ways and strongly against change. However, being that they are the most likely to attract the wrong soul mates in their lives, they do often end up finding that change is highly necessary for emotional survival. But they only change when their backs are up against the wall.

I had the pleasure of meeting one of these rare breeds in person this morning, strangely enough, after having read for a client whose soul mate is a periwinkle. He was hard not to notice, not because he wore anything flamboyant that stood out (periwinkles NEVER do this), and no because his voice was booming or annoying (periwinkles never do this, either), but because of his very soft, strong, grateful-for-life, gentle energy. He glanced down at my curious, grinning four year old, who noticed him right away, and returned his smile with such a sweet and adoring smile that even my child couldn't resist him as he dove in for a surprise hug while wrapping his tiny arms around the stranger's leg. Now....most people would jump or recoil at a strange lil' preschooler jumping on their leg, but this kind soul just laughed heartily and hugged him right back.

And this is the epitome of a periwinkle's soul: loving life down to the very second. Another example would be my gardener. He barely speaks English, but we speak in smiles, pointing, gestures and the occasional hug. That's all we need. I don't have to ask him to please pull the weeds in the garden. He does it weekly. He doesn't have to ask me to pay for it, I do it without prompting. He didn't have to ask me if it was ok to move the wilted, dying bush to a different area of the garden; periwinkles have a knowingness about them. They are self starters who often pave their own way through life without many words because they are people of action. Victor also knew without me telling him that although the tiny, freshly sprouted acorn squash plant had weeds around it, it was NOT a weed. How many gardeners do YOU know that can identify a sprouting acorn squash plant? Periwinkles KNOW their field and they are expert in their lines of work.

Individuals with clear shades of periwinkle can often be seen working as accountants, gardeners, horticulturists, park rangers, fishermen, personal assistants, sports team managers, agents, writers, pastors, counselors or any self employed lines of work. Periwinkles were self starters from the time they were children. Normally, periwinkles come from two walks of life: a) small families wherein they had no siblings or maybe one who lived outside of the home, and they were raised by a single or widowed parent; or 2) larger families wherein they were either the middle child or youngest child and felt a little ignored by at least one parent. In other words, periwinkles had no choice in childhood but to fend for themselves, and they aren't bitter for it, nor have they ever carried a grudge. If anyone asked them about their parents they will say, "Mom did everything she could with what she had". Periwinkles do not complain-- they do. In other words, if something needs changed, they change it. If their loved one is angry, they call. If someone needs forgiveness, they don't tell the person that they did wrong and now the periwinkle will forgive them. Nope...they naturally forgive and the person who did the wrong can feel the love in the tone of their voice. Something in their voice is very inviting to other people who love them; the under tones of their voice say, "You're loved", "It's ok", "You're safe with me", "I will be honest with you", and "You can trust me".

To you who are periwinkle, helping others feel healed and safe is your greatest gift. People gravitate towards you because you won't judge them, so they can finally be free to be who they are around you. And it feels like coming home after a fifteen year long road trip. But, think about yourself for a moment. Don't YOU deserve to feel safe? You're so busy making sure that everyone else feels good. It normally takes you well into your 40's because you begin to learn how to let others know what you want, what you can and cannot do, etc.

You were busy your entire life making sure your siblings were clothes, fed, loved, had fun, had normal childhoods, could afford their senior yearbook and got the chance to go the every prom, etc. But where were you every night? Normally, you were playing parent at home, packing up their lunches in their backpacks, cleaning up dishes from dinner and finishing that last load of laundry because your Mom worked two jobs and was on her second shift job. Your childhood pulled a virtual Houdini act before you even noticed it was gone.

Don't get me wrong, you're not crying about this. I bet you even feel uncomfortable drawing this much attention to yourself to even be able to discuss this with anyone. But there is a playful part of your soul that we all notice. Your smile looks like you have a little toddler inside that wants to jump out and stomp through mud puddles while giggling joyfully. You're gentle, your eyes dance, your heart smiles, and even when you don't want to be notice, trust me, the whole world will notice you, periwinkle. And many of them will love you. For the very few you allow into your heart, their worlds will be changed instantly.

It's a good thing that you don't let love go. No matter what problems you are experiencing when you meet a soul mate (you often meet your soul mates during very bad timing), you always hold onto the HOPE that you can make a relationship happen and you do not let go until it can-- even if it takes your entire lifetime! Now that, my friends, is patience.

What is your weak suit, you ask? Your stubbornness. You are the absolute luckiest people because you attract soul mates, friends, business opportunities, etc., like bees to honey. Yet, you will not proceed forward to take these VERY wonderful opportunities the universe has bestowed upon you because it "isn't the right timing". Well dear, if we all had our way, we'd attract everything in perfect timing, but life just isn't like that and sometimes you have to take a chance and tell yourself, "You know what? This is really crappy timing, but I'm going to go with my gut and take a chance!" You're lucky, so lucky, that these chances that come your way are often attached to people who think you're the best thing since sliced bread, and will wait on you.

What you provide in any relationship: You have the capability of making your partner feel immensely loved and cherished, even. They feel lucky to be in your presence because it brings out gratitude in them and causes utter joy and happiness to be alive. You make each day worth living, and those who love you are aware that they are very blessed. In friendships, you are loyal to a fault. You don't always pick the finest choices in friends, but you stick by their sides to the bitter end, often times even when they mistreat you. Your biggest fault in relationships is that even when one is over, you will allow the person to stick around as a friend until THEY get ready to move on, even though you clearly don't love them. You let it go on because you care about your soon to be ex as a person, and you treat them with the utmost of respect because this is how YOU would want to be treated. You truly carry the golden rule too far.

For men in relationships with periwinkle women, stop trying to read her thoughts. Really, what she says to you, although worded very simply and shortly, is what it is. She means what she says. She's not the standard woman who says, "Hon I heard Blue October is coming into town" and expect you to read her mind and go purchase two tickets. She will simply go purchase them and ask you to clear your schedule on the concert date.

For women in relationships with periwinkle men, you must possess astounding amounts of patience. Often, periwinkle men simply aren't available, but if you happen to capture their hearts, waiting can actually pay off! There are many times there lack of interaction due to their life stress (which is normally high) will make you want to cut them out of your lives permanently. However, there will also be just as many times when their apparent love and respect for you will shine through so strongly in their words and actions, that there is then nothing to do but continue onward loving them because once you love a periwinkle, it is often for life.

Warning to other aura colors: it takes years to earn a periwinkle's heart. Once you've got it, though, you've GOT it for good. They are keepers and worth every ounce of patience you've got in you.

Periwinkes:

How you can make your friendships and relationships better: Have better discernment of who to let into your heart. Just because a person is "a good person", doesn't mean you have to commit your life to them, you know. You're worth finding that exact person who is the other half of you! In friendships, stop being friends with people who insult you!

Your spiritual lessons:

1) Have more emotional discernment in friendships and relationships.

2) Know when it's time to shut the door in friendships and relationships.

3) You're not everyone's charity case sponsor. Don't hire people who bring your business down, don't fork over loans to family and friends so often, and sheesh you buy everything from every door salesman in four counties, stop!

4) Don't be afraid to ask for help.

5) YOU are worthy of happiness and YOU deserve to be in love, freely.

Who make the best friends or partners for you: Aquamarines, because they are open minded, nonjudgmental, patient enough to put up with your slow nature and profound enough to never bore you. Violets, because their open wanna-heal-the-world view is wonderful, but they're smart enough to start with themselves, and you could stand to learn from this. Blues, because their emotionally open and sensitive nature is one that understands your gentle spirit without questioning it

Who makes the worst friends or partners for you: oranges, because they have so much energy and applomb. It could suck you dry almost. You're gentle and calm. Oranges are flamboyant and nonstop. You like to go to bed on time, they party all night. Purples because they're too fake for the likes of your authenticity. Pinks because you're naive sometimes, and they're skilled liars more than half of the time

Careers best for you: Horticulture: you have a way with plants and have been fascinated by them since you were a child. Accountant: you're not rich, but you KNOW how to save money and particularly, how to stretch it. Truly, you're so grounded and talented, that you could perform well in ANY career as long as you're self employed.

Careers worst for you: the restaurant or hospitality industries; you have a bad back and standing too much on your feet in one position is torture. Truck driver; you're a homebody so this could never work out. Mailmen or route delivery; see above.

Health Challenges: your back, arthritis, male patterned baldness, carpal tunnel syndrome

Health Strengths: strong immune system, you retain vitamins from foods more so than most people so you could get by minus any daily vitamins.

How you can tell you're Periwinkle:

1) You find the good in everyone, even when people are being utterly despicable!

2) You always have a smile in your eyes that causes other people to smile, instantly.

3) People naturally calm down around you. They could be having the worst day ever and in just a few calm words from you, they're smiling.

4) You don't have many (if any) pets or kids, but you adore them, and even more so, they adore you!

5) You're an UBER hard worker. No one has such a strong work ethic quite like you.

6) People cannot be mad at you for long.

7) You can stretch a penny further than my grandpa used to stretch toilet paper (one roll could last him a month, if that tells you anything).

8) Ethics and moral values are very important to you.

9) You refuse the idea of riding a roller coaster like my cat refuses to meet and greet the neighborhood dog.

10) You're funny about your food. You like it plain, very little spices, and nothing too mysterious, and certainly nothing raw. There is only one food from another culture you enjoy, and that's Chinese food. However, you STILL to this very day, sometimes cannot help but wonder if you are consuming dog.

11) What you see is what you get. People tend to think you mean something deeper than what you say, but you never do. You're a person of few words, because to you, words are overrated.

12) You haven't changed your haircut in twenty years.

13) You're also strangely able to still fit into the same jeans from ten years ago. HOW do you DO THAT?

14) You don't ever get sick...everrrrrrrrrrr. But, when you do, you're sick enough to be in the hospital. Granted, you never go to the hospital; stubborn!

15) You believe strongly in the golden rule.

16) Your patience is astounding.

Are You Here?

2010-12-07T01:06:00Z

Monday, April 12, 2010

Are You Here?

Right now, are you here?

Are you conscious of the ground beneath your feet, the in-and-outness of your breath, the beating of your heart? Do you notice the brilliance of your fingers that wrap perfectly around a pen? Are you aware of the brother or sister who sits next to you in your office or on the train?

Are you seeing the vast sky? Are you noticing the deep silence that underlies every sound? Are you clasping the hand of your own divine spirit?

Your spirit is the wealthiest asset you will ever possess.

Please.

Do not forsake it to dance with fear.

Come back to here. Come back to now.

Come back to You.

A Declaration of Deserving!

2010-12-02T20:50:00Z

a declaration of deserving:

You are worthy of your desires. Really wanting what you want gives you the power to get it. You were born free. (The more you try to earn your freedom, the more trapped you become.) You are worthy of love and respect. Lovable.

You deserve
: eye contact
: smiles in the morning
: food made with pure intention
: clean drinking water, fresh air
: Hello, Please, Thank you.
: time to think about it
: a chance to show them what you're made of
: a second chance
: an education
: health care, including dental
: orgasms
: weekends and the summer off
: 8 hours of sleep
: play before work
: to change your mind
: to say no
: to say yes
: to have your deepest needs met
: to be seen
: to be loved for what is seen.

You deserve all this just because you showed up here on this planet.
Yep, you're that monumental.

Oprah Winfrey, Move OVER!

2007-08-01T18:23:00Z

Emerald Greens: Greens are some of the most powerful, strong and attractive people around--they're the STARS! People ADORE them! The rest of us secretly long to have that charisma, that certain "glow" that they have--- that energy that makes them so huggable!

This color tends to indicate a person with a strong ability to heal others, not via Reiki or intentional spiritual energy, but just via their presence, voice energy and friendship! They attract all types of people and have the "star quality" that makes their personalities just "shine". Green signifies a prosperous and healed life path and may also be present in the aura of a person who is receiving healing energy towards any financial woes or towards their physical or emotional wellbeing.

Individuals with clear shades of emerald green can be trusted as accountants, bankers, business owners, tax experts, bookkeepers, nannies, and other independent and caring personalities who are motivated to succeed while still maintaining a nurturing quality. They begin by learning how to take care of themselves properly, which then makes them the perfect caretakers of others' children, finances, businesses, etc. People long to be like them, be around them, and befriend them. There is an open outpouring of positive energy constantly emanating from their auras, however, they need to be especially careful, because their auras are also quite absorbent, which may leaves them tired and depleted.

To you who are green, helping others find peace with who they are is your greatest gift. Now if you could only apply this towards yourself (don't worry, most of you eventually do), then you'd be on a roll!

You are the most normal, loving, quiet and traditionally grounded person in the entire aura spectrum. You're the THINKER AND FEELERS. You're a good combination of being able to emotionally feel your way through your life while analyzing the logical components of things, as well. The problem is, you don't trust anything with too much emotion or too little logic. You are able to discern the right business moves and relationship choices for everyone around you with precision and tact. Now...it's time to learn how to do that for YOURSELF.

Greens: you know how to make choices well, so why don't you? Truly, you will avoid and run from making a choice regarding even the smallest life decisions, until it all comes crashing down around you and then there isn't much more you can do until you FINALLY must choose.You're generally so terrified of making the wrong decisions, that you'd rather fail from doing nothing than fail from trying and having the efforts prove to be futile. This is a sign of a green when not in power. A green who IS in power, will be just the opposite, and will be able to make decisions at the drop of a hat without second guessing herself, making the most of both her intuitive and logical senses, without any questioning that process. Don't worry greens, because once you get there (even though I notice it takes many of you about half of your lifetimes), you will be on a ROLL. Then you're virtually UNSTOPPABLE!

I've seen greens who've finally found their manifesting power, go from rags to riches in less than a year. I've seen them end up on the Oprah Winfrey Show or even in the White House! Don't give up on yourselves, greens! You have what it takes to be the strongest leaders of mankind! Once YOU believe this, you'll finally be in your own power, and you normally eventually become the manifestors you were born to be!

What is your weak suit, you ask? Lack of patience with the process, getting too far ahead of yourselves and then not doing all the little things it takes to get there. But then you WOULD get there were it not for all the mundane distractions of daily life. You very easily lose sight of your own goals because 1) There are so many of them. Your talents are so MANY that it's hard to narrow down what you want to do in life; and 2) You become impatient with the process, changing goals often and/or putting your goals on the back burner until "you they are more financially feasible."

Also, you're in love with the idea of using your talents to make loads of money, but you're terrified of money, at the same time. Decide how you feel about money, and money will then become a good friend of yours! Also, you put tons of time into working "hard," when you have the talent to "work smart" instead. You work your rear end off, generally, for the first part of your life, and then when you finally strike rich the second part of your life, you often will look back and think to yourself, "Gosh, why did I go through all of that? Why didn't I just trust myself and do this before trying all the rest of that useless stuff? Why didn't I believe in myself?"

What you provide in any relationship: loyalty, strength, the promise that who you are and what you are all about NEVER changes. Greens rarely change, unless it's for the better. Generally speaking, they are great in relationships because they always work to keep themselves strong physically, spiritually and financially. Granted, greens often have financial issues until they learn more about how to balance their logic with their intuitive sides without become too analytical. But once they DO learn what they want to do in their careers, they do it for long periods of time, and they do it well. They're excellent friends, being loyal to the end, excellent business partners if left alone to make all the decisions, and excellent spouses, as long as their spouses trust them to wear the pants.

For men in relationships with green women, I'd suggest having your own career and staying OUT of hers! She knows what she is doing, and does not want to be in business with you. It's nothing personal, but her business is like her baby. She doesn't need your advice. She's balanced, secure in who she is, and not looking for you to change her into who you want her to be, so make sure you marry because you are in love with her "as is," because that's the only way it will work. You do your thing, let her do hers, and then meet in the middle or end of the day for a meal and some fabulous lovemaking. Provide her honesty, loyalty and groundedness. Treat her with respect for the classy lady she is. That's really all she asks from you.

For women in relationships with green men, they will seem more attached to their business than you, initially. Work is often FIRST for men who embody the green aura color. Once time proves to him that you understand that he and his career are a package deal and that you're not looking to compete with his work for his time, he will gladly begin to make time for you. Stand on your own two feet about it, and watch how he works you into his schedule. You'll be happy with the balancing act he does to keep you!

Warning to other aura colors: it takes years to earn the respect, friendship or business partnership with a green. But don't worry. Once you're "in," you're in for life.

Greens take their time in making friends, allowing the friendships to blossom in their own time, enjoying and cherishing a friend, not being too quick to jump into any permanent friendship, partnership or relationship. It takes a lot to push a green away, however. They employ the, "ten-strikes-you're-out" rule. Since they don't normally trust their own judgment, they want to make sure they've given a new friend, relationship or business partner a fair chance. They often are known to give TOO MANY chances, even! But, let me warn you, if you keep hurting a green, using a green or abusing their kindness, they will eventually shut you out for good. Even though it takes a hell of a lot for a green to shut you out of their lives, once they have, it is VERY rare for them to look back.

What you should watch out for in relationships: People who abuse your kindness, talents and love. I hear the same things from you greens about your bosses, business partners, loved ones, friends and employees: "How come this keeps happening to me?" The answer is simple: you keep allowing for it! You're the STAR of the aura spectrum. You attract people like a porch light attracts flies. You have them buzzing around you constantly, wanting just a moment of your time, wanting your opinions on everything, wanting just to be near you, even! I can't blame them: after all, you're quite charismatic. You're loving, funny, amiable, endearing and sweet. Your smile could light up a room like lightning by the ocean: everyone LOOKS when you walk by them. It's your energy! It really is quite magnetic. They then put their best foot forward for you, because like the rest of us, they want to please you.

Use a combination of your logic and intuition, to make calls on judgment of character in relationship prospects. If your intuition says, "No" but you cannot logically discern why, don't try to get into an overly analytical conversation in your head to determine why you feel the way you do. Just don't do it! If your intuition says, "Yes" but you cannot logically make any good sense of the person, listen to your logic. Once you find the perfect combination of the two, both your logic AND your intuition will say "YES" more of the time.

Also, you expect the best in life, having the highest expectations for from your potential relationship, business and career prospects. Please don't change that; if you lower your expectations, YES, the right potential partner, friend or lover will come along, but then you will entangle yourself into something that won't make you happy. The reason why you'd be unhappy if you settle for less, is that you are too wonderful to combine well with just anyone. Not many people can emotionally, financially or spiritually keep up with your goals and the expectations you have on yourself, so it only stands to reason that they would not have those same higher level goals for themselves. You'd easily grow weary of anyone with whom you just "settled."

How you can make your friendships and relationships better: Trust your judgment of character from the BEGINNING. You're normally not wrong when you REALLY listen to yourself, and then you won't even have to worry about getting out of things later, hurting someone's feelings, or gracefully ending a business partnership. NO MATTER HOW NICE THEY ARE, please just say NO if your logic or your intuition says it won't work for you. Also, please keep in mind that you don't owe anyone any explanations of who you are, what you're going to do, and why you are doing what you're doing! You green perpetually attempt to verbally define and explain away all of your reasons for who you are. Stop it already! You don't owe people anything elaborate details. Just do what feels right and that's that. NO, people won't understand. Yes, you are indeed a very complicated individual. If they don't get it, don't waste your time trying to help them get it.

Your spiritual lessons:

1) Trust your logic and intuition equally.

2) Plough through all the dirty work in business, focusing on the final goal. Keep your mind on the goal, not the little things in between.

3) Look forward, not backward.

4) Don't be afraid to start ventures on your own.

Who make the best friends or partners for you: navy blues, because they're practical, pragmatic, stable, reasonable and grounded, lime greens because they are constantly growing and can keep up with you, violets, because they, too, are independent and dependable, but also highly driven and creative to boot, periwinkles, because they have a LOT of energy but are solid in their foundation; they can keep up with you, sensitive tans, because they're practical, stable, emotional AND logical, scientific tans, because they are charming and intelligent, and logical tans, because they do what makes sense to you.

Who makes the worst friends or partners for you: oranges, because they are not grounded enough for you and to you, they seem emotionally fickle, abstract tans, because they are indecisive and overly emotional at times, yellows, because they don't get their ideas off the drawing board often enough and change their minds too much for you; they play more than they work and this bugs you, pinks, because you wouldn't like not being able to read their body language, and lavenders, because they live in a different work than you.

Careers best for you: real estate investment, because you have the smarts to do it successfully and the motivation to work independently OR with others, financial advisor, because you know a lot about how to invest other people's money (now we just have to get you to do the same for yourself and you'll be all good), attorney, because you're powerful and your presence can be ultimately very persuasive, actor or actress, because you have that certain GLOW and APPEAL that makes people long to know you, be like you, and love you, broker (again you know what to do with other people's stocks, money and investments), TV show host or director, because people really could watch you and listen to you for HOURS, reality show host, because you know what to put on air and you know what people would watch, law, because you are intelligent enough to know the law and apply it judiciously and with caution, and independent business owner, because you enjoy running the show in business and you do it well

Careers worst for you: administrative, because being stuck handing mundane tasks can bore you (you're good at it if it's your own administrative work, just not other people's), customer service rep, because you'd tire of dealing with attitudes (you don't have patience for people who do not live by the golden rule or for people who try to get something for nothing), the restaurant industry (for the exact same reasons as listed above-- people who lie to get the free goodies make you cringe), but generally, greens can handle any type of work they choose, they just would be better off if they chose to work independently.

Health Challenges: arthritis, weak bones in general, gastrointestinal issues, brittle hair, hair loss, skin concerns, ulcers and a weak heart.

Health Strengths: strong immune system, strong levels of physical endurance, low blood pressure or normal blood pressure, decent levels of flexibility

How you can tell you're Emerald GREEN: People love you! You attract them like bees to honey. Here are some other telltale signs:

1) You are not a good judge of character. You mean to be, and you COULD, if you would listen to yourself. But you don't like to hurt people's feelings, and you oftentimes give them the benefit of the doubt first. You are often used, hurt, lied to, etc.

2) In the beginning of your life, you struggled with money. About halfway through your life, you either did or will end up finally making peace with money and making a lot of it.

3) People adore you; when you walk into the room, every person notices your smile, your natural beauty and just your "presence" of positivity, love and grace.

4) You love animals, especially dogs. Greens tend to find kinship with one special animal and it becomes like a child to them.

5) You work twenty-four seven. You often are so dedicated to your clients that you will work on holidays, late into the night, even, to finish up work for them. You won't sleep well without knowing you did the best you can do.

6) You have very interesting and indirect ways to find out information you need to know from people without having to directly ask them. Since people you know lie to you if you ask them something directly, you'll often analyze the situation to death instead of just asking them a direct question about something that is bothering you. I think this occurs because, and I know this sounds absurd, but people will do anything to be in your company, including lying to you.

7) You enjoy the finer things in life, but only if you're able to get these things at a good price. You tend to live for "sales" and "bargains". You probably have half.com, bestbuy.com, ebay.com and many others bookmarked on your favorites list on your computer.

8) Ethics and moral values are very important to you. There is nothing you disrespect more than someone who has sacrificed all of their principles for casual matters.

9) You tend to be very adaptable and open to life as whole. You're someone who can be comfortable at a party, even if you don't know anyone. You also have no problems staying at other people's homes when visiting, as opposed to staying at a hotel. You are open to change at all costs.

10) However, despite your willingness to BE open to change, you don't go looking for it. You expect it to come to YOU. When you do change this one part of how you manifest your life, you will finally be in your own power as a green, and then LOOK OUT WORLD, HERE SHE COMES!

11) There isn't much to you. That's not a bad thing. You enjoy working, your friendships and the simple things in life.

12) Despite your levels of simplicity, you do seem to have a deep appreciation for different cultures and different ways of life than your own.

13) Your energy can be a tad bit "scattered" from time to time, when not in your own power. You tend to lose focus of your overall goals if your health is poor, or when you feel a financial set back.

14) It takes you awhile to make a "come back" if you lose your pace. But that's OK. You take your own time with healing, so that it's properly done. This ensure your overall success and happiness more, once you're ready for that.

15) You have a lot of respect for time, whether it be your own time or other people's time. You appreciate it when other people respect your time as well.

16) Your patience is lacking. When you want the answer to something, you will mull it over in your head and analyze the situation ENDLESSLY until you come up with the answer. If you don't find the answer or if you are unable to see it clearly enough, you will blame yourself. Not cool, greens. Stop blaming yourself for everything!

Know Thy Aura, Know Thyself: SENSITIVE TAN Aura Color Description

2007-07-31T03:47:00Z

SENSITIVE TAN: The sensitive tan life color is a very common color in females, not so common in males, and a blessing overall to the aura color family. All of the other colors in the aura spectrum should be jealous of the sensitive tans; they have mastered the very intricate art of balance between the mental and the emotional. Employers love them because they never mix business and pleasure, and know how to leave their emotional troubles at home. Their spouses love them because they don't bring work home with them; they are the seemingly perfect mates due to the fact that they are sensitive enough to be compassionate, giving and caring, and balanced enough to lead a well-rounded life. They are trustworthy, supportive and kind. To you who are sensitive tan, being able to provide unbiased meditation, support and balance to your friends and loved ones is your greatest gift.

You are the most normal, loving, quiet and traditionally grounded person in the entire aura spectrum. You're the FEELER in the aura color family, but you're able to use your emotions as a blueprint to your intuition and logical path, finding answers, peace and quiet within your mind, heart and soul. You have the tendency to keep things simple in life: you don't want too many bills, too many kids, too many dogs, or too "much" of anything. You have the firm believe that "everything in moderation" is the key to happiness. You don't drink too much, eat too much, work too much, goof off too much, sleep too much or talk too much.

Your friends are friends you've had since childhood or college, and you tend to not have room for new friends. This isn't based upon any lack of social skills, but moreso because you simply prefer quality over quantity in life. You prefer to nurture your friendships and relationships, only taking upon that which you can handle at any given point in time. You're a creature of habit, and you tend to live by a relaxed schedule. You probably take your son or daughter to breakfast at the same place every Sunday morning, enjoy a certain type of meal on Wednesdays, go to Catholic Mass prior to Sunday brunch, and prefer only a certain brand of cereal. You arrive at work at the same time, and leave consistently on time for dinner with your husband or wife. Your life is focused on continuing important family traditions: you'll teach your children all about your religion, but be open if they should decide to follow their own path later in life.

What is your weak suit, you ask? Sensitive tans could stand to step outside of the realms of their quiet minds and attempt to share more of who they are, to their spouses, friends, family members and even their employees. I used to work under a sensitive tan on a daily basis. I'd report to work, make he and I some coffee, have it waiting on his desk, and have memos or updates of my progress on certain work projects placed right on his chair for him to see, because I KNEW his schedule, when he'd arrive to work, and what he'd want to see first thing. He'd review the work, correct or respond via his own memos, and have them back in my in box in less than an hour, along with any new projects or updates of his own. He was the perfect boss, always knowing what I meant without me having to elaborate, always being patient with my work, and with my personal life when it infringed upon his schedule.

However, I NEVER knew what he was thinking (unless, of course, I used my psychic gifts to channel him) on the personal note. He was always so elusive about his personality, personal preferences and his persona life in general. I was the more confrontational type who would prefer to just ASK him who he was and what he was all about. He would tell me what he wanted, and omit any details that made him uncomfortable, but RARELY would you notice him sharing personal details without being asked to do so. One day I asked him, "How come you don't share more about who you ARE, Doug?". His response was, "Well, really, you already know me. I'm a simple guy. I like my work done on time, I enjoy coffee, but you don't have to make it for me, and I enjoy just doing my own thing. There is nothing more or nothing less. What you see is what you get."

My point is, for you sensitive tans out there, please keep in mind that people think you're a mystery. Maybe there is more to you than what is on the surface level, or maybe there is not. Why not share more about your personality, your likes and dislikes, etc., so that we can tell more about who you are? When I first began working with my former boss, he didn't prefer the way I typed his blind carbon copies. Instead of telling me, he just dealt with it for an entire year before I finally noticed that he was doing his own work more often than not. When asked, he'd say, "It's no big deal. I can make my own copies! I didn't expect you to do my BCC's forever you know...maybe you have better things to do!" Sensitive tans do not particularly wish to hurt anyone, and would rather do their own thing than to impose.

What you provide in any relationship: Stability, strength, peace, comfort, warmth and tradition. You're the cornerstone in most families. You prefer traditional roles. If you're the husband, you're often seen working or operating a business in your home. If you're the wife, you often are the stay at home mom, or you only work part time. If you're in a homosexual relationship, you tend to be able to handle any role involved, but whatever you choose, you STICK TO IT. You are reliable, responsible, dependable and never fickle! You're the person we'd all love to grow old with!

Warning to other aura colors: Sensitive tans really ARE all they seem. It's all very "what-you-see-is-what-you-get." Stop trying to figure them out. There is nothing more and nothing less than what they show you about who they are.

A common answer to most questions about the sensitive tan's personal life could be answers by them with, "Just because." If you asked a sensitive tan the question, "What political party do you belong?", their response would be "libertarian" or "republican." You'd not be inundated with all of the reasons WHY they have chosen this political system, how they feel about social security reform or why they are also pro-life. If you asked a sensitive tan what religion they are, they'd say, "Catholic" or "Jewish," and if you asked why they'd say, "I dunno. I was raised that way and it's just what I believe," simple as that. Sensitive tans try not to make life more complicated than it is. However, if you judge them inappropriately, they live up to their names and become VERY sensitive about it. Sensitive tans do not appreciate gossip, misunderstandings or judgments about them in general. Once, when working with the above referenced sensitive tans boss, Doug, he called me in his office one day and said, "Do you think Alexis doesn't care for me?". Mind you, Alexis was my best friend, who also worked for Doug. I was VERY uncomfortable. I responded truthfully and said, "While I don't think she dislikes you, I think she thinks YOU may not care for HER. She just cannot figure you OUT, Doug. Perhaps attempting to connect with people more, might serve you well."

Now keep in mind that sensitive tans cannot STAND to not have answers to questions. In less than ten minutes, he had tracked my poor friend down, brought her into his office for a meeting, and was asking her why she didn't care for him. If a sensitive tan even THINKS you have issues with them, they will call you out on it in a flash!

What you should watch out for in relationships: Colors with too much aplomb! You'd not match up every well with a color that is overly opinionated or domineering. You have a tendency however, to attract partners who need healing, who aren't really ready for commitment and who can be self centered. The good news about that is, your color IS very healing. But the bad news is that you often suffer in the process, and end up feeling used and alone in the relationship. Also, please learn to verbally communicate. You have the tendency to want to be so idealistic that you avoid discussing anything related to pain or fear. Remember, if you don't pluck the weeds from the garden, they can kill the other flowers!

How you can make your friendships and relationships better: Communication! Don't be afraid to share with your friends and love ones a nice, warm verbal exchange of how you're feeling. You won't be burdening them. They WANT to be there to help you, understand you and SHARE life with you. Also, even though you're not judgmental, be just a tad bit more open than you normally would be, and you could then learn something from your the less logical members of the aura color family. Sway from the yearly holiday tradition, and take some time off to celebrate in the Caribbean one year out of every five. You may enjoy it!

Your spiritual lessons:

1) You won't understand everything and everyone. It's OK to accept things that you don't' know, don't understand and never will;

2) Show more of who you are on the surface, and not just the positive. Those who really love you can deal with it, and to those who do not, don't even worry about it!

3) A little bit of change could serve you well. It keeps life fresh for you. We know you're strong in your traditions, but be open to something different every now and then.

Who make the best friends or partners for you: yellows, because they make you laugh, stay within the positive, and are catalysts that teach you change and growth, greens, because they are dependable and traditional, just like you, but they help you keep a fresh perspective on life and help you open up to a new social arena, violets, because their sense of purpose helps you respect them and periwinkles, because they are spiritually open, silly and adorably cute to you while traditionally and religiously more grounded than the other spiritual aura family colors.

Who makes the worst friends or partners for you: abstract tans, because they aren't grounded enough for you and are too insecure at times, aquamarines, because they aren't traditional enough for you and you're not quite open enough for them, lime greens, because they are constantly focused on learning and growing and you're just focused on maintaining equilibrium on a day to day basis and your spiritual path requires a lot of endurance. You often feel like you have to concentrate just to get by with your career and other things in your life, pinks, because they question you too much on telling you ALL about who you are, and violets, because they are constantly on the go and embracing change. You enjoy the stability of tradition and a firm foundation. Violets want to live in Peru and you would rather live in your hometown from birth to death.

Careers best for you: law, because you are hard working and ethical enough to be a darned good attorney who is out for the best outcome for your clients, broker, because you enjoy and have a good relationship with money and are smart enough to do this, account management because you're diligent and can handle a lot of stress, entrepreneur, because people trust you and would buy from you, advertising or marketing, because you know how to make the sale, philanthropy, because with your business smarts and heart, it's a the perfect combination, international trading, because you are grounded enough but a fast thinker, librarian, because sometimes you'd just like to be alone when working and FBI, because you are keenly observant and quick on your feet, judge, because you're a great judge of character and you are great an offering an unbiased view of things, nurse, because you are a hard worker and have a great heart or operations management, because you understand the inner workings of a company and have ambition to do the work right.

Careers worst for you: the hospitality industry as a whole, because when you're in a certain mood it SHOWS, and you are who you are and don't put on airs just please customers, dietitian, because you'd be way too hard on people and you'd not have patience if they didn't just do the work it took to stick to your food plans, taxi driver, because you like staying in one location or builder because you don't like to get your fingernails dirty.

Health Challenges: stroke or predisposed tendency towards strokes, sleeping disorders, back problems, degenerative bone diseases and conditions and aneurysms, your muscle strength and tone is sometimes poor

Health Strengths: higher metabolism than most people, average blood pressure levels, lower incidence of cancer and heart disease, average endurance levels, your weight is average or you're of a thin build

How you can tell you're SENSITIVE TAN: Call me and I'll let you know, otherwise, here are some telltale signs:

1) You are a very good judge of character;

2) You are happy in routines, which ground and stabilize your life;

3) You don't try very hard to make friends, but EVERYONE respects you;

4) People tend to mistake your lack of communication of lack of verbal intelligence. It's not true. You just don't care to impress others.

5) Your clothes are often well tailored to fit your body and are perfectly pressed.

6) You often are observant and sensitive to your children's needs, or if you don't have children, to the needs of others' children.

7) You don't talk much, unless spoken to, or unless people ASK you questions, and even then, you keep it simple.

8) Your answer to most questions is, "I don't know, that's just how it is!"

9) Your friends have been in your life since childhood or college.

10) Family roots and traditions are important to you.

11) Your religion and spirituality are important to you.

12) Your ethical and moral grounding is strong and solid.

13) You're incredibly intelligent, but HUMBLE about this.

14) Your handwriting is for the birds.

15) Your cooking is, as well.

16) You enjoy sports, and often times you're incredibly loyal to YOUR home team.

17) As peaceful as you are, you often watch HOCKEY while yelling and cursing like a sailor. It surprises people!

18) Your sense of style is classic and simple.

19) There isn't a dust mite alive in your entire house.

20) You do your own yard work and housework.

Know Thy Aura, Know Thyself: Aura Color Description: AQUAMARINE

2007-07-28T21:09:00Z

AQUAMARINE: The aquamarine life color is another rather rare aura color. With the exception of the crystals, they are the most rare in the aura color array. Aquamarines have the wonderfully balancing combination of all that is sacred, joyful and innocent in life: love for all living things (plants, human and animals), bliss, grounding in themselves, healing abilities, a keen perception within their sixth sense and infinite patience. To you who are aquamarine, being able to heal, mediate and bring peace, calm and understanding to others is your greatest gift.

You have a tendency to be comfortable and adaptable in all of your surroundings. You know how to balance the indoors with the outdoors (you'd be the person who brings a portable shower when camping, while at the same time being appalled if anyone litters the ground with toilet paper). You recycle, your food is organic, and your electricity is either from windmills or solar panels, or at least you're considering saving for all this!!

You love, appreciate and respect all of your friends. You'd be there for them in the middle of your work day or in the middle of your sleep, as long as you know that they know they can come to you for anything! you're picky. You are independent. You wouldn't mind living on a sailboat, in a cabin in the middle of the mountains, or in a beach house even during the winter. You've done everything from studying the language of dolphins to learning about metaphysics. You have an empathic gift that normally is passed down from many generations and has been known to encompass the spiritual realism of shamanism, native american beliefs and traditions, energy healing, and energy reading. People claim that just hearing your voice is healing. You take care of your body, mind and spirit, but also you enjoy taking care of others.

You're an exhaustingly fast talker, reader and a DOER in life! Your thoughts and words jump so quickly from one subject to another like a spinning top out of control. Sometimes, in conversations, other people around you say, "Please slow down, I cannot follow you!". Life for you, is a constant search for people who can follow your 300 mph pace both intellectually and physically. You know how to enjoy simplicity, but you also have a profound understanding of different cultural aspects of life and the luxurious pleasures of life as well. You'd be just as happy picnicking on the beach with peanut butter sandwiches and koolaid, as you would dining on cheese and Chardonnay. Granted, alcohol doesn't sit well with you, and although you enjoy it, you don't enjoy the feeling of being tipsy, so you tend to drink only one or two drinks and then gracefully bow out. You're the only color in the aura spectrum that combines the simple with the profound in a way that we can all appreciate and understand.

What is your weak suit, you ask? You have the tendency to fight for the underdog in just about every situation. This wouldn't be a weak suit at all, except that you'd do ANYTHING to prevent a person from being in pain, even to the point of self sacrifice. You're normally the person seen in your suit and tie on the side of the interstate, changing a tire for an elderly couple, or the person wading out into shark infested waters to save a teenager who swam out too far. You've been known to empty your bank account to help people in financial distress, you also sponsor children in third world countries and have dreams of having your own animal rehabilitation shelter on your own property. These are not weak suits, except that your house is a hot spot for all the strays in the neighborhood, your bank account is always empty, and your phone is always ringing. Remember to take care of you.

What you provide in any relationship: A perfectly balanced life partner. Once you decide, you stay in relationships for a very long time. No matter the role you play, you play it ultimately very well. You know how to get past any trivialities in life and keep your eye on the goal in friendships and relationships. You know how to pick your battles, you don't nag, and you can navigate your way through ANY quandary. Your partners and friends are very lucky to have you. You're normally the solid cornerstone of the entire family. You're also supermom, superwoman or superdad or superman. You can juggle a 50 hour work week, a happy relationship and raise well rounded children in the blink of an eye. Your strongest point in relationships and friendships is that you can always be unbiased. You don't fight very often, and if someone picks a fight with you, you listen, but then you allow them space to calm down before you resolve the issue. You're also able to be the "devil's advocate" in any situation. You're the friend who would never hesitate to find a diplomatic way to say, "Yes that makes your ass look big!", without hurting your friend's feelings. Your patience in some areas is extensive, but you could stand to use a little more of it in your love life. Once you decide who you want in a relationship, you then decide you want them NOW.

Warning to other aura colors: aquamarines are the chestshire cats of the aura family. Even if smiling, you still won't be able to figure them out!

Aquamarines are constantly smiling. Don't let this fool you. Look into their EYES to determine what's really going on, for only then would you know how they really feel. It's not because they keep secrets from you purposefully or choose to hide things from you for any negative or ill intent, but rather because they are very private about their personal lives, and honestly, it makes them happier to focus on YOU than on themselves. They smile because they are happy; no matter what life throws at them, they have a tendency to make lemonade from the most tart lemons, JUST BECAUSE THEY CAN! They are also extremely practical.

When being a guest for dinner at the home of an aquamarine, you'll notice that they won't hesitate to pull out the fine china, the expensive wine, etc. It's not because they were saving that for YOU, but rather, because they feel life is to be lived! They won't tell you when a problem is occurring in their lives, not because they wish to hide anything from you, but rather, because they wish to figure out the problem on their own. It empowers them to be able to make decisions and figure out their lives. If an aquamarine does come to you to discuss a problem, generally, it's merely to confirm what he or she already knows. Sometimes, you'll notice them talking themselves into action; or talking themselves into what they already know. Just listen and nod; they already know what to do and generally don't need you to talk them into anything or out of it.

What you should watch out for in relationships: Becoming too settled and then losing sight of your original goals and of who YOU are. It's very easy to do in between taking care of everything for everyone. You have the tendency just to DO everything in the relationship. Be careful, otherwise you end up planning all of the dates, doing all of the laundry, and then all of the emotional work as well, for your partner, just because you enjoy staying emotionally, mental and physically active. You're such a DOER that you tend to take over. People can confuse you as domineering or as the dominant role in the relationship. You'd prefer things to be more balanced and you've always wanted an equal in life, so please step back and allow the person to be that equal, and don't do their work for them.

How you can make your friendships and relationships better: You're pretty good at knowingly everything I've listed in this blog, and generally quite good at knowing how to mend your friendships and relationships, or how to make them even better! Aquamarines are born as logical and spiritually balanced beings. You already KNOW exactly what to do. Your problem is that you get a tad bit caught up in analyzing everything, and then you lose sight of exactly what it was you were going to do. Step back, simplify, and THEN decide what to do. You tend to get so caught up in the own details in your mind. Step back and look at yourself as an observer would see you, and then you may be able to prioritize your thoughts a good bit better, forming an ORDER to the madness going on in your brain! :)

The only thing that could be done better, is change, not the act itself but the timing of the act. You have a tendency to want to talk yourself into believing that everything "takes time." Therefore, when a friendship or relationship is a dead horse and has been, you continue beating that dead horse, not because you think it will work, but rather, you're waiting on the right "time" to bury the horse. There is no better time than now. Please don't worry so much about the order in which you make your relationship decisions, and please don't hang onto friends or partners just because you want to do it all "the right way." You KNOW how to diplomatically begin or end a friendship or relationship; "time" doesn't help or hurt this. Embrace the DOER in you when it comes to beginning or ending your friendships or relationships, much in the same way you embrace the DOER in you for business meetings and deadlines.

Your spiritual lessons:

1) Actions are often better than words;

2) Patience, if applied towards the appropriate things, can serve you well;

3) Learn to step back and let others show you what they're made of. You can not DO everything for them; and

4) Not everyone is a DOER. Some people are THINKERS, FEELERS or something in between. Please give people the space and time to show you what their specific plans of action may be, and who they are towards themselves and towards you.

Who make the best friends or partners for you: violets, because they hold the same spiritual and morally grounded principles as you, Greens, because you never have to question their motives. Just like you, they are doers, but they also have the strong intellectual value as thinkers, to hold your attention. sensitive tans because they are calm, peaceful, collective and patient listeners. They will listen to you talk your way through your problems, and then agree with your plans without hesitation. They have complete trust that you can figure out your own process, yellows, because they, too, are fun (although a tad idealistic), positive, joyful and HUGELY aware of what they want in life, and navy blues, because they are calm enough to ground you and add bring so much peace and logic to your table. They'd be the partner who says to you, "OK, I hear all of that, but I have missed your original point. Can you remind me?". This helps you put all of your thoughts together in order to keep your FOCUS.

Who makes the worst friends or partners for you: browns, because they are way too stagnant in their actions for you. They are indeed thinkers, but their thinking doesn't lead to enough "here and now" type of action for you, purples, because while they mean well, they have too many irons in the fire and don't know how to make room for you or time for you. A purple would be off to the next spiritual conference, psychic fair or chasing after the next magical cure for wrinkles, while you would be busy doing more practical things like reading, cleaning the house, going to business meetings, and picking up the kids from ballet. Over time, you'd get tired of trying to ground them out...besides, you're too busy trying to ground your own thoughts, grays, since you cannot seem to pull them out of meditation long enough to get them into the real world, and pinks, because you cannot figure them out.

Careers best for you: independent business owner (because you love to make your own schedule, and you are motivated enough and driven, and have everything it takes in order to take the right risks for business change and growth), marine biologist (because you love water, and have an affinity for all sea creatures), zoologist (you are able to understand the behavior patterns of animals), child psychologist (you understand children better than you understand adults, and often times you PREFER the company of children than adults. You seem to have a way of working at their level and bringing them up to yours. You see yourself as an equal to everyone, including your children and children in general), food critic (you are familiar with some of the best foods from all cultures) sommelier (you are familiar with the best wines, too) politician (you'd actually make a difference; you aren't fond of politics but you are fond of doing what is best for society and you have a strong sociology background) or human rights activist (you have a way of working out problems for the benefit of everyone; your grounded and strategic approach could really be utilized well if you worked for the U.N. or found some other way to actively help people in need).

Careers worst for you: mathematician (you'd grow weary of the patience it took), server or waitress (although you enjoy pleasing people, you tend to poop out and want to sleep after 10pm--you aquas need your beauty sleep), police officer or law enforcement (you don't enjoy any hostile environment)

Health Challenges: inflammation in the body or water retention, weak tendons, carpal tunnel syndrome, dry skin, thinning hair, psoriasis, eczema, glaucoma, poor eyesight (unless corrected), brain disorders, neurological diseases, lupus

Health Strengths: you have lower blood pressure than most of us, your lungs are in top shape, you have little to no weight challenges and can lose weigh easily if you happen to gain too much, you are in moderate to good physical condition and your flexibility is higher than average

How you can tell you're AQUAMARINE: This is a rather rare color, as well, but call and ask and I will take a look. Otherwise, here are some interesting facts about most aquamarines:

1) You always have a peaceful smile on your face;

2) You're perfectly content to sit in a room alone, without being entertained;

3) You're an enigma to people around you. You're the mystery girl who is the envy of the town because you have a certain charisma. People don't understand what draws them to you, but they want to be around you;

4) You ramble on and on when you talk, jumping from subject to subject with dexterity and grace;

5) You write eloquently and beautifully;

6) You cannot hold a tune in a bucket when it comes to singing. The birds fly into trees, the foxes duck into their holes, dogs howl in pain and even turtles tuck their heads back into their shells at the sound of your voice;

7) You know when to talk and when to listen;

8) However, when you ARE talking you often tell your friends, "I just HAVE to get this OUT!";

9) You have friends in corners of every country;

10) You would give anything to help someone, but more importantly, people often would give anything to help you, IF you'd but ask. Your bigger problem is that even if you needed help, you'd never ask;

11) You always say what you mean and mean what you say;

12) You're a person of high class. You dress with class, walk with your head held high and speak fluently and with grace. No enunciation is omitted, every preposition in it's proper place and with every verb properly conjugated. The vocabulary you use on a daily basis is more than what most of us will use in several months.

13) You read avidly;

14) You're beautiful, in a natural way, without having to use much makeup, and without having to overly style your hair;

15) However, you photograph poorly;

16) When you visit other countries, you're aware of the language and the culture; you know how to respect the culture and how to act with dignity and grace around people of different ethnic backgrounds;

17) You're incredibly politically correct at all times, and your manners are impeccable;

18) Your sense of style is never too much or too little;

19) You know how to give a good hug;

20) You know how to make ANYONE feel special and unique.

Know Thy Aura, Know Thyself: Aura Color Description: CRYSTAL

2007-07-26T22:29:00Z

CRYSTAL: The crystal life color is rarely ever seen in one's aura, unless as a secondary color. I've talked to many of you who have crystal secondary colors, but it's rare to see a crystal primary color. Crystals are considered the aura chameleons of the color spectrum, (i.e., they are strong mirror images of others). They reflect both the positive and negative qualities found in each of us, rarely taking on a "true" life color of their own. They constantly absorb energy from anything and everyone around them, making them the clearest and purest forms of energy healers available to humankind. They resonate at very high energetic frequency levels, which causes them to take upon the energy of others, therefore it can be detrimental for crystals to be exposed to large crowds for long periods of time.

For this reason, they tend to be loners. They love nurturing others, owning and being around pets and children, and walking alone in nature. Crystals are natural people who prefer a life of complete balance, structure and harmony/peace. I recognize many of you CRYSTALS out there, by your love for humanity, huge levels of personal responsibility to end human suffering, enormous capability to understand the "bigger picture", your eccentric but loving personalities and your ability to truly enjoy just about any person with whom you come in contact. You crystals will often call me to say, "Can't I just be like the rest of you guys? Why can't I just feel and be NORMAL?"

To you who are crystal, blending in with your friends, family members, colleagues and co-workers is your greatest gift. You can shop with the yellows, work well in business with the greens, cry with the blues, hike with the oranges, study the migratory patterns of deer with the scientific tans, do aerobics with the abstract tans, have philisophical roundtable sessions with the sensitive tans, work side by side in The Peace Corp with the violets, learn how to paint toenails with the purples, discuss the tactics of the military with the browns, talk about whether or not trees "feel" with the lavenders, discuss accrual accounting methods with the logical tans, workout with the reds, discuss Hatha Yoga with the aquamarines, discuss psychology with the sky blues, discuss Donald Trump with the emerald greens, design a home garden with the lime greens, revamp the Human Resources Dept. with the chartreuse, write a book with the Magentas or work as a corporate partner with the navy blues. The only problem is, what do YOU want to do?

You long to experience life to it's fullest and can be grateful for the most simple things: hugs from your children, smiles from your spouse, laughter at your birthday party, a good night's sleep, etc. You enjoy weird things: one of you told me that you wait until the sun goes down after a rainy day, out in your backyard, to "catch frogs". You'd then sneak them into your five year old's bedroom at night, so that he'd wake up with a new frog a few times a week. You made him let release the frog because you taught him that "all things belong to the earth, not to us", however, you enjoyed watching him feed the frog a nice, fat fly first!

You appreciate your friends, but you're picky. You can get along with anyone. You have acquaintences and colleagues worldwide, but your friend count could use some work: I'd venture to say you have about three real friends. You, however, seem relatively content to have as few friends as you can, because you're too busy working, smiling with your children, and jumping in mud puddles barefooted, to even notice your lack of a social life. People from all over the world wish to know you and become your friend.

What is your weak suit, you ask? Your levels of energetic sensitivity. Your feelings are easily hurt when you're young. Once you mature, it gets easier, but as children, crystals are so easily offended and put off. They're the ones you see running home to mommy with tears because "Johnny called me prissy pants." Crystal children are like little adults. They want to befriend adults and expect to be treated as such. Please, if you're a parent to a crystal child, allow them to be who they are. Allow them to teach YOU, because that is what they wish to do, and that is their purpose of being on this planet. They have arrived in this world with vast amounts of knowledge that is outside of this human arena. They will know when they've hurt someone, when they need discipline, and when you're lying to them to protect their feelings. Talk to them in ways you'd talk to another adult, but with much awareness of their emotional levels of sensitivity. Nurture them and allow them to grow into who they wish to be without putting your own vicarious expectations onto them. They will thank you for it!

Crystal adults, your weak suit, mainly, is that YOU DO NOT KNOW WHO YOU ARE. Believe me, you think you do! You think you're the most independent, witty, eccentric person known to mankind and you're so proud of being the loner you are. However, all of this is but a smoke screen for a very lonely, but intelligent, talented person who longs to find who she is without the constant pressures of who society says she "should" be.

What you provide in any relationship: Absolute freedom, openness and respect towards allowing your partner(s) and friends to be exactly who they want to be, and often without judgment of what they do or who they choose to be. Crystals are VERY exact. They will not be walked on or disrespected, and they call a spade a spade. A crystal will rarely wait on a man to get his act together, because she simply does not have the time.

If a potential partner or friend does not seem to be interested in her enough to pursue the friendship or relationship, a crystal (in her actions, not her words) will be thinking and expressing, "Hey, don't let the door hit ya on your way out of my life." She has no time for mind games, waiting, or for someone who doesn't know what they want. It is a rare and special priviledge to have a crystal by your side in a relationship, since in most cases, she makes it loud and clear that she'd rather be alone than to be with the wrong person. Granted, on the other side of the coin, you may THINK a crystal has chosen the wrong partner in life, but if she has decided that the partner is right for her, she will loyally stick with him through thick and thin as long as the partner is working on any issues at hand and is constantly striving for growth. Crystals are very loving and supportive partners.

Warning to other aura colors: crystals, while easily adaptable, will see through bullshit. Know that if you're trying to get into a friendship or relationship with a crystal for the wrong reason, she'll send you packing. Men, don't pull out the "I Love You" card if you don't really mean it, just to get some action going on--she'll see through you and you'll be out of her life like a fat kid in dodgeball. Women, don't try to tell your new crystal date that you haven't been hurt from previous relationships--He'll call you out on it, and that will be the only "call" you'll ever get from him again.

Employers, when interviewing crystals, please know that YOU are the one being interviewed. Your crystal prospective employee could take you or leave you, probably has at LEAST ten interviews lined up behind yours, three of which are scheduled that same day. She probably knows more about your company than you do, so go ahead, drill her regarding why she thinks she will be best suited for the job. She has all the right answers, ands she KNOWS you will hire her. The question is, does she want to work for YOU?

Employees, do you really think you're fooling your crystal boss while you're calling out sick so that you can schedule interviews for new jobs? You're not. She is just letting you put in your notice so that she doesn't have to pay your unemployment. You're really doing her a favor, hence her lack of confrontation towards you. The reason she is not being amiable around you is not because she "has something personal against you," but rather 1) She's not fake; and 2) She knows you're taking advantage of her company's time, and does not wish to express any approval towards what you both know you're doing.

What you should watch out for in relationships: Yourself. You crystals know exactly what you want, and from whom. You know the type of man or woman, the moral values you want to see in them, the lifestyle...everything. You always have this tendency to not do so well in relationships and you claim that people end up becoming something different from what they showed to you in the beginning honeymoon stages of the relationship. The problem is really far different than what you think.

It's YOU who changed. You're so easily adaptable, energetically and emotionally picking up new and learned skills and personality traits along the way in your relationships and friendships, that YOU CHANGE and YOU OUTGROW your partners. While it was once funny and cute that your man enjoyed ridiculous adult cartoons in the beginning stages of the relationship, later you found that his lack of ability to be serious in life truly annoyed you, and you outgrew it. Yes, you once enjoyed his silly rapport, but what you really ended up wanting was someone who knew when to be silly during the right times, not all the time.

You lost sight of what you wanted because you did that crystal thing you do: your energy was sucked into theirs and you chameleonized yourself unknowingly, becoming so much like the other person that you didn't know you wanted differently. Remember, you crystals are the purest energy forms in the entire aura spectrum. You're like an empty glass waiting to be filled with water, or in this case, energy. If you kept more of your own wine in your glass when dining out with prospective partners, you'd not have to go "EWWWW" much later when you become frustrated that all of the wine you drank was your partner's favorite, but not your own. If you want to feel that energetic "buzz," please, at least let it be from your own wine. Besides, the sensitive, delicate Pinot Noir such as yourself should never be blended. Please, stay yourself.

How you can make your friendships and relationships better: Step back from them, take as much independent time to yourself to replenish, remember who you are, so that you are not drained emotionally, mentally, energetically and sometimes even physically, by the energy exchanges between yourself and them. If you feel yourself connecting too much and you feel yourself getting lost in the person, step BACK. Yes, we know you're psychic. Yes, we know you can read our thoughts and feelings and intentions.

You seem to just "know" things that the rest of us do not and we find you utterly fascinating. You make it so easy for us to just talk about ourselves the entire time we're with you. Please help us remember to know that you'd perhaps like to talk about your children, your career, your friendships and your spouse, as well! Also, crystals could really stand to learn to trust people a good bit more and learn that not every friendship has to end up being a "best friend." It's OK to have friendships that are "shopping" friends, "dining out" friends, "telephone" friends or an "instant messenger" friends. Stop trying to make the "instant messenger" friend the "in-person, coffee chat, sleep over" friend. Let each friendship have it's special place in your life.

Your spiritual lessons:

Stop trying to commercialize your life or be like the rest of society. You're weird. Get used to it; embrace your uniqueness and others will, as well. You can go hang out at the Star Trek Conventions and be perfectly happy! Plenty of friends are out there that are just like this! It's OK!! Stop changing, adjusting your energy, molding to fit the rest of society! We love your weirdness! You aren't meant to work a 9 to 5 job UNLESS it's absolutely so wonderful that your heart throbs out of your chest for the type of work involved. You aren't meant for normal stereotypical roles in relationships and friendships. Please just accept this, and stop allowing people to try to tell you otherwise. And really, that's all. You know so much more than the rest of us, so it's not much. Just be yourself!

Who make the best friends or partners for you: aquamarines, because they are almost as spiritually evolved and independent as you, and they will respect you, as opposed to expecting you to change for them Greens- They do your thing, you do your own thing, and the two of you compromise and meet in the middle. No one has to change, each person respects boundaries, and you work in your own little spaces of energy, coming together separately, but with love and class, and sensitive tans because they have the levels of emotional sensitivity and class it takes to stay calm, confident, peaceful and unwavering in their love for who YOU are.

Who makes the worst friends or partners for you: orange, because they are too involved in the physical planes of existence. This doesn't match up well with you, since you enjoy the ethereal world more, purple, because while they long to be authentic, show too much energetic confusion for you, reds, because their main focus is on the root and sacral chakras, and you energetically operate strictly from your crown chakra, pinks, because they don't know their head from their asses and lavenders because if both of you live in the clouds, you'd never come down to earth, and then who would pay the taxes?

Careers best for you: psychic, spiritual advisor, spiritualist, clergy member, energy worker/healer or spiritual leader (because you are the purest channel available for this, and you're authentically and naturally gifted), doctor or nurse (your natural gift for healing in combination with your fascination for the human body and your astute intellect is a nice combo here), yoga or pilates expert and teacher (even though you do not enjoy most forms of exercise, these are the types of exercise that combine the spiritual with the physical, and this does well for you) psychologist (you enjoy helping people and figuring people out is a constant mystery and joy), independent business owner (because you love to work on your own schedule) writer (you're great with expressing yourself) or early childhood education (you adore young babies and children.)

Careers worst for you: factory work (you have chemical sensitivity and it's too boring), teaching (you don't have the patience unless it's something spiritual), garbage collector (you are sensitive to smells), accountant (you could do this, but you loathe numbers, and it would feel like a chore) housekeeper (you hate mundane work) or computer programmer (you love the challenge, but dealing with code for more than eight hours puts your brain on overload and then the spiritual side of you drowns a bit.)

Health Challenges: obesity, arthritis, diabetes, migraines, liver problems, kidney problems, urinary tract infections, gallbladder problems, you're not physically flexible

Health Strengths: perfect blood pressure rates, you're strong as an ox, you have perfectly elastic and clear skin and your endurance is good.

How you can tell you're CRYSTAL Chances are, you're not, or you if you are, it's in your secondary color. But if you're curious, call me. I'll take a look. Other than having an aura reader look, there are some more obvious signs. Here they are:

1) You're the person at the party who isn't talking much and doesn't have to "mingle" because everyone who knows you and keeps coming up to you to tell you their problems.

2) Being around you, people claim, is like taking a truth serum. They just cannot lie to you. They try, you give them "the look," and they immediately start spilling the beans beginning with where they were last night, what they drank, what time they came home, and even that they forgot to feed the cat. If you stick around long enough without laughing, they will also begin to admit that they didn't wash their hair but twice last week, and that they haven't been to the OBGYN in three years.

3) You have struggled with your weight the majority of your life; people still seem to find you magnetically attractive, however, not matter your weight. You get comments about your eyes, and how piercing they are.

4) Crystals have two different categories of physical appearance: It seems to be either:

a) Light skin, light hair and piercing huge blue eyes; or

b) Light skin, VERY dark hair and VERY dark brown doe eyes.

5) You seem to let time get away from you. You and time have been enemies for as long as you can remember. You start out the day and get so caught up in work, talking to people, running errands, or simply taking a long bubble bath, and before you know it the day is over. You don't often arrive places on time; you are either an hour early or 20 minutes late. YEARS have gotten away from you before, and you don't have much recollection about what you did during those years.

6) No one ever forgets you. You don't make much effort to stay in touch with people, remember their birthdays, or be the pursuing party in the friendship, but people are constantly wanting, somehow, to be your friend, to get you to talk to them, etc. People send you gifts, cards and emails. Your phone machine is always full. This would be fine if they were really wanting to get to know YOU, but most of the time, they're thanking you for being there for THEM or they are contacting to ask about your advice concerning a problem with their kids, boss or spouse.

7) You don't enjoy mundane tasks. If you don't feel that what you're doing has MEANING, you become incredibly bored and have even fallen asleep at work more than once.

8) You've had a lot of careers in your life, not because you've ever been unreliable, but because you outgrow the job and need more challenge.

9) You have less close friends than you can count on one hand.

10) You are quick to forgive, but not so quick to forget. Once someone has lost your trust, they rarely ever get back in the door to your heart.

11) You do not judge people; you are incredibly open minded.

12) You're a very private person, and you don't enjoy people knowing very much about you. If you're on a diet, having a health concern or having a financial crises, people don't know the depth of it until you have 1) Lost fifty pounds from the diet, 2) You're in the hospital, or 3) Your house is being foreclosed.

13) You'll never ask for help on any of the above referenced things. If your house was blown away by a hurricane, you'd be riding down the flooded street on a board, waving at all your neighbors going, "Really! I'm OK! I promise!"

14) You have a love/hate relationship with money. You love it, but there is never enough of it. You make more money in one year than most people could dream of, and your debt is higher than most people's debt in their nightmares.

15) Your ascorbic wit will be the death of you. Your mouth tends to get away from you and before you know it, you've said something just a tad more bluntly than would have liked.

16) You have a wonderful relationship with WATER. You bathe more than once a day, you enjoy swimming, you would stand out in the rain if you weren't concerned that the neighbors would worry. You would love a fountain on your desk, and probably have a fountain, pond or swimming pool in your yard as well. If there is a tiny bit of water in your yard or pooled up on your deck, you'll toss off your shoes and put your feet in it.

17) You need a lot of sleep, and no one wants to be around you first thing in the morning.

18) You aren't concerned as much about the latest trends of clothes, hairstyles or nail polish, but your look is classy and timeless.

19) You enjoy music more than most people.

20) You are generally a very WARM person to be around. People enjoy your charm, wit and smiles.

The 411 On Timing: How To Interpret It, When and Why It Is Important To The Outcome

2007-07-26T03:41:00Z

I'm just as guilty as the rest of you when it comes to timing. My constant question when reading myself or when asking a psychic question from my mentor is "WHEN?". "When will I get the call?", "When will the outcome desired occur?" and "When will I reach my goal?" are all common questions in our careers, love lives and in our day to day lives.

Once a spiritualist provides a timeframe for you, "Why does the timing of the outcome appear to change?", one might ask. There are many simple and complicated answers to this question, upon which I will elaborate during today's blog. First of all, receiving a reading from a spiritualist is a combining or joining, if you will, of energies between two people. Electromagnetically speaking, any combination of two or more things equals what? A changed outcome of what the matter was initially, prior to the combination of other matter(s).

When you receive a reading from a psychic, you are changing your energy by opening yourself and trusting your spiritual advisor to "tap" in to your energy source, or what I like to call "the aura." The energy that the psychic or spiritual advisor returns to you "changes" the way you view the energy of the situation at hand, whether it be your love life, career or a financial goal, because after all, you are calling for "advice" about the future.

For instance, if you have a pot of stew on your stove at home, and you ask assistance from a chef to help you with your "creation," he or she may advise that you add some basil, or that you not add any thyme. You may have started out with the idea or concept of chicken noodle soup, but you may end up with chicken Thai noodle with lemongrass. If the chef asks you to wait thirty minutes before adding your mushrooms, but you decide to go ahead and add them in the beginning, what happens? You have a soup that's otherwise good, but has overcooked and soggy mushrooms.

This is what happens in your relationships when you ask for a timeframe and a general clairvoyant guide on how to best proceed, but you do just the opposite of what the energy worker or spiritualist recommends, or even when you do exactly as the spiritualist recommends without listening to your own instincts regarding timing. Energy is energy, and when you think upon it, it changes.

For example, a customer called me a good while ago asking when a guy was going to call her to discuss coming back into her life. My timing came up as "7.1.7.", the energy behind such timeframe being "moderate." For me, this timeframe could be interpreted as seven weeks on the 17th of the month. I advised the client (OK I pleaded with her) not to contact her loved one, because the timing of the outcome could change if she did. She became afraid of waiting the entire seven weeks: she was afraid he'd see other women, or would assume she wasn't interested. So what did she do? She contacted him in less than week after she and I spoke. He didn't reply. "So what was different in the timeframe?", you ask. EVERYTHING.

It would have been one thing had my sweet, but terrified client called once and then let that be that. But then her fears got the worst of her. When he didn't respond in two days, she called him again, this time leaving a very desperate message on his voicemail. He didn't respond. Two weeks thereafter, she calls him once more, and leaves a tearful voicemail, to which he did not respond. "What next?", you ask. She gives up, writes him a "Dear John" letter, explaining how hurt she was that he had decided to give up on the relationship, and her timeframe was even worsened for the outcome. "She may not have heard from him anyway!", many of you might say, right? Think again. Less than 10 days after this, he responds to her, in a handwritten letter, signed, sealed and post delivered. Here is what it said:

Dear Amelia (name changed for privacy):

As I stated to you before we took time off from our relationship, I needed some space to consider whether or not I was ready to move our relationship to the next level. Despite the fact that I love you very much, I asked for this space because something I wasn't able to pinpoint, just a feeling I had, told me that you weren't stable.

I tried to avoid the feeling, but no matter how hard I tried, I simply couldn't push past it, so I asked for a break. I figured that if I was wrong about my feelings, I'd miss you and when I was done from my break, we could resume, and there would be no issues; I'd then realize that I was wrong about my senses. I also thought that if I was wrong about my feelings, I'd definitely figure it out as well, once I got some time to myself to think about why I felt this way.

It is obvious to me that I felt this way for a reason, since no less than two weeks into my unplanned vacation, you were leaving tearful messages, and then a good-bye letter was written, while I was visiting my mother in Ireland. I did not have access to email when in Ireland, nor was I able to retrieve my cell phone messages during this time.

However, you have shown me that your pain from other relationships, and your lack of trust in me as a man, is a bit more than I can handle. I am glad I learned this about you during our "break." I think it's best that we not resume things. Perhaps you could take some time out to heal from the pain of your past breakup, until you trust me (and men in general) a bit more. I am going to take some more time to think about this. Don't call me. I will call you.

I'll miss you,

Reggie (name changed for privacy).

What you hear in your readings dictates what you'll think about regarding the matter(s) at hand. What you think dictates what you will do. What you do (your actions) dictate the manifested outcome of YOUR FUTURE. When you ask for a timeframe, even KNOWING this timeframe could make the outcome of it shorter or longer. Why? Because your life is like a puzzle. All of the pieces are floating around energetically, waiting for you to piece it all in place the way YOU want it. If you know (because an advisor told you) when the next piece is going to float towards, you, what happens? Then you do not move yourself over in the direction of the piece, to place it in it's designated spot on your own. "Why is that such a big deal, if the timing is going to happen anyway?", one might ask. Because when you call an advisor, a path (ONE path) is shown. It involves you getting up and manifesting and creating the energy of a certain thing to happen for you. Alternatively, it even may involve you walking AWAY from the energy so that someone or something can walk towards YOU.

Why does this matter in your outcome? Because if you know the outcome of the path, you don't do all of the things you would have normally done, if your advisor had not unintentionally taken the power out of your hands by providing the timing of the outcome FOR YOU. This is not something we as advisors plan to do (take the power from you by giving you the outcome), it's just the nature of the way the psychic readings system is set up. You don't KNOW what to ask us, or how to ask us things or how to empower yourself with your questions, in order to keep the power of your future in your own hands. The entire psychic web is set up to make you think that THE PSYCHIC holds the key to your destiny, when this couldn't be further from the truth!

Questions about timing are not very empowering, since they cause you to want to either 1) do nothing to manifest your own outcome, but rather just "wait" patiently on the timeframe to occur. This can be especially destructive to career readings when I tell a client they will get a job in X amount of days, weeks or months, and then they do very little to get the job with their own free will. Alternatively, 2) it can cause one to do TOO MUCH if one knows the timing. Consider if I tell you a guy won't be back in touch for a year, and you become frantic, hurt, and disappointed. So you think, "Before he is allowed to slip out of my grasp even further, I'd best get on the ball and CALL HIM MYSELF." Taking that path too much into your own hands by dwelling on a person causes you to not live in the present, which can make your soulmate feel that you're taking his independence and his power of choice away from him. This could actually push him away from you, causing the timeframe to be even further out into the future.

I am going to share with everyone here the best ways to word your timeframe questions:

1) When will a new business opportunity head in my direction if I continue working as hard as I am right now to find them? This is a good way to ask because this lets the psychic know you are actively pursuing your future and not wanting a "get-out-of-life-free" card. Also, it helps us validate what we already see in your path. If you tell us you are working hard towards it, and we visualize that you are handing out resumes daily, returning phone calls, going to interviews, etc., then we can validate that we are "on" when reading you. It helps us know we are picking up on your energy accurately. Also, honesty is very important to an outcome. If you tell us this, but we can sense you aren't working hard on it at all, and if we sense that working hard or harder is what it takes to get to the outcome, we can say, "I don't see you doing very much right now. Here is what you need to do to find this job. Here is where to look, here is who to watch for, here is who I think could be open to hiring you." We can steer you TOWARDS that desired outcome and help you receive it more easily.

2) Could I expect the job opportunity to come to me without much searching, or do I need to expand my search and work even harder to manifest this job? This is a good way to ask things, because we can tell you exactly what we are seeing and what the path would be if you did nothing, or if you handed out resumes more, of if you tried harder. For the very lucky few of you who get jobs by who you know, it could be very helpful, because if a job is coming your way anyway, then you could go on vacation for a week instead! Fun!

3) What could I be doing differently so that I'd have more leftover money this month to save and stash away for my vacation? When do you think I WILL actually be able to afford this vacation more comfortably? This is an excellent question because it allows me as the psychic to see where you stand currently and get a vivid picture of everything you need to do to get to that vacation and make it happen for you!

4) What am I doing correctly already in my business that is working to keep my regulars? If I continue doing this, will I retain the same amount of business or would I need to change it up a bit, and if so, when? This is another responsible way to manifest more money and business into your life by empowering yourself!

5) What does this business need to attract new investors, so that it can get off the ground? When do you foresee it getting off the ground if I follow that blueprint? This lets us know that you are indeed willing to listen to what Spirit has to say about what to do to get to your desired outcome. Your Higher Power will respectfully give you everything you need to follow your own energetic blueprint, and then the timeline will be more accurate!

6) How did my interview go, and when will I hear from the person for a second interview? This give you the timeframe AND let's you know how they are thinking of you, which can help you to either boost your confidence or do damage control, when you hear from the potential employer again!

7) Will I make it past the second interview and if yes, how will the next stage of the application process go? What could I do to improve the way I am interviewing so that I make sure I get this job? This is a great way to look at the overall process of getting the job, as opposed to just the final outcome. It can be very empowering because if you don't make it past the first or second interview, you could go ahead and grieve, eat that bucket of ice cream, and then get rared up and ready for the next interview. We can then discuss what you could do better and not waste time waiting on the pointless employer who didn't choose you. But if you DID make it past the first few stages, it helps to get another fresh look on how everyone in the company is viewing you so that you can know how to mesh better with them throughout the rest of the process. This greases the edges of the window so that you can smoothly transition into the company.

8) Why did I not connect very well to the man who interviewed me, and what can I do, if anything, to change his mind? When, if at all, will I hear from him? Again, this prevents you from wasting vital time by waiting on a company if they are uninterested in you if you did not qualify. Also, a detailed answer to this question could help you know whether or not he could be persuaded more by you, or whether you just need to let this job go and don't even wait on the call back from them.

9) I seem to be not getting along with my boss. What can I do to improve interactions with her so that I am not fired? If I cannot improve the interactions, when do you think she might considering letting me go? This has helped many of my clients correct tough situations and has prevented a potential job loss! It's very important that you are not a chicken shit. Please ask me these kinds of career related questions!

10) If I quit my current job, how long will it take for me to feel financially secure? What could I do to speed up that process? If you're really bold, go ahead and ask this. It's very another way to empower yourself by getting a good clairvoyant blueprint on how tough it would be to ease out of the job by quitting, or if finances would be too stringent, you'd know that you might need to stay and suck it up for a while, perhaps tucking money away under the mattress until you can safely get the hell out of dodge.

Here are some ways NOT to ask about timing:

1) When is my soulmate coming back into my life for good? (It's not good to ask in this manner, because most psychics only read out into the future about two years maximum. Your soulmate may have many lessons to learn, before he or she returns for good, if he or she returns at all. Asking in this manner causes your reader to assume you are not open to the option and the honesty she might have to impart to you if she senses your soulmate will not return at all. If you call for the truth, and you're ready to hear it if it's negative, ask, "Is my soulmate every going to come back at all?". And then, "If so, when he does return, will it be to stay?".

2) When is my soulmate going to call me again next? Now while there is nothing wrong with this question, please be advised that many psychics may not work well in the immediately timeframes. I, for one, am more accurate with the longer term timeframes. If I read into this and feel the soulmate will call in a shorter term timeframe, I will often say to you, "Here are the numbers I am sensing, but I do not work accurately within the energy of such shorter term timeframes. I may be inaccurate, therefore, these numbers are meant only to be written down; don't hold me to it."

3) When is my soulmate going to leave his or her partner? Focusing energetically on the lessons of someone else as opposed to your own, can cause much energetic blocks. I will give you the timeframe on this as easily as anyone, and while it's OK to ask this, keep in mind that it's unhealthy to focus on it too much or to live your life based upon the outcome of such a timeframe.

4) When am I going to hit the lotto? Well, aside from the fact that keen highly frowns upon lotto questions in general, dwelling on your pot of gold in the sky could prevent you from manifesting money in your life by working for it, and since timeframes change, it could block your energetic mojo and make you less lucky, too! Here is a more energetically constructive way to utilize this question: 1) What are the times of the year when I am most lucky in my lotto games or scratch off tickets? 2) What are my lucky numbers? Sorry to those of you whom this question offended, but many inquiring minds really wanted to know! :)

5) When am I going to have my baby? Pregnancy in general and the timing thereof, is relatively difficult for most psychics, because I'm reading timing on you AND baby. Your body could say to us: "At the end of the month! I want this baby out NOW!" The baby's energy, however, could say, "Ohh HELL no! I wanna be in here longer. It's cozy in here!!" Get my drift? The specific combination of two energies can confuse the reader if the person is umm..inhabiting your uterus. A better way to ask would be: 1) During what times of this month are hot spots for labor to occur? or 2) What windows of opportunity are coming up for you as being strong energy for labor? If I am reading LABOR as the outcome, you are more than likely to get a more accurate timeframe.

6) When did my soulmate cheat on me? We, as psychics, feel so appalled by this question, and so taken aback. The last time a client asked me this and I answered it, she threatened to off herself and I had to contact keen corporate. Please, don't ask questions to which you don't want to know the answer. If you are STRONG enough to handle this answer, go ahead. But please, if you even have to THINK about whether you're strong enough to handle this answer, don't risk it by asking. I don't want to have to emotionally pull out my spatula and scrape you off my blog screen. :)

HOW TO INTERPRET MY TIMEFRAMES:

Long energy: If I say to you that there is a "long energy" behind the numbers in your timeframe, it means: several months to years.

Moderate energy: If I say to you that there is a "moderate energy" behind the numbers in your timefame, it means: a few weeks to a few months.

Short energy: If I say to you that there is a "short energy" behind the numbers in your timeframe, it means: hours to days

Why are my timeframes so sketchy: Because energy changes constantly. I am reading your aura, which is electromagnetic energy. How you act and react changes energy. Remember, "every action has an equal and opposite reaction". Just by you knowing the future creates the reaction from the Universe to you, otherwise known as YOUR FUTURE. Also, since I don't use any specific tools to help me specify what the numbers mean, I can only receive clairvoyant numbers, and then FEEL the depth of the energy surrounding said numbers.

Know Thy Aura, Know Thyself: Today's Aura Color Description: YELLOW

2007-07-25T18:11:00Z

YELLOW: This color indicates a person of strong mental faculty. It conveys a sense of warmth and cheer fullness in the personality, as well as charisma. Excessively cloudy or ruddy shades of yellow could indicate a stressed personality due to overflow of mental activity. . I recognize many of you YELLOWS out there, by your high levels of energy, your love of "play," your joyful glee and lust for life, and your need to focus mainly on the positive in life. You yellows will often call me to say, "So many choices, so little time." To you who are yellow, you have TONS of ideas but you have a hard time getting them all off the drawing board. You also want to believe that everyone has your best interests at heart, so you trust a little too easily. Being open, providing a fresh and unbiased perspective on life, pointing out the positive, making people laugh, and knowing how to ENJOY life are your strong suits.

You enjoy love, life, food, sex, leaping into mud puddles, catching frogs, playing in the rain and skinny dipping. You appreciate your body, and you try to stay in shape, although it can be a struggle not to have a yo-yo weight problem because of your love for good food! In work, you start a zillion projects, and have a LOT of irons in the fire at once. You know how to multitask, but you initially will have problems with delegating tasks.

What is your weak suit, you ask? You're disorganized in your thoughts. You take on too many responsibilities, and then wonder why you have a hard time completing the tasks and keeping your head above water. Also, your home and office desk space is a mess. Personally, since you want to believe in the innate goodness of mankind, you try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. You doubt your own instincts and then wonder why you didn't see it coming when your employee steals money from your business, when your maid constantly does a poor job (but you hate confrontation, so you avoiding firing her or even talking to her about it), your husband cheats and your landscaper uses the cheap mulch.

Yellows ABHOR confrontation and will avoid it at all costs, until one day, when they've had enough, they LET LOOSE like a bull in a china shop. Warning to other colors: if you piss a yellow off, put up the china! Also, if you piss a yellow off, you deserve what is coming to you, for yellows aren't easily offended.

What you provide in any relationship: The fun! You open-mindedly venture into territories most people would not, both emotionally and sexually. You're funny, joyful, and when on vacation you're the child-at-play. You're the mom seen gleefully splashing in the ocean with her kids, not worrying about her hair, makeup or who might be watching. You're the father outside playing baseball on a beautiful summer's day with your son. You're the grandmother in the baseball stands at every practice, proudly cheering for her grandson! You're the single woman running barefooted on the beach just for the enjoyment of your "runners high" and fresh ocean air.

Warning to other aura colors: yellows are easily bored. If you're the stay at home type who would rather work, read the newspaper, eat dinner and watch football day in and day out, if you do not enjoy the outdoors, or if you refuse to shop, you're not a good match for a yellow! Yellows enjoy spicing life up a bit, they have a healthy social life, they enjoy having many extra curricular activities with their spouses or partners, and are NEVER boring in bed! A yellow will never try to change their partners, and are incredibly patient, to boot!

What you should watch out for in relationships: Your innate believe that everyone is good in their hearts, could get you in trouble. Your judgment of character meter could use a fill up. You give everyone a chance, and everyone is innocent before proven guilty. You're so magnetic in your energy, that people PURSUE you as if you're a fancy reward or trophy to be obtained. You're normally attractive and have so many positive qualities that people will want you, however, the WRONG partners seem to want you. You seem to attract the energy of people from all sides of the fence. Since, as mentioned earlier, your judgment of character is relatively poor, you seem to go from relationship to relationship or friendship to friendship, looking for that one true person who will actually show their true colors and who will stay. You're also a good bit insecure over your body, your personality and your looks. Because of this, you seem to feel the need to do the pursuing in the relationship, when this habit may push the right people away from you.

You're impatient for the outcome in relationships, so you push people to give you answers about their feelings for you before they are ready to have such in-depth conversations. You may not verbally push them, but you'll do more subtle things such as calling too often, leaving too many voicemails or emails, texting too much, and settling for less communication than you'd like from your partner and then whining later by saying, "You never call me or ask me out anymore..WHY?" Well, keep in mind, yellows, why would a person buy the cow if he can get the milk for free? My advice: step back and let your partner or partner-to-be pursue you. Let them do the work. Your insecurity is not attractive to them, but YOU are attractive and you need to start to believe that YOU are a good catch! If you're wrong and they never call again, so what? Wouldn't you then want to quickly let go and be ready for the guy or gal who WILL call, ask you on dates, and show consistent forms of interest? Put that phone down! If he or she is worth it, he or she will indeed call.

What could make your friendships and relationships better: Improving your confidence levels by making sure YOU love yourself, and by making sure YOU are in top notch shape physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually, would be a good place to start. Since yellows tend to be perfectionists, I wouldn't advice a yellow to enter into a relationship if they do not feel they themselves are whole in all facets of life. Also, trusting in their own instincts would be an even better place to begin. Yellows naturally trust more in logic and reason than intuition, not because they do not WANT to trust their intuition, because they have had such poor experience with poor judgment towards their relationship partners and friends, that they don't know what to believe, where to start, who to trust or HOW to trust, and yes, this includes trusting their own judgment.

My advice to yellows: start fresh. Drop the pain, the hurt, the fears, the insecurities and learn to listen to how you feel. Stop listening to others so much and listen to how YOU feel! Do you feel an empty spot in your heart when you think of the person with whom you are in love? Then this is something to consider! Look back at all the jobs, friends, boyfriends or girlfriends about whom you feel that "empty" or "hurting" feeling, and begin to let them go. Yellow often have too many negative energy around them in relationships to have room for more constructive relationships. Many of you have called me to say, "I would leave my husband, who I don't love anymore, but the Universe never sends anyone new!" Stop making excuses. How can the Universe send a round peg to fill the round hole if the hole is not only currently filled, but currently JAMMED with the square peg that isn't fitting very well? All right you oranges out there, get your head out of the gutter!

Your spiritual lessons: The common spiritual themes I see in yellows are as follows:

1) Putting others ahead of themselves.

2) Having too many irons in the fire; and

3) Not trusting their own instincts and intuition.

Who make the best friends or partners for you: blues, they are more organized than you and can help you learn how to balance and prioritize your life. They also are very good judges of character, from whom you could stand to learn, while simultaneously enjoying their genuinely giving personalities. Violets, because they'd never take you for granted and are as open to life and the enjoyment thereof, as you are, aquamarines, because they have highly spiritual viewpoints and also live their lives as openly and avidly as you, and chartreuse because they know how to help you be more balanced and observant without losing sight of who YOU are.

Who makes the worst friends or partners for you: orange, because they are too into physical and sexual components of you and refuse to put priority towards the spiritual parts of you, which are in need of growth and nurturing. This could cause you to focus only on materialistic and earthly things, and forget your spiritual instincts, which is bad for your confidence, purple, because they, too, focus only on the earthly related things. Purples focus on the earth and keeping it green, while simultaneously being too worried about the color of their nail polish. This could confuse you. Pinks, because they don't know who they are, and even though they mean well, it takes them too long to find themselves; you could not handle it if they rejected you, and their general lack of grounding in life could make your head spin and browns since they are just a tad bit TOO grounded for you, and life with a brown would be "boring," for a yellow. The moment your brown partner said he was going to read the newspaper instead of having sex would be the moment his things are parked on your doorstep.

Careers best for you: any outdoor career, such as riverboat guide, lifeguard or historical tour guide (because you love people and being in different places), flight attendant (you LOVE being on the go and the excitement of seeing new places is really great for you), athlete (you are at your best when in shape) or fitness instructor (you love people and fitness, so it's a good combination) and real estate (the combination of people and being on the go really suits you).

Careers worst for you: teaching (you don't have the patience or organization, plus you NEED your summers off since you enjoy vacations), counseling (remember that you operate from your solar plexus chakra, which governs emotions-this makes you highly empathic and too absorbent of others' problems. Also, you cannot even handle your own stress, so don't take on the stress of others), paralegal (you aren't organized enough) or administrative careers (being behind a desk all day might bore you unless you felt that the career were fulfilling enough).

Health Challenges: Ulcers, gastric upset, IBS, Crohns Disease, alcoholism, eating disorders, diabetes, gallbladder disease and pancreatic concerns and metabolic disorders.

Health Strengths: Perfect blood pressure, perfect heart, perfect lungs. Your pulse always has the perfect resting rate.

How you can tell you're YELLOW: Well, call me. I'll take a look. But other than having an aura reader look, there are some more obvious signs. Here they are:

1) One can't tell the difference between the parents and the children when you're all together in the park. You can keep up with them, and often you share your closet with your teenager;

2) People can hear the hyena style laughter of a yellow from anywhere in the office. Don't worry, it makes us laugh with you, even though we have no idea what you're laughing about;

3) You focus a lot on your body and physical appearance, and you're never satisfied. If you were five pounds over weight, you'd call yourself fat;

4) You eat faster than any of the other color spectrum. For as much as you complain about your weight, there isn't an ounce of fat on you, and when there is, you'll be seen telling the world about your latest crash diet.

5) You don't know the meaning of the word, "No," unless you're in the workplace, at which point in time, "No" is often used because you don't trust anyone to do your work with the exception of yourself.

6) You are the center of attention wherever you go, the life of the party, the person we all love to be around. However, you're not the best friend in the world. It's not because you don't mean to be there for the rest of us, it's because your schedule is busier than that of the President of The United States. It would take a press conference to get a spot on that schedule.

7) Your house is a MESS.

8) Your desk is a mess.

9) Your car is a mess.

10) You aren't responsible in your personal life. You forget our birthday, unless you can have it marked on your palm pilot. However, you'd never let a work deadline slip.

11) You aren't quick to forgive people who hurt you.

12) However, it takes a LOT to insult you or hurt you. You easily can laugh at yourself and forgive our trespasses for either trivial or serious faults.

13) It doesn't take much to earn your friendship. The whole world knows you. We secretly refuse to go to the mall with you because we never get any shopping done. We get through half of a store when we hear you, "Oh JANE! What are YOU doing here! It's so great to see you! How is your sister, Jane? Oh? Well how did that happen?". Less than five minutes later it's, "Pastor Bill, gracious it's so good to see you! How are the babies?" and so forth and so forth. You know people you haven't seen since third grade.

14) You don't mind spending money. Your car is the best, your house is the most expensive, and your kitchen always has it's pantry overflowing with the best quality foods from all around the world. You know how to cater a party, and you throw the BEST parties in the town! People will be talking about the punch you made on Christmas up until next Christmas, and they patiently wait for your invitations.

15) You have more knowledge of food, clothes, wine and good shoes, than you do politics or golf, but you can keep up with the most brilliant professors, engineers and intellects in the world. Your intellectual IQ is at least 140, but your logical IQ is about 39. Once you start to learn to trust your instincts, you'll get there.

16) You know how to swim faster and run faster than the rest of us.

17) You have the perfect balance between work, family, your social life and your relationship(s).

18) You know how to employ sarcasm into your humor.

19) You are open minded enough to use the word, "fart" with class. Yeah, you greens didn't find that one funny, did you? I bet you crystals did!

20) Fun is the highest priority in your life. Fun and laughter!

Divine Intervention: For Better or For Worse? You Decide.

2007-07-25T15:20:00Z

I received an email yesterday asking me to address this topic, and while it is a vast topic, I will attempt to address it and narrow it down in a more concrete way. Divine Intervention: according to Wikapedia, is another term for a "miracle". Below is the answers dot com definition of "miracle":

mir·a·cle (mĭr'ə-kəl)
n.

An event that appears inexplicable by the laws of nature and so is held to be supernatural in origin or an act of God: “Miracles are spontaneous, they cannot be summoned, but come of themselves” (Katherine Anne Porter).
One that excites admiring awe. See synonyms at wonder.
A miracle play.

Here are the different displays of "Divine Intervention" I've seen in many of you, that I'd like to address today (since these are the most common forms of it):

1) You waited patiently on someone you loved dearly, only to find out they were not in contact with you because they were secretly courting and pursuing someone else. You hear it, not from the person you love, but from someone else, that your loved one and the new girl are planning a wedding! You would have never heard from the person you love about the wedding, but you get the "signs".

You notice, on at the bus stop, that almost every passing bus has pictures of brides, engagement rings, or bridal dresses plastered all over them in unavoidable displays. You turn on your radio to avoid thinking of your soulmate, only to hear the song, "Going The Chapel" mockingly playing on three different stations you frequent. You go to work to check your email and then you hear your best friend's shocking voicemail: "Girl, you won't BELIEVE this! I just heard it from his boss that he is PLANNING A WEDDING!!".

In tears and shock, you call all the psychics on your list (all the ones that predicted you'd be back together), and call every single one of them to ask for an "update". Here are their responses, in order of your calls:

1) Madam Misapropos: "Girl, don't worry, be happy! I didn't tell you that part of the prediction because she's not even important! She FORCED that engagement ring outta him! He'll run any day now. Heck, he may leave her at the alter!";

2) Mistress Misinformed: "Ohh honey I am so sorry that I didn't pick up on her energy at all. I think the reason I didn't pick up on her is because it shocked him. She chased him and it was a sudden decision. He's not thinking rationally! He'll either not go through with it, or end up with an annulment!"'

3) Lady Not-So-Lucky: "Oh, are you sure that's right? Because I think that it's only a rumor. I bet you my bottom dollar, next week you learn that it's ALL hearsay!"

Meanwhile, a month later, your best friend gets a wedding invitation and you hear it from everyone in his office that he's "never been happier". Divine Intervention, does not always work out for the best. In many cases, it protects you from making one of the biggest mistakes you could ever make! Divine Intervention often feels really hurtful initially. Allow me to fast forward on the above referenced true story a bit.

Fast foward six months: After spending most of your 401K on the above referenced psychics, you finally call someone who says to you the truth about Divine Intervention:

Divine Dimensia: "Honey, please go ahead and let him go. You need closure. I am trying to give it to you. The Universe gave you all the signs before you found out about his engagement. He married. They intervened for you, and here in a few months, you will see WHY the Universe intervened. Yes, he is one of your soulmates. Yes, you could have been happy together. However, he isn't ready for marriage and you deserve happiness! He hasn't learned his karmic lessons, and he and his newly wedded wife will go through pure hell because of this! Would you want to be in her shoes when he up and leaves her? I assure you, there are reasons for the Divine Intervention. Wait not on him, but on real love from someone new. No, he is not going to give you closure. Only you can give yourself closure."

Client: "Divine Dimensia, I am calling back because I've met the most WONDERFUL man! It took me several months of pining and crying over Mr. Not-So-Right, but I've met this new man who I think IS Mr. Right! We've been dating a few months, and I couldn't be happier! I think that the Universe has intervened again, to keep me from waiting on my soulmate who is married. Oh wait, I forgot to tell you....he is divorcing her! I heard it from our mutual office buddies, that he has moved out and is seeing his secretary! I am soooo glad I didn't wait. I don't even want him now! He called me, as you all said he would, but I don't want him! All of this really was Divine Intervention. I would never have wanted to be in his wife's shoes. He would have left me, too, or cheated!"

The moral of the story: Divine Intervention isn't always such a wonderful thing initially. It doesn't always "feel" very great. It doesn't feel like the "miracle" that Wikapedia states is, especially during the time you are experiencing it. My advice on how to handle Divine Intervention:

1) Don't misinterpret it. Many of you have called to say, "I keep hearing this song over and over; I keep seeing signs everywhere about weddings, or I see street signs with his last name on it". It doesn't often have an obvious meaning, nor should you spend your time attempting to interpret it. Go about your daily life without dwelling on it;

2) Be still: in your mind and heart. Allow the Universe to play this all out for you. Trying to dwell on what it means by calling too many spiritualists for interpretations of it, only makes you dwell on the future, which prevents you from living in the present moment. This makes your outcome take LONGER than intended;

3) Be active: in body and energy. LIVE your life. Do things you enjoy. Focus on asking the Universe for love in whatever form Divine choses to send to you, even if it doesn't have your soulmate's name attached. Don't personalize the messages or the love being sent, just focus on receiving love. Visualize how you want to live your life. Begin to imagine yourself being happy with someone in general;

4) Prioritize! If love, for you, is not the priority, how do you expect the Universe to know to send it to you? If focusing on your soulmate has become your priority, and he or she is not ready, he or she won't come no matter HOW much you dwell or focus on it. Don't use the Law of Attraction improperly. It is mean to be used in ways that are healthy. Prioritize love by LOOKING FOR IT. If the way you were looking wasn't looking, CHANGE YOUR WAY OF SEARCHING. Yes, you have to search for love; and finally,

5) Don't expect the other person to give you closure! Even if he did tell you that he fell out of love for you because he still had feelings for the ex, was too afraid, the sex wasn't good enough, you smell like leftover cigarettes, you don't provide enough oral sex, you don't watch enough football or you ass was too big, would that information really make you feel any better? When a person doesn't tell you why they left or why they refused to even give you a chance with them in the first place, it's often not an answer you'd want to know about. Please give yourself the respect and closure you need by moving on and not focusing on the "why" of it all. The truth of the matter is, that it doesn't matter WHY. If someone is not there in your life for you, you need to move on.

Love won't show up at your door unless you are one of those very lucky young ladies who is wooed by the UPS man. Yes, it's happened, but not very often. Love will come to you when you prioritize and look for it (looking for it by putting yourself in the same place and time as your desired soulmate won't work, that's called dwelling). If joining match dot com is too generic for you and isn't working, try something different. If the singles group at your church isn't working for you, try eharmony dot com.

It doesn't matter what you try as long as you keep changing it up, trying different things, changing your life, your interests and your OLD ways of living, until you feel better about who you are as a whole, and about what love means to you. Sometimes, the Universe wants you to accept that you may be alone. In these rare cases, it is frightening. You will feel bitter about this. You'll look around and say, "Everyone else seems happy; everyone else has someone, everyone else has families, everyone else found someone after a breakup, why not me!" Until you accept the fact that it is perfectly acceptable to be in love with yourself, and to find love in other ways, love will not often come.

If you've tried every way under the sun to find love, and it just doesn't happen for you, then you might be in the latter category. If that's the case, accept it in peace. Release your pain over being alone, and begin to fall in love with YOU. Woo yourself! Take YOURSELF out to dinner, make dates for YOURSELF. The rare customers I find who are able to accept this do end up finding love later in life.

I don't have the answers, normally, regarding why you had to go through this. Perhaps you have karmic issues left over from a past life and you're sorting through in this lifetime. Perhaps your specific life blueprint says you will find happiness, but not until you're fifty. Perhaps it also says that you alone can change this, if you accept being alone, let Divine Intervention occur without regret and happily embrace life, finding love within the early blooming morning glories, the laughter of the children on the passing school bus, or from your elderly mother who cherishes the love you give to her every time you visit her and allow her to cook that treasured potroast recipe passed down from your great grandmother.

Perhaps the traditions past down from generation to generation in your family, will be something you enjoy and treasure, and perhaps the love you feel in your family will replace the hole you feel romantically, until the Universe intervenes once more and finally sends Mr. or Miss. Right. Perhaps the "soulmate" you seek is the child you saved from the streets by adopting him out of the foster home.

My point is, that Divine Intervention, although often misunderstood, will happen whether you understand it or not. Love often shows it's array of colors via unexpected rainbows that happen at many inopportune moments in life. However love presents itself to you, accept it no holds barred. Be open to Divine Intervention. Embrace life. Embrace love in whatever form the Universe sends that is healthy for you. Only then can you understand Divine Intervention.

Know Thy Aura, Know Thyself. Today's Aura Color Description: BLUE

2007-07-24T22:58:00Z

Blue: This color expresses peace, harmony, inner balance, spiritual devotion or deep religious concepts. Blue is often found in people who have very loyal and traditional tendencies, i.e. officers of the law, social workers, and authority figures. An excess of deep blue that is cloudy in the aura would indicate possible moodiness or depression. I recognize many of you BLUES out there, because you do not have unreasonably high, but "normal" expectations of your loved ones. You blues will often call me to say, "Listen. If I love a guy, I'll be with him. Simple. So don't give me the 'he-loves-you-but-he-has-block' song and dance. If he loves me, he's be with me, too!'" To you who are blue, when you do something, you do it fully and authentically. Being loyal, authentic and REAL about yourself and your emotions, is your strong suit. You're strong, reliable, patient and self-sacrificing. You're loyal in your business or as an employee; you work hard and put in extra time at the workplace.

What is your weak suit, you ask? You're thick as a board and stubborn, to boot! You think that because you are authentic and because you handle things a certain way, that everyone else in your lives should follow the logical point of reason. Yes, you're our rock and our foundation. Yes, you're the lighthouse in our deeply confused waters, however, just because you do things in a way that's healthy and normal, does not mean others are in that same energetic or karmic arena as you.

What you provide in any relationship: No matter what role you play in the relationship, or who wears the pants, you play your role well. If you're the stay-at-home Mom, you're the BEST one. If you're the bread winner, you balance it out superbly with your home life, and no one feels left out. You're balanced, traditional, grounded and very emotionally observant of other's emotions and what they need from you in order to be fulfilled.

What you should watch out for in relationships: Being used, being intentionally or unintentionally taken for granted, feeling like you're a juggler of your partners responsibilities (AKA dry-cleaner, dishwasher, washing machine and personal chef). One sided relationships -- when you feel love you feel it and that is that. You'd wait until the cows come home if you sensed that someone might love you in return eventually.

What could make your friendships and relationships better: Drawing your boundaries. I know you like perfect balance, but worry about your life and your own self first. Prioritize yourself as you do at work. Let your loved ones find their own priorities. You fear that if you do this, that you won't be on their list. Well, you should perhaps consider facing this fear if you want to know who indeed, are really your friends, and who indeed, really cares about you authentically as opposed to being around you to see what you will do for them or what they will get out of the relationship or friendship.

Your spiritual lessons: The common theme I see amongst you BLUES is that everyone else's needs are met. Everything and everyone is taken care of, but what about yourself? What about your emotional needs, financial needs, and what about "me-time." One of you called me from your locked master bathroom door. Your toddler, your cat, your dog and your husband were all whining right outside the door for one thing or another. When asked how long you had your "me-time," in the bathroom, you know what you said to me? Your reply was, "Oh about two minutes."

Who make the best friends or partners for you: sensitive tans, for their emotionally observant tendencies and giving natures, other blues, because they are just as balanced as you are, scientific tans because they're reliable, logical and dedicated to their work as much as you, greens because of their no nonsense approach and honesty and chartreuse because they combine logic with emotional, which makes for a nice balance!

Who makes the worst friends or partners for you: orange, because they are not readable enough in their intentions and are too much like social butterflies for you. You prefer being home on your cushy couch with your partner in front of a romantic, roaring fire, while oranges would prefer to be skiing off a mountain and hiking in the wilderness, yellow, because of their overly emotional ways, you will never figure them out. Their paths aren't set in stone, and they aren't organized enough in their thought flow OR in their underwear drawer, for your balanced mind and lifestyle, sky blues, because they're almost TOO spiritually grounded in their own ways without any earthly sense of practicality. You'd not be able to talk them into church, traditions like Christmas or Hanukkah, and you'd not get them to understand psychics and magentas, since they march to the beat of their own drummer and really aren't defined enough for you.

Careers best for you: social work (because you have a heart) , law (because you respect authority), administrative work (because you're organized and efficient), customer service (because you know how to prioritize and put the customer's needs first), accounts management (because you're responsible), real estate (because you're detailed oriented and patient), teaching (because of your patience), coaching (because you're motivated), psychology (because you know how to listen without judgment), counseling (because you're unbiased), governmental jobs (because you're so detail oriented and such a hard worker) and animal work (your heart for animals is amazing)

Careers worst for you: landscaping (you don't prefer to be outdoors), athlete (you're so empathic that the energy from emotions tends to build up in your body, causing health conditions), accounting

Health Challenges: You have a tendency towards arthritis, asthma, lung disorders and high blood pressure.

Health Strengths: You're strong as an ox, and your endurance is high.

How you can tell you're BLUE: Well, call me. I'll take a look. But other than having an aura reader look, there are some more obvious signs. Here they are:

1) You're the one crying during the life insurance and Kleenex commercials;

2) You're the one bawling so loudly in the movie theatre that the people in front of you can't hear the movie because of your intermittent nose-blowing;

3) You think that love is unconditional. If you love someone you will wait on them, no matter the self sacrifice involved. Sometimes, however, I have to remind you of the reality check that it's been three years since you've spoken. Your response, "Oh...yeah. It has been awhile, I guess. I KNOW he loves me, though!";

4) You attend every holiday gathering, every birthday party, every anniversay get together, every July 4th barbeque. You're the one who shows up early to set up and stays there later to help clean up. You're the one cutting the cake and counting how many people are in the room, just to make sure everyone gets a slice. If they run out, you'll be at the next Kroger for more cake;

5) You're loyal to the cows come home, but if he/she cheats, it's OVER. That's the one thing you won't deal with;

6) You're the one who never gets the jokes with sexual connotations. People make airplane-flying-over-head signs and giggle at your naivety. Don't you worry. Stay pure. That's why we love you!

7) You normally have lighter skin, hair and eyes than the rest of us, and it really is true that you "have more fun than the rest of us;

8) Even though you're blonde, you still laugh at blonde jokes;

9) You watch the Lifetime channel and enjoy it more than the rest of us;

10) You have the memory of an elephant. Not a birthday, graduation, baby shower or anniversary is ever forgotten by you;

11) You may remember when you've been hurt easily, but you also forgive just as easily (maybe TOO easily);

12) You're the one who arrives early to work and leaves late;

13) You fight for the underdog in work, in your friendships, and in relationships;

14) But you rarely fight for yourself;

15) You can make anyone laugh;

16) You have the absolute corniest sense of humor;

17) You have long term relationships. It takes you awhile to get into a relationship, but once you do, you want that relationship to be the only one and the last one ever;

18) It takes you awhile to get over being hurt, if not forever;

19) You're the most loved of all the mothers of the aura spectrum. If not by your children, by your animal kiddies;

20) Love is the most important priority in your life.

Soulmate or Checkmate? How Healthy is YOUR soul connection?

2007-07-23T15:20:00Z

Did you know, that "twin flames" are one of the more rare soul connections out there in the spiritual realm? There would be no problem with this, except, that we want this soul connection so badly, that we all begin to believe we've met "THE ONE", or what spiritualists call our "twin flame".

In over ten years as a spiritualist, I've sensed that clients have met their "twin flames" less times than I can count on both hands and feet. This is something that I feel I need to share, not to discourage you, but to enlighten you to the truth about soulmates. Just because you might be feeling all mushy-gushy inside does not necessarily mean you have something that will ultimately last! Here are the types of soul connections I've seen in my experience as a spiritualist:

Karmic Connection: This is energetically the lowest frequency of energy that can be shared between two people. The only reason for this connection is for learning purposes, otherwise known as "karma". The karma could be present between the two people based upon a past life connection wherein one or both partners did not learn a vital spiritual lesson, and perhaps they are meant to meet again in this current lifetime in order to have yet another chance to learn this lesson. However, once the lesson(s) is learned, the emotions normally die out, and the relationship ends. Yes, they are meant to be together, but only for a time.

What normally happens in this type of soulmate relationship, you ask? Well, I've seen that it starts out hot and heavy. The person claims undying love for you in less than a year, treats you like the princess or king you are, and initially it's the most beautiful thing you've ever experienced. You swear on everything that's holy that he or she is IT for you, is THE ONE, is the final slice of bread that will keep your heart full. And then suddenly, for no reason known, this person gets the hell out of dodge! They pull the Houdini maneuver and you never hear from them again (or if you do, it's only for them to ask for their cds, clothes and valuables). Beware! If you reach out to ask them why more than once they will bare teeth at you. The common response I see from the karmic connection partners, when confronted about why they ran off for no reason, is, "You NEED to let me go! Don't you get the hint? I've not called and I've not said anything because it's OVER. Please stop contacting me", or the other response is nothing but silence. You never hear from them again or you hear from them only through your mutual friends.

There is no reason why they ran, and if you try to demand a response for the sake of closure, they only will give the following reason(s):

1) "I didn't FEEL it any more for you; I don't know why.";

2) We wanted different things in life; or

3) I wasn't ready for a commitment.

When in essence, number one is often true. They do subconsciously stop feeling what you both thought was undying love, because IT WAS NOT LOVE TO BEGIN with. It was merely a "karmic" connection. Number two is often true as well, but the only difference in what you want is that he or she no longer wants YOU. Number three, I find, is far removed from the truth. In karmic connections, I see this excuse being used very often, but then the next thing you know, you'll see the person whose alleged undying "love" for you has been replaced almost immediately with someone even LESS suited for them than you. Suddenly you're hearing that Casanova is going to marry her! And then before you know it, you hear about their lovely wedding in Vegas and how he or she is happier than they've ever been.

My advice: don't wait on closure. There is no deeply embedded psychological reason for this person to do what they did to you, other than the fact that the relationship was only meant for learning purposes, and was not meant to last after this. Why the undying love, you ask? Well, how else would you have been able to stay with him or her if you didn't FEEL some reason to do so? You felt infatuation that was the result of karma, not love. Let the person go. He or she won't be back. I may be the only psychic brave enough to tell you this, but in more times than not, it's true.

Kindred Spirit Connection: This type of soul connection, in my experience, has been THE most wonderfully successful type of soulmate one can have. The reason is that the love is based upon FRIENDSHIP and respect. You won't find any burning flames of love in the initial stages of this relationship, but what you will find it a slowly developing relationship that may take months or years to establish, but then lasts the rest of your life!! It doesn't normally feel all mushy-gushy, like the other types if soulmate connection, and it feels more like being in love with your best friend: comfortable and happy!

You're never left with that empty feeling in your tummy when he/she doesn't call, because you always KNOW where this person is and when he or she will call. This connection is based upon trust and friendship, and then turns into more. Normally, the kindred spirit couple have experienced many lifetimes together, often times not as romantic partners, but as friends. My advice to anyone in this type of soul connection relationship, is to be patient and be grateful for this person in your life. Who cares if you don't feel mushy-gushy? That stuff is for the movies. What we're REALLY meant to feel is based upon respect and stability.

I see this type of soulmate relationship enter into a client's live often when a person has been in love with the WRONG soul connection and when it didn't work out, but then the kindred spirit connection comes along AFTER the wrong soul connection ended in their lives. What occurs, normally, is that the person will compare the feelings in the kindred spirit connection to the stronger, but more devastating feelings they felt for the twin flame or karmic connection who ran from them and broke their hearts. My advice to you is this: No, you won't feel strong, burning flames of fury and passion for your kindred soulmate, or at least not immediately. Please let your karmic connection go. Move on from them so that you can experience the more stable and grounding love your kindred spirit has to offer you. Stop comparing this type of soulmate connection to your twin flame or karmic soulmate who will never be with you. Stop calling too many psychics. Let go. Let Love. You'll be happier with the kindred spirit connection. No, you haven't "settled". You just stepped out of the movies and into reality. Your heart will thank you, and when you're finally healed, you'll feel happier with your kindred spirit connection.

The Mirror Soul Connection A little higher in the frequency of energy than the kindred spirit connection, this soulmate connection is powerful, loving, difficult, but lasts for many years, if not forever. However, I do see a lot of "coming and going" in this soulmate connection, as opposed to the more consistent types of soulmate connections shown above. When you meet a mirror soulmate, you will be VERY confused about why the person acts the way they do! Often times, you guys will call me to say, "This person acts immensely interested and attracted to me, but then also acts like sometimes he cannot even stand to look at me. Sometimes he won't even look me in the eye! Why the push/pull or love/hate?"

Here is why: imagine waking up to look at yourself in the mirror every single morning. The reason I call this connection the "mirror" soul connection, is because the person will mirror you or you will mirror them. This is all well and good IF your mirror soulmate has learned most of his/her spiritual lessons and IF he/she has faced his/her karma. However, if there are things mirrored to them from you that perhaps they are not ready to face, which is more often the case than not, the result will be that they RUN from you initially. Granted, they do often run BACK to you a good bit of the time, but they always run off into their corner to hide from you again, and again and again.

It's akin to looking into a mirror every single time they see you. They will see things in you that remind them of themselves years ago or right now. You could also be a projection of themselves in the future, and they are looking to you for support to become who they wish to be! The lesson in this is for them to feel a kinship with you that helps them get to know themselves better. It helps them face the issues they truly need to face in this lifetime. The problem in this VERY COMMON type of soulmate, is that many of us aren't ready to face all of our issues right away. Therefore, being around our mirror soulmates makes us want to hide from them. If someone were walking around holding a mirror to your face of your own issues, and say you worked with them, lived with them, or saw them daily or weekly, how would you respond?

We as mirror soulmates are not aware that we're holding a mirror spiritually to our partners-- it's a very subconscious energetic effect. However, the person on the other end of this soul connection FEELS this. Asking them why they run does not often get you any answers, however, because they don't CONSCIOUSLY KNOW why they're running. They only will feel this inexplicable need to RUN LIKE HELL from you!

The good news is that eventually, the do face up to their lessons mirrored by you, and they do eventually step up. My advice to anyone in this type of soul connection it to step back, let your loved one learn at his or her own pace, and be patient! These relationships do normally work out, over time.

No matter how often they run from you, I do (more times than not) see that they always run back. It may take a few days, a few weeks, or a few years, but they do come back, and often times, with their tail between their legs.

The Twinflame Connection: This is THE most OBSOLETE form of soul connection out there. I feel like I am outting all the other spiritualists on keen by saying this, not because I agree or disagree with them, but I am the person many clients come to after they've called almost everyone on keen and have been told the same thing: "He's your TWIN FLAME! He loves you! He'll be back! Wait!" Then finally, one day when the client is desperate for truth, lonely, broken hearted and broken in the bank account as well, I get the 2am call about the alleged twinflame. "Over 100 psychics on keen have all said he is my twinflame and that he will be back! I know it's been five years since we've talked, but how could you be right? Everyone else says the opposite-- they all say he will be back!"

What I've seen about twin flames in my experience as a reader, is this: in close to 15,000 calls on keen, do you know how many of you have met your twinflames? TEN. Ten of you have met your twinflames. Yes, I wrote it down. I wanted to remember it because it helps me to know more about the types of soulmates out there. I've only met TEN CLIENTS on keen who have met their soulmates. What is even more frightening is this: ONLY FIVE OF YOU ENDED UP WITH YOUR TWINFLAME!

The point for my post about soulmates, is this: how healthy is your soul connection? This isn't about what your advisors say will happen in the future, but more importantly, what are you doing in the HERE AND NOW? What might be equally important to our heart is LOGIC. It feels good in the moment to meet a twin flame, but the sad reality boils down to the fact that in most cases, they break our hearts. I implore all of you out there who is waiting on a twin flame, search within yourself and ask, "Is this person really here for me?", "Am I REALLY in a real and practical relationship with this person?", "Is this really healthy?". I assure you that more times than not, the answer to these questions will be "no". Despite what your heart is telling you, the more important lesson, might be to let your twin flame go...

How important is "listening" when you hear nothing?

2007-06-18T02:43:00Z

Many of you have requested that I write about Elijah, and while it's rather personal to me, I will attempt to explain it in a more spiritual context. How important is listening when you hear more than you'd like from those around you? Is it still important if you're constantly bombarded with things you'd rather not hear? How about if you wanted to listen to what the Universe is saying to you, but you could hear nothing at all?

There have been so many instances in my life and in my readings with all of you when I genuinely felt that you had not "heard me". The Universe would say to me, "Jenny, you have to let him go" or "Vicki, you have to stop worrying", or "Client in Texas, stop worrying, you will indeed conceive a child the moment you're supposed to", and I'd relay the message, assuming you were not hearing me or understanding. I'd not receive much response, therefore, I assume you didn't "hear me".

You'd call me back a week later to say, "Ok, I stopped worrying and I actually did what Spirit suggested and it worked!", or "I lost the weight and I am ready to get pregnant and I know it's going to happen now!" or "I let him go as Spirit said in our last call, and now he's back even more!". There would be a few seconds worth of silence for me to process the fact that you HEARD ME. Even when I thought you had not, you were silently processing, listening and following through!

This is what happens with my sweet eight month old, Elijah. I look at him, talk to him, sing to him, watch him day in and day out in hopes of him responding to my voice or "hearing me". His doctors have recently confirmed that he doesn't hear a single word we say. He's had surgery to correct the issue, and we wait on pins and needles in hopes of a cure, and in hopes of the day when he will "hear us", meanwhile, he's probably "hearing us" in his own little way throughout all of the hospital visits, the surgery, the tests, the fevers, the infections, etc.

Today, at the very end of the day, I said to him, "I love you, and I know you hear me" as I was rocking him to sleep. He tilted his head up a bit, smiled with closed eyes, and then dozed off to sleep. I gently placed him into his crib, tucked him in close to his favorite stuffed bear, and cried there in the silence of his nursery. I don't know if he heard me the way I wish to be heard (with his physical ears), but he heard me in his own way, and I saw the results of that listening.

It's the same with each and every one of you. I share what Spirit has to say, and there are times when I don't think you are hearing me, but you are! Today, I had that wonderful moment in time with one of you, when I know you heard me. And I sat there after our call and with tears of joy and gratitude, I cried.

Don't Panic! How To "Sit" With Your Reading

2007-05-23T17:41:00Z

This is a topic that has been expressed in different ways, and I've seen this in each and every one of my customers recently (albeit in new and improved versions of this same age old concept). For the past several months, "The Secret" has been slowly threaded into our minds and hearts via Oprah, our spiritual mentors, books, message boards, psychic development websites, and much more. It's not a new concept, it's something I've discussed with each and every one of you, my customers, from day one. YOU and only you, control your future-- no, not your psychic, your spiritual guide, your mentor, your counselor, your life coach, your boss, your loved one or soulmate, but you and you alone!

This can be quite an overwhelming concept, right? The nature of all psychic websites denotes just the opposite. We see headlines like, "100% Accurate Master Psychic! Reunites soulmates! Let me change your life!" on almost every page of any psychic website. I am here to tell you just the opposite of everything you've known about the psychic industry, and all of the misconceptions. Read on if you dare, because this concept is not very easy to put into your mind once you fall into a spot of spiritual enablement.

Here is a real life example, given to me by a dear client and friend of mine, with her permission. I've changed the names to protect her privacy. Cheron began calling me back in 2004, with a concern about a man she was in love with, Charles. Charles, was in and out of her life. They had met on a dating site with which we are all familiar, he had all but promised life-long love and devotion, and they were traveling back and forth between New Jersey and Louisiana (his home state and hers) to visit and become closer. He had "job- related issues" and as most men are, he was "getting over his ex". You all know the story from here.

He implies (not asks) that she should move closer to him, because if she moved closer, it would be easier for him to get over the ex and easier for him to be in love again and be in a relationship. He used the long distance as an excuse to not always call on time, to stay emotionally distant from time to time, and to generally keep her at bay emotionally. The moment he began to distance himself was when I met Cheron. She called me in a time of panic.

The summary of the first few sessions went as follows:

A) Cheron-- Does he love me? Why does he do this to me? Why is he backing up? What do I do? Do I call? Do I email? Do I initiate the efforts, or wait? Do I wait on him, or give up? Is he a soulmate? Is he the one? Will we marry? How about kids? (goes on and on..)

B) Pamela-- Yes, he loves you but in the way he knows how, which differs from your idea of love. He does this because he is not ready for a relationship, but is very torn because he does love YOU as a person. He is backing up because he isn't ready for commitment, but doesn't want to lose you either, hence the times when he comes back around to you. He also backs up because he feels you reaching a bit more than he was accustomed to...therefore, please allow HIM to contact at almost all periods of time unless your own intuition dictates otherwise.

No do not wait...but not don't give up. Bridge the gap between waiting and giving up..find a middle ground. Yes he is a soulmate, but no I do not believe there is just ONE person for any other person, but many soulmates. I am not sure if you will marry, and I cannot see far enough into the future to know if you will have children, but I am sure that this depends upon you. If you want him, back up. Let him do the work.

What occured after this, you ask? Cheron PANICKED. Once I told her that he was having some second thoughts based upon his fears of commitment, and that he was not ready, she panicked. Once she was told that SHE was the person in control of her future, she didn't quite know what to do with this information. She didn't trust herself. "What if Pamela is wrong", she thought. Let me call and confirm with another psychic (and another, and 'Oh wait, let's try this one that's new only because I'd like a different opinion from a different type of readers, and wait this one is only .99 cents per minute, so it can't hurt, and this one remote views, now that's different'). Perhaps there is something missing here. Ten psychics and about five grand later, Cheron returned to me. And here is a brief summary of the next several sessions, which encompassed about three years worth of her life:

1) Cheron-- Something is really wrong Pamela. I listened to Spirit, I moved to Louisiana. I hate it here. Charles downright ignores me. He frequently visits and we connect, but then he disappears to "go fishing" and I don't hear from him for days, sometimes WEEKS on end. I don't get it. What am I doing wrong? He wanted me here, I am here. The long distance problem is solved. He says it's not another woman. He says I am wonderful. He still says he needs to go slowly and is not ready. I just don't get it, Pamela!"

2) Pamela-- Cheron, yes something is wrong. You have to listen to yourself, not just me. If he says he is not ready, let him not be ready, and slowly begin to let him go. Date other men if you want, be more involved in your own passions in life, don't hold on, but don't let go. Yes, I know that's hard. But I also know you can do this. Cheron....there is another woman. I don't mean to tell you this, and I saw him flirting with her a bit here and there prior to your move, but now it seems that she is there more seriously. You might better confront him more directly at least by letting him know that you only want to date men who want to date you and you alone. Also, please don't contact him anymore..NO MATTER WHAT. Don't contact unless you just heard his mother passed away or something, okay?

3) Cheron-- Pamela, I just cannot believe that about the other woman. No other psychic sees it either, are you sure? If he really was disinterested, why does he keep coming over? Why does he connect and run? What do I do?

4) Pamela-- Cheron, you have to find a bridge here between letting go and waiting. Don't hold on, slowly date, don't reach out. Let him do all the work (I am sure many of you have heard me say this so often). If you don't listen to me AND to Spirit, which I am sure is telling you the same thing when your head hits the pillow at night, he will back off, he will get more serious with the other girl, and things just get worse...

5) Cheron-- PAMELA! I've found out about the other girl! Oh my gosh, I am sorry I didn't believe you, and I am sorry it's been two whole months since I've called you. I've called him and tried to reach out more than I should, and he is backing up even more!!! What do I do??? I've called a dozen psychics, I'm in debt out the wazoo, and none of them saw this?!

Do any of you recognize where this is going? Do any of you see yourselves in this example? My point in this sharing of my client's experience, is that you have the power to change your future! You do! I share with you what the future shows, which can change JUST BY ME SHARING IT WITH YOU. Please listen, not to me, but to what your Higher Power is telling you to do (and what not to do, as shown by Cheron) so that you can take the power in your own hands. At this point, the future is YOURS! The path to the future is like a blueprint to follow. Spirit is there with you, your psychics are there with you every step of the way to keep you on track (since following your intuition can be akin to driving from New Jersey to Louisiana in the dark with only a single flashlight to guide your way).

Here are some quotes from Cheron to help you understand more about readings, the future, and how to empower yourself so that you have control over your path:

1) "People should not be so quick to leave feedback. The validity of a reading really does prove itself over time, and with the person's willingness to not derail the progress".

2) "When someone asks, 'What do you see happening with me and x,' the reading provided reaches well out into the distance, but the client doesn't always know that. So if they are impatient, or exceedingly willful...what do they do? They go sashaying in to hurry up the process. And what they wind up doing is upsetting the natural evolution of things and what they want drifts further out. And hence, a longer wait."

3) "I can go back to things you and another psychic especially said to me well over a year ago, that TODAY are in perfect alignment with the progression of things. Had I not taken notes, or journaled? I might have been one of those people to call you one day all deluded and upset saying, "this was NOT the way you told me my story was going to end!!!"

Well...who said it was the end? All you provided was the chapter in an ongoing tale, you never said which page. I'll admit...when I first up and moved I was convinced (after my world "blew up") that I had it wrong. That you had it wrong. But then I went back to your notes (nearly five months prior) and reviewed what you said. You said it was a good thing I was doing. That it would be hard. It would be painful, but it was necessary. The time had come, I'd see some things that I'd have to deal with.

As the song goes, "I never promised you a rose garden..." You and I have known for sometime...how my story ends. You just have to know where you are in the tale, have faith, take copious notes and remember that there is more to life than just one moment. Each event has bearing on what's to come.

You and the two other psychics I trust-- your readings tell a story (a long one) that is very accurate and doesn't hold all the twists and turns on the road. You each answered my question. The point is...know what you're asking, know that timelines are never concrete, and take copious notes. Sometimes it's not the other person who has stuff to learn. Sometimes, it's you. "

Here are some things to help you sit with your reading, to still your mind and heart, to keep you from panicking, and to help you understand the spiritual "process":

1) Know that each reading is just a glimpse into the future. For me, I read upwards of a year (but rarely longer than 1.5 years unless the connection is STRONG), and my final outcomes normally stay the same. Know that if I have told you something will happen in the future, chances are IT WILL STILL HAPPEN NO MATTER WHAT.

2) The only way the future changes is if YOU change it. If I see a projection of what Spirit wants to happen in your life, i.e. YOUR FUTURE PATH, that is going to be that. Not much changes that, EXCEPT YOU! Here are some ways you can change a concrete prediction I've given you:

a) Doing the opposite of what Spirit guided you to do in your session with me. For example, if I tell you not to dwell on things, to let someone go, to get into a passionate hobby in your life and energetically put yourself in a different place, PLEASE DO SO. Calling him when Spirit has clearly instructed for you not to do so, does push the timeframe of your prediction further into the future. This only makes the wait longer and more difficult. I don't say "don't call" so as to make things harder on you. I say "don't call" when Spirit has instructed you to do so, because it is emotionally in your better interests and because it helps with your desired outcome.

b) If I tell you to do something hard, like call someone you would rather not, and you DO what Spirit says, you will be pleasantly surprised. For example, I once suggested to a client of mine to apologize about something. She initially refused, because she was not the one in the wrong. A person who was a tad bit jealous of her and mean-spirited by nature, was all but stalking her, and had even set out to ruin her business! She didn't understand why Spirit would suggest this, through my reading. She listened and she apologized, not with her words, but with her actions. Her humble apology defused the jealous energy of the stalker, the stalker lost interest, and moved onto her next prey. My client was relieved!

3) If I've given you an outcome that takes longer than a year, "WAITING" on that outcome is generally not what Spirit wants you to do. The safer thing to do would be to understand your connection with the person, delve deeply into yourself to understand your reasons for wanting to wait on someone who is not logically available to you at this time, heal, rejuvinate, throw yourself into other passions in your life, and generally, find a way to move on. If the future is meant to be, it will be. You waiting puts the energy in a stagnant place-- this is not good for you, the other person in question, or the timeframe of your prediction.

4) Don't panick! If you feel a reader said something out of alignment with what you intuitively feel within yourself, write to the reader to clarify what she meant. Sometimes, as I've stated in a recent email bulletin, it's easy to misunderstand what the reader means. I recently had a session with a client who called me with only a couple of minutes worth of time to spare. She talked the majority of the time, because she was a little afraid of the future, and finally when she got to her question, keen cut us off (so that she could add more money) right during a very important part of the reading. She heard, "No he is not coming back right now because ____, but if you ______ then it could get better and this would speed up your timeframe. However, if you ______" (insert annoying keen-interrupting-bell-thingie-here). BEEEEEP- "You're out of money. Would you like to add more money or end your call at this time. My client was hurt, frustrated and angry. She ended the call. The feedback she left me at that time proved to me that she had thoroughly misunderstood what I said.

5) Calm down. Energy readers (aura readers and empaths) cannot read past anger very well. Yes, we know you've spent and invested a lot of time, emotion and money into us. We still...are not responsible for your future. We still only can provide the future based upon how we see it at any given point in time when you call us. We know that if we do not tell you something rosy and wonderful, that you will (if you are upset) potentially hang up and proceed to the next psychic who will do so. Please...calm down. Slow down. Consider your heart. Consider your wallet. Stop calling psychics for awhile. YOU are in control of your future, even when you do not feel like it.

6) If nothing is happening, LET HIM GO. I repeat-- LET HIM GO. There are many general and detailed reasons why the person you love may be avoiding you. The reasons don't matter. It is not in your best interests to wait, dwell, cry over someone, etc., unless you have very good reason. Him being your soulmate, is simply not reason enough. Him being deployed to another country, is reason enough for you to wait or worry. His mother being on her deathbed-- that is a reason that might be understandable. If a man or woman in your life is not talking to you for 3 plus months, and there is no reason that is worthy, it might be because he's "Just Not That Into You". (This is a book title and it's not for the weak at heart).

7) As per the above, sadly enough, we often have soulmates who are not ready to be with us. Yes, I've been there. You have, too. Often times, we are shown all the signs that he/she is a soulmate, we wait, we are told wonderful predictions, and nothing ever happens. There are many variables and reasons why. But many times, there are no reasons why. Sometime, the most simple answer is: there is no answer. He/she is not into it, and that is that.

8) If you know for a matter of FACT (via the person's actions and words) that he/she IS indeed "into you", and nothing is happening, it is STILL time to try and move on, if even temporarily, until you can see and prove more present action from your soul connection. Sometimes the reason is not "he's not into you", but one of the following:

a) He is not ready to feel love for another person. Yes, I know that the books say this is not so. Well, it is in some circumstances. Sometimes, the person may be getting over another relationship, coming out of another relationship, or heavin forbid, STILL in a relationship. This is your cue to BACK UP-- WAYYYY BACK.

b) He has extenuating circumstances such as health, a job in another state or country, a family illness, a deployment, etc., that are holding him back. You cannot fault him for this. If you love him, be patient. Find a middle ground between letting go and holding on. Do NOT give up your love for him if he is trying, but cannot control these circumstances. Time will prove itself! Just don't dwell.

c) He might be VERY into you, but YOU might not be the person who is ready for love. Yes, indeed, it really might be YOU. I had a client just last month say, "You know what? I've told him I am not ready for a commitment, so what is he afraid of?" The answer is--he is afraid of YOU! He probably does indeed want a commitment, and if he is into you, and you suddenly make it loud and clear that you "just want to have fun", what message does this send. Know what you want. Say what you want. Let your actions dictate as such.

Again, I hope this blog helps you to sit still in the knowingness within your heart. If you're upset, put down the phone. It's a waste of time and money to call a new reader when upset. It's a waste of time and money to call ME if you and I have not spoken in several months, when you're upset. Sit STILL, and know. Give the calling a rest. Call only when ready to begin creating your own future.

With warmest love,

Pamela Aaralyn (DivineDimension)

Talk To Me On The Air, Live Tonight at 8pm EST-- Call in with your questions~~

2007-05-23T16:23:00Z

This Week on “Breaking Through” with Georgiann

On Wednesday, May 23rd at 8PM EST, “Breaking Through” with Georgiann welcomes special guest Pamela Aaralyn to her show on TheMixRock. Pamela is a Clairvoyant Aura Reader and Soul Essence Channel. Discussion will include all things about auras and soul essence channeling, aura cameras and their accuracy, and she will also answer questions and give readings on the air.

Pamela Aaralyn has been able to see energy since the early age of five. At first, she was able to see the energy surrounding trees and plants, and then it progressed to birds and animals. Before long, Pamela was able to see the energy field surrounding people, while noticing that every aura was different in color, shape, span, and appearance. As if seeing auras wasn't exciting enough, at the age of six, Pamela had her first encounters with "Beings of Light" and "Spiritual Guides," and the new and different experiences continued. As a teenager, she had prophetic dreams that later evolved into clairvoyance and empathy.

Pamela's eagerness to learn about the ever-changing aura has made her an authority on deciphering its many colors and appearances. She maintains a national and international clientele, as well as performing aura readings on conventional and internet radio shows. Even confirmed skeptics 'believe' when they hear Pamela's response to their complicated questions

Pamela feels that through aura reading, she has been led to empower her clients to make positive changes in their lives on many levels. With a firm belief that the aura is a direct link to our soul, aura reading is very telling in areas such as love, relationships, career, health, and life purpose.

You may call into the live show to ask Pamela a question about her readings, or to get a sample reading for yourself.

For more information about Pamela Aaralyn, go to her website at www.keen.com/divinedimension

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About The Mix Rock: TheMixRock.com is an internet music radio station broadcasting from Zanesville, OH featuring classic hits from the 60’s 70’s and 80’s. TheMixRock.com also broadcasts talk shows that focus on personal achievement, health, growth, and success. They offer leading experts in diverse fields such as medical and holistic practitioners, spiritual teachers, authors, psychics, and business professionals.