They're Too Into You...... a.k.a. WTF????

re: They're Too Into You...... a.k.a. WTF????

askdrdonna — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 00:25:27 GMT

I got a story for you. My college sweetheart who I was dying to marry had the number 2 for sure and it was because he was an insecure doc who needed lots of validation. He loved me but he had #3 the abandonment issue also. Then three years later, he is ready to settle down so he calls me. WHAT NERVE! I do not want used goods that he was giving to every woman. So if he has #2 going on then he is full of #2 in my book.

re: They're Too Into You...... a.k.a. WTF????

Margaret4560 — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 00:37:20 GMT

Thanks for your story Donna, you've always been such a level headed and intelligent girl.

My most recent ex boyfriend has also made a couple of reappearences. When we met he was getting ready to get divorced and well..... even 52 year olds need to play the field after that major life change like divorce. When he left I was shocked, when he came back I was like WTF??? Why are you here, LOL. Even though I still love him, the trust was completely flushed down the toilet.

:))
Margaret

re: They're Too Into You...... a.k.a. WTF????

askdrdonna — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 00:46:07 GMT

He has the nerve to be sad to this day that I will not marry him.When he called me for Mother's day, I had to tell him that my son had passed. He tried to say that he knew he was not a good boyfriend and that he would be there for me now. Sure because it is convient for him now he is done with screwing around. I said " thanks but no thanks"

re: They're Too Into You...... a.k.a. WTF????

BattingAlone — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 18:25:13 GMT

Opinions aside... You gotta LOVE the way mass media attempts (and in most cases isucceeds) in shaping the publics perceptions about human nature so they can adopt tribal thinking and related beliefs???

re: They're Too Into You...... a.k.a. WTF????

Margaret4560 — Fri, 10 Oct 2008 20:32:48 GMT

Isn't that the truth BattingAlone, LOLOL.

Mass media's a peach...... NOT!!!

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Margaret

re: They're Too Into You...... a.k.a. WTF????

Margaret4560 — Fri, 31 Oct 2008 16:43:49 GMT

I hate to admit that I'm in my 50's now LOL, but 2 years ago, I met a man that I really connected with. That connection was totally unreal, physically, emotionally, spiritually etc. We had it all. We both fell hard and deeply in love.

This man was also in his 50's, separated and getting ready to get divorced after a 27 year marriage. We dated for about 6 months before we decided to become exclusive and committed. Everything was mind blowing for about 5 more months then he just disappeared. That hurt me in more ways than I could ever say.

I knew he loved me, but that wasn't the issue. I was the first woman he had dated after his long and for the most part miserable marriage. I was beating my head against the wall trying to figure out just why....... anyone would want to leave a relationship that was that spectacular. I mean..... we had it all.

2 months later... he showed up out of the blue. Telling me how much he loved me, that he'd never met anybody like me, blah blah blah. He asked me to give him some time, but you know what???? He had already wrecked the car. My trust was gone completely.

The problem was no matter how much he loved me, he wasn't ready after being married so long to be committed to another. I still hear from him from time to time and it still hurts. He still tells me he loves me, blah blah blah, LOL.

If I want to drive a wreck, I'll call rent a wreck. I know it can never be the same no matter what. Sad.........

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Margaret